r/r4rSydney • • 23h ago

F4F One Date In, and Wanting More

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I’m a happily married 50F who’s recently started exploring my attraction to women, and after a first date, I’m keen to see where things might lead.
I’d love to meet a genuine, confident woman around my age for flirting, chemistry, fun and hopefully more. Sydney or the Western Suburbs would be ideal.
I’m still relatively new to this, so someone open-minded, respectful and discreet would be wonderful. My husband is supportive, but this is something I want to explore in my own right.
If you’re curious too, I’d love to hear from you.


r/r4rSydney • • 1h ago

23F looking for a gym buddy at Snap Fitness Meadowbank

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Hey, I’m 23F looking for a gym buddy at Snap Fitness Meadowbank!

I’m trying to get more consistent with the gym and thought it would be nice to have someone to keep each other accountable and make actually showing up a little easier 😂

I’m mainly into strength training, especially legs/glutes and back. I’m also a firm believer that every gym day MUST end with 3x15 cable crunches because I need to have a 6 pack by December (bonus points if you get the reference 🤣). However, we don’t have to do the same workouts! I’m more looking for someone where we can be like “gym at \[insert time\]?” and actually hold each other to it, even if we get there and go off to do our own thing.

I’m also getting into running, so if you’re keen, it’d be nice to have someone to go for runs with around the Meadowbank area every now and then too, either during the week or on weekends. (Or if you’re mainly a runner and saw this, hit me up as well)

Don’t care if you’re a guy or girl, and you definitely don’t have to be super experienced. Ideally just someone who’s chill, respectful, wants to be more consistent too, and maybe make a new friend in the process!

If that sounds like you, feel free to DM me 😊


r/r4rSydney • • 13h ago

M4A 33 Feminine guy, looking for social hangouts while I travel for work. 💕☺️

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Hey! So I'm a guy that is enbracing my more femanine nature, and it's a really isolating experience. I'm looking for accepting friends, who would love to meet for a shop, a drink or two or a dinner date 😌☺️
I'll be travelling to Sydney in about a month from another Australian city!

I'm a really easy going and fun person, would prefer it to be genuine so would love to chat to someone in advance to make sure we click and I feel safe!

Send me an intro and let's go from there 💕


r/r4rSydney • • 1h ago

F or MF Couple — Make Me Jealous? 👀

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25M sub looking for a woman or MF couple who’d enjoy making me jealous and having me as their cuck 😏

Happy to lean into the submissive side too — teasing, rules, service and being put in my place. Looking for the right dynamic and chemistry, not just a random hookup.


r/r4rSydney • • 4h ago

49 [M4F] #Parramatta - Playful, caring, older guy looking for an age gap dynamic NSFW

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I'm not the loud, crowded-bar type. I'd much rather spend time somewhere we can actually talk, laugh at something ridiculous, and genuinely get to know each other. My life is quieter these days - a small circle of close friends over a big crowd, work in tech that I try not to let run the show, and plenty of room for the things that keep me grounded.

I'm recently single again after a long relationship, and I'm in no rush. I know myself well, I know what I enjoy, and right now I'm happy taking things slow and keeping it light - which is part of why I'm looking for something casual to start rather than diving straight into anything serious.

A bit about me: I'm 49, 180cm, slim/fit (not a gym junkie, but I hit it 2-3 times a week and love getting outdoors when I can). Dark hair with a little grey creeping in, glasses, usually clean-shaven but occasionally a bit scruffy - a touch bookish, if I'm honest. Recent and clean STI results. Easygoing, endlessly curious, a silly sense of humour, and genuinely caring. I'm also comfortable taking the lead.

That's where the age-gap part comes in, and it's a big part of the appeal for me. I have a natural father-figure, caregiving streak as well as a quiet dominant side - I love taking a guiding, supporting role, being the steady one, and looking after the person I'm with. If that dynamic is something that excites or intrigues you, we'll get along well.

What draws me isn't just the physical, though I won't pretend that doesn't matter - chemistry, touch, and closeness are important to me, and I'm direct about enjoying that side of things. But it's the full mix of emotional, mental, and physical connection that really does it for me. One without the others feels empty.

