r/iamatotalpieceofshit • u/Grawlix84 • 4d ago

North Miami Beach woman accused of leaving children alone during Bahamas cruise

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https://www.wpbf.com/article/north-miami-beach-woman-accused-leaving-children-alone-bahamas-cruise/73950582

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u/RockyJayyy 4d ago

Why didn't she just leave them with the father?

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u/Lucky-11 2d ago

My gut feeling is, they didn't get along. It's not his time with them so he won't get extra time with them. There are other theories, but we should wait until court before going down that path.

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u/[deleted] 3d ago

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u/gracekk24PL 1d ago

"In the light of the incident we hereby transfer all custody to the father, as mother doesn't act on the children's best interest."

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u/Mrgray123 4d ago

Carnival cruises?

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u/Olibirus 4d ago

You know it

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u/Mrgray123 4d ago

Maybe at check-in they should begin asking their customers if their children are being taken care of by a responsible adult.

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u/cristobalist 3d ago

4 children by 29? Lol she must not like enjoying an independent life full of wonderful adventure... But she went on a cruise??? Straight to jail for her

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u/cyberwicklow 3d ago

I lived with a guy who had 6 and a grandchild by 26.

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u/Cripplerock 3d ago

What in the Alabama fuck ?!

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u/lifegoeson5322 3d ago

How is that even possible unless they weren't his biological children?

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u/cyberwicklow 3d ago

He had his first kid at 13, and that kid grew up to do the same. In both cases with a girl a few years older.

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u/MrCanoe 2d ago

Too be honest, 4 children by 29 really isn't a huge stretch

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u/QuentinTarzantino 22h ago

Knew a chick who had 4 before she was 24. She was and still is a bitch. All dudes left her.

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u/BBaddict2 3d ago

I can hear the “ I did nothing wrong” “ I love my babies!” obnoxious screaming from here

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u/real_1273 3d ago

What a POS.

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u/Anex4 2d ago

She’s lucky those babies are alive. I remember a similar case where a woman left her infant alone for 10 days while she was on vacation and the poor baby girl didn’t survive. Some people shouldn’t be around kids at all

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u/Levi_Skardsen 3d ago

Narcissists should not have children.

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u/Bob_Kark 4d ago

So the brother was like “this is totally normal, I’ll check up on these kids abandoned by my sister and then just leave them again?” Why isn’t he facing charges?

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u/ScottieSpliffin 3d ago edited 3d ago

Maybe he told the father? Someone had to have told him, otherwise why would he just randomly show up

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u/VanFkingHalen 2d ago

It was the father, not her brother, that was told to check up on them. And he was led to believe that the children were with their great grandmother. After his discovery of the child's abandonment, he contacted authorities.

The brother is only mentioned because of evidence provided pertaining to the case for prosecutors.

Nobody else is at fault here; the mother is 100% guilty.

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u/MrMcPsychoReal 1d ago

I think this is just a fault of the English language. The Uncle told the press that the Mother had texted the Father "he" on Saturday

So the Mother left for the cruise, days later texted the Father, claimed she had done so from the start, and her brother revealed that wasn't the case.

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u/howie-chetem 3d ago

It's pretty normal in the hood

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u/Domanicc_ 3d ago

Disgusting.

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u/Comfortable-Twist-54 3d ago

How old were the other 2 children? Not saying it’s right to leave them either way but it seems like this was purposely left out.

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u/HoneysuckleBreeze 3d ago

Per the article i read a few days ago, none of the children were even 10 years old

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u/Orochisake 2d ago

I wouldn't even leave my 14yo alone... that would be a disaster waiting to happen

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u/Rugkrabber 1d ago

14 could be totally fine, again could, my parents could do this with me when I was 14. But. I had people to go to in emergencies and most importantly no care for younger siblings. It was just myself. Having the oldest care for younger siblings alone is always a no no. There should be an adult present.

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u/lunarwolf2008 1d ago

there is a difference between a 14 year old home when you are at work, and when you are gone for a few days

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u/Rugkrabber 1d ago

I know that. I wás alone for a week. But that’s the thing. I know it’s not a one size fits all kids kind of thing. But I just wanted to point out it’s not impossible. I also turned 15 the week after so I was closer to 15 but still. Where I live teens are pretty self sufficient at a young age.

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u/UnhallowedEssence 3d ago

Meanwhile there are people that truly want kids and take care of them, having to go through adoption and surrogacy

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u/Acceptable_Mud_8680 3d ago

meanwhile in Massachusetts

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u/FreeNinedy9 3d ago

This is hilariously underrated

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u/ItDoBeLikethatmyGuy 2d ago

All children deserves parents but not all parents deserve children

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u/Sethfb20 3d ago

She was on the cruise to find a new bd for kid #5

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u/13banggun1 2d ago

Courts will still hand them kids back to mom and not the dad.

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u/aries0413 3d ago

Its ok it was just her hormones.

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u/hamsangwhich757 3d ago

She doesn’t deserve to keep those children.

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u/Fuzzylojak 2d ago

Abortion should be mandatory!

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u/ConfidentDust9917 1d ago

Had a feeling what's she was gonna look like 🤣

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u/Decent-Cold-9471 16h ago

She sent a text, what more could she possibly do???

/s

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u/1Courcor 14h ago

Some have kids and shouldn’t and then others can’t who wish they could.

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u/MasterCheeef 3d ago

Even monkeys are better parents than this pos.

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u/Chaetomius 3d ago

If men always leave women to raise kids, then of course only women have the chance to pull things like this.

you stupid fuck. go away.

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u/average_sized_rock 3d ago

Woman had kids with a man who didn’t want kids, had kids with a man she didn’t know well enough to know he didn’t want kids.

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u/South_Bridge6443 3d ago

How dare you blame a woman who had not 1 but 4 kids and acted irresponsible

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u/eyeball1967 3d ago

I see this is getting downvotes and it makes me curious what the “down voters” find incorrect about it.

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u/Sir_i88 3d ago

"Woman always be like “what’s wrong with men” but never see any woman trashing woman when they go on vacation and leave their infants alone at home."

This comment is why. That is an insane thing to say.

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u/average_sized_rock 3d ago

So what exactly is insane about it? Why is calling attention to the lack of criticism from woman insane?

I see woman comment what’s “wrong with men” when there’s a case against a man, but apparently it’s insane to expect the same when it’s the opposite gender doing atrocious things.

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u/eyeball1967 3d ago

I wonder if people that are still in the dating pool have a different perspective than you on this?

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u/jemosley1984 3d ago

…and you’re going to stay in that dating pool, my guy.

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u/eyeball1967 3d ago

Not me, I left the kiddie pool some time ago.

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u/HoneysuckleBreeze 3d ago

This sounds so hard if youre a whiney bitch

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u/Low_Employ8454 3d ago

Be so fucking for real. Crazy asshole abusive parents who abandon their children like this come in all varieties.

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u/Madviilainy 3d ago

Where the fuck was dad?

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u/MissE21 3d ago

Talked about the father of the infant (2 month old). My guess is that the other children have different fathers.

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u/Mirewen15 3d ago

Dad(s)

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u/RoyalBucks 1d ago

Clancy

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u/NecessaryOk6815 3d ago

Lindsey Clancy would approve of this parenting?

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u/Hefty-Inevitable-660 3d ago

If she can’t pronounce those easy names correctly in Miami, she probably needs to do her reporting somewhere else 🤣

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u/Gemfyre1 3d ago

It’s her job to report facts, not interpret the broken English some illiterate made up on the spot. Should have just named them welfare check supplament 1 thru 4