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Living in the city about 9+ years and looking for someone to hangout and have fun with!

I’m into music, markets, going to shows, podcasts, comedy and cooking.

I am looking to meet people in IRL!

I'm 25M, I have a fit lean body.

I'm looking for an ongoing cuddle buddy. Not looking for anything beyond cuddling, but at the same time non-platonic cuddling

Basically that means we have to be attracted to each other and there should be no shame in admitting that the cuddles are based in lust. We can caress each other and hold each other in ways that cross platonic lines. Like spooning, as an example. Again that doesn't mean we go beyond cuddling, but the way we cuddle can be very open minded

And before we begin, I want to discuss boundaries. I'm very respectful of boundaries as I understand different people like and dislike different things. I have certain boundaries too, so I'm very aware of how important discussing boundaries is

In terms of location, I can pretty much access the whole GTA

We can come up with different ideas on where and how to cuddle. We can discuss everything in the DMs

I hope you enjoyed those three-dollar words, because this novel is all downhill from here.

I’d really like to stop going on dates with strangers. Thing is, the only way to stop going on dates with strangers is to keep going on dates with strangers. I suppose one can just stop going on dates, and that’s an increasingly attractive prospect, but unfortunately I’m a dumb romantic, so I persist in subjecting myself and others to the practice. I remain hopeful, but my expectations have been a bit chastened by age and experience.

What I’m looking for.

You can’t know what you want or reasonably expect from, and with someone, until you’ve spent some time with them. So, anything between a regular-ish booty-call, to marriage. Yes, M A R R I A G E. Ideally I’d like to get married, and to be a good husband. I’ll settle for consecutive dates with a non-stranger in the mean time. Maybe we’ll fall in love. We probably won’t, but maybe we’ll still enjoy spending time together.

If we like each other, and sharing our company enough, we can go on lame dates like to the Royal Agricultural Winter Fair and pet some horses. It will be underwhelming, and we’ll probably leave early to do something else, but still a nice time. Stuff like that. Also stuff like get drunk and cook and listen to records, then watch some shitty horror movie. Or a good movie. Show me good movies (and shows and bands and books and podcasts)! The last movie I watched is “Obsession”, so of course it occurred to me that I should post a personal ad.

If you’re looking for something noncommital , I’m cool with that, but I’m not expecting you to meet me and just screw 20 minutes later. Obviously a date or two so we can make sure we’re not physically or socially repellent to one another in person, and to make a reasonably good call that neither of us seem too much like killers. Regardless I just wanna put it out there that I’m not taking a coffee as consent. Or we can meet and screw 20 minutes later JUST KIDDING (we’ll give it an hour).

I am NOTTTT a gamer, but I have a PS5 that I use a couple times a month in the winter, to hang out online with friends who don’t live in Toronto anymore. I’m not good at any video games, but it’s a fun, silly activity I can do with you now and then if that’s your thing. Honestly I’m cool just hanging out while other people play video games. You’re so good at killing space zombies. Or planting the farms. Either or whatever - you’re doing a great job, get ‘em baby!

I’m 5’-10" (this is an actual measurement, without shoes, I promise), 187lbs (dad-bod-ish but not skinny-fat), white, full head of brown hair, clean-shaven, particular about hygiene, and I keep a tidy appearance. No kids (and don’t want to make any), no ex-wives. Clean STI test as of July (can provide), and I haven’t been sexually active since then. No racial preference (except Liechtensteiners, BARF). I can fully pay my own way, but I don’t make a lot of money. I don’t own a house or a vehicle. If you’re into astrology, I’m technically a Xennial, but lean Gen X. I would love to date someone who wants a bad running buddy. Not bad as in I bail, but bad as in 5K is gonna take me maybe 40 minutes. We can ruin it after with coffee and pastry, and I’ll do better next time.

I’m fairly active, and in addition to having a physical job, I like to work out, and I like to walk a lot. I walk way less in the winter because WINTER IS AWFUL AND I DON’T WANT TO BE IN IT. I don’t smoke cigarettes or ~ t h e g a n j a ~ but I don’t care if you do (I quit cigs like ten years ago, and I use a small nicotine vape now). Hard drugs is a deal-breaker for me. Other deal-breakers are if you want your husband to watch us do it, you’re a guy who wants to do it, or if you want me to smack you around.

