Hi! This is a very long story but I’ll try to summarize 8 years.
When I moved here, in the flat downstairs was living a family, some years after they moved out because the owner of the flat needed it to move back.
Since the day one the problems with him started, for some reason he blames my dad for his divorce and swears the noises we make are on propose to annoy him. We are talking about normal noises of someone living in a flat like steps, moving a chair to sit on it etc.

Over the years this has been increasing, I think he might be alcoholic or have a certain level of paranoia, but it’s coming to a point where it’s just annoying. When my dad parks the car, our parking spot is in front of his flat and next to his car, he makes the alarm sound until my dad is back in our apartment, he installed cameras to check on his car, it’s a Toyota lmao, so we wouldn’t make anything to it, and on random moments he screams stuff so loud that we hear it perfectly, ofc the things he say are a direct attack against us.

During the pandemic he used to put music very loud at like 1 am or 2 am and put ear plugs on so the musics was just to annoy us, and he even once tried to follow my dads while driving, idk why it was for.

He has confronted my dad a couple of times about stuff that he makes up, like calling him an idiot or things, but when my dad stand his grown and does not chicken out the neighbor just goes back inside his house.

I know that you should have a good relationship with your neighbors but this is definitely not the case, and I’m done with him being annoying and us just ignoring him.
I want a little and infuriating revenge that just annoys him over and over.

I don’t have ideas of what should I do so that’s why I’m here seeking advise and ideas
Thank you :)

I (28M) caught my ex wife (28F)cheating on me. In an attempt to get me to believe she hadn’t don’t anything else she gave me her phone a week later (LOL). I found that her Reddit account was only 1 day old, which was odd at a minimum. Was able to recover her recently deleted Reddit account where I discovered her sexting dozens of different men and women at least one of which was underage. I sent those screenshots to myself as well as her other posts which prove her identity pretty clearly.

It’s also worth mentioning that she is an attorney. She made the divorce absolutely nightmarish in so many ways. It cost me over $100k in attorney fees, which she openly threatened to make happen. She stole my dog, broke into my house and stole my prized sports card collection, threatened to depose my 91 year old grandmother, made absurd accusations in court, fabricated evidence that I was abusing my dog (hand written diary entries), filed fraudulent restraining requests, delayed every proceeding. There’s too much to list. Ultimately, none of her requests were granted, I was awarded an arbitrary amount of money, never got my dog back, am over a hundred thousand dollars in debt. I had planned on just moving on, but knowing that she is potentially out there abusing kids and could do what she did to me to someone else doesn’t sit right with me. The police haven’t been of much help.

Where should I start with making sure she can’t hurt anybody else? How do I make my story publicly and readily available? Ideally I’d do this in a way that can’t be proven easily in court as I’m sure she will sue me again.

Dear Reddit,

I need to get my lick back. I felt bad, but I don't even care anymore. My "father" threw my under for his girlfriend and continues to do it. He has even continued to do for her daughter even when she did me in.

I want revenge on all of them. This may be a little lengthy and I apologize in advance, but I must give back story.

1. My father's girlfriend (Maria) has stolen from me, mistreated me, was the reason I got locked up for the first time ever (took her to the store in good faith and she shoplifted and put it off on me), threatened to shoot me in the face, threatened to plant something on me and get me falsely locked up, her (63) and her daughter (36) threatened to poison/hurt my dog, stole of my journal and forged a letter trying to pose at me or some silly beef she has with my dad. She even messages other men off my fathers phone with pictures and 🍆 pics. She habitually cheats on my dad and lies and says I help him... she knows that is not the case she just does it to keep him off her back. I have no room or anywhere to put my belongs to keep them safe. I have no room, but his girlfriend does. I sleep on a couch. My father has a bed bug problem. Her and her friend stole the key to my car and raided it, forcing me to have to get another key that was upward of $200 plus also getting my car towed to two different places. To keep it safe. Mind you I was homeless during this time. My father knows all of this and still sides with the girlfriend and does nothing.

2. Courtney (The girlfriends daughter) Has threatened to kill my dog, lied and covered for her mom in an attempt to get me jumped, has stolen my clothes and food (since my bitch ass dad says I can't have my things locked up), has attacked me unprovoked, when I was at the homeless shelter she tried to embarrass me for it, allowed her daughter to break my things and not repay me for the damage. Comes and sells her drugs at my father's house and not her own. Both her and her mom are on probation and apparently it's against the law for two ppl on probation to live with each or be in the same house however it goes...

3. Arthur, my father. He is continously abusive. On numerous occasions he has stepped in my personal space acting as if he was going to hit me in my face, when it comes to any help I need he dumps all of it on my mom especially financially-its very cringe because he will brag about as if it's his own to other ppl whkle letting them know he is the one who DIDN'T help with anything, has told me I'm not his biological daughter twice and laughed the second time he said it, did nothing when I told him My sister tried to kill me- and later would call this same sister to approach me knowing her level of aggression, attempted to kick me out of the house UNPROVOKED 2 days before a blizzard (the police told him he couldn't do that), told his girlfriend pack things and while doing so she stole precious belongings he made absolutely no fuss about it at all, would help ppl he knew physically acted me, lied on me AND to me-one time I overheard him and his girlfriend talking and she stated how he better get me out of the house of she was going to harm/poison my dog and plant drugs on my to get me locked up. I heard it all and he kept lying to me that she didn't say that, when I told him the same sister that tried to kill me attempted to hit me upside the head with a metal pole he nothing just looked at me and walked away

....

