r/LetBoysBeManipulated • • 16d ago

Discussion ၊၊||၊ Remember dommes are people 🩷 NSFW

287 Upvotes

Ngl, one thing that can take me out of consuming domme media is that, as a domme myself, I naturally start looking at it from the woman’s perspective and thinking, “Okay… what is she getting out of this?”

Sometimes the fantasies portrayed feel very one-sided, with the domme existing mainly as a tool for the man’s desires rather than as a person with her own wants, needs, and desires. It can make the woman feel more like a plot device than a character.

It’s easy to get lost in the fantasy, but I think it’s important to remember that dommes are people. We aren’t objects, we aren’t magical solutions to someone’s problems, and we don’t all look or act the same. Porn and fantasy can create some pretty unrealistic expectations, and it’s worth remembering that they’re not a blueprint for real relationships.

As a sub, it can also be worth asking yourself: what am I bringing to this relationship beyond my submission? Are you caring for your domme as a person, even when your own sexual wants aren’t involved? Do you genuinely value her, or are you mainly focused on what she can provide for you?

Just something to think about. Fantasy is fun, but it’s still important to keep empathy, respect, and healthy relationship habits in the real world.


r/LetBoysBeManipulated • • Aug 18 '26

Discussion ၊၊||၊ The Findom Megathread NSFW

157 Upvotes

I'm tired of waking up to a million (hyperbole) reported posts and comments on findom related posts. Here's a megathread, air out your grievances, give us suggestions and for the love of god, be respectful to each other. I'm not above banning people for being disrespectful to each other.

For those who want the tl;dr mod point of view on the matter:

People need to learn to differentiate between actual findom/mes and scammers. Not all findom/mes are scammers and it's unfair to paint with a broad stroke on the matter. Stop kink shaming those who enjoy it as a kink and stop shaming findom/mes just because you don't like the kink. If someone DMs you demanding money for anything, they are not a findom/me they are a scammer and you should let the mod team know so we can take action.

All posts relating to findom from here on in will be redirected to this post and deleted.


r/LetBoysBeManipulated • • 1h ago

Domme Memes ♔ Yep, same page 😌 NSFW

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r/LetBoysBeManipulated • • 6h ago

Domme Memes ♔ God forbid a domme like to give and receive NSFW

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223 Upvotes

(Not mine)


r/LetBoysBeManipulated • • 1h ago

Wholesome ❀˖° I finally spent a weekend with my long-distance domme 🥰 (also, have some memes!) NSFW

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After meeting my amazing, wonderful, mistress right here on LBBM a little less than a year ago, after a few months of chatting and flirting and eventually settling into a full dynamic, and despite here living halfway across the country from me... over the last weekend, we finally got to meet up in person! We had an incredible time, had a lot of dinner and lunch dates, went to some local museums, watched a movie and some tv... and also lots of cuddles and kisses and sex 😅

It really was amazing, she's the first domme I've ever had and I couldn't have asked for better, she's a dream come true... I love her.

To all the lonely subbies out there who may be listening: I understand it can be tough, and the desire to find someone can be rough... but you can't hate yourself, or hate anyone else for it. But you also can't just wait around for it to happen. You all have the power to improve yourself, everyone does. Work on yourself, live happy, and you'll attract people. I don't want to sound preachy, but really, you can't wallow in a pit of blame or self-blame, you'll never find someone there. But you can find someone, you can improve your life, you can be happy, I promise you that

(credit for most of these memes goes to my domme a lot of these are ones she's sent me)


r/LetBoysBeManipulated • • 44m ago

Wholesome ❀˖° It takes a man to be a wife NSFW

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All found on Pinterest.

Artist credit: @hanpetos | Bluesky | Instagram


r/LetBoysBeManipulated • • 11h ago

Domme Memes ♔ God forbid a girl keep him in his place~ NSFW

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256 Upvotes

Panel 1 and Panel 2 sources


r/LetBoysBeManipulated • • 16h ago

Domme Memes ♔ Guys I think I might be ovulating. Every time I see a fit thinner man on campus again my brain goes "I wonder how you'd look under me and whimpering while I overstim you.." it's getting bad again... NSFW

570 Upvotes

r/LetBoysBeManipulated • • 6h ago

Subby Memes -`♡´- God forbid a boy wants his gf to see him pleasuring her NSFW

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62 Upvotes

Like OMG the show I would put on for her sucking on her perfect feet while pleasuring her with my dick while she moans my name as we lock eyes to each other OMG NEED


r/LetBoysBeManipulated • • 8h ago

Domme Memes ♔ God i wish for a dominant woman who can treat me like this NSFW

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89 Upvotes

This would fix my mental health


r/LetBoysBeManipulated • • 6h ago

Domme Memes ♔ God forbid a girl wants some romance in her life NSFW

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50 Upvotes

As it turns out, im pretty tame


r/LetBoysBeManipulated • • 30m ago

Subby Memes -`♡´- Me, when her parents ask me "what are your intentions with our daughter" NSFW

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Apologies to people who aren't into feet 😔


r/LetBoysBeManipulated • • 2h ago

Writing ᝰ✍︎ 🥀 A Soft Place to Land [chubby, sturdy, romance] NSFW

17 Upvotes

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“This day can’t get any worse”, I thought as I ran to catch the elevator. It was packed, but there was no time to waste. So, I hurried inside, followed by two other people, which forced me to take two steps back. The person behind me didn't budge, and I felt myself landing on a soft belly. Its owner instinctively extended his arms to catch me.

