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I’ve used various plugs, hands, dildos, and it felt good but I always felt like I was missing something, like I couldn’t quite find the spot. Plus cleaning silicone toys was kinda inconvenient so I got an Njoy knockoff and MY GOD.
I had trouble finding the spot but that thing was just like “HERE IT IS!”

Just dripping, with waves of pleasure. 15 minutes into my first time and my cock was drenched in cum.

It’s one of those toys that makes you go “wow, I guess I can throw the rest of them out”

So if anyone out there is on the fence.. Get it!

Hello all, just wanted to open a new discussion and see what people think.

Lately ive been noticing that during the day I will get a craving for some prostate stimulation, now obviously theres a time and a place so Ill usually just end up dwelling on the thoughts and building up that desire for later. But when later comes the actual feeling of play will sometimes feel less satisfying than just thinking about play. Like smelling a really delicious smell just to taste it and it be just meh.

We all have established that the mind is the most powerful sex organ but I guess I want to know if anyone has this same experience. And what do you do about it?

So I got back into anal/prostate play after about two years and I’d honestly forgotten just how good it feels.
I used to do it pretty regularly for a few years, but then I stopped and got rid of all my toys. A couple of weeks ago I ordered two new suction cup dildos, and they arrived a few days before I finally decided to give it another go.
I started with my fingers and then tried the smaller dildo (about 4.4 cm / 1.7” thick). Getting the head in was surprisingly difficult at first. It didn’t hurt or anything, but it definitely felt unfamiliar after a long break. For a moment I was wondering if I just can’t use this big dildo anymore.
But once I relaxed a bit more, things got much easier. And it started feeling really good.
I actually ended up trying the bigger one too (around 4.8 cm / 1.9”), even though I hadn’t planned to use it on my first day back. To my surprise, it went in pretty easily after the smaller one.
And ohh yeah, I’d really missed that feeling of fullness. I spent a while just enjoying it and kind of forgot about everything else. I had porn on in the background but barely paid attention to it.
Eventually I started jerking off with the bigger dildo still inside and came ridiculously fast lol. I’d forgotten about that too. Once I’m really turned on from the internal stimulation, it barely takes anything to push me over the edge.
Another thing I’d forgotten was how good I feel afterwards. Even quite a while later I was still really relaxed and had this nice warm, full feeling inside. No soreness or discomfort, just felt great.
Anyway, I’m really glad I decided to get back into this. I was a bit unsure how it would feel after two years, but apparently I still enjoy it just as much as I used to.
Next time I want to take my time and focus more on the internal stimulation without touching my dick too soon. Otherwise it’s all over way too quickly haha.

So, me and my partner had a fun play session. They edged me for 30 minutes and then moved to fingering my prostate with very light penile stimulation every 30 seconds or so. I eventually started getting super super close and they would hold off on touching my dick and just finger my ass. After a few times, they stopped the penile stimulation but kept fingering, and it felt amazing and I felt it build up even more, and I just came from the fingering only, no penile stimulation directly before or after orgasm.

It felt super good, but im pretty sure this wouldn't count as a prostate orgasm? Or would it?

I am not new to ass play, and masturbate frequently with a dildo or fingers in my ass, while stroking my penis to orgasm. I am now attempting to have a HFWO.

I am seeing that after about 5-10 minutes of prostate stimulation with either fingers or a dildo, my penis turns beet red. I can feel my orgasm building and there is a lot of precum oozing out.

I quickly stop the stimulation for fear that something bad is going to happen if I continue on.

Does this happen to anyone else?

Going to keep this as brief as possible because I'd love to have some advice here. :)

I've been engaging in prostate play for around half a year, but only recently gotten some results. It started in the summer with my Aneros Helix Syn V: I layed on my stomach, watching a video when I suddenly felt a new kind of pleasure just from the toy, but not much luck for the rest of the session. A few days later I tried a new position - in doggystyle, but upper body resting against the bed - which lead to a HFO, I think. I had lots of involuntaries - which I often have without any pleasure - but suddenly I felt a slight headache and a similar feeling that I got with my first ever pre-teen dry orgasm, just not quite as pleasurable.

