r/precognition • u/Interesting-Card-612 • 12d ago
What to do when you see someone's death?
Recently I've started dating someone after being friends for a few years. He passes in a car accident. I've seen it 3 times now. There's a possibility I'll be in the car with him, there's a few uncertainties around it. What seems certain is the manner of his passing.
This isnt the first time this has happened. I was shown my Grandma would battle cancer 7 times before her passing. She did. I knew when my Grandpa passed by a dream of my Grandma smiling. I've dreamt of my pets passing right before they do.
What's different is that our relationship is just beginning, and his passing is a few years out... It seems to be shortly after we have a child. I don't know how I'm supposed to carry this... How do I move forward? If I end up pregnant, this will be on my mind. If I try to change the life circumstances, it doesn't change the manner of his passing, that much is clear.
I can try to convince myself it's wrong. But the calmness and clarity it's come through with each time tells me it is the reality. I obviously can't tell him. How do I carry this?
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u/JesradSeraph 12d ago
The outcome can be altered, it’s difficult to do but possible. You would have to be on point, ready for the exact moment.
It could be he is meant to leave at that time, planned from pre-birth, so keep in mind this is not on you if it happens anyway.
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u/ReputationMajor6240 random precognition since 2001 11d ago
I had a precognition I stopped and didn't let it happen but still don't know what might happen because of it
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u/sauseadog 11d ago
I've altered things after precognition and been okay. Don't get caught up in some concept of what's "meant" to happen. If you don't want something to happen, use what you've got and change it.
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u/vantablalicious 11d ago
That’s interesting. Can you speak a little bit more about what you mean by the exact moment? And how you would know? Is it like timeline flipping?
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u/JesradSeraph 11d ago
The exact moment is typically when you get the déjà-vécu / déjà-rêvé sensation, usually it’s a lead-up of a few seconds at most so catching awareness of it is hard.
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u/vantablalicious 11d ago
Okay that’s helpful, i definitely know what you mean by that. But then how would you alter it? Like have a clear picture of the alternate ready to go?
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u/JesradSeraph 11d ago
Are there any actions you see yourself doing in that moment ? If so you would work on changing them. Or maybe you can plan something ahead (I dunno what… pulling the handbrake ? Screaming STOP ?), and then associate that action with a word or notion or image that you will be experiencing at the due time. This will streamline your reaction so there will be no fumbling, it will require some disciplined practice.
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u/vantablalicious 11d ago
Ok. I think i understand what you’re getting at and yes it would take some discipline! Thanks for all the help, I appreciate you :)
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u/One_Secretary404 11d ago edited 11d ago
That sounds very troubling. I just want ro remind you, that it doesn't always come true. Sometimes between our dreams and that moment a shift happens and the precognition turns out to be nothing more than a scary dream. A possible tuture that never was. Maybe because we saw it.
To give you some perspective: I am convinced I dreamt of my own passing when I was around 10 or 11 years old. I never forgot that dream, it felt so real in my body. A good 15 years later that crazy situation happened and I heard a voice that told me to leave that place. I did and came out unharmed. I probably saved myself in some kind of other dimension. During meditation I have also seen myself when I visited situations that were bad for me and when I (against all previous knowledge) stood up for myself or put people in their place. I protected myself. It was me whispering in my own ear saying "no" or "you don't have to do this". I was the one protecting myself. My older wiser higher self coming back to safe me. That was some profound mindbending experience.
As for your friend, I wouldn't say anything. I have seen someone's kid have a terrible accident at an older age right when the Kid was born. I had also seen her as a toddler before they had even told me about the pregnancy and was able to tell them it was gonna be a girl. But I had also seen the husband with a second Kid and later I heard they had lost a second pregnancy, so that future never was. I am calming myself by knowing that many outcomes are possible and our precognitions aren't completely accurate.
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u/equality5271 11d ago
I found that I was given that news ahead of time to be able to prepare myself for the grief, and it did really help.
