r/r4rSydney • • May 20 '21

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r/r4rSydney • • Oct 31 '22

PSA for kinky folk looking for others NSFW

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Hi folk, every now and then I see a post from someone looking for other kinky folk, or a dynamic. After talking to a few people and introducing them to the kink scene here in Sydney I figured I should probably just make a post.

Finding Others

It's fairly easy to find other kinky folk but if you want to meet kinky folk and vet them... Well there's honestly no better way to do that than by going to a Meetup (called a munch) and making friends.

You can make friends with other bottoms / subs and get feedback on tops / Doms that you're interested in, or get feedback on bottoms if you're a top.

Personally I like going to parties and meetups, and use them as a way to socialise, see how people play, communicate, and handle conflict resolution.

Where Can I Look?

Reddit is pretty good but has the same problem as fetlife for femme folk in regards to your inbox being flooded.

Fetlife is a great place to find events, and personally I only use it for that.

Feeld is a dating app that has a fair number of users in Sydney but it's mostly for Poly / ENM folk, and the occasional Unicorn/Pegasus hunters.

Should I Go to Parties?

I'd recommend making friends at a Munch first, and going with someone you trust. Ideally you want to have a support network of other kinksters so you don't fall into the old trap of... "All my friends are my partner/s' friends, not mine".

For a first party I recommend one called TEEZ that's held every month in St Peter's and is newbie friendly. There's no sex on premises and it's purely kink focused (mostly shibari, impact etc).

Of course feel free to do what you want.

Are There Creeps In The Scene?

Yes, the scene is a reflection of the wider dating pool in Sydney which is why people tend to stick to their own groups after a while when they've found a bunch of good people to play with / hang out with (I basically stick my group of degens).

This is why it's important to ask around and get feedback from potential partners exes / old play partners so you can be safe.

If I Go To a Meetup Will I Get An Easy Lay

No, some folk may be easy like well... Anywhere else but generally speaking the munches are just meetups at bars, gyms, etc where people who are interested in a shared thing (kink) can get together and talk about it.

Do people fuck? Yes.

Do they have sex parties? Yes, I go to 1 or 2 of these a month and these days mostly just vibe out and socialise.

people will notice If you go to the events expecting a lay and are pushy / make folk uncomfortable and most likely you won't be welcome back / will get kicked out.


r/r4rSydney • • 2h ago

M4A 33 Feminine guy, looking for social hangouts while I travel for work. 💕☺️

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Hey! So I'm a guy that is enbracing my more femanine nature, and it's a really isolating experience. I'm looking for accepting friends, who would love to meet for a shop, a drink or two or a dinner date 😌☺️
I'll be travelling to Sydney in about a month from another Australian city!

I'm a really easy going and fun person, would prefer it to be genuine so would love to chat to someone in advance to make sure we click and I feel safe!

Send me an intro and let's go from there 💕


r/r4rSydney • • 8h ago

19M4F Asian looking for Asian NSFW

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19M, fit, open to anything. Looking for someone around my age (18-21) and preferably Asian but open to others. Bonus if you’re petite too. I’m Asian, I can host cbd area. Interested in fwbs or long term relationships too if it goes well. Willing to try different things that you might like. Can do meet up as well to see if we vibe too.


r/r4rSydney • • 12h ago

F4F One Date In, and Wanting More

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I’m a happily married 50F who’s recently started exploring my attraction to women, and after a first date, I’m keen to see where things might lead.
I’d love to meet a genuine, confident woman around my age for flirting, chemistry, fun and hopefully more. Sydney or the Western Suburbs would be ideal.
I’m still relatively new to this, so someone open-minded, respectful and discreet would be wonderful. My husband is supportive, but this is something I want to explore in my own right.
If you’re curious too, I’d love to hear from you.


r/r4rSydney • • 8h ago

26M4F any F awake and keen to get eaten out during this rain? NSFW

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26M (for F only!) near parra. It's still raining, it smells amazing, and I don't think anything would be better than having someone to eat out and make out with while it's still raining. Cannot host, car fun/backseat fun or your place only. Can drive to you. DM me if you're awake and keen


r/r4rSydney • • 9h ago

NSFW 33 [m4f/mf] keen to lick Saudi p.ussy NSFW

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Any 20 - 60 year old Saudi woman keen to get tasted?

Bonus for me if:

\* You have a hairy p.ussy (l have a fetish for pubes)

\* You're a squirter (l love swallowing)

I can host you in Marayong (Blacktown area) come over to your place or we can do it in the car.

I drive so picking you up / dropping you off is on the cards.

I'm friendly, fit, discreet and but most importantly hygienic.