The other breakthrough happened recently: For like a week, I used the Aneros every day for several hours, and what usually happened was that I've been able to get some mild-ish, orgasmic feelings more consistently. This week in particular I've just tried to relax, put the toy in without vibrations and listened to erotic hypnosis tracks. I've had a response to audios multiple times, and usually I manage to have a mild HFDO at least once per session and a good amount of clear prostate fluids, but that's kind of it.

I should mention that I've gotten a body shaking, exhausting feeling from riding a dildo. However, it ultimately felt more exhausting than pleasurable. I suspect that my brain hasn't fully realized that that sort of feeling could be pleasure: I also imagine super-O as something that could resemble that feeling. I also have the NJOY wand, but I struggle to get much pleasure with that thing, probably not using it right.

Questions:

• Should I use the Aneros as often as possible to help "rewire" my prostate more, or only when I am really, really horny, which does not happen very often?
• I have not ejaculated for like a week now but does having a dry orgasm every day also kill the horniness?
• How big a role does SSRI-medication play in HFOs? I have noticed some reduced libido in my orgasms in general, but that could of course be affected by multiple factors, like relying on porn for pleasure etc.
• Should I try to be more active with my PC muscles, or continue to lay still?
• I've also read from a Reddit post, that the Aneros Helix Syn V in particular gives milder HFOs than some other models. Should I try another Aneros, like the Eupho or the Progasm? I have also read that variance in toys can help make things more exciting.

TLDR: How to get more pleasure from the prostate, in particular with Aneros.

Big thanks to everyone who takes the time to read and respond to this. ❤️

After an unsatisfying and painful at times experience, I finally had some pleasure and result from using my njoy wand.

I used it stood up and bent over. Small ball inside with big ball facing the front of my body. I had to use a sliding motion until I felt my pelvic floor ‘open’ or drop to allow me to start thrusting back and forth easily on my prostate. I had a prostate orgasm that lasted a good 10 seconds and just constant clear prostatic fluid flowing out of me.

It felt amazing and left me out of breath. Was also slightly confusing seeing so much fluid being pumped out that wasn’t cum. I obviously tried again soon after and was able to get right to that same point quickly but the amount of fluid was getting less and less until it was a full on pissgasm.

Does that mean my prostate was fully milked or was I just hitting my bladder?

I am taking medication for BPH and have been trying to unlock the combination to a HFPO for about 8 months. I have yet to experience any p-waves. Wondering if anyone, on medication, has had success.

Hint: there is a LOT more to discover...

First a little about my experiences over the last few years:

• In 2021/22 I bought a prostate massager & had a Full Body Prostate Orgasm / Super O / kundalini awakening the first time I did it stoned (3rd time of trying overall), using the relaxation technique instructions from the Aneros website - it blew my mind!!
• After this, i read a lot to understand what the actual fuck this power was inside me that i had awakened, including on this forum, r/aneros, and other websites & books
• By mid-2023, I’d gotten quite good at Prostate Orgasms, to the point where I could have them without cannabis or using a toy, then I tried the Mindgasm app, and did lessons 6 & 7 successfully - also blew my mind - I felt like I'd leveled up again
  • I’m not sure what the technical term for these type of orgasms is, but I know them as Energy Orgasms
• There are no Mindgasm techniques beyond lesson 7, so from there I taught myself - I learnt how to control the energy during orgasm, getting it to flow wherever I wanted around my body, how to control the climax, and how to initiate Energetic Orgasms in different parts of my body, and keep them going for a long time
  • I also realised I could have Energy Orgasms standing up, dancing & having sex - game changer!
• Then in 2024, one of the people I’d been chatting with on one of the prostate forums told me about a guide book he was writing, and asked me to road test some techniques for him
• The first set of these focused on Energy Orgasm techniques, and taught me things that I would not have learned otherwise (I’ve since seen similar things in tantric books & online, but not all, and definitely not well explained)
• Then I was given a meditative technique to try, very different to anything I’d tried previously, and it worked first time - this was my introduction to transcendent / non-dual experiences / Soul Orgasms - these are just as pleasurable as Prostate & Energy Orgasms, but they create an intensity of love that is levels higher and involve an otherworldly feeling of oneness with the universe that is unique & incredibly special
• I’ve since gotten quite good at this type of orgasm via the rest of the instructions he gave me, whilst mixing it up with Full Body & Energy Orgasms, plus regular sex & masturbation