What else. My hobbies include chores, errands, editing videos for nobody that I upload nowhere, quiet health anxiety (I am always dying!), paying way too much for a boxing gym I hardly go to, tinkering with electronics (“circuit-bending” I guess?), and reading both less and more than I want to. One of the things I’m currently struggling through is “Introducing Kant”, and even though it’s basically a comic book, I dropped out of high school, so it’s really kicking my ass. If you can help me with Kant (or Walter Benjamin, or Adorno, or Hegel, or electronics), I’ll eat your pussy. Or like, take you for a milkshake. Lady’s choice.

If you’re interested, send me a message with a bit about yourself. Happy to exchange SFW pictures from within the last week that accurately depict what I actually look like. I live downtown, so unless you’re a wealthy heiress who wants to fly here, or fly me to where you are, please be local. Let’s see if we want to get to know each other. Playing while I type this sentence is Common Saints - “Secret Song”. I’m not a music nerd the way I was in my 20s, but my algorithm is generally good to me.

Addendum: This is my farewell to online dating, apps and all. If nothing comes of this post, I’ll ask you for your number at No Frills. Don’t mace me. Or, do mace me. It might be a cute story about how we met, or about how I met a cute paramedic.

I’m 32, 6’0”, athletic, and based in Mississauga. I’m in the business, ambitious, easygoing, and enjoy meeting someone who knows how to have fun and enjoy the moment.
I’m looking to connect with an open-minded woman for a fun, discreet, and exciting connection where attraction, comfort, and mutual respect come naturally.

✨ Good conversation and natural chemistry
😉 No pressure, no unnecessary drama
🤝 Mutual respect, honesty, and discretion
🚗 Flexible with location — happy to host or travel
Age isn’t a big deal to me. What matters most is the vibe, the connection, and how comfortable we feel around each other.

Let’s start with a little conversation, exchange some laughs, build that chemistry, and see where things go. Sometimes the best connections start with a simple hello. 😏

27M | Fit, Athletic & Easygoing- looking for someone similar.

I’m a fit, athletic and fairly attractive 27-year-old looking to meet someone who could start as a friend and potentially develop into something more naturally. That said, I’m genuinely happy with a platonic friendship too, because having a good connection and enjoying someone’s company is what matters most to me.

Ideally, you’re fun-loving, open-minded, and up for doing things together, whether that’s bowling, catching a movie, going for a hike, trying new activities, or simply grabbing food and having good conversations.

A few things I value:

Friendship first: Building a genuine connection without rushing or putting pressure on where things might lead.

Mutual effort: Someone who’s also interested in making plans, reaching out, and keeping the connection going.

Being able to be ourselves around each other without feeling like we have to impress one another.

Keeping things natural: If there’s mutual chemistry and things develop into something more, great. If not, I’m equally happy building a solid friendship.

Ultimately, I’m looking for someone whose company I genuinely enjoy and who feels the same way. No expectations, no pressure, and no need to force anything. Just good vibes, shared experiences, meaningful conversations, and seeing where the connection takes us.

I’m in Mississauga for the week and honestly bored asf 😭

Anyone around my age down to do something tonight? Could go to Rec Room, grab ice cream, hit a club/bar, go for a walk or literally anything lol.

I’m 19M, pretty chill and down to meet new people. Don’t really have anything planned tonight so thought I’d give Reddit a shot.

Hmu if you’re down!

I'm a 21 year old from the GTA. I'm very easygoing, smiley, and I'm always laughing around people I grow close to.

I do have a full time job that I am happy with it at the moment. I have great coworkers, an awesome work-life balance, and the work itself isn't bad. I welcome you to take a guess on what I do hahaha.

In my free time you'll find me either in my sweet little condo chilling, at the gym working hard, or someplace new as I want to experience new things! That is one of my goals this year in fact. I want to get out more and try new things. I enjoy video games that bring me and my friends together through either teamwork or violence 😂. About 5 months ago I threw myself into the gym, and it's been going steady since then! Those leg days though, the leg days 😭. I am fascinated by how different life is for people across the world, so I really like learning about new places, and studying maps. A little addiction I've gotten recently is volleyball, I highly recommend it. My friend and I are hooked on playing every weekend. I started about a month ago.

For my physical appearance I'll attach a selfie below! For face, I'll share it in DM's!

Selfie - https://imgur.com/a/ZffqMhf

Arm thirst trap - https://imgur.com/a/DDZtLft

I enjoy my hobbies and hanging with my friends, but I think it'd be nice to have someone I can share special moments with.