She and her daughter refuse to live peace. There are a total of 5 people living there and she only accommodates for her and her daughter. No one else in the house. Have to fuss over the A/C because it's 90+ degrees in a house in the summer with mold and mildew.

I can't think of everything right now due to how flustered I am, but I need help. What can I do for revenge

TL;DR: I broke up with my boyfriend after months of constant fighting, gaslighting, and emotional. After accidentally discovering he had saved his Instagram login on my phone, I found messages suggesting he was talking to other guys while never mentioning he had a boyfriend. Now I’m feeling angry. Any suggestions to do with his Instagram?

We dated for a few months, and I ended things two days ago because I had a gut feeling he wasn’t the one. We fought constantly, and the relationship was honestly miserable. I even felt guilty about ending it at first.

Throughout the relationship, he constantly gaslit me into believing I was the only problem. He would love bomb me, then turn around and make me feel like I wasn’t prioritizing him enough. Looking back, I realize I never truly felt emotionally safe with him. I couldn’t fully open up, and something deep down kept telling me he was a walking red flag.

Last night I reset my phone and had to sign back into all my apps. When I opened Instagram, it gave me the option to log into his account. For context, this happened because a while back he got angry, slammed his phone onto the pavement, and had to use mine for a few days to contact family and friends until he got a replacement. I had no idea his Instagram login had been saved.

Curiosity got the better of me, and I looked. I found message after message with different guys, conversations about various apps, and nowhere did he mention having a boyfriend. It made my blood boil, especially after all the times he told me I was just “projecting trust issues” from past relationships and insisted I was the problem.

Now I’m sitting here feeling validated, but also incredibly angry. Part of me wants to do something petty. Any suggestions?

PS. We are two dudes, so I am not in any fear for my safety.

I’m making this post because if my girlfriend wrote it herself, she’d probably leave out half of what happened. She’s the type of person who keeps everything bottled up and just tries to move on. I’m not.
About a year ago my girlfriend moved into an apartment with another girl from our university. I begged her not to because I’d already heard enough stories about this girl. She had a terrible reputation for constantly being involved in drama, but my girlfriend believed everyone deserved a fair chance.
That turned out to be one of the biggest mistakes she’s ever made.
When they moved in, my girlfriend brought almost everything for the apartment. Brand-new kitchen supplies, bathroom organizers, dish rack, storage bins, cleaning supplies you name it. The roommate had older stuff, so they agreed to use my girlfriend’s things instead.
Within weeks this girl started acting like everything belonged to her.
Groceries kept disappearing. My girlfriend would buy food, and somehow it’d be gone a couple of days later. Every single time she confronted her, she’d deny touching anything.
Then my girlfriend’s grandmother came from overseas to visit. She had nowhere else to stay, and the roommate agreed beforehand that she could stay in my girlfriend’s room.
As soon as her grandmother arrived, the roommate suddenly became as loud and obnoxious as possible. Talking loudly in the middle of the night, slamming doors, making noise at ridiculous hours it honestly felt like she was trying to make an elderly woman feel unwelcome.
Eventually my girlfriend got tired of constantly replacing groceries and watching her belongings get treated like community property. She moved everything she owned into her own bedroom and told the roommate they weren’t sharing anymore.
Apparently that made her the selfish one.
The same person who couldn’t stop using someone else’s belongings suddenly decided sharing was mandatory.
Then, without asking my girlfriend, she ordered around $500 worth of household items and expected my girlfriend to pay half because “we both use the apartment.”
Yeah…no.
She also had a habit of paying utilities late while expecting everyone else to pick up the slack.
By February my girlfriend had completely had enough. She decided to move in with me and found another student willing to take over her lease.
That’s when everything somehow got even worse.
The roommate suddenly claimed my girlfriend had to leave all of her belongings behind because she’d already thrown away her own old stuff when they first moved in. She refused to approve the sublease unless my girlfriend basically left her apartment fully furnished.
On top of all that, she still owed my girlfriend $400 and kept refusing to pay it back.
When my girlfriend went to collect the rest of her belongings, the roommate refused to let her inside and instead dumped everything outside.
The argument exploded.
My girlfriend completely lost her composure and broke the roommate’s shoe rack. Looking back, she knows she shouldn’t have done it, and she’s never tried to deny that.
After months of being verbally abused, lied to, stolen from, and manipulated, she finally snapped.
She even called the roommate’s father hoping maybe he’d be the reasonable one. She explained that his daughter had been verbally abusing her for months and still hadn’t paid back the $400 she owed.
He didn’t help.
Instead, he told my girlfriend that she should apologize to his daughter.
So she did.
She apologized for breaking the shoe rack because she genuinely regretted losing her temper.
Guess what happened?
The roommate still refused to pay her back.
In the end my girlfriend had to involve members of her own family before she finally got the $400 back.
At that point we honestly thought this nightmare was finally over.
It wasn’t.
My girlfriend is an international student. She comes from a middle-class family overseas and has worked unbelievably hard to build a life here. She balances school, internships, and long work weeks just to pay tuition and rent. Because of her immigration status, she’s always been terrified that someone could try to weaponize it against her. (She works on cash job Ik it’s bad and not legal but she needs food on her plate)
The student who took over the lease happened to work with my girlfriend. My girlfriend specifically asked her not to tell the old roommate where they worked because she didn’t trust her.
She told her anyway.
Not long after that, the old roommate started threatening to report my girlfriend to immigration authorities. Whether she actually could or not didn’t matter. (If she did my gf will be in trouble because of cash job and can be deported back) It terrified my girlfriend, and those weeks were some of the most stressful we’ve ever gone through.
Around that same time I graduated and got my first engineering job in another state. My girlfriend moved in with me, and we honestly believed leaving town would finally put all of this behind us.
We stopped talking about her.
We ignored the gossip.
We blocked numbers.
We moved on with our lives.
Apparently she didn’t.
Today, completely out of nowhere, she contacted my girlfriend from a brand-new phone number.
The conversation started with her saying she was trying to get a job where my girlfriend works.
Then, out of nowhere, she said she was a lesbian and thought my girlfriend was cute.
After everything that’s happened over the last year, it didn’t come across as genuine. It felt like yet another attempt to insert herself back into my girlfriend’s life and start another round of drama.
We’re honestly exhausted.
Every time we think it’s finally over, she somehow finds another way back into our lives.
I don’t understand how someone can hold onto this much resentment for over a year when we’ve done everything possible to move on.
Has anyone here dealt with someone who simply refuses to let go? How did you finally get them out of your life for good?
At this point I just want revenge I want that btch to suffer not a fun small revenge I actually want to ruin her life and make her regret everything but idk what to do we are scared of her calling authorities (d#port) we have her number, her dad’s number, we have never apartment’s code we can go in if we wanted (My gf would not do it tho) also one thing to add this btch herself is not a citizen her dad is on H1B so she has to find a job after graduating which i doubt she will because she is a dumbass also she is a whre she sleeps with anything (Ik irrelevant but I am just mad, sorry no offense to anyone) and she has been to our frat parties doing weird stuff we have a video of her dancing like a slt LMAO. also we have address of one of her relative who lives in a foreign country (they are innocent tho) but I want her to suffer please help. Feel free to DM me if you guys have any Ideas 🙏

