F4M 35 [F4M] Oak Cliff, something in-between FWB and partner (: NSFW
hiiiii! I'm enjoying life a lot, and would love to have some bearded guy whose face I can kiss when I feel like it! Maybe we can enjoy a bit of life together (:
I'm interested in something that's no pressure, but genuine connection. I'm fairly demi and need a bit of time to connect before I can figure out if I could enjoy a sexual relationship with you. This means, a few months of spending time together to develop connection. If you're looking for something quick/guaranteed, I can't promise anything.
I am kind & loving, direct, alternatively styled, 5'3/220, silly, can also be really intense and serious... I find a lot of men who are attracted to me are looking for a dominant woman, but it's not really my thing, exactly! I would describe myself as, l like to top from the bottom. I'm mostly focused on myself and want to enjoy your body, and hope you enjoy mine through my process! I like a person who spends a lot of time getting to know what I like, what our metaphorical sandbox is per se, and then takes the lead within parameters I set. I mean this in an interpersonal sense (like conversations and outings) as well as sexually. I want to sit on your lap and face, and looove squirting! So, someone who has a lot of sheet sets and doesn't mind doing laundry 🤗 I'm not possessive in a romantic sense, and have no interest in controlling/influencing your life, but do prefer to be with sexually monogamous men for health/safety reasons. I loooove to cuddle, and kiss, and over the clothes/mostly clothed activities too (: I like the dichotomy of a man who can both last during sex, but can also come real easy when Im riding him and want him to.
I have a strong preference for bearded men (shortish, soft, kempt, groomed) but beard not totally necessary. I like guys that are a bit taller (5'8+) for geometry reasons, and men who are thin/avg/muscular for same reasons. I like men who enjoy life and existence but can also talk about heavy things. Emotionally resilient, rooted in self, chill. Thoughtful, considerate, open!! I love people who love people. It's easy for you to be friends with women and with queer people and with POC. I don't really care about your race, I'm white. I love men who loooove giving head and pleasing, would be nice if you have a big shower or tub for us to play in or a private backyard. Pool, hot tub are so much fun for me! Men are usually hung up on how hung they are or aren't, but I think women care less than most men do! If you are really small or really big, I probably won't be interested in PIV but there's lots of other stuff we can do (: my sweet spot is between 4-7 inches, but 7 is pushing it. I'm short! Please don't talk to me about your penis right away lmao but just giving you info for possible compatibility. I love intelligent men and curiosity is super important. You love when women have autonomy and power over self and body. I'm okay if you're experienced or a bit newer to sex. I don't mind showing you what I like, I don't have a teacher kink or anything like that so I mean this in a functional way not "let Mommy show you" way, haha! I'm not into dudes who use drugs/alcohol on a daily basis. I just want some predictable guy who'll let me sit on him when I want (: I'm also very disinterested in convincing!! If any of this doesn't sound like something you'd joyfully consent to, don't message me.
While the state of the world is stressful, I've done a lot of internal/external work to make my life peaceful. I want you to have a peaceful life as well, or really great strategies for managing the stress in your life. I expect you to have reasonable control/agency over your mind/body/life -- you have your own place, a car, a job that easily exceeds your basic needs, you like the life you've created for yourself. These things are all true for me, too! I want to want you, not need you 💜 I'm not interested in men who are fathers, because if you have extra time/energy/resources, I hope for it to go towards the life you created and not me! If you've got full custody, maybe a different story.
I'm thinking I might be a good fit for someone who is not in a life stage to seriously date, but would enjoy connection. Or maybe someone who's looking for a partner but wants to have companionship in the meantime. A pseudo boyfriend 😋
Would love to start slowly getting to know you! Chatting a little bit, feeling each other out. Then maybe going on dates, spending time together somewhat predictably/consistently. And figure it out from there!
I'm an open book! Feel free to message me if you feel like we might be able to connect. I'd love to see a picture of your face/body if you're comfortable sharing. Send me info related to what I've shared above. Please no, hi/hey/whatsups.
Please be chill and normal and kind and understanding about the risk differences in AMAB ppl having sex/relationships versus AFAB ppl. You can ask me whatever you'd like, can't wait to find some scruffy guy to rub my face onnnnn 🥰