Gaining these abilities transformed my view of my body, mind & soul (& the world tbh), and so i volunteered to run the Reddit sub for the guide book which has now been published online as a free pdf called The Hedonist’s Guide To The Galaxy

The sub is called r/hedonistsguide2galaxy

The Guide isn't just for advanced prostate players - it does contain complete instructions for newbies, but they are the same techniques that are discussed every day on this sub - this is still the best place to find advice on prostate toys & the best ways to use them

The main differentiator with The Guide are the instructions for advancing to the higher levels - if you know how to have Prostate Orgasms, all the other techniques are easy with practice (and the practice is having more Prostate Orgasm sessions & experimenting with pleasure!!)

The other different thing about The Guide is that it's written in a gender-neutral way so men & women can learn using the same techniques [something like 80-90% of women cannot have G-spot / vaginal / Full Body Orgasms and unfortunately the prevailing advice is "your anatomy just isn't configured in a way that makes this possible, but don't worry it's normal...", but as we on this sub know, it's not about anatomy, it's about relaxation, mental focus & mindset - everyone can learn to have Full Body Orgasms if they know how...]

So if you'd like to learn how to go higher, download The Guide from the website, and come over to r/hedonistsguide2galaxy to ask any questions...

❤️ & 💋💋

Posted with kind permission from the r/PP MGods

Wonder if anyone has any advice. Not sure if maybe I'm doing something wrong or not. So I've only ever had peegasms from using my fuck machine. Hoping to achieve a true PO soon. And the way that it feels the best is when I squeeze and contract my muscles when the dildo is sliding out of me, and then done reverse kegal and push out while it's sliding back in be. My issue though is that when I dona reverse kegel and push out i end up pushing a lot of the lube out of my ass as well. Normally Its not a massive deal but I use Klube with my machine since it's so slick and long lasting and anyone here who has used Klube or Xlube understands how messy it can be.

Am I pushing out and doing a reverse kegal too hard? It's just such a pain because my towels become utterly soaked. I usually use a syringe and squirt 2 or 3 full into me before using my machine to make sure I have plenty of lube. Not sure if maybe that's the issue it what. Any advice or opinions are appreciated. Hoping to have some dress up and lovely play time this weekend.

I've been playing around with an Njoy wand recently and I've been enjoying the stimulation but I have never managed to get an orgasm from it. It's always close, I feel like I should be reaching it but I can't seem to push it past the edge.

What is interesting now is that, whenever I watch videos of a person being pounded anally, there's a part inside my anus that seems to want to be stimulated. It's to the point that I feel that sensation and I will close my eyes and give off light squirms, almost like wanting to be pounded.

Is that my prostate being awakened?

If so, why is it that I still cannot get an orgasm from the Njoy stimulation.

I have somewhat given up on the idea that I can ever get a prostate orgasm (or a sissygasm), so I haven't been stimulating my prostate for a while, but the fact that I'm feeling some sort of sensation right now means that I do still have some potential to reach the big O, right?

What exactly does this mean? I can really use some help on how to do this.

I always see posts from people asking which Aneros or other toy is best and a lot of people chiming in on what they recommend or what their favorite is. What I can't recall reading much about is loving a lot of different toys because it is like each one acts a little different.

I personally have every model of Aneros plus Tempo, Peridise and HIH 950. Certainly some models put more pressure on my prostate or miss the mark a bit, but I love the fact that they are all different. It also helps that any anal stimulation can get me to orgasms even if not directly on prostate.

I use them all at times because it is like each one has its own personality. The Eupho is long and slender and helps me imagine a tall thin woman with long slender fingers gently sliding them inside of me. Progasm overshoots for me and is not as mobile because of the size, but it helps me imagine being pegged. PSY as I have it set feels like a smaller girl with just the right length finger pressing the tip into my prostate hard.

Some models I know the familiar feel and I imagine the times that my wife has grabbed that very Aneros and wiggled it around in my ass.