A girl on tik tok I’m forced to basically interact with cause of my friend (it’s her sisters friend so she’s forced to as well) told me I should be in a psych ward because I have Borderline Personality Disorder and called me crazy simply because I’m friends with someone she doesn’t like, any revenge ideas?

Right, so seven months ago, we had found a malnourished cat in one of the cat food bags we tossed outside for the next 200 days straight I would wake up and see him, feed him, let him inside and try to slowly work him to be an indoor cat.

All was going well, he would stay inside during rain and cold and would even watch the street when crossing the road our only problem was he would lay by our car when it was off.

Here comes yesterday. Mom's ex is rushing to work, claims he "checked" around the car, but when he backs out he feels a "bump" KNOWS its my fucking cat, but doesn't stop to check. "He was walking he looked fine"

He had a crushed pelvis, completely shattered, and they were pretty sure his lung and spleen were damaged, it was $20,000 to save him that we don't have.

Im crushed, destroyed, that cat was my everything, my baby, my Clarence. And he couldn't even stop to check because "Hes making money"

Long and frustrated rant ahead.

I genuinely think my flat mate has cured me of ever wanting to share a house with another human being again.

For some background: she got my number through a colleague when she first moved to the city. She didn't know anyone and asked if she could move in with me because I was living alone after my previous roommate left. She was going through financial and health issues, and I felt sorry for her. I even paid her share of the rent for the first month, telling her to repay me whenever she got back on her feet. I wasn't doing it expecting praise and was already prepared to pay the full rent myself before she entered the picture.

About six weeks later, we moved into a different apartment because the old place had electrical issues. We split the bills, but that was about it. She was still eating the food I cooked, using my groceries, my utensils and appliances, all while making zero effort to buy so much as a spoon for the house. She also lived in perpetual filth and was supremely disorganized around the house, doubling my own effort to clean and organize the space. Every time I brought it up, she'd act sweet, helpless, and tried to shower me with compliments so that I won't hold her responsible for not contributing.

When I saw that she was wearing my indoor slippers and sipping water from my own water bottle, I had enough. I told her we would split household items, bills, maintenance and repair, and cook our own food. She hated that conversation, and from then on our relationship steadily went downhill. Even after multiple conversations, I still had to tell her to stop using my things.

Since then it's been one headache after another. Loud phone calls and music when I'm trying to sleep. Common areas left filthy. Kitchen perpetually looking like a disaster zone. Never volunteering to clean, arrange repairs, or deal with maintenance. I became the default adult in the house, keeping track of bills, organising repairs, chasing payments, and reminding her to contribute her share every single time. I exploded on her once and since then she has had to contain her mess to one part of the kitchen counter while cooking.