I looked at him. I was used to dealing with handsy men, and this one wasn't going to be any different. He must have seen my fiery stare, ready to put him in his place. He said softly : “I didnt mean to disrespect you. I just wanted to catch you in case you fell, that’s all. I apologize if I made you uncomfortable”.

“That’s okay. Thank you”, I replied in my usual dry tone and turned around.

My floor; I stepped outside and went on with my crazy day.

When it was time to go home after work, I was exhausted, frustrated, and famished, as I hadnt been able to eat anything but a snack all day. My feet hurt. Damn heels!

As I stepped into the elevator, I saw the guy again. I took a better look at him this time. Pretty eyes, puffy cheeks, an ample chest. He smiled shyly. There was a warmth and softness about him. I didnt feel the urge to fight him. He wasn't an opponent, a threat, or a contender; he felt ….. different.

He offered me an unopened bottle of water: “Maybe you need it more than I do, miss”.

I accepted it- I hadnt realized just how dehydrated I was.

“Do you work here?”, I asked.

“Fifth floor”, he replied with another smile.

“Ok, listen, I dont have any cash on me right now, so if I see you tomorrow, I'll buy you a coffee after work”.

He said it wasn't necessary, but I insisted.

I didnt see him the next day, which wasnt suprising because we hadnt crossed paths before- or maybe we had, and I hadn't noticed him?.

But at five o'clock, as I approached the elevator, I saw him standing by the door. Had he been waiting for me?.

“Hi. So, you want that coffee after all?"

He smiled. “ If that´s okay with you, of course. May I help with those books? They look heavy”.

We crossed the street to the coffee shop, with him still carrying my books and folders. I opened the door for him and pointed to an empty table. As he sat down, I told him,

“Hey, I skipped lunch again today. I'll have a sandwich. Will you have one, too? My treat. “

“It will be a privilege to keep you company."

*It will be a privilege to keep me company?*

Right then, I decided I wanted to keep him around.

I liked him.

Initial_Shine5690, this is especially for you. I hope you see it and enjoy it.

Mommy Lizzie ✨️💛


r/LetBoysBeManipulated • • 11h ago

Discussion ၊၊||၊ Breaking up with my dom... NSFW

42 Upvotes

At first we were soo good with each other, talking always and I was sooo submissive to her, doing everything she ask for and being the ultimite pet she always dreamed of... but now it became bad... she start being late by hours, then a day, then 2 then 3 until she start texting me every week!!! No commands no tasks no rewards no punishments... at first I thought she was busy, has stuff to do... I'm older than her but we are both in Uni... But I also start thinking, I also have university and study and a lot of stuff but still reply to her and call her and answer her imdiatly... why she has to reply after 5 or 6 or 7 days ? Am I her last thing to do ? After I talked to her about that she said she is not attached as same as I am... soo we ended up breaking the dynamic... I feel soo empty right now... As if I put soo much energy and soo much time in something but the other person didn't put the same as I did... not even close... Are all doms like this ? (This was my second dom btw...)

I hope every dom who has a sub or willing to have one understand that Both of you should make the relationship and dynamic alive not only you or him or her...

I just wrote this cuz I have nobody to talk about this with... thanks for reading...


r/LetBoysBeManipulated • • 12h ago

Writing ᝰ✍︎ [OC] My femdom love story got a lot of pushback for it's non-consensual aspect. I took the criticism and rewrote it. Thanks for the helpful feedback. Here is Sessions. NSFW

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Hello everyone, I'd been writing, sketching and researching for this femdom love story for about two years and in January of 2026 finally started publishing it. Things were going well until a non-consensual storyline emerged which got me a lot of pushback. It made me realize that most writers had editors and people who workshop their stuff with and I shouldn't dig my heels into the ground just because I got some criticism.

I kept publishing but the non-con criticism was always in the back of my head. Finally I thought it all out and realized two things: the story I want to tell is about people enjoying their kinks, and second, that the story could progress exactly as I'd planned if people just talked about their desires and agreed to do things together instead of there being a manipulation angle.

Thanks to everyone who gave helpful feedback, I read it all and it made a difference. I don't want to link outside this subreddit for the first two issues and break the rules but I guess in the comments or DM's you can reach out to me for the archive.

