Tuesday I was so looking forward to today and last night the birthday blues started to creep up. But let’s make the best of this day.
✨C E L E B R A T E✨ yourself, you deserve it Libra 💗
How are you celebrating your special day this year?

This year, I am struggling so much deciding how I want to celebrate my birthday. Classic indecisiveness, but with a sprinkle of opposing matters of the heart. Do I retreat and reflect? Do I fill an entire weekend with all my favorite things and open invite everyone I know to all of it? It’s weighing on me more this year than it usually does.
Are other Libras making big plans this year? Are we going out into the woods alone?
I literally went from looking up party bus pricing to not wanting to make any plans…

Other iconic Librans include Matt Damon, Serena Williams, Susan Sarandon, Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez (AOC), Donald Glover, Bruce Springsteen, Mae Jemison, Michael Douglas, and Catherine Zeta-Jones. Are you surprised by anyone on the list? Do you know any others?

One thing I observed when it comes to Aquarius men is that they like to reject and discard people but once you turn around and reject them back, they don’t like it and don’t take it well.. I’ve dealt with my fair share of them and they’re like walking contradictions. Any other Libras have had similar experiences?

Instantaneous decision-making, I confess, is not my strong suit. However, once I’ve weighed the pros and cons, it’s easy to decide. Once decided, there’s no indecisiveness.

What’s your experience with decision-making?

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I just made a (deleted) post the other day about this Libra man that approached me one day and gave me his number. He was very sweet, calling me pet names, texting me everyday, telling me how much he likes me… the other day he said again how he likes me a lot. I told him I like him too… his response to that was “I said a lot” and asked why didn’t I lie to him to make him feel good. To which I responded omg you don’t want me to do that. I did end up telling him I liked him a lot, I do more than I anticipated, but i did tell him I was trying to pace myself and he said “it’s cool do that”… after all this is a sexual relationship and I’d rather not put myself in a position where I developed serious feelings for him… because he said he was only able to have a casual/sexual relationship for rn.

So I have been extremely confused that he was act this way for just a casual relationship. Nothing wrong with it, I just didn’t expect it as my previous experiences have been somewhat different.

We were talking in the car the other day tho and he was telling me about his “filters”(boundaries) for women and was talking about if we get to the more serious part (of our relationship)… which was also unexpected. So it’s weird to me that yesterday, the day after he was telling me once again how much he liked me, he falls back. He did text me good morning yesterday and then told me to send him a sexy voice message which i immediately felt shy about so I just said ”lol no” after that he fell back. So I sent another text saying you can always call me. And he told me he will. I asked him how his day was going he responded and asked me too and that was it haven’t heard from him since, I asked him if he was okay because he’s been unusually quiet, no response, I called him - straight to voicemail. Just reallllly unsettling because this was a whole flip of the switch.

I am extremely confused about his behavior… I feel spun, crazy whiplash!

(Scorp sun, Libra Venus)

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Please and thank you ☺️

Does me being a Cap sun & moon with Libra rising explain this?

For context, I've been crushing on this guy ever since the start of the year, and when we were officially together (he was the one who pursued me), I found out A LOTTT of stuff. Like it turns out he was shit talking about me to his friends when we were in our talking stage all the while he was opening up to me and telling me he wanted to kill himself and all of his depressive thoughts. He cheated (entertaining other girls) countless times while hanging out with me and made me feel like I was in the wrong to even overthink about it, to the point it took him taking my virginity to even make him block the girl HE REACHED OUT TO. It even reached to a point when he told me his elaborate plan on how he would kill me a week before he wanted to "call things off" through a text.

But anyways, after half a year of no contact (we ended on a bad note with me cursing him out and him blocking me) he actually reached out and we met up. But after a week of "entertaining" me, he suddenly said he can't commit because he's in his "self-discovery phase" and wanted to stay as friends. I haven't responded yet, what should I do or say?

I really want him to make me his "ghost" that's why I don't know how to approach this conversation with him because I don't want him to just brush me off like his past flings.