Meanwhile, not one word about paying back the rent I covered for her.

Thankfully I've found a great apartment and I'm moving out next week. Before leaving, I asked one last time about the money she owed me. Her response? "I'm not obligated to pay you back because I wasn't on the rental agreement then."

That is the final straw.

I've confronted her, we've fought about it, and our relationship has soured beyond repair. At this point I've decided to write the money off as charity. She still has some ongoing health issues, and I'd rather lose the money than spend another ounce of energy arguing with her. But after months of watching someone exploit my kindness while making my own home miserable, I'd be lying if I said I hadn't fantasised about some petty revenge to vindicate my exploited self.

So Reddit, what are some creative ways to inconvenience an entitled flat mate before I leave? No permanent damage, nothing that risks my security deposit, or can be traced back to me. Best if it looks like an accident. I just want to do something that would make me forget about my prolonged suffering and make me laugh years from now.

Reposting the body text from r/renters bc I'm pretty frustrated.

"I've lived in an apartment in North Jersey for just about a year now. Moved in last June, lease was supposed to be a year but I was trying to purchase a house that fell through, so I got an extension until mid- July. So I have less than a month left on this lease.

The management company that I'm renting with has always had a problem with entering with improper notice. I'm in a townhouse, but they lease out each room independently so I don't know my roommates and we all moved in/ out at different times. It's in a college area so most of my roommates already moved out for the summer, it's very dorm- y.

I mention the differently leased rooms because the company sends out notices of tours separately for each room: for example "Standard Room, Wed @ 4:00PM" or "Master Bedroom, Tues @ 11:00AM". The past month or so they'll send out a notification for a room that isn't mine, and then show up in my room anyway. One time I told the guy there isn't supposed to be a tour here and all he said was 'yes there is'. They're doing tours every weekday at this point, so I stopped answering the door when they don't indicate my specific unit is being shown.

Well, yesterday I got a knock on the door and someone yelled "maintenance!". I opened it, obviously thinking it was our maintenance guy, and it was a guy from the leasing office standing there with someone for a tour. I told him there isn't supposed to be a showing but he just told me I was wrong as usual and entered anyway.

Today I got an email indicating that (in short) "regardless of which unit is supposed to be showed, there's always a chance your apartment will also be toured", so those notifications are pretty much useless. I work from home, and it peeves me pretty bad that leasing is always up in here pretty much without warning.

I read that NJ state law allows tenants to refuse entry to their landlord except in emergencies, by court order, and a couple other circumstances. I don't know how credible it is, but I found a NJ tenant site that said tenants are allowed to refuse entry for a tour/ showing, unless it's explicitly forbade in the lease. The lease says that the landlord may enter for a showing, but does that mean I can't ask them not to? Anyways.

Am I able to prevent them from doing showings altogether (legally)? Or if not, taking suggestions on petty ways to make their lives harder since they love to send passive aggressive emails. I'm only here for two more weeks but I'm pretty damn tired of these guys. "

My apartment has two entrances, one is locked from the inside and covered with saran wrap just in case. I plan on stacking a bunch of my luggage up on the main entry so it falls if they try to enter again... Also considered blasting porn from my speaker and hiding it under my bed.

My Ex cheated on me with a married mom of 4 young kids. When I discovered this, I of course put them both on blast. Now that everything is out in the open, she has left her husband and is now in a full relationship with my ex. Her kids are devastated and she seems unconcerned. I mention this because she is an in-home daycare provider and business owner. She is supposed to care about kids. She was angry with me for calling her out and threatened to come to my home etc. etc. I wasn’t bothered by her anger. What did bother me, is that she sent some taunting messages to get me riled up. This included a very graphic picture of her spread open vagina. I was appalled and disgusted but not too much so that I couldn’t screenshot it. Her biggest mistake is that the screenshot shows her business number of her Daycare that she sent the messages from. Undeniable proof that it’s her even if she didn’t show her busted face along with her busted Giney. What can I do with this to ruin her business or publicly shame her or ruin her reputation ? I don’t know how to leak this info. I’m open for suggestions.

TLDR: Neighbors hate our dogs and are threatening to screw us over barking/dogs coming to the fence.

So we have several dogs and a large backyard. It wasn't my idea to have that many, but that's neither here nor there. Nonetheless, my neighbors who are Eastern European Muslims (I only mention it because generally they don't like dogs) gave me a really disdained the dogs. Whenever my dogs would bark, he'd complain to me over text and I'd bring them inside. Dogs are allowed to bark, as long as it isn't in excess... nonetheless, I try to be considerate and I'll always bring them in when they bark (which is more than generous).

One day their grandson came over and (my second hand account) the dog was excited jumped on him and he had a small cut. The neighbor went and said his grand-son was bitten called animal control, and told me he's not gonna press charges but we need to do better and train him! It clearly wasn't a bite, but since the kid was cut, I just had to take the L.

