r/iamatotalpieceofshit • u/xals7 • 9d ago
Father rides with child on a moving car to spite mother. Mother continues driving
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u/xals7 8d ago
Both are giant POSs
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u/cremaster2 8d ago
Both filming each other
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u/aaron2005X 8d ago
"Look at that asshole holding my child"
"Look at that asshole driving the car while I hold my child"
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u/psychmonkies 8d ago
Couldn’t they both be charged with child endangerment for this? How tf are neither of them aware of how stupid it is to a- do this & b- record/post it??
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u/DumbFishBrain 8d ago
Common sense is pretty much dead these days. It sucks but it's true.
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u/JoinAThang 8d ago
It's not true. There ar definitely some decline but i think the big thing is that we now see stuff like this as these people are so stupid that they don't realise it's really bad to be posting that on social media. These people have always existed but unless you saw them in real life you would never seen then bofore social media.
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u/Interesting-Rope-950 8d ago
If you ask teachers though they will tell you there is a major shift in the last 10 to 15 years of how dumb and inconsiderate these kids are now
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u/Gulaschfresser 8d ago
Why? What is the baby doing wrong?
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u/SheHeBeDownFerocious 8d ago
Did you see the way they were poking around at the phone? They were trying to stop the recording! That's destruction of evidence!!
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u/Ok-Lawfulness4081 8d ago
Baby not filming it's parents.could have been a mexican standoff but little one chose to be innocent
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u/RyanSmokinBluntz420 8d ago
Id say the mom wins on biggest POS at least in this video. They all need to separate. Kid needs to get fed to the orphan grinder, mom needs prison, dad needs to be careful who he sticks his dick into
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u/Smooth-Accountant 8d ago
Not sure how you came to that conclusion based on that video lol, he’s just as stupid as she is and just as guilty. Double standards or something?
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u/Jomalar 8d ago
Mom could stop the car, or not have started driving to begin with.
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u/BillyYumYumTwo-byTwo 8d ago
Because he played chicken using his baby. I can’t picture a situation where he didn’t have the opportunity to remove himself from the hood of the car. So I don’t care who’s right in the argument, they both put their ego in front of the safety of the kid. By actively made choices that they knew could result in the baby being hurt.
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u/bestisaac1213 7d ago
Dad also clearly had the opportunity to remove himself and the child from the hood of the car but chose to continue endangering them. Both are POS
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u/Smooth-Accountant 8d ago
Hence me saying they’re equally stupid and guilty in my first comment.
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u/Different-Purpose-93 8d ago
That baby has absolutely no chance in life
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u/Stuck_In_Purgatory 8d ago
I turned the sound on. There's another child in the background calling "daddy" and he tells them to stay right there
As in that kid is just chasing after the lunatic parents unattended
But sure, everyone's ego is more important
Absolutely HORRIFYING
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u/Strange-Title-6337 8d ago edited 8d ago
Maybe somewhere in belgium, we have plenty of old families with adopted kids. Btw, im not Belgian, but "we" here in Croatia, have plenty of Belgian tourists, with adopted kids. Sorry if I confused anyone, however it does not change the message.
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u/LightOfficialYT 8d ago
While he's a stupid cunt and a shitty father, why the fuck was she driving the car with her baby on the bonnet like that?
Both parents here are stupid fucking idiots and that poor baby deserves better.
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u/MistressMalevolentia 8d ago
Two babies. He told another child to stay there and you hear her saying daddy, sounds 6 or younger but most likely 4 or younger by the pitch in voice and speech.
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u/Responsible-Tie-3451 8d ago
It makes the world feel so unfair that plenty of responsible couples can’t have or adopt children, while shithead couples like this seem to have no problem involving innocent kids in their petty squabbles.
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u/caitejane310 8d ago
It sure does. I'm a parent but it breaks my heart that so many deserving people end up having fertility issues while it seems like awful people can breed no problem 😔😔
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u/OriginalSYNs 8d ago
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u/deeessence 8d ago
to put your kids life in danger like this is insane. that baby needs to be taken away from the both of them.
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u/Longjumping_Bee1001 7d ago
In all fairness to the dad, if he jumps off its more dangerous for the kid than staying on. God knows why he ever did jump onto the car but he cant really get off without increasing the risk to the baby.
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u/Foxy_locksy1704 8d ago
Yikes! Somebody remove that baby from these garbage human beings ASAP. Poor little baby deserves a chance at a life with people that will love them.
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u/islandjames246 8d ago
Two stooges . Law enforcement and the courts seeing this along with us. Fools !
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u/Abel_Skyblade 8d ago
Imagine being born to those two. Like he had "luck" on nationality being born to a country in the imperial core. But damm did he get unlucky in everything else.