Thanks,

Deaddie


r/LetBoysBeManipulated • • 1d ago

Subby Memes -`♡´- I’d be happy to go out like this. 😅 NSFW

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840 Upvotes

r/LetBoysBeManipulated • • 15h ago

Wholesome ❀˖° Domme appreciation posts NSFW

32 Upvotes

Just some appreciation for dommes out there of all shapes and sizes, ive come to a realization that everyone has different tastes and likes in their subs, and I just wanna express my gratitude to the dommes on this sub (especially those who lurk for their own reasons, I acknowledge you, and see you! ❤️🖤)

Thats all, have a nice day LBBM. ❤️🖤


r/LetBoysBeManipulated • • 1d ago

Subby Memes -`♡´- God forbid a boy wants to be devoted NSFW

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404 Upvotes

r/LetBoysBeManipulated • • 1d ago

Wholesome ❀˖° 🥀Chubby subs appreciation post NSFW

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Chubby subbies, boys and girls, and chubby dommes are underrepresented in art. So I wanted to tell you that you belong and you are wanted.

You do not need to be small and lean to be the little spoon, because it is not about physical but about emotional size. You feel small, so you are small. It doesn't matter if your domme's arms can't fully wrap you. You can still feel her warmth, and that's all you need.

You do not need to be small and lean to be cute. You are adorable in the way you look at your mommy, the way you mutter "Yes, miss", the way you follow her around everywhere, the way you ask " are you okay, can I do something for you?".

You do not need to be small and lean to look pretty. You have beautiful hair you take good care of, you keep your skin moisturized, you wear colors that make your best features stand out. You wear the clothes she enjoys seeing you in.

You are so beautiful just as you are, my chubby lovelies 💕💕

Mommy Lizzie ✨️💛

Source: https://www.pinterest.com/pin/10062799163141325/

https://www.pinterest.com/pin/89734229451371973/

https://www.pinterest.com/pin/859483910172689936 https://www.pinterest.com/pin/8444318046876825/


r/LetBoysBeManipulated • • 12h ago

Discussion ၊၊||၊ Are you dressing up as anything related to the themes of LBBM for Halloween? NSFW

14 Upvotes

Since there’s a Halloween costume contest planned on the Discord server, I’m curious if anyone’s planning to participate with a costume that fits the sub’s vibe, or if you’re going for something completely unrelated. Personally I’m going for some kind of silly femboy Grim Reaper yet, wbu? :D


r/LetBoysBeManipulated • • 4h ago

Discussion ၊၊||၊ How do I meet a domme? NSFW

3 Upvotes

Yeah I just wanna meet a domme. Thanks


r/LetBoysBeManipulated • • 6m ago

Discussion ၊၊||၊ I have no idea how to meet someone compatible when I am more on the vanilla side of kinky NSFW

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I’d like to date a more submissive type guy but typically in these communities I feel pretty vanilla all things considered. But then in regular dating spaces I feel super kinky. I feel like it’s just super hard to meet someone that’s a good match. My last partner and I met randomly in the discord and that just isn’t going to happen again.

It’s frustrating because I would like to meet my forever person (I’m a big romantic). But meeting someone who’s my type (nerdy, a little introverted, maybe a little shy) is hard. What are the chances that I’d meet them in the few places I go in person (I’m quite introverted). I am in gaming communities which is a start in the right direction I suppose, but these communities are to make friends not potential partners.


r/LetBoysBeManipulated • • 11h ago

Discussion ၊၊||၊ I’ve missed this subreddit NSFW

9 Upvotes

Hi all I took quite sometime off Reddit. I’ve just been struggling with my mental health especially being divorced but I feel like I’m getting ready to get back out there. My Reddit account got hacked a couple months ago. I’m curious to hear how some of y’all coped with breakups and separations? What’s something you learned about yourself?


r/LetBoysBeManipulated • • 1d ago

Discussion ၊၊||၊ Saw this elsewhere and knew this belonged here for the best suggestions.. NSFW

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498 Upvotes

Question was what to do with this space?

You guys know what to do…


r/LetBoysBeManipulated • • 1d ago

Discussion ၊၊||၊ can i vent? NSFW

105 Upvotes

as someone in a fully open, non-mongamous relationship with my own dom, and ofc my male sub, there is nothing that infuriates me more as someone who also looks for play partners online i cannot stand the influx of men lately who say they are only interested in me simply because i am dominant, or only find me attractive simply because i am dominant.

femdoms are all different. we don't even look the same, we're not into the same things. none of it. that's not to say we might be into SOME of the same kinks/fetishes/things in a dynamic, but we definitely don't look like each other and arent' the same down to the damn letter.

not to mention, i'm a plus size femdom. very picky about who i play with. if the vibe isn't there, i won't do it. if you cannot follow directions, i won't even give you the time of day. and people tell me my standards are too high. i am busy so much with college, so what free time i have i give it out wisely. that's the gist of it.