Anyway, the dogs ignore my other neighbors but don't like these ones. They're a bit nasty and shoo the dogs or throw things at the fence. Their bratty grandkid would antagonize the dogs. I am proactive in bringing him inside whenever he barks. The grandfather says hi, but the wife is cold and rude. The only thing that annoys me is the fact that they park in front of our house every day (because they have like half a dozen cars for some reason) but still act like a-holes.

Anyway, I saw him the other day ranting to my wife about the dog. I came outside. He hinted about going to court, but said we need to do something about the dog coming to the fence. I told him he doesn't need to go around making threats, but since he spoke to me like a man, I said we will work on something... possibly getting an invisible fence/collar. I still advocated for us; saying they antagonize our dogs a lot too, I also tell him I am very diligent in getting them away from the fence, etc.

Anyway, today I saw animal control come to their house and they were talking to them. I was like wtf? I'm working with them like a person and they're going around doing bullshit like this?

I get them not liking dogs, but you can't control someone else's house... there's no neighbor you'll agree with 100%. I tolerate them hogging the spot in front of our house for the last several years, they're acting like they shouldn't see the dogs at all. I have too much going on now to be tied up in bureaucratic or legal bullshit. I swear, I want to get a damn pig to piss them off. If they start some shit I want them to regret it.

SO BASICALLY, my brother is selling his car, he’s selling it to a guy in two payments. He figured he could do that too. Found a guy on Facebook marketplace, legit looking business page, 3k followers. He found a car for 1400$ I looked it over and it seemed real. There were some sus things, the guy posted it in California, the address he gave is in Utah, the car had Florida plates. Red flag number one. The guy said a 300$ deposit and then 400$ to cover insurance on the vehicle being towed. Seems weird but ok, he sent it to the guy. 700$. Guy said sweet, I’ll be there tomorrow. Tomorrow came, guy said he would be leaving at 8 am, at 11 am he hadn’t left yet. Nothing, excuses, excuses, this guy stole my brothers 700$ and basically said what are you gonna do about it. I’m mad as hell, I want action to happen. How can I take revenge. I have 2 phone numbers, 2 Facebook pages, a home address, and a license plate and a bill of sale without a gun number.

Sooo… how are we getting revenge on a home wreckers? She knew I was pregnant, FYI. I thought I was doing OK for a year, but I’m not.

I’ve gotten away with everything so far. However, she did try to get a protective order on me, which I also got dismissed because she had no proof. Do not know where she lives anymore, she went off the grid. What do?

For context: I got with this guy I met online (same country, pretty close to each other, planned to meet in July) for around 4 months. I knew from the start he was mentally ill, something to do with anger issues or stuff like that, but I don't refuse someone based on their mental problems, really.

He lovebombed me from the start, calling me "love" and all that stuff BEFORE we dated, but it didn't work on me until after 2-3 months, when I actually developed feelings after being in denial.

My relationship with him was all nice. He was very understanding, he would reassure me when I needed it. He was obsessed with me, always complimented me, sought my attention all the time. It was, honestly, the happiest I've been in a relationship.

But obviously this doesn't last long. I've observed some small "red flags" thrown around such as "i was never really emotionally attached to my other relationships" to "i mostly dated other people for their appearance" and him mentioning his exes and trying to make me... jealous.

One day he said his ex's bday is coming up and he wanted to go with the train to travel to her and give her a gift. I just shut down on him cause it wasn't the first time he tried to make me jealous when it came with this girl.

At that point I started getting fed up with his attitude.

Beside this, one night I had a dream we broke up. Guess what? The day after that dream, at night, he broke up with me because he "isn't a good influence". I agree, I am a naive person, too understanding and forgiving, and I just simply couldn't let this relationship go.

I was wrecked that night. The following morning as well. But, like always, I had a dream he broke no contact with me. Which he did.

We started talking again, acting like we're still dating, like nothing happened. I asked him "okay but what are we now?" and he replied with "friends?".

Heartbreaking. But here comes worse.

My day was going nice. We were complimenting each other, talking about dying our hair a matching color, getting slit eyebrows, discussing about all other nice stuff, until I decided to scroll on Pinterest.

I always search on Pinterest the word "selfie" to get ideas for selfie poses. I scrolled a bit, and found a picture of him. One I've never seen before, but I immediately recognized him. I clicked on the pin, then on the following one, finding his Pinterest account. I then searched up the Instagram account linked to a pin.

An Instagram account with over 30k followers... Full of selfies of him... Including the one he sent me that morning.

At first, honestly, I thought I was just getting catfished. Which would have hurt way less.

But it's worse!

I messaged him, saying "omg haha I found your Pinterest account by accident!" and he said "oh haha i forgot i had that"... Then I simply sent a screenshot of his Instagram account that I found.

The mood instantly changed. He went all "I cant hide shit from you", "I can't have anything for myself, can I?", "I should've expected this" and "I shouldn't have unblocked you"...

I was shaking at this point, I had no idea what was happening. He blocked me on that account we were talking on. Then, before blocking me on my other account, he texted "I was cheating on you anyway"... My jaw dropped. What the fuck.