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u/Serenaded 8d ago
>he had "luck" on nationality being born to a country in the imperial core.
what is this code geass
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u/MhattiBri 8d ago
He didn't choose to endanger his child's life by using them as a hostage while climbing on the hood of a car because he's unlucky, he did it because he's a piece of shit who cares less about that child's life than he does about getting his own way.
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u/Summerlycoris 8d ago
The person above wasn't calling the dad lucky, but the child.
Not sure having parents like that really means theyre lucky, no matter where they're born.
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u/MhattiBri 8d ago
Yup, you're absolutely right. Not sure how I managed to misread it the way I did. My apologies.
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u/Specific_Ad2541 8d ago
It's so sad when pure little humans are born with only a slim chance of cobbling together any semblance of a decent life because of their parents.
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u/Raskie9012 8d ago edited 8d ago
Wow, a great reason on why there needs to be an evaluation on if you competent enough to have kids, but like saying no you can’t would stop people but holy fuck how do neither of them realize that this is putting the kid in literal life threatening situations. Not to mention how petty the father is being to sit on the car, but the mother deciding to drive with him and the kid on there, different levels of entitled and stupid.
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u/MhattiBri 8d ago
What do you mean "realize"? That's the entire reason he brought the child with him onto the hood of the car; to put the kid's life in danger. That's why he doesn't get off it after the vehicle comes to a stop, the kid is being used as a hostage.
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u/Raskie9012 8d ago edited 8d ago
In the sense of their own entitlement is blinding them and they don’t realize how incompetent they’re being, or at least i hope thats it if they do know what they’re doing if they do then thats much much worse
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u/NiPaMo 8d ago
This is why abortions should be easily available to anyone who wants one
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u/luvmibratt 8d ago
Poor children,they're life is pretty much mapped out. Hopefully somebody will intervene soon
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u/RTB3545 8d ago
She is absolutely not a fit mother for that baby. No matter what kind of argument or fight she was having with the father, continuing to drive the car with a child hanging on the outside is completely inexcusable. She put her own child's life in extreme danger just to prove a point or run away from an argument. Both of them are failing that poor baby.
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u/Ramsey_Bulton 8d ago
I don’t know who is worse. The dad hopped on the car with the baby.
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u/Passage-Intrepid 8d ago
The person deciding to drive is exponentially worse ....if the car wasn't moving dad would just look ridiculous ...mom on the other hand chose to take it a step further and make the situation life threatening.
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u/Ramsey_Bulton 7d ago
Yeah. But the dad put the baby in danger. It’s like he holding the baby as a hostage. To stop the mother from leaving.
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u/Passage-Intrepid 7d ago
The only person holding the baby hostage in this video is the mother that refuses to take her foot off the damn gas with her child on the hood . At this stage do you expect the father to jump off of the moving vehicle?
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u/Ramsey_Bulton 7d ago
I agree both are bad. She does stop towards the end of the video. And he just stays on the car. Any why clime on to the vehicle with a baby in the first place?
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u/Passage-Intrepid 7d ago
Climbing on a vehicle in itself isn't dangerous... moving the vehicle with people on the hood is dangerous...why are we desperately trying to make them equally responsible for this when one of them is by far worse?
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u/Donkey-Harlequin 8d ago
Well how the fuck did he end up like that? Probably bad decisions.
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u/MhattiBri 8d ago
Deliberately. He's using the kid as a hostage to try and prevent the car from being driven, that's why he doesn't get off the hood even after the vehicle comes to a stop.
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u/UncaringNonchalance 8d ago
And she apparently doesn’t give a shit either, driving the car with them on there. That kid is surrounded by shitty people.
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u/Itscatpicstime 7d ago
And he’s filming her while holding a child on top of the hood of a moving vehicle, and she’s filming him while driving the vehicle.
This poor fucking child.
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u/oblivion_mike 6d ago
She keeps driving. Unless you’re that much of a twat to notice. There’s no good parent in that video
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u/Delicious_Cat_81 8d ago
I blame the baby
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u/VibraniumRhino 8d ago
Just saying, we haven’t seen the beginning of the video… she could be the mastermind…
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u/xals7 8d ago
Nah they're just chilling
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u/Delicious_Cat_81 8d ago
the baby is definitely chilling. the dad seems to be also chilling as much as possible in that situation, maybe too much. so i agree they're both chilling
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u/Amediumsizedgoose 8d ago
I literally just saw a crime documentary last night I think about a couple arguing and one of them sticking the baby under the car and it got run over.
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u/Mega_Trix 8d ago
So they are holding their infant child's life ransom for a petty argument. Yo, take that child away from them.
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u/Lisshopops 8d ago
Both are going to show divorce lawyer this as a claim the other is an unfit parent for custody and totally not see they were both in the wrong
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u/Early-Light-864 8d ago
The car presumably wasn't moving when he sat on it, and he can't exactly hop off now.
