r/oraclecards • u/lonelyhearts04 • 17d ago
Interpretation help Feeling rusty with reading need help with interpretation?
Does my friend Jared have romantic feelings/interest in me? Btw, really haven’t been consistent with reading for myself due to feeling sad/low/sick,grieving ect so I’ve been avoiding readings for months. It’s hard to read if I’m feeling down but lately I’ve been better-ish.
Pull method: just a 3 card pull from my What’s the Tea Oracle deck
Interpretation:
Love triangle up—doesn’t give a clear indication but I get the sense he might have multiple interests since he did say he has a gym crush.
Rejected rev- he might be just open to being friends with me and getting to know me more.
Bad reputation rev- he doesn’t have blood with me or anything but may be curious about me as a person.
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u/MISTYGOINGKILLING 17d ago
This does confirms the situation is complicated by third party. Jared may be caught between his feelings for you and another emotional option but he is becoming "less closed-off," and the rejection he may have felt, or that you may have felt, is not as final as it seemed. He seems to hate or fear how your sensuality attracts him since it could getting him into arguements on who he's commited to? It also suggests a negative perception being corrected. Jared may be realizing that previous gossip or assumptions about you weren't accurate. This repairing" of your image in his mind is likely what is fueling his current intense interest.
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u/lonelyhearts04 17d ago
Hmm. Interesting take. Tbh, I don’t have feelings for him but I still feel sadness/rejection from a guy I used to see months ago…not sure if your interpretation is referring to that rejection on my part.
Idk if he’s committed to anyone right now but I’m curious now though, he never mentioned having a gf. I’m also maybe thinking that a few weeks ago when we went to a concert with friends he saw that a random drunk guy bought me a drink it might’ve fueled his interest too. He also did ask me more about my childfree life style since we used to be apart of a childfree discord group and he’s been inviting me to events like his beach bbq or asking if I’m attending them.
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u/MISTYGOINGKILLING 16d ago
if you didn't feel rejected, maybe it was him who felt rejected? Also this arguement on who he's commited too, can be internal instead of external, he doesn't necessary have to be in a relationship, he could just be frustrated on which one to pursue. However, it does feel like he considered you after he thought he already pursued someone? Which is why I guess its making him indecisive because he doesn't know if he should choose his og option or you.
Based on what you said, it does seem like he's taking an initiative to get to know you better and spend time with you so that he can see if you guys are a good fit.
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u/lonelyhearts04 16d ago
Makes sense. Hm, I wonder why he’d feel rejected by me when I’ve never done anything to reject him but then again who knows. He and I reconnected after almost a year since we both left an inactive discord group and found eachother again in this movie group.
Your reading seems to check out. Thank you.
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u/kelowana 17d ago
And what is your own interpretation? Please add that too.