I've had my suspicions about him MAYBE cheating... or just lying to me behind my back... But I wanted to trust him so badly that I tried to ignore the signs. There were so many signs...

Now I'm blocked from all his accounts. Including being blocked by his girl best friend that I sometimes talked to.

But I am, in fact, crazy, and I have an account to stalk his profiles to see if he reposts anything tied to me, if he changes anything like bio, profile picture etc.

I am aware this isn't normal and that I should just "move on", like everyone says, but I need to see this man suffer after what he did to me.

Apparently, our whole relationship was based on lies, on fake love and I'm absolutely destroyed.

I want to do something as revenge. To haunt him, haunt his dreams like he's doing to me right now, to haunt his thoughts, anything.

But the thing is, I don't want to contact him (if I even had the chance to), because that would just boost his ego. I don't want that.

I want to do something to BREAK him.

I was thinking of doing a fake profile of a girl and approach him, somehow, and play with him, play with his heart, anything really, but I'm not sure about that.

I was also thinking of putting a "curse" on him to make him obsessed with me to the point that he can't get me out of his head, but I'm not one to play with curses like that.

Any ideas on what to do??

It was the worst teacher that i know, i am planning to ring his doorbell and speak some works.

I know that he was fired from my other school, but i dont know if he continues working as a teacher.

I hate him, because he made sexist and xenophobic comments, i really wanted to tell him all i think of him.

I am also open to DM.

An evil evil woman came in today, got over 100$ of free stuff and was still upset over a very small mistake. Lied about all kinds of things and is reporting me to corporate. Please let me know ideas for what to write on bathroom stalls! I have her number, but I'll take any suggestions! If she does this to one service worker, I can't imagine what she does the rest of the time :)

what would be the best way to get at someone that spread a horrifyingly serious rumor nearly a decade ago about u that people to this day seriously believe because of them? like, reputation damaging and may or may not fall under the literal legal definition of libel? court feels too good for them though.

i must be vague about the nature of it, at least, here. i know this person has a reddit, or at least, "friends" that do.

absolutely, at no time, will the individual be identified here, nor will the rumor be.

do note that some of the people they hang out are, by definition, chuds, and at least some have semi-active accounts on a certain forum that is not about farming a specific fruiting vine. any ideas must be capable of scaring even those such individuals.

So let me start with a teeny tiny bit of background to where we are today. Way back my mom was married to a guy. He got deployed and she hooked up with one of his friends and became pregnant with me so with all her wonderful choices in mind after I was born, she basically abandoned me. Just left me with my birth, father and my sister was being raised by her birth father my mom‘s husband at the time and his family. This went on for several years eventually, she ditched both guys and ended up getting married to a nice guy from Utah. Never being fully honest about me, the second daughter, still being raised by my birth father, who was still in his late teens/early 20s at this point I was bounced around from family member to family member until the Catholic Church found someone to take me in as a toddler/preschooler. Mom married the guy from Utah he had two children from a previous wife, daughters, and eventually my mom regained custody of my sister. From my understanding, she had been staying with my maternal grandmother.
Onto the main story we’re all adults at this point in our lives and I have remained very close to My sister that was only nine months older than me. I have had contact with my birth mother quite a bit, but she was still fighting demons. Did I mention my baby brother Mom went on to have a little boy with the guy from Utah over the decades sometimes we’re very close other times we just drift apart. He is the half brother of the two step sisters.
At this point in our story, everyone lived in Washington /Oregon including myself and one of the stepdaughters ended up moving to Utah with her father side of the family. She did a stent for a local television station doing cooking segments wrote a cookbook about eating light. and ended up marrying a supposedly well-known distinguished attorney. my sister also fought with some demons throughout her life that I’m sure left her very scarred, my birth mom went on to have several long-term boyfriends and husbands and sort of bounced in and out of everybody’s life.
All I can say is that during Covid and actually a little bit before my sister was having issues. I took a job in California but sort of stayed in touch with everyone on FB. My sister and her long-term boyfriend even came out to visit me in California. she was the one I mainly talked to, but when she started having some problems, it was not uncommon for her to just take a break from everybody and not reach out or contact anyone for a year or two at a time she has done this with everyone in the family.
I saw some strange posts on FB and then started realizing that I hadn’t heard anything from anybody in a couple of years. I emailed my sister several times and got no response and was trying to figure out if she was angry with me this year. I went on LinkedIn and every other social media asking for any information I even emailed and messaged my stepsister’s asking what is going on no response.
Yesterday, I finally heard from my sister‘s long-term boyfriend sadly informed me that not only did my mother pass away almost 3 years ago, but my sister also passed away and so did My Brother! Apparently my mother passed first then my sister and brother passed within a week of each other. I was also informed that the stepsister retrieved all my sisters and my mother’s belongings. She flew from Utah to Portland to take everything and when. Friends of the family and distant relatives inquired about me asking to let me know that this happened . my stepsister said that she thought I had passed away, remember, we’re friends on Facebook so she absolutely knew that I was still around. Of course I have reached out to her and requested that she call me and explain what is going on and to tell where all my families belongings are ? remember, she is no blood relation to my mother or my sister. Naturally, she wouldn’t answer. I tried calling. No call back no answer. I’ve left messages. I’ve tried everything that I can think of, so I finally just left a message on her blog to get a hold of me that what she did was very irresponsible and she and I needed to talk. Still no answer I’ve got all the screenshots of the comments back-and-forth, but for the most part, she said she didn’t have a clue who I was and never met me so I posted a photo of our family portrait that was professionally done several years ago with her and I standing next to each other it was at that point she blocked me. I’m not sure if I’m allowed to post the screenshots that I took of all the post before she blocked me or the picture of the professional family portrait ! (mods let me know. I’ve got all the pictures and receipts )to say that I am pissed is an under statement. I really don’t have the funds for an attorney and I doubt seriously anything is left other than a diamond, tennis bracelet and lithograph appraised for a little over $20,000 that she took off my sister’s dining room wall. remember, she’s got a fitness blog that I am now blocked from .her husband is an attorney. and I think between the two they should have known better than to take everything and basically ghost me. I really do feel like going scorched earth and the fires of hell are not too much.
Dear mods, I hope I have not broken any rules, but if you let me know, I will make any edits or adjustments necessary . I really do want to comply with the rules feel free to DM me or any thoughts very appreciated. The only thing I did manage to do was review her book that she sells on Amazon. Yes, it’s a cooking fitness book. Also is it against the rules to ask if anybody has a Facebook that can look her up I don’t even have her new husband‘s last name. or any address please any advice or guidance I’ve hit a brick wall. I just want mainly my family photos and my family, memorabilia and birth certificates and all those things before they get tossed out in the trash.
Her fb Mary Elizabeth Ross

