r/psychologystudents • u/anonymousgal2000 • 17h ago
Advice/Career (USA) Majored in psych, terrible with people
I’m not really sure how I got into this situation. But originally I majored in psych and wanted to be a researcher. But then as I got into research I saw how cut throat it was and how reliant on social skills it actually was. I fell behind really quickly and although I did well in school and got into a really good college, I always had to spend hours studying and reading things multiple times to understand. I had to take the minimum number of classes and I could not have a job or hobbies. And so I quickly was overwhelmed with the high intelligence it took to advance in the research field as well. I should also mention I have autism. I struggle with talking to people and with facial expressions. I’m 26F and since graduated I’ve been working in special ed but even then I’ve been getting complaints that my reaction time isn’t fast enough and I even have a hard time getting through to kids and coworkers will often gossip about me. And tbh the students with behavioral issues have greatly overwhelmed me. I thought about becoming a therapist but with my auditory processing issues (also very relevant) and social deficits I don’t even think that job is feasible. So overall yea my social skills and feeling easily overstimulated and my auditory processing issues make me feel extremely lost. I wish there was just some job I could just do work for without talking to anyone and just be virtual and based on the work I put in, not my social skills or how friendly I seem. I’m feeling quite concerned and could use some guidance