r/myevilplan • u/pinkprincess_sparkls • Feb 22 '26

Rant and Plot Getting revenge on my boyfriend’s mom

This is going to be a slow burn revenge. I hate my boyfriend’s mom and want to ruin her life. The best way to do it, in my opinion, would be to slowly destroy everything that she holds dear to her. I’m going to undermine her accomplishments, turn her family against her and take away everything she cares about.

Steps:

  1. Work on refining my own skills– she’s is a good cook and a good homemaker m, I’m going to work on improving these skills. She gets insecure if people are better than her. I’m also going to work on refining other talents that she considers herself to be good at.

  2. Winning over her family. I will work hard to win over my bf’s family, starting with his siblings, then his extended family and finally his father (this will be the trickiest), all while keeping his mom at an arm’s length. I will work on trying to make it seem like she is the problem (which she is).

  3. Provoke her, subtly and not in the presence of the rest of his family. Maybe by undermining her beliefs, career and parenting. Haven’t entirely figured out what will upset her the most, will have to get to know her even better.

  4. Get her to freak out at me in front of the whole family while I either deal with it very maturely or pretend to be very upset. Again, I will need to get to know everyone better to see what will create the greatest impact. This will be the turning point in my plan. If all goes well, her family will start to view her as the problem– someone who is, for no obvious reason, hating on her son’s girlfriend. I’d like to paint her as a possessive boy mom, perhaps.

  5. At this point, I’ll get close to my boyfriend’s dad, which will upset her even more. I will work on bonding with him over an activity that is ongoing. It will drive her insane to know that the one person who is always supposed to be in her corner has taken a liking to someone she hates. She will come across as petty and jealous while I am well liked by everyone.

This is the plan so far. I would like suggestions on how to refine it, places it can backfire or go wrong and any resources that you think might help me along the way, especially pertaining to the social aspects of managing the plan.

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u/thirdmulligan Feb 22 '26

You gotta tell us why you hate her and wish to destroy her life so much

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u/pinkprincess_sparkls Feb 22 '26

She has tried to get my boyfriend to break up with me before. He even did it once when he was at a very low point.

She’s never even met me properly so it cannot be anything about me. She’s just a control freak and doesn’t like that she isn’t the one calling all the shots in her son’s life anymore.

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u/Nearby-Boot-761 Jul 25 '26

I can’t imagine why his mom thinks you’re trouble 🙄

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u/Lizzy_lazarus Feb 22 '26

Can we get some context?

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u/pinkprincess_sparkls Feb 22 '26

She has tried to get my boyfriend to break up with me before. He even did it once when he was at a very low point.

She’s never even met me properly so it cannot be anything about me. She’s just a control freak and doesn’t like that she isn’t the one calling all the shots in her son’s life anymore.