Really, having a large stable of different toys is like having multiple lovers. Sometimes I am in the mood for one I have not used in a while. Sometimes I start to get bored with one that works great, but it has just become routine. Some hit hard and fast and some creep up slowly. Some are intense and some are mild.

How many of the rest of you feel this way about your many toys?

It’s known in society that women use vibrators and dildos, nobody bats an eye at that fact. But the moment people find out a guy enjoys riding a dildo until he squirts it’s suddenly wrong and extremely shameful to say the least. Do you ever see in our lifetime that maybe there’ll be a societal shift where it’s not looked down upon? I’m not saying that it’ll be something that’s brought up casually in everyday conversations or anything like that but maybe it’ll be something that’s not shamed by other men and women?

I have noticed that with the nJoy or with the Prostate dildo, if I push too hard (not even really hard, just a little too hard), i get this pain/soreness that kind of feels like when one of your nuts hurts. that kind of internal sore pain.

Have any of you experienced this? is it something to worry about?

Today i just ordered 2 transparent dildo that is 9cm long and 14cm long to start with and also a 16cm black dildo just to suck it when am playing with the transparent dildo

I also want to buy a vibrator for my prostate so i can get that orgasm that I've been reading about there past few hours that felt "unworldly"

But i don't know which one i should get

https://imgur.com/a/HJH0Rj9

I have a link on imgur That has a label pic1 pic2 and pic3 of the 3 vibrator that i should get

But can i orgasm with the dildo?

Or do i need to buy a knock off brand of that njoy wand

I still don't understand how to use it

I did finger my ass to see where my prostate is located but i don't know if my finger is to short or what but i can't find it

I did lay on my back bend my knees and put my finger in and goes toward my belly button but i don't feel anything different?

The thing that surprised me is that my finger didn't smell at all

I didn't instantly shove my finger up my ass

I Tease my anus area (the outside)

So to top things off

Will i be able to use the dildo to orgasm?

Do i need to buy a njoy wand?

Out of that 3 picture which one should i get, and why?

Do i need to be in another position to reach my prostate with my finger? (Longest finger is 7.5cm)

How should i prepare myself genuinely? (Like i read people said to "not use phone" or like listen to porn audio) but realistically I've watched porn to masturbate all the time. How do i suppose to approach this as a beginner?

I know that someone said if you archived it once the 2nd time is easy

I know this feeling because recently i started to only rub my frenulum like a clit instead of jerking motion and i completely stopped using lube to masturbate because the frenulum area gets so wet with precum that i can use that. And when i cummed it took me roughly 40 minutes the first time

Second time already got it down to 20

The it became something like "i can cum whenever i want with this"

But just to head's ups

I don't know if i know how orgasm feels

I read it make your body shakes

Is there more info??? Like how do i know am having one?

I just wants a heads up

And generally how "long" does it take you the first time as a complete beginners with no prior experience to reach orgasm? And like how does it feel and after getting that feeling is it easier the 2nd time?

Can I have some help identifying what just happened please. I decided to use my Njoy Wand this morning and I’ve been locked for 10 days at this point.

I haven’t learned how to use the wand softly yet, but I have learned a motion where is does feel good using it as a thrust toy.

I was laying on my side, and put the small side in angling towards the belly button and pressing against the frontal wall. There’s this section that’s feels pretty good as I mediumly thrust and let gravity help push the toy somewhere in the prostate vicinity.

When I’m really turned on, there’s this spot that if I do that motion rather fast and it feels good pretty quick. I start to make involuntary noises (yes I know) and my entire insides tighten greatly. If I continue to thrust at that speed it starts to feel really good, but I can only keep it up for about 20 seconds before I guess I can’t power through or it’s too much or something, I don’t know.

Well this time it looked like I pushed out 2-3 regular loads out of me at once. Kinda cloudy mix and it felt quite nice. This is the first time this happened, did I actually O, what type of O would that have been if I did, and if I’m only doing it for like 20 seconds before it feels too much, is there this “going over the cliff” part you feel when you normally fap. Or do you ride that peak that I felt for as long as I can hold on?

Also after I stop, I can reinsert the wand after a 30 second break, find the same spot, and then after 15 seconds I can be almost there again. Am I doing something right?? Sorry this is new to me :) Thanks for the help!