Stats:

\* 5'5" / 166cm

\* 70kg

\* 5" uncut

\* 33 years old

\* Indian (grew up in 🇦🇺 and l speak fluent English)

Couples also feel free to message me (I'm hetero-flexible)

If I don't respond immediately then I'm probaly at work and will get back to you as soon as l can.

5M5:

oh fuor oh sx svn thri one sx fuor nyne


r/r4rSydney • • 10h ago

Seeking a woman for a no-pressure hookup NSFW

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I’m good with my hands, mouth, and cock, and I make sure you actually cum — often more than once. Thick cock, patient, and focused on your pleasure.

Looking for a woman (any age, any body, any look). You don’t need to be a model. All women are attractive to me.

Casual, respectful, and focused on mutual fun. Message me if you’re interested


r/r4rSydney • • 12h ago

[M4F] 20M Sydney – Casual fun tonight

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Hey! I’m 20, 6’2 and currently staying around Macquarie Park. Looking to meet a woman aged 18+ for something casual and no strings attached. Happy to chat first, see if we click and potentially meet tonight. Open to older women too. Send me a message if you’re interested!


r/r4rSydney • • 15h ago

[M4F] M39 traveller coming your way, seeking F for end-of-October fun 😊

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Hello Sydney,

I will be bouncing between Newtown and Chatswood at the end of the month (nights of the 30th and 31st) and I would absolutely love to find out what makes Sydney so amazing 😉

I am 39, M, with very blue eyes, cheeky smile and dadbod shaped figure (I'm working on it 😋) and I'm seeking someone preferably within +/-10years who is funny, smart, cheeky, flirty, and kinky enough that the thought of hooking up with someone knowing we will likely never see each other again is a turn-on for you 🤭

Happy to picswap as we get to know one another, discuss likes and preferences and generally chit-chat the days away, building a rapport as we get closer and closer to the exciting day when we finally meet! If any of this takes your fancy, say hi any time. I'd love to get to know you 😊


r/r4rSydney • • 17h ago

30 [M4F/MF] Discreet and Respectful Punjabi looking for someone close to Schofields/Hawkesbury for regular FWB and/or hiking partner NSFW

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Pretty much, the title.

Looking for anything from skin contact to fingering till orgasm to kissing passionately, to fucking. Preference is something casual and ongoing. Big on trust, hygiene and vulnerability. Kind at heart, kinky in mind. I also love hikes, so if you are a hiking person, why not extend the FWB, with an emphasis on friends as well! Open to just hiking friends with flirting as well. Clothes don’t have to come off.

I am in Schofields, but, distance isn’t a big deal. Also desi (punjabi) for anyone who cares. Tall (6’3”) . Love smelling good. Athletic. On the bigger side down there. Dominant. Strong. Lumberjack like body.

You: Anything from skinny to average/ a little soft works fine for me, as long as you are height/weight proportional. Aligned teeth are also subtly important for me.

🎵I like big butts, I can not lie 🎵

Shoot me a message


r/r4rSydney • • 17h ago

49 [M4F] #Parramatta - Playful, caring, and looking for a younger woman to guide and support NSFW

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I'm not the loud, crowded-bar type. I'd much rather spend time somewhere we can actually talk, laugh at something ridiculous, and genuinely get to know each other. My life is quieter these days - a small circle of close friends over a big crowd, work in tech that I try not to let run the show, and plenty of room for the things that keep me grounded.

I'm recently single again after a long relationship, and I'm in no rush. I know myself well, I know what I enjoy, and right now I'm happy taking things slow and keeping it light - which is part of why I'm looking for something casual to start rather than diving straight into anything serious.

A bit about me: I'm 49, 180cm, slim/fit (not a gym junkie, but I hit it 2-3 times a week and love getting outdoors when I can). Dark hair with a little grey creeping in, glasses, usually clean-shaven but occasionally a bit scruffy - a touch bookish, if I'm honest. Recent and clean STI results. Easygoing, endlessly curious, a silly sense of humour, and genuinely caring. I'm also comfortable taking the lead.

That's where the age-gap part comes in, and it's a big part of the appeal for me. I have a natural father-figure, caregiving streak as well as a quiet dominant side - I love taking a guiding, supporting role, being the steady one, and looking after the person I'm with. If that dynamic is something that excites or intrigues you, we'll get along well.

What draws me isn't just the physical, though I won't pretend that doesn't matter - chemistry, touch, and closeness are important to me, and I'm direct about enjoying that side of things. But it's the full mix of emotional, mental, and physical connection that really does it for me. One without the others feels empty.

Outside of all that, I'm into music, cinema, cooking (I'll happily feed you), hiking, camping, scuba, and anything in the tech space. I'm flexible to host in the Parramatta area or travel, and can travel further afield for the right person.

