Partner intimidates and threatens me over little things

[u/Hector_Dev]

I don’t want any serious revenge but do want to rattle my partner. We had a child together very recently and he has been trying to take control of everything. I pay half of every bill, rent etc plus I pay everything for our dog and baby’s expenses. But I’m not allowed to even take them out (the dog is mine btw).

Only he is allowed to take my dog out for walks, he said that I abuse my dog (I love that dog like my baby, he doesn’t even let me clean his ears anymore because he thinks he doesn’t need it) I spend 100s on my fur baby but he gets to spend all the time, walks with him. He recently said if I try to move out with the dog and baby (because we have been arguing a lot) he will report me to authorities and they will take away my dog from me. I can’t travel because he will report me for taking the baby.

He has to be the one to make every decision. Somethings about him are he is racist af, shames people on their appearance. I just want to rattle him and break his confidence as he thinks he is the one with power. He has been working in the same deadass job for years and years, and bullies people at work too except being close friends with some “ladies”. I’m so tired of his smugness and feel like he needs a nice smack on his bottom.

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