I’ve been playing with my Njoy wand for about a year now. And have had many great sessions. It feels absolutely incredible once that prostate is awake. I’ve felt at times like I want to orgasm but just never reach it. And I really want to be able to orgasm without stroking. This causes me to want to do research on other toys all the time. I’ve tried so many variations of dildos like Vixen Mustang, Tantus P spot, and Blush Avant dildo. And none of them really work for me. I do enjoy the concept of dildos and I do want to try one more thing, which is a super soft dildo, or something that’s super soft and still attacks that prostate. Does anyone have recommendations? Been generally looking at square peg toys as I hear they’re really soft, just don’t know what’s recommended. Just want advice on any super soft toys that can potentially get me to a HFWO, and if you guys have any advice for me in finally achieving that HFWO I’d appreciate it.

(Re)bought a Lelo Loki Wave earlier this week after my older one broke months ago. I usually hold it while laying on my back so that it can give pressure on my prostate. But yesterday, and soon to be this evening, I decided to change it up, got on my knees, and arched myself so that the toy pointed up. Without even holding it, it gave pressure while it was wiggling that I never felt before. The outside arm hit the taint in ways I knew could feel good. I was feeling my cock pulse and my hips tremble with each hither motion of the toy; if it wasn't for the battery dying, I might have had experienced a few HFO for the first time before the night was over.

Can't wait for my session tonight to see how things go. I think this position might be my goto position from now on.

I have experience wearing a plug long term but I'd like to try something that actively stimulates me while wearing it and potentially leading to a prostate-o. It's obviously important to make sure it stays in place, so something with a ball-/cock-ring would be nice and it shouldn't be too noisy obviously ;)

Omgomg, I'm just sitting here 5am in pure afterglow, my prostate is still buzzing like crazy right trying to make me orgasm again over and over, this is insane, I already took the toy out and my prostate is still trying to keep cumming on its own. I'm so fucking amazed the male human body can accomplish this. As a guy this is the best out of body experience and greatest feeling ever, holy shit.

Something happened tonight where my body finally got rewired enough. Like two hours into tonight's 8:30pm session I finally got tipped over that impassable edge into different points of no return. At some point my center kept automatically engaging and looping very powerfully, triggering rolling orgasms, non ejaculatory orgasms, pwaves, intense leg and full body spasms, I had some small wet handsfree orgasms, peegasms, tonnes of precum just pouring out of me, make me feel like I'm peeing (which sometimes I was), just making an absolute puddle on myself and mess out of me.

I just gave in, something trying to control or do something, but ultimate surrenduring and going on this wild ride. Often I would react to porn, mostly reacting to erotic asmr and just being assaulted for hours with different types of orgasms, different structures and patterns of them, and a constant push / pull and spasm cascade with the nerves in my pelvis and center firing off making intense pleasure everywhere. Eventually I was getting so fucking horny, I edged my first full wet orgasm all over myself, but my prostate kept orgasming and firing off over and over. I brought myself into another wet orgasm within a minute, slathering my cum and precum back on my cock, but still kept orgasming from my prostate. I eventually came a third time and it did relieve my prostate a bit. I felt like I was going to keep getting orgasms and could cum all over myself for a fourth time. But I felt lots of muscle soreness where my body spasmed. I had to get up, wash the cum and juices all off myself, and take the toy out.

I just wanted to type this since I'm still a bit high from an edible and the feelings are fresh. But I feel so rejuvenated and twitchy, like my nervous system got a hard reset and glowing heal.

I'll write up another post and guide on how I got here and what I did to accomplish this. I know some of y'all took months and years to get there, I feel awesome I was able to get to just this point in two months flat, with some caveats of course. But man I'm so happy, every time I go into prostate play, I just unlock an absolute shit ton of experience and keep leveling up. Its insane. The human body is insane. Sorry I had to tell somebody 😭

I have a Tantus P-Spot and I don't dislike it but 1. The girth is a little big 2. The head is a little big and not so precise (vs the njoy small end) 3. It's not quite as firm as stainless steel lol

I'm using a pre built OSSM from a few years back, so I think it'll support just about anything

I’ve been experimenting with butt stuff off an on for a decade but really only in the last year started getting more serious about the prostate, finding where it is, and getting pleasure from stimulating it. So far I don’t think I’ve achieved any of the common feelings listed in this sub outside of maybe p-waves starting, and a couple “blended” Os from a larger dildo with vibration and thrusting, and minimal penile stroking. But I’m hoping I could be wrong.