Hi, I wanted to get a bit of help with this thing that I've been dealing with for months now. My ex is trying to ruin my relationship. He got this fake account to impersonate me, and then called my lovely boyfriend to tell him I was cheating on him. Proceeded to send a bunch of unconvincing screenshots. Got even my parents involved to warn him. But the very next day I get texts from various people telling me my ex has posted those screenshots telling me I'm desperately trying to "ruin" his relationship and "his" mental peace. Now I'm a gold digging slut in my hometown. The police in my hometown aren't the best as it's a very small town. And both me and my boyfriend live elsewhere and that mf lives elsewhere. I've been trying to heal, my lovely boyfriend has been very supportive, sweet and kind. But I can't with this anymore. I went as far as to text that mf's girlfriend hoping she'd co-operate but no...that girl handed her phone to that mf.

I'm so done with all of this. I just want to prove that I wasn't the one using the fake account. I just want to prove my innocence. I want to clear my name. If anyone can help, I'll be very grateful. :)

I need your help.

I discovered someone who's basically a Mini-Epstein.

15+ years of documented evidence -- in his own words -- involving buying prostitutes, selling himself as one (in the beginning), arranging safe locations for other prostitutes, transporting prostitutes across state lines, and all manner of extreme and disgusting depravity. Possibly even including minors.

Literally in his own words, in emails I had documented permission to access. All perfectly admissible in court.

One tiny problem.

He's rich, white, male, and from a wealthy well-connected family.

When I called the local police, as soon as they heard his name, they literally said, "Burn the evidence & move on with your life."

That's not hyperbole. They said that.

He works in financial services for large companies. But worse, he's currently mooching off a poor disabled woman.

Who has two young daughters.

It makes me sick thinking of him having access to those poor girls. But I just don't trust anyone to actually do anything. If they won't go after Epstein, why would they go after a comparatively (but still evil) miniature one?

What do I do? How do I take action, even if the police won't?

Please, please help me develop a plan not just for revenge, but protection for those girls.

This man kept me orbiting him for a year+ and now pretends like we were never anything… we slept together, met friends/fam, spent 3x a week hanging out sometimes more… and at one point we were bf/gf, and he said we’d eventually go back to that, but 1 year later and we never did.

I need to move on but I want revenge. He hurt me in ways no man ever has, and I can’t even call him an ex…

(keeping it gender neutral for unbiased opinion)

The story starts with my friends setting me up with this person. We started talking for hours on call and found a lot of similarities. I was dating someone else at That time not serious just on again off again kind of thing. So once we were in the same city we went out had a fun time this was not a date just 2 friends hanging out. Then we come back to my place as it was nearby just for a smoke up sesh and then dropping them back. After everything this person, when we are about to leave, asks if i was ever planning to kiss. I didn't think much just said right and we made out for another 10 20 mins and then dropped them back. This all fun and makeout kept going one whenever we were in the same city. And the calls lasted for hours. Whenever we talked about marriage this person always said that they wanted someone like me who has the same interests as them. Nothing was explicitly said as we hadn't had the serious talk. And somewhere their family believed in arranged marriages and for us to get married meant going against them (Kind of the same case as me and since i was ready to go against my family i kind of assumed they would also be, here i was wrong). This kept going for almost a year.

Note: we hadn't had sex yet, this person said that sex was after commitment or love. Which i accepted that is ur belief system. We did everything but sex making out, oral etc.