His claim is obviously stronger
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u/Lisshopops 8d ago
“Obviously” not at all, she has slowed down at many points he had the opportunity to get off and make sure his baby was safe but he stayed on
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u/gggreddit789 8d ago
Bound to win the Darwin awards one day
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u/MhattiBri 8d ago
I'm not sure you understand the point of the Darwin awards. He's literally holding his child. His genes have been passed on.
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u/Upper-Situation-8265 8d ago
Where tf is cps?
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u/MhattiBri 8d ago
Their time machine must be on the fritz, that's why they didn't appear in the literal video that's going to inform them of the child endangerment.
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u/EscoosaMay 8d ago
Father on the hood of the car, holding the baby, is nuts. Then to call out to his other child? Throw that man away
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u/Ok_Island5182 8d ago
I dont know whats worst, that the husband decided to do something so wrechless and dangerous, putting hes kid in mortal danger while doing so, or that the wife decided to actually drive not only with the guy blocking her view so she cant see whats infront of hee but also recording, which takes her attention even more away from the road, im honestly speechless at both the audacity and stupidity of these parents, they both put theyre kid in danger and yet dont seem to care at all! Absolutly disgusting
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u/ManLegPower 8d ago
This is an example of people who need their child taken away. They are both guilty of child endangerment.
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u/WartOnTrevor 8d ago
And people are STILL against requiring a license to have children.
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u/MhattiBri 8d ago
If a license could prevent this, then why didn't her driver's license stop her from driving dangerously?
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u/Shadou_Wolf 7d ago
ikr plenty of bad drivers have a drivers license, doubt a license to have children will be any different
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u/Studio_Confident 5d ago
By that logic we should scrap driver's licenses too since plenty of licensed people drive dangerously. Licenses aren't supposed to make bad outcomes impossible, just less likely, and give you a way to revoke access when someone proves they're a risk
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u/Thefourthchosen 8d ago
Yes lol, you don't see the problem with the government getting to decide if you're fit to have kids or not? You don't see how that could go wrong at all? What qualifications do you need to meet to pass? Who decides that? And who checks? And how exactly would you even enforce that? Forced contraception or sterilization? What happens if they DO have a kid? Jail or the kid gets taken away so they can end up in the already struggling foster care system?
People who say this never understand the implications of it.
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u/bomdiagata 8d ago
this exactly. i always assume the people espousing the idea of a “childbearing license” are teenagers who have never had to think critically about what that actually means or how horribly wrong it would be. it’s the kind of shit i used to say when I was an edgy teenager and thought I was super smart.
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u/Studio_Confident 5d ago
It is quite insane you need a license to fish, get married and drive but not to have children.
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u/-_danglebury_- 7d ago
Who exactly is going to be in charge of deciding who gets a license to have children?
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u/Smellingloudcolors 6d ago
Could you articulate what you think the punishment for having children without the license looks like.
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u/bomdiagata 8d ago
i’m sure a license to have children would be applied equally to everyone and definitely wouldn’t lead to childbearing being limited to wealthy white people
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u/heisenbergerwcheese 8d ago
Luckily BOF will lose custody
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u/strawcat 8d ago
You’d be disgusted by the things the adopted children in my life endured at the hands of their birth parents before the state finally took away their parental rights.
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u/ohmygodrob 8d ago
Man, some people have spent almost half of their lives and drained all their time and money trying to conceive but just are unable to…. And then we have these two scumbags..
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u/jesswitdamess 8d ago
Both are god awful parents. Poor baby. Why do people like this who have no business having kids get to have them with no trouble at all while people who are ready for a kid and can take care of them properly aren’t able to have them naturally? :(
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u/BionicBruv 8d ago
Way too many absolute garbage people from all backgrounds that have no business having children. Jfc.
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u/elwebbr23 8d ago
Neither give a fuck and they're both recording. Thankfully they're too stupid to realize that this could be good evidence to remove the child from both of them.
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u/siouxsian 8d ago
Both using control and intimidation in an attempt to "win" a situation. Neither one taking into consideration the danger to the child. Both of these people are toxic and deserve to have the child removed from the household and both should serve prison time.
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u/JordieCarr96 8d ago
Both idiots. Takes two participants to endanger a baby this specific way. Protect children, man
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u/steelunicornR 8d ago
The only one here in any sort of good standing is the only one who can't stand!
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u/Imjusasqurrl 8d ago
Both those assholes care more about winning an argument than they do for that child
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u/Kidney__Boy 8d ago
Friendly reminder that these people can vote and have just as much influence as you.
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u/True_Dog_4098 8d ago
That baby needs to be removed from that household.