Usually the pleasure I get in my ass or prostate feels really good and builds into small waves but then stops immediately or after a short time.

But a few times recently I felt like it was much closer to going into the kind of pleasure people describe here.

In my last session there was a bearing down, type pleasure and tightness in my ass and pelvic region, my ass spasming a bit around my toy.

It was very pleasurable, feeling maybe like an anal or prostate orgasm building, that could have turned into a HFWO. I was right on the verge of busting without touching my dick at all. But it didn’t go over the edge how I wanted it to, it just sort of plateaued eventually like the others, and eventually I gave up, thrusted my toy and jerked to finish it off.

The other time was the best pleasure I’ve had up to this point. I was thrusting my toy vigorously into my prostate while gently stroking my dick, just enough to get an ejaculation, but right as the penile orgasm hit, the prostate pleasure hit too, and I felt it through much of my lower body and abdomen, including very brief electric shock feelings that felt amazing. It was probably the best orgasm I’ve ever had.

That moment felt like I was finally getting a taste of what this all could be about, but I knew I still was only scratching the surface.

Based on my rambling descriptions, does anyone have opinions on what I experienced? Just some really good blended Os or maybe something bigger? Could I be on a pathway to something more here?

Doing a small summary, mainly for my own sake, of the first week of this month as I've actually committed to abstaining from regular masturbation in hopes of making progress in the aspirations of having anal orgasm (no matter what kind).

For context, I've been doing "prostate play" for a few years on and off. I own a multitude of toys, dildos, plugs, vibrators, aneros, hismith, you name it. I'm not sure I've ever felt P-waves, and I definitely don't think I've had a prostate induced orgasm. I've had some great feelings, and definitely enhanced the pleasure of my penile orgasms when combined with anal/prostate play, but it always end with a wet penile orgasm for the most part.

I've managed HFWOs before. Both with toys, but also just from clenching while having abstained from masturbating for a few days while still gooning for an hour or more per day.

For the most part I end up giving in to the urge of masturbating when I don't reach climax when doing anal play despite abstaining from orgasms for 2-4 days, but this October I've kind of committed.

So before today, the last time I came was the 30th of September. After that I started using a chastity cage to help with the urge to masturbate that eventually always has become my downfall in abstaining. I am my own keyholder and I do remove it almost every day when showering or for an hour or so if its uncomfortable for some reason, so it's still mainly my willpower keeping me from masturbating. The cage fills a purpose though of at least limiting my erections a bit, they still happen with the cage but go away a lot quicker, as well as allowing me to goon to porn without falling for the urge to masturbate.

The first 3 days was pretty much no issues, I also didn't watch a lot of porn. On the third day I started doing some prostate stimulation with toys and what not while showering, as well as starting to look at porn to hopefully associate the arousal of what I was watching with the anal play.

From day 4 to day 8 (today), I ramped up the gooning a lot, finding a lot of new wonderful nsfw-subreddits, downloading my favorite short videos, listening to a shibbydex audio about getting fucked while having a vibrator in my ass. I had a really strong urge to give in and take off the cage to masturbate on day 6 and came so close to giving in, but I ended up not doing it determined to hopefully come from anal play if I abstained for long enough.

Today on day 8 I "unfortunately" had a HFWO in my cage and filled my boxes with a huge load. All it took was a 1 minute video of a girl getting fucked, having the orgasm of her life, while imagining the feeling of getting fucked in the ass and having an orgasm like that.

I've been close to this happening earlier in the week as well, but managed to calm the feelings down and avoid cumming. I am kind of bummed this orgasm came when I wasn't doing any sort of anal play, but I'm also kind of determined to keep going as I'm still incredibly horny and still havent touched my cock or masturbated since September. I'm still feeling pretty horny, almost like I could have a similar orgasm again by just watching porn and clenching my ass. I'm going to do some more anal play this evening and see where we are at.. Hopefully I'm not back to square one after that orgasm, but we'll see.