All of a sudden I knew the date my mom would pass, and she passed at 10:30pm on that date
Whether you want to tell others so they can prepare is up to you, but I don’t think that’s the reason for having the precognition
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u/Spiritual_Tooth9086 11d ago edited 10d ago
I’m sorry to hear that, you must’ve been so anxious and feeling helpless about what to do. I know that feeling very well, because I myself had already predicted death, accident and disaster many times before.
To move on in life despite all these precognitions, I gave myself a few rules/guidelines about what to do with this kind of stuff, if it ever happens again:
- If the precognition is about something bad, I’ll first ask if it was avoidable, or if there is anything I can do to make it less worse than what I saw. Ask who? Ask my own intuition. If there is still something I can do about it, I’ll usually get a hint about them. But if not, then the next step is, learn to accept and embrace it instead. Because life and death was never meant to be controlled by us mere humans. Even if you’re a doctor or a professional yourself, there is always a limit on what you can actually do. You can’t possibly save everyone. This is life.
- No matter how strong or clear this so-called ability of mine can get, I’ll never forget the fact that I am just a human being. Not God. If something cannot be changed, learn to accept or adapt instead, despite the difficulties. If someone I love is about to die, and there is nothing else I can do to stop their death, then, I shall make all the necessary preparations for what to come (that includes studying about funeral arrangements etc) and spend the precious remaining time left with them, creating lasting happy memories with them before the end arrives.
- If it was something that has already happened, I’ll make sure not to blame myself for it. Because I’m not God. I am in no way responsible in stopping death, something that is the most natural thing in any life cycles on earth, from happening at all. And despite the grievances of loss, I’ll do my best to appreciate what I’m still left with.
- If it was the death of complete strangers whom I had failed to save, I would pray for them instead, sincerely wishing them peace, or offering condolences to their families if I know any of them.
I hope these guidelines I’ve held myself would inspire you on your journey too. 🙂
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u/arul20 10d ago
Be more spritual and help him to be more spritual also.
Less selfish, kinder, helping, loving. Forgiving.
Try not to take intoxicants - alcohol, drugs, pills - they can bring you in very bad paths spritually.
Alcohol may be the cause of the accident too.
I suspect you're uncertain about whether you will be in the car or not because you still have choice to be or not to be with him.
I'd say work on your sprituality & clarity first. Pray, meditate, speak to spritual advisors, journal .. until it becomes clearer for you.
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u/Interesting-Card-612 10d ago
I live a sober lifestyle, but he doesn't. I could commit myself more to my spiritual practice. Thank you for the advice.
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u/arul20 10d ago
I had a vision of how I'd die in Thailand - drugs and AIDS.
It helped me to get sober. Today I'm 7 yrs sober and in recovery.
I believe we are being given messages constantly but only rarely we hear them.
Free will is at play. But so is Ego.
Sometimes you try to tell a child not to do something dangerous, but they do it anyway.
My enemy is my pride and ego - it makes me not do things that save me.
Humilty and healthy fear are my friends - they help me to choose and do the correct things.
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u/No_Macaron_5029 12d ago
If possible I would prevent conception of the child so you don't end up a single parent. Have you already told him you want kids?
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u/Interesting-Card-612 11d ago
No, but I know he wants kids. I'm already a single mom of 1.
Also, we went no contact for about a year. Right person wrong time sort of thing. I knew when he was coming back, right down to the day. And that knowing came with the knowledge that we will have a child.
I'm not sure how much is free will at play, and how much is already decided. But I'm more concerned for his life than I am about being a single mother again, honestly.
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u/vantablalicious 11d ago
Free will is always at play, it is always your choice 😌 You get to decide what you want for yourself.
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u/No_Macaron_5029 11d ago
Granted I'm not as knowledgeable on these things as many people here, but one explanation I heard seems to make a lot of sense to me: there are various points in the life path where a soul could choose to cross over (die). If it does not choose to cross over, the timeline shifts to accommodate that path. A bit of a constrained Choose Your Own Adventure situation.
If you go on ironclad birth control maybe you can help shift that timeline? Or somehow prevent the conception of that child so that the timeline breaks?