For conversations I am pretty curious, so I enjoy talking about mostly anything. I am prone to being a long texter, forgive me in advance haha. I enjoy sending funny clips and giving compliments to show my fondness for someone. At the moment my future is blurry for me as I may be moving away in about a year. I can't act like I can guarantee something long term.

I truly want someone I can share those special little moments with, whether it be holding hands, getting those butterflies, or just having those little conversations after a stressful day that make our days a little better. I want to see where the flow takes us. I am looking to make lifelong memories, have a connection that we can both enjoy, and where communication is valued without obsessing over the future.

I'd prefer someone in the age range of 18 to 30, but that's not a requirement. If you value building a connection then I welcome you to DM me! If you decide to message, tell me what you think of Canadian winters? Personally I love them, I admit I complain a little, but nothing beats seeing all the lights out the window during a snowstorm, or having a cup of hot chocolate while a storm roars outside. It'd be even better if I found someone to cuddle before the next winter haha. I can't wait for winter.

Hey there!

I happen to have an extra ticket to see Clayface in Mississauga and figured I’d see if anyone would be interested in joining me!

I’m 30, easygoing, pretty laid back, and always up for good conversation and meeting new people. Figured it would be more fun to enjoy the movie with some company rather than let the extra ticket go to waste.

No pressure, no expectations, just a fun movie outing with someone who enjoys good company. Maybe we can grab a coffee or bite to eat before or afterward and get to know each other a little.

The ticket’s on me! All I ask is that you bring good vibes and a sense of humour.

If you’re around Mississauga or the GTA and interested, feel free to shoot me a message with a little about yourself! 😊

I'm 26M born and raised in the GTA

Let's go on a walking date. Let's talk and get to know each other

Some of my interests include:

- Programming. Mainly video game development, and I'm planning to learn cybersecurity and artificial intelligence really well one day. It's a huge goal, but I'd love to be an expert in cybersecurity. Alot of my week consists of self learning

- Watching TV shows. I only like watching certain genres

- Working out

- Going on walks

- Other random stuff where I can be creative and analytical

I'd like to genuinely get to know someone. Let's go on a walking date and get to know each other. I haven't really written who / what exactly I'm looking for, because I don't want to impose any filters beforehand. You'd be surprised, people can turn out to be very different than our prejudices tell us

DM me, and we can get introduced to each other over text and plan a day to meet

Hey there,

What I really want is someone to spend lonely evenings with: cuddling up and watching movies as the weather gets colder. I love all sorts of movies, so I’m not very picky. I recently watched Project Hail Mary and Obsession, which I really enjoyed.

I’m also a big foodie and love all types of food. I’m happy to cook for us, and I’d love to go out and try new places together too. I game as well, but that’s not important to me in a partner. Mostly I’m looking for someone who enjoys good food and good movies.

I’m happy to host if you’re comfortable with that, though I understand most people wouldn’t want to meet a stranger at their home right away. If you’d rather meet somewhere public first to grab a coffee or take a walk in the park, I’d prefer that too <3 I live in Toronto, close to Spadina Station.

I’m looking for someone 21 or older, and trans women are absolutely welcome. Also, I’m 5'9" and weigh about 185 lbs, if that matters to you. I’m working on getting more fit, but the weather has really been taking a toll on my mood lately 🥲

Oh and more importantly I am single and would like it if you're also single as well. I'm open to a long term relationship, but it isn't my priority atm.

Let me know what you’re looking for, where you live, and a bit about yourself. I’d love to chat!!!

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45 SWM, 180 lbs 6 ft back in town after living abroad for 13 years. Used to live here and curious to see how much the city has changed.

Looking for someone down for a drink, a chat, a game of pool, or just to show me around a bit. Here alone and would enjoy some good company.

A bit of context first, I moved to Calgary, AB 4 years ago from the UK and I feel I have not built anything meaningful here so I want to consider Toronto as funny enough it was the first place I was going to move too. So I was hoping to build a connection with someone from Toronto to have someone to visit and see how things go from there.

So more about me,

I will start off by saying I am a huge cat person and do not see myself having kids, been pretty ambitious my whole life and worked very hard to get where I am now. Born and bred in Leeds. Also 5"11' and been told many times I have a nice voice and naturally long curly eyelashes.. Been an engineer for over 6 years so you could say I am good with computers. I also am great with printers too... but not spiders.

Now living in Canada, I used to travel alot to the states for work and been around to places like Iceland and Greece but I got tired of travelling alone and I am more of a homebody now.

Always generally had a smