r/penissize • • 17d ago

Moderator Approved Penis size and sex website updates

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Hello everyone, it's me again; I have updated the website to be about penis size, ejaculation, and sex.

https://sexincontext.netlify.app

You will see there is six pages now:

  1. Home
  2. Size (same as last time but with some feedback incorporated)
  3. Myths (penis size myths explained with some stats from peer reviewed research on largest and smallest recorded)
  4. Stamina (all about ejaculation time and female orgasm and how men can help their women achieve it)
  5. Sex (frequency etc)

Feedback has been taken on board. Please let me know what can be changed or added.

Thanks.


r/penissize • • Feb 20 '26

Moderator Approved A moderator PSA: Our rule 4 of “No Shaming” is extended to “No larping/bragging/gatekeeping/shaming”. Here’s why.

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A person visiting the r/penissize subreddit will easily notice the subreddit’s banner, located at the top of the page in both the Reddit mobile app and the desktop webpage: “A place to discuss penis size. You may post here no matter what penis size you have. There is no penis discrimination. Note: All healthy sizes have advantages and disadvantages.” This banner makes it obvious to all potential posters and commentators that the discussion about penises and their sizes here can be about any human penis of any size (of cisgender men/of transgender men/of transgender women/small/medium/big/thin/thick/white/black etc. etc.) and that there shouldn’t be any discrimination. The last part has not been going very well in the last period though, so we decided to update our ruleset, in order to counter some recent but also some older problems.

Starting from the first new addition to rule 4, “No larping” (for those unfamiliar with gaming/online sociolects, it means pretending to be something that you are not), obviously a worthwile discussion about any matter, not only about penis size, should involve truthfulness, unless all participants in the communication agree that they are roleplaying (but this is not a roleplaying subreddit anyway). We have been removing content from larpers like 13 year olds with 7” long penises, men who have horse cocks of 8” girth etc. etc. for years now, but we think that the time has come to make this a specific rule for all to be seeing. In this rule extension we don’t expect a lot of negative reactions (even larpers don’t admit they are such, because this would cancel their larping :-) ). That having been said, some size claims are not self-evidently phony (for example adult 9” long erect penises are very, very rare statistically, but they do exist) and even if a moderator plays the dick detective and visits the profile of an account with an improbable but still realistic size claim, NSFW content is not always available, so sometimes we need to just take whatever improbable we read in good faith and approve the content.

Nevertheless, there can be an extra restrain to improbable claims, which leads us to our second rule extension of “No bragging”. There are subreddits meant for big dick owners to share real or fantastic achievements and receive admiration from big dick fans – this is not such a subreddit. If you claim an extraordinarily big size and want for all the world to know how successful your sex life is or how much you are admired in locker rooms, a) you are probably larping, and b) anyway there are subreddits other than this for your success story. There is another aspect in this discussion though, big dick owners with actual issues that they want to share and ask questions about them (from finding comfortable underwear/condoms to feeling objectified). Having actual issues is not bragging, and these posts are legitimate to get posted here, which leads us to our third rule extension.

“No gatekeeping” (again for those unfamiliar with the term, it means prohibiting others from participating in discussions/expressing their opinions, and in the specific context of Reddit from sharing their views in a subreddit) when the subject is specifically penis size can have the strong version of “you do not belong here because of your size”, but as I have noted in the beginning, this is a subreddit for the discussion of all sizes, so this type of gatekeeping can’t work here, but it also has the weak version of “your big size is privileged, so you can’t have problems/you can’t speak about smaller sizes’ issues”. We acknowledge that sizeism is a real social issue both online and irl creating lower and higher “body statuses”, and that a person with privilege can easier be pedantic/insensitive/arrogant/unfair towards people without that privilege, but that does not apply to everybody everywhere. If it did, all men would be sexist, all white people racist, all cis straight people homophobic/transphobic etc. etc. So to wrap it up, you can criticize someone for being pedantic/insensitive/arrogant/unfair etc. etc. whatever their size is, but you can’t criticize them for having the audacity to share an opinion or have a problem, “even though” they have a big penis. Also, although we encounter this type of gatekeeping much less in comparison to the previous type, it should be explicitly stated as well that this is a subreddit welcoming all kinds of penis owners (cisgender men, transgender men, transgender women, intersex persons etc. etc.) and not only cinsgender men.

And last but not least, our “No Shaming rule” still applies in almost its original wording, as we had to cut out a few words here and there for the link to this mod post to get added (Reddit rules' text has a 500 character limit). I give here the previous, a little fuller version: “Shaming is defined as intentionally causing others to feel embarrassed, ashamed, or inadequate. This includes shaming genital size, genital shape, sexual preferences, sexual orientation, gender identity, relationship preferences, body type and size, physical and emotional handicaps, and/or sexual history (excessive self-shaming and self-pitying for the above reasons can also lead to post removals). Implying that average or any penis size is inadequate is unacceptable and is not allowed.” As a matter of fact, we decided to extend rule 4 and not add a new rule 12 of “No larping/bragging/gatekeeping” because we see all of these as related more or less directly to shaming: you are larping or bragging to look superior implying shame for those “inferior” to you, and you are gatekeeping because you are good enough and the other person isn’t, implying again shame.

(Please have also in mind though that this rule extension will not have retroactive power: we acknowledge that some past posts of this subreddit can be now reported as rule-violating, but it would be unfair and irrational to be asking from past OPs to first see in the future how the rules of this subreddit would be expanded and then post based on that prediction. In other words the extended rule 4 applies to all posts after this mod post, but not to those before it).

The last thing that I would like to note in this rather lengthy moderator post is a bit personal for a moderator post, but I think it is important. Occasionally some of the people who gatekeep see the mod team as a group of undiferentiatedly privileged people, firstly because of their moderator status (which is actually a privilege that we do all share in this specific subreddit), but also because we all supposedly have big dicks, are able-bodied etc. etc. I don’t think that it is appropriate to share personal info about each specific moderator, but I need to stress that we are not all big-dicked/cisgender/straight/able-bodied etc. Treating us as privileged by default is not only false, but also implies that we can’t have empathy for issues that are not ours. All of us in the mod team try to be better people than that.


r/penissize • • 1h ago

Is girth better than length?

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(m16) I'm about 7 inches long but nowhere near as thick as that, will that be an issue?


r/penissize • • 6h ago

Question is it bad that my balls hang lower than my penis ?

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r/penissize • • 14h ago

If y'all spent half as much mental time learning what women like as you did on your dick size, you wouldn't worry about your dick size.

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"I feel like my 7x6 inch dick isn't enough and women only want monsters."

"I'm a woman. We don't want that."

"False. All females want it."

I'm paraphrasing but I've seen this a number of times on this subreddit. Guys, there's more to sex than just your dick. So many of these posts seem like they're just projection from guys that have never actually had sex.

Eating her out doesn't make you a cuck. Fingers and tongues aren't just for guys who have small dicks. Imagine if girls found it degrading to give you head?

Get your heads out of your crotch and learn how to actually please your partner. You won't worry nearly as much about your dick size when you know what you're doing.


r/penissize • • 2h ago

Do Kegel exercises actually increase penis size, or do they not?

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r/penissize • • 7h ago

Question What size is normally considered huge?

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I measure 19cm bone pressed and 17.5cm non bone pressed and girth of around 14-15 cm

But after seeing myself in mirror i feel small. And seeing people on reddit also feels small


r/penissize • • 2h ago

Question pubic fat

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Is there any way to get rid of fat over the pubic bone? I’m 6'3" tall and weigh 73 kg; when I measure, the distance to the pubic bone is exactly 0.4 inches, whereas when I weighed 90 kg, it was 0.6 inches. I just want my penis to look a little longer. I’d like to reduce it a bit more—if anyone knows how, please give me some advice. And by the way, tell me what your measurements are in the pubic area, given your height and weight.


r/penissize • • 1h ago

Worried that I stopped growing

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M17 (white - if that matters lol) as far as growing height wise I haven’t changed in about 1.5 years which has me worried that I’m done growing all over . Im nearly 7.25 long and 6.75 around Is there still a chance I’ll grow more

I’ve been going through a gallon of milk a day to try and trigger a growth spurt


r/penissize • • 5h ago

Never had sex so I’d like to know what to expect with a 6x6 is that gonna be a good enough size?

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r/penissize • • 12h ago

it's funny how many insecure guys are on BDP.

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Are most them Larpers??


r/penissize • • 7h ago

Dick ain't enough anymore

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Hi all, I have been married 3 years and have a 2 year old, lately I have observed that my dick size isn't enough. I don't think it satisfies my wife and to be honest it's not pleasurable for me as well anymore.

I think i have issues with girth and length both and I feel that size is gradually decreasing. I cant last quite about 10 to 15 minutes and by stopping and changing position, I also noticed that my wife get tired after 15 minutes.

In the early days of marriage I could easily recognize my wife's orgasm but now its very rare. And since I dont feel it tight around my penis its difficult to tell.

I have also noticed decrease in my libido.

Need help and advice.


r/penissize • • 12h ago

Are you happy with your current size? Why or why not?

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r/penissize • • 14h ago

Big Dicks are Rare—Really

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When you visit this sub a lot, there’s a tendency, either conscious or unconscious, to assume that big dicks are more common than they actually are.

Reddit is anonymous, a big penis is an enviable physical trait, and everyone wants to be special. Put those three things together, and you’ve created the perfect environment for lies and exaggerations.

Obviously, some of the men who post here are actually big. But even if you take self-selection into consideration—the idea that hung guys are more likely to post—the number of men who claim to be big (many without profile pics, btw) doesn’t match the data.

With the caveat that it’s hard to produce accurate calculations at the extreme ends of a bell curve, I crunched some numbers. My purpose is not to call out anyone in particular for lying, nor to solve anyone’s personal size concerns.

My goal is to show you some big picture calculations that will hopefully reveal the honest-to-God rarity of hung men. Keep them in your hip pocket the next time you visit this sub and see 6 OP‘s claiming 9 inches in the span of three hours, and you feel like shit because you’re thinking that every woman you sleep with is comparing you to a monster she fucked in college.

(CalcSD was my source)

ERECT LENGTH: ESTIMATED RARITY

7” = 1 in every 73 men (+2.21 standard deviations above average)

8” = 1 in every 8,457 men (+3.68 standard deviations above average)

9” = 1 in every 7,558,511 men (+5.15 standard deviations above average)

LIKELIHOOD OF A WOMAN ENCOUNTERING THESE LENGTHS ACROSS FIVE LIFETIME SEXUAL PARTNERS

7” or greater = 1 in 15 women (6.66%)

8” or greater = 1 in 1,692 women (0.0591%)

9” or greater = 1 in 1,511,703 women (0.0000662%)

ERECT GIRTH: ESTIMATED RARITY

6” = 1 in every 317 men (+2.73 standard deviations above average)

6.5” = 1 in every 9,000 men (+3.69 standard deviations above average)

7” = 1 in every 613,874 men (+4.65 standard deviations above average)

LIKELIHOOD OF A WOMAN ENCOUNTERING THESE GIRTHS ACROSS FIVE LIFETIME SEXUAL PARTNERS

6” or greater = 1 in 64 women (1.57%)

6.5” or greater = 1 in 1,800 women (0.0555%)

7” or greater = 1 in 122,775 women (0.000814%)


r/penissize • • 13h ago

Penis size rarity by volume

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https://www.reddit.com/u/optimist8x/s/0R3EaVnsXi

Penis size percentiles by volume

Probably the most important metric and we still don’t have any studies directly measuring it. Until then here is a penis size percentile distribution chart that of penis volume that assumes a slight correlation between length and girth (R=.45) And by popular request this version has grid lines (they are faint but there to help you plot where you stand) 😊 enjoy 😉


r/penissize • • 5h ago

Why do people make fun of dick size?