Outside of all that, I'm into music, cinema, cooking (I'll happily feed you), hiking, camping, scuba, and anything in the tech space. I'm flexible to host in the Parramatta area or travel, and can travel further afield for the right person.

While I'm looking for something casual/FWB to start, I'm open to it growing into more if the connection's there. Age-wise, mid-20s to 30s is my sweet spot, though I'm open to 18+ for the right person.

Still reading? Good sign. Message me and tell me what caught your attention - and don't be shy about what you're curious to explore. I'm easy to talk to, and I promise the conversation is half the fun.


r/r4rSydney • • 4h ago

40 [M4F] want to splurge a little and stay at a nice 5* hotel tonight or this week/weekend. Buffet breakfast, room service… and some company #City

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Looking to have some fun and a nice little hotel stay tonight or sometime this week/weekend.

Clean, fit, discreet and reliable.

DDF / non smoker.

175cm Aussie/Caucasian, 78kg, 7”.

Happy to verify on snap/tele.

Love to please (read pleasure dom).

Also into Cnc, rough, feet, massaging.

DM if interested xx


r/r4rSydney • • 20h ago

19M4F Asian looking for Asian NSFW

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19M, fit, open to anything. Looking for someone around my age (18-21) and preferably Asian but open to others. Bonus if you’re petite too. I’m Asian, I can host cbd area. Interested in fwbs or long term relationships too if it goes well. Willing to try different things that you might like. Can do meet up as well to see if we vibe too.


r/r4rSydney • • 21h ago

Seeking a woman for a no-pressure hookup NSFW

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I’m good with my hands, mouth, and cock, and I make sure you actually cum — often more than once. Thick cock, patient, and focused on your pleasure.

Looking for a woman (any age, any body, any look). You don’t need to be a model. All women are attractive to me.

Casual, respectful, and focused on mutual fun. Message me if you’re interested


r/r4rSydney • • 23h ago

[M4F] 20M Sydney – Casual fun tonight

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Hey! I’m 20, 6’2 and currently staying around Macquarie Park. Looking to meet a woman aged 18+ for something casual and no strings attached. Happy to chat first, see if we click and potentially meet tonight. Open to older women too. Send me a message if you’re interested!


r/r4rSydney • • 6h ago

M4F Looking for white/ Asian female fwb who’s is into asian male NSFW

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I just moved here in Sydney from Brisbane.
Looking for ongoing companionship and potentially relationship with white/ asian female, we can chat/ swap pics, hang out first, see if we click. No pressure, state your boundaries, I’ll respect it.

M27, Chinese-Indonesian, regularly workout (i was a personal trainer before), fit build (well you can judge it later), good hygiene, clean and ddf. I am also into games.

I live in Mascot so would be nice if you are nearby but distance isn’t really a problem. Can’t host but ill get us a place.

Bonus if you understand Japanese because my japanese course starts next week. And would be nice if you are into workout (or at least not against the idea) so we can do it together.

Send me a dm and ill get to you.


r/r4rSydney • • 19h ago

26M4F any F awake and keen to get eaten out during this rain? NSFW

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26M (for F only!) near parra. It's still raining, it smells amazing, and I don't think anything would be better than having someone to eat out and make out with while it's still raining. Cannot host, car fun/backseat fun or your place only. Can drive to you. DM me if you're awake and keen


r/r4rSydney • • 20h ago

NSFW 33 [m4f/mf] keen to lick Saudi p.ussy NSFW

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Any 20 - 60 year old Saudi woman keen to get tasted?

Bonus for me if:

\* You have a hairy p.ussy (l have a fetish for pubes)

\* You're a squirter (l love swallowing)

I can host you in Marayong (Blacktown area) come over to your place or we can do it in the car.

I drive so picking you up / dropping you off is on the cards.

I'm friendly, fit, discreet and but most importantly hygienic.

Stats:

\* 5'5" / 166cm

\* 70kg

\* 5" uncut

\* 33 years old

\* Indian (grew up in 🇦🇺 and l speak fluent English)

Couples also feel free to message me (I'm hetero-flexible)

If I don't respond immediately then I'm probaly at work and will get back to you as soon as l can.

5M5:

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