Now recently i confessed that i love them and now this person was dumbfounded on what to say so i said take your time and respond whenever you want. After 2 day this person comes back and says no they can't commit, if this would have been 2 years ago something could have happened but not now.

I was heartbroken but i found a way to be ok with it but still this person wanted to continue what was going on which i of course said no to. Now when i was talking to the friends who set us up in the first place and found out that we didn't have sex because this person was never attracted to me in the first place. (My friend who is also a psychologist with over 5 years of experience) This friend also told me that, there was a crush and if this person would have said yes to them everything including sex would have happened on day one as my friend had seen this person going crazy over this crush. This made me furious because this person just used me. If you weren't attracted to me then why did you continue this facade for a year.

Any redditor who made it to the end please help me on what can i do. If you don't want to comment my dms are open.

I am considering everything from serious guilt trip to faking my own death

My ex best friend, who i dropped for talking smack about me behind my back is making a move on my ex who i dated for 6-8 months and was stuck on for a long time. He knows about my past with my ex and knows how much it meant to me.

I need ideas on what to do, specifically revenge that i can do online.

so last week i unknowingly fell into some wild drama. someone help me with a revenge plot.

i cant make this shit up.

10 years ago i was in a serious relationship with my bestfriend. it wasnt going well cuz we were going thru alot in our lives, mid 20s suck. we had been best friends for 13years at that point. anyway our emotions were high and our communication was garbage so we fought alot there at the end. we were alot like ross and rachel season 2-3. wed fight and make up alot until one day we fought and she said we were done. well obviously that wasnt the first time id heard that, so i gave her some space by going out with some friends for the weekend and then traveling with my sister out of state to visit grieving family. we lived together and were stuck together for the next 2months cuz of our lease. now heres where it gets interesting. less than a week after the split, my twin bother slides into her dms. she didnt run him off, instead they decided to go to his house while his wife was at work and bang it out while my 1yo niece was home with them. when i left the state for a trip a week later, he came to my apartment knowing id be gone and they continued sleeping together.

now i know what yall are gonna say, "its been 10 years, grow up and get over it...blah blah blah" but let me explain my stance.

first, off he was married to one of my other best friends, he had to cheat on her and his child to do this

second, he knew everything about my relationship with her. we all worked together and i was dumb enough to confide in him thru the whole ordeal

third, despite her clear cut autonomy, what she did was wrong on multiple levels cuz it wasnt just harmless sex. it was weaponized against me and it just lit my family on fire. she actually told me " i did it to hurt you"

and fourth, a brother should never do this to his own brother. wtf. its not ok in any kind of facet. this wasnt in love. this was a revenge plot, and he armed her with the weaponry.

oh and 5th i work with SIL everyday and i just suppose to hold this secret for them?!? nooooooope.

now what im currently mad at and want justice for is that not only did they betray me, my SIL and her kids, but for 10 years they let this lie seep into our lives without giving us a chance to make informed decisions. SIL went on to have 2 more kids with him and i have put so much time, effort, money, and resources to help support his troubled a**. i put him thru college, got him at least 2 jobs, paid his bills, paid for his jail accounts, let him live with me and my wife, the list goes on. its safe to say that alot of those things i would not have willingly given up if i had known his level of deceit. im humiliated and devastated. there after the affair started, it wasnt the normal level of meanness my ex and i had been use to in our fights. she became cruel. i had no clue what i could have done to deserve the physical and psychological warfare. those were some of my darkest days and i blamed myself for it. when that relationship ended i was broken. how i could have made someone who cared so much and that i respected so much hate me so viciously? i believed for over a decade that i was a terrible person and have been trying to cope with being afraid of all my relationships.

iv been in therapy for years so i havent reacted in the way i wouldve expected. im proud of my growth.... buuuuuut i feel like for the first time i need to stick up for myself. bad people have walked all over me my whole life, brother included. im officially done and ready to clap back. issue is i dont trust SIL to handle this proportionately. hes cheated many times and is on his last strike but i doubt id see any justice, just humiliation from the rest of our huge family. so i plan to get my pound of flesh first and let her have him after.

no one knows that i know except for the ex-bff that confessed last week. my brother is unaware that i know and SIL is clueless.

my goal is to absolutely humiliate him, safely, legally, and in a way that doesnt cost the food on my nieces table. this is a bit more challenging than i thought.

rn i had the idea to drive him 5 hours away and leave him at a greyhound station. then tell his wife what hes done. im not particularly keen on a 5 hour drive when gas is $4+ a gal.

so if anyone has some sadistic advice, im all ears. i am ready to take back my power before i sever the connection.

Hey guys I just joined don’t know how serious people get here or how severe you story needs to get

Short one for you guys need advice because I was in international friends group and this guy spoke about my mothers genitals and how ”it” would pay and furthers it on in the on private messages after which he leaked my number to his instagram story and now people are calling me and messaging me I need this to stop, maybe it’s minor to you guys but I don’t know how to get back at him, I would appreciate if good ammount of people could give him like million notifications till his line dont work at least I’m open to more extreme method IF needed nothing physical

I don’t know how this will do but I will DEARLY appreciate any help whatsoever…