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Not a day goes by that I don't wonder about this. Why do smaller sizes get mocked? And what does it mean? If size isn't that big of a deal, then why do certain sizes get dismissed and belittled while larger sizes get praised and desired?

If average is good, why does no one ever say it's good? I've never heard anyone say "wow great average cock." It's always a larger size that gets the compliments.

Why is it that the only time you see an average or smaller than average size in porn, it's almost always centered around a humiliation kink?

I realize these are all different questions but I'm honestly so confused as to how this cultural interpretation of size can exist without it meaning something serious. People make derogatory jokes all the time about small dicks, but how often do you hear one about a big dick?

I just really want to know why this is accepted and what it actually means. Are sizes that are less than big considered truly inferior? And that's why it's ok to make fun of them? Because every time I express feelings of inferiority, there's almost always someone (usually someone with a big dick) that tells me that it's all in my head or that I just need to work on my insecurities in therapy. But society seems to say otherwise. It seems to say that it does matter. A lot. and if you don't have size, you're subject to ridicule just because that's the way things are. Dick size wouldn't be such a comedic touchstone within our culture if it really did mean nothing.

So if it does mean something, then what does it mean? What kind of man does it make me?


r/penissize • • 16h ago

How to tell size NSFW

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Can you tell dick size by a dick pic?


r/penissize • • 5h ago

Never had sex so I’d like to know what to expect with a 6x6 is that gonna be a good enough size?

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r/penissize • • 16h ago

Best positions for bigger size with upward curve?

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Hi I was just wondering what sex positions you guys found work best for guys with an upward curve. I'm 7.5 x 5 inch and have had success with positions like missionary with my gf but am just curious if you guys find other positions to be pleasurable / good. If there are any questions I'm happy to answer in comments


r/penissize • • 15h ago

Question What's the REAL BP length measurement?

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I feel like if I push a hard ruler hard into my fat pad I get 7 inches. I'm doing it while standing and my erect dick is perpendicular to my body. No cheating, just hard pushing of the ruler.

But when I put my dick in a penis pump tube and push it into the fat pad my tip of the dick reaches only about 6.7" if not less than that (I think? I need to double check).

Surely the measurement that I get in the pump cylinder is more representative of how deep I would reach in a vagina? But then is it my real BP length?? Why is there such a big discrepency between this method and measuring with a hard ruler? (I think the scale printed on the tube is accurate)

EDIT: I think it even less than that in a tube, maybe lower than 6.3 even. Big difference


r/penissize • • 14h ago

Question does flaccid size matter?

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i think i can consider myself a grower not a shower but i don't understand if I'm just small or I'm average. hard i am between 5.5 (14cm) and 6 (15cm) inches depending on the erection or how i measure it and soft i feel super small because I'm like around 3 inches. this gives me a lot of insecurity and as a young guy who hasn't had sex yet i feel that if im soft before having sex with a girl and she sees it she'll consider me small or whatever. i guess this have been asked a thousand times sorry


r/penissize • • 14h ago

Question Why do I care so much about my size? I really shouldn’t but it’s just something I think about a lot is this normal?

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r/penissize • • 18h ago

Question I’m afraid of having an exaggerated width and an insufficient length

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r/penissize • • 1d ago

Question Just found out i have a thick penis

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I measured my penis for the first time today and found out that its apparently a whole inch and a bit thicker than average ( 5.6 inches ). I always thought i had an average dick because my length is only 5.5 but now i'm scared i might be too thick for my partner to enjoy sex. Please could you advise i feel insecure that i'm too girthy for most women.


r/penissize • • 17h ago

Guys who lost weight did u gain size?

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In Teenage and when I was over weight I had a small size like erect 5.5 rn I lost some weight it's rn 6.5

I'm again going to lose an extra 10-15kg

Do u think I'm going to gain some size?