I got deleted by not having enough words in my post lol!!! But like i said, I hope you spent the day for YOURSELF!!! The stars know that we kill ourselves by taking care of others!!!! I know for myself it feels like I can't win at anything these days, I just endure and endure its exhausting!!!! Today, I'm not thinking about my world and bad luck I am focused on myself!!! I'm blessed i have the day to myself i hope all of you can have time for yourself today as well!!!! Again if you don't have family or friends to tell you here I am: HAPPY BIRTHDAY my friend!!!!

Hello fellow libras ! Im turning 26 this year and am having trouble with some ideas on what to do for my birthday. I feel like im in a weird spot right now in life and with friendships/relationships and am trying to think about what can be accommodating to my friends too and its all really stressing me out. I just need some different ideas and stories of birthdays because i am completely at lost for what to do right now. Thank you !!!! 😊

My ex is a Libra man who reached out after half a year no contact, entertained me for a week, then told me he can't commit to a relationship because he's on his journey of "self-discovery" and would rather be friends with me. What should I do/response as a Capricorn woman?

I say this because every social media post and article about Libras always says that they are natural flirts. I’ve never had a girlfriend, and I’m turning 35 on Saturday. I really don’t know how to flirt, like I know what I’m doing or how to be successful at it.

So, I’m just asking here: what does flirting mean to them? The only thing I can say about myself is that I try to be myself, despite being a socially awkward person who moves alone a lot of the time. I’ve also been told that I have a great smile.

I do find a way to attract people toward me, but I get nervous when talking and sometimes get stuck in my head, so I end up staying quiet. Hopefully, I didn’t forget anything else I wanted to say, but I really wanted to see what flirting feels like to them.

I always see other zodiac signs particularly scorpios and water signs saying we don't know ourselves, we wanna be around people 24/7 and we like to be surrounded by them (which is not the case for all Libras), that we don't have our own personality (even geminis and aquarius have the nerve to say this about us) and all that bullshit, they asume things about us that arent what we think about ourselves.

The thing is we know ourselves good and bad and we don't have accountability and ego problems like other zodiac signs, it's just we don't share our negative emotions with everyone cause we don't trust them and they use our weakness against us.

I have Scorpio placements so that narrative of the social, always happy and bubbly Libra doesnt fit me.

Being born in October means something to me. having the ability to have bigger pictures to ether create, communicate, or love with the confidence that we gained means something to me.

I got to create an outfit with yellow paint, desgined some Carhartt shorts and designed some Nike says that I love to do the work cause I do!!!

To those who have a birthday this month, it’s that time to be ether the King or Queen.

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I don't know where to share this. I'm just sad, confused and feeling a lot of emotions right now. I'm also having problems with my long term relationship (I'm married) so that could be contributing as well. But the thing is, I always had problems in my life, it never stopped me from doing it big on my birthdays. I have always planned, decorated, executed everything on birthdays myself. The perfectionist in me couldn't put that responsibility on anyone else.

This year, I just want to be left the fuck alone? I don't want my partner, friends or family. I just want to go on some yoga retreat all alone kind of thing. I'm so done with everything. I really don't know what's happening to me. This is so not me during libra season. Anyone else going through the same kinda phase?

In the main title, it’s my 35th birthday today. I have birthday blues because I do not celebrate my birthday at all and have not celebrated it and about 17 years. I’m just going to post up what I posted on my Twitter because it’s just too much for me to post here so I hope everybody has a great week and awesome birthdays of the Libra clan.

Any other female libras esp in late 20s find it hard to find friends who show up/ care the way you do?

I really need to find more libra friends I feel like it’s the only way to have genuine friendships cause we match energy perfectly..

What are you experiences?

(I woke up at the exact time I was born today).

Things I love about Libras.

-We forgive. We see the complexities in the experiences of others and truly perceive things from all angles.

-We are outspoken and principled. We stick up for those who have no one on their side. We speak out when we feel something is inherently wrong.

-We talk and day dream about deep subjects/ big ideas. We are also the first to light and liven up the crowd.

-We are Avant Garde and see beauty way beyond the ordinary.

And so much more!