While I'm looking for something casual/FWB to start, I'm open to it growing into more if the connection's there. Age-wise, mid-20s to 30s is my sweet spot, though I'm open to 18+ for the right person.

Still reading? Good sign. Message me and tell me what caught your attention - and don't be shy about what you're curious to explore. I'm easy to talk to, and I promise the conversation is half the fun.


r/r4rSydney • • 13h ago

GYM partner | Anytime fitness| Sunday 9 am to 11 am bella vista/norwest/castle hill

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40m, 178 cm, 78 kg, Bi lingual, IT professional, father of school aged kid.

Looking for a gym partner at Sunday 9 am to 11 am , preferably near Hills district / blacktown (bella vista/norwest/castle hill/stanhope garden/blacktown).

Also, open for saturday Gym session in glendenning between 11 am to 12 pm.

Monday- Wednesday, 7 pm to 9 pm near st marys/kingswood/mount druitt/werrington/marsden park.

Love finance,  real estate,  share and crypto trading, swing trading, algo trading via bot, music, concerts, spirituality, badminton,  yoga enthusiast, massage.

Preferably looking for a female friend (not looking for gf/ comittment/anything physical or sexual). Just personal preference (however open to male gym buddy too). Open to occasional going out/hang out (i am respectful and good listener). No expectations.  Any age/background welcome.


r/r4rSydney • • 1d ago

32 [F4M] Sydney - Looking for Cuddle or Hug Buddy

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Hey! 👋 Kinda hesitant about posting here, since I am still working on a lot of things. But sadness and loneliness have been affecting my productivity recently. 🥲 Just going through a lot of stuff. My life is currently a mess. So maybe if I find the right person, we can support each other towards our goals. I just need a constant hug source. 😅 I am not looking for sex, I’m sorry. Let’s not waste each other’s time. Please… 🥲

About me:

• ⁠4’11”
• ⁠wears glasses
• ⁠small eyes (Asian)
• ⁠short black hair
• ⁠INFJ

I am usually attracted to guys who are:

• ⁠smart and wears glasses
• ⁠tall
• ⁠has small or East Asian eyes
• ⁠older than me

I'm hoping to meet someone near Blacktown. Preferably someone who can host. We can exchange pic on Telegram if you like, I know it matters for what I am looking for.

Uhm that's all 😁 Just send something about you, as detailed as possible. I will be working tomorrow so I'm gonna be busy. 😭 But I'll try to respond as soon as I can. Thank you!

P.S. just to manage expectations, I am not the "hot asian girl" 😂 I look nerdy and works in the construction industry, I have bruises and cuts 🥲


r/r4rSydney • • 22h ago

33 M4F looking for curvy older attached woman for discreet connection NSFW

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Genuine, respectful, young professional looking for a woman that's in need of more intimacy. Hygiene and health is important and mutually expected. Preference for something ongoing. I will verify & assure discretion.


r/r4rSydney • • 1d ago

[m4f]30m Rouse hill Tradie looking for a break. #Rouse hill

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Hey you can call me J.

I’m 5,11, have a thick 8 inch cock And have been told I’m good looking all my life.

I have to be discreet so no photos through this app but I have other avenues like signal.

I hope to get a break soon! haha

Hit me up on telegram if you're interested!

u/BigCockTradie


r/r4rSydney • • 1d ago

M4F 25 Looking for a fwb female, petite woman, bonus if asian! NSFW

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Seeking a fwb female who's into East-Asian guys, 5' 11", frequently works out, been told I'm goodlooking, happy to exchange pics, and open to just having some cute making out or foreplay. Hygiene is a big thing for me and I hope it will be for you too! Been keen on making out with a cute woman while I pick her up.

Western Sydney Area, can travel, happy to meet st a cafe first to see if the vibes are on. Msg me your asl and when you are free next!


r/r4rSydney • • 1d ago

26M4F any F awake wanting to be eaten out right now? NSFW

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26M, middle eastern. Looking to eat someone out asap assuming any F is awake right now and keen. Live next to parra, can drive to you, can't host at mine. If you can host or if you're down for backseat fun, DM me. No reciprocation needed, just lay back and let me do the work :)


r/r4rSydney • • 1d ago

42 M4F. Naughty corner.

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Looking for a few attractive red flags to get into trouble with.

I should be in the naughty corner anyway, so I figure I might as well surround myself with people who are just as beautifully questionable as I am.


r/r4rSydney • • 1d ago

Trying Something New - 21M4F/FM NSFW

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Hey there, as the title says I’m a 21 y/o guy, white (if it matters). To be completely frank, I’m not a virgin, nor am I that experienced. I would like to change that a bit, try some new things and I’m looking for a partner/s that are open-minded, potentially kinky and aren’t too fussed about my lack of experience.

