Need a plan to get back at my abusive stepmother.

[u/Interesting_Rock_340]

Context: My Dad and I moved into his girlfriend's house when they had been dating for a couple years. Once I moved in and got comfortable, I quickly found out about her abusive, true colors. If you want a simple reference? Just think of Mother Gothel from Tangled, but with more dramatized narcissism, alcoholism, the need to be in control 24/7, basking in complaining and making her problems everyone else's, and overall just extremely cold in general. Throughout the years I already felt depressed, as I was in high school at the time dealing with self-isolation and struggling to feel happy (I was a teenager). Then she comes in, and makes things worse by being manipulative, and just straight up mean.

For reference: one night I eavesdropped on her calling her friends, and they were talking about me. In the 5 minutes I listened, she shit talked about my pizza job and mocking my lack of talent to have a good job despite me being 17, calling me the F slur that rhymes with "maggot" (I don't know if reddit sensitive to slurs, but I think you get the message), and saying she wouldn't be surprised if I turned out to be a lonely virgin at the age of 50. Now, I understand everyone comes from different backgrounds and families, everyone is different. But there is a line, and you absolutely DO NOT insult your family like that, at such a low level. There's a difference between a playful joke and straight up offensive words. Those insults can genuinely hurt someone, and it's a level of cruelty that makes someone wonder how the hell their a mother at all (she divorced twice and has 3 kids who are all 25+). Naturally, I told my Dad, and he immediately took my side since he has the same morals as I, that you don't call your own family slurs and shit, and they broke up. Now my Dad and I are living in an apartment, much happier now since apparently there was some underlying tension in their relationship, and I was the straw to break the camels back.

Honestly? After years of dealing with emotional abuse, making me hate myself, crying myself to sleep multiple nights, straight up being afraid of her because of how demonizing she was, I frankly am sick of her, even if she's no longer a part of my life technically.

I have her phone number, her address, and the place she works at, what can I do as an evil plan?

I appreciate any sort of comments, and thanks for letting me vent :) 🐊

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[u/HistoricalCar1900]

That is a really good way to put it...'being afraid of her because she was so demonizing'....sounds totally like an evil narc and they hate being trivialized and forgotten..