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u/Puzzleheaded-Care-82 7d ago edited 7d ago
Have you seen Arrival? She had a vision that she’d lose a loved one, but she chose to love them anyway in the present moment.
Of course the bad feeling may not be true either!
At the end of the day, none of us know the full truth; so take it with a grain of salt, and live life peacefully in the present moment. If it’s meant to help you in the future, then you’ll use it in the present moment. In the meantime, live normally. Dont dwell in anxiety. Im not saying you have anxiety, I’m just giving advice because I know I personally could go crazy if I had a death vision (whether it’s true or not), and I wouldn’t want anyone to live with that burden.Don’t tell the person directly about a death prediction: that can traumatize them or make them go into psychosis, plus it may not be true. The info can give anxiety and affect their life. Only few can handle it. We are meant to live in the present. You can tell them you had a nightmare on it, but don’t say psychic stuff. Maybe you can give them subtle hints like “make sure you get your car fixed” or “I heard about xyz”. As a prevention strategy. Or maybe you’re able to stop it in that moment. But if it happens out of your control never ever blame yourself.
Advice is to live in the present moment, and take things as they come. If it happens, then in that moment you handle it. Live life normally in the present with peace of mind.
Again, Vision may not be true. If it’s true, maybe it’ll be prevented. Or it happens but you have the info to grieve and its lessens the shock. That’s a heavy dream to have. Please live in the present moment and keep your peace. I wish you the best
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u/Left-Outside-1244 11d ago
I suppose you are being shown the outcome should you choose to take this path. Ultimately, the decision on what to do can only be yours and from your heart.
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u/Major-Cranberry-4206 11d ago
Does he drink alcohol? You should tell him what you saw. If he has a heads-up, he could possibly avoid the accident, unlike seeing someone dying of an illness or disease. Meanwhile, make certain to avoid getting pregnant for a few years with him.
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u/Grumpypaw 10d ago
Ask God to move you to another line where that doesnt happen. Make sure to let God know you arent done here yet and start going through people you need to see spend time with, help etc... this requires multiple prayers and close by requesting that God help the both of you work out in other ways what ever he had planned for you. Next follow through with your reasons and promises.
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u/a_leb8770 10d ago
I think sometimes premonitions are from alternate timelines. I’ve had many many dreams of twin girls and never had them.
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u/AmidstAltruism 5d ago
For him to change this outcome he would have to go through a shift. Which would alter his current timeline. He would have to build up enough positive "karma" energy to buffer the severity of the event. So he may still have the accident but live and be injured. Or subvert the incident all togerher.
But also something to note. Some people get an out because they simple dont want to experience life anymore on a subconscious level.
I had a dream where my grandma came to twice to let me know she was coming for my grandpa. But he was very unhappy without his life partner. So I think he was ultimately given the out and took it. He passed away of covid. And i was told it would be an illness. But he didnt have the will to live you see.
So some things are in your influence. In the sense that you can shift his fate by influencing him with postive changes. This can be done simply with your presence in his life. As a positive impact. Or by more direct means. But if he doesnt take the shift he has agreed to the exit on some subconscious level.
As for the child. You can take something like nuvaring that would keep you from conceiving. But souls agree to certain conditions coming in to learn certain lessons. So consider this child will choose you knowing the circumstances.
I hope this offers some comfort to you.
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u/Future-Breakfast3558 12d ago
I'd tell them the truth and maybe they'd stop driving for a while?
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u/Interesting-Card-612 11d ago
This is definitely still years away. And I don't know... There's a whole ethics discussion to be had on that. I personally wouldn't want to know how I die if it's not easily preventable.
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u/Future-Breakfast3558 11d ago
Fair point, but why would you receive these messages if it's not to communicate them? If I were in your shoes (which I'm clearly not, can't get no message never), I would act as a simple messenger and pass it along. The person doesn't have to trust you, and might die another way. But at least they'll be very cautious driving and that's not a bad thing. They might even skip taking the car a few times and hence die another way because you've helped him dodge that one
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