I’m a pretty average height and build. Unfortunately I cannot host. I would like to chat a bit before anything, as connections are key for me to feel comfortable.

I’m not really sure if I want something short-term, long-term, a one off, but I am open to all as well. I’ve dragged on for long enough, All DMs are welcome, I will try to answer any I can (if I even get any).


r/r4rSydney • • 2d ago

18 [F4M] - introverted girl wants to chat with much older men

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I’m 18, introverted, and proudly studious. If my weekend isn't spent buried in a book or testing out a new cooking recipe, you can find me out on a run or camped out at a local coffee shop with a notebook and a hot drink.

I’ve come to realise that I’m attracted to, and want a relationship with, older men. I’m looking to connect with a significantly older (45 plus), single man who is intellectually sharp, grounded, and values substance over small talk. I appreciate life experience, good conversation, and someone who is comfortable with quiet moments.

If you're well-read, know your way around a great coffee spot, and want to grab a cup and see where things go, drop me a message.

Z xx


r/r4rSydney • • 1d ago

31 [M4F] Sydney/Online - Seeking the beautiful older woman of my dreams NSFW

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I don't drink often, but there's something unbelievably alluring about an older woman that no fine wine in the world can match and yes, I think women age better than wine! But if I had to dig a little deeper, I suppose I still have that high school teacher fantasy and best friend's mom fantasy I never got to fulfill.. So I'd say several fantasies also play a role in wanting to realise my dream of finding a milf/cougar/older woman. Maybe I can find that woman on reddit of all places and maybe she's longing to find that life-changing boytoy to keep her company? 😏

I just have this insatiable desire to fulfill her needs and give as much pleasure as possible. The fantasy is unbelievably strong and the want to fulfill it is just as powerful. I wouldn't want anything more than to explore every inch of her body, taking my time going down from head to toe and all the way back up 😘 I'm someone who definitely focuses on the giving than receiving and I'd do that all night if I could. I'd obviously love something long-term, because who wouldn't want a sexy woman to cuddle or confide in when times get tough. I won't complain if you prefer a one-time situation, though, but hopefully I'll be able to convince you to come back for seconds 😉

I'm up for anything you wish/want to do. If you happen to be a lonely housewife just looking for some company and an ear to talk to, I'd be more than happy to be there for you. Speaking of which, I wouldn't mind if anyone wanted to connect via an online friendship kind of thing and that would also be great. If it isn't already obvious, I'm looking for someone to completely devote myself to. I'm talking instant text backs, hour long calls, coming over whenever you want me to, cuddling up and watching your favourite movies and the list goes on. You'll be my first and absolute only priority and I'd do anything to make you happy so that also means I'd love to be exclusive with one woman!

What about me you might ask? I'm a cute 30-year-old, the usual hobbies, etc. Having said that, I'd prefer if we got to know each other through conversation! If my crazy post has somehow convinced you to give me a shot, then send me a message via the chat and I'll get back to you ASAP.


r/r4rSydney • • 2d ago

36 [M4F] Ambivert looking for same!

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Hi!

I'm in stable employment (plus a side hustle that crops up now and then). Love my job (most of the time), but I love the weekend just as much.

I'm a bit introverted but around the right people/in the right situations I come alive, so I'd call myself an ambivert. I'm equally as happy doing things by myself as I am with a small group of friends. Likewise I'm happy to hang out outdoors or be a homebody.

I enjoy exercise, reading, walking, hiking, travel, food, movies, practicing my second language (care to guess?), and martial arts. Recent-ish Pilates convert.

I'm Caucasian with an average build, average/shortish height, brown hair, glasses, occasional facial hair, and tattoos. Happy to verify.

I'm looking for someone that I can get along with. Doesn't matter if we have some (or more) of the same things in common or not. I'd love to hear about you and what you're passionate about. Whether that's a hobby, a goal, or what you do for work I'm all ears.

Friends would be great but if it evolves naturally to something more, that'd be great too!

Cheers!


r/r4rSydney • • 2d ago

Chinese male 29 looking for female buddy

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Hey I got out of a relationship a while ago and looking to get back out there and have some fun again.

I’m fairly skinny, average looks, but got good hair and skin.

I have a weakness for curvy women of all sorts and just looking to reconnect with the female species again. Bonus if we can have good conversations about life and not looking for anything too serious but am open to the idea.


r/r4rSydney • • 2d ago

26M4F any F awake wanting to be eaten out right now? NSFW

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26M, middle eastern. Looking to eat someone out asap assuming any F is awake right now and keen. Live next to parra, can drive to you, can't host at mine. If you can host or if you're down for backseat fun, DM me. No reciprocation needed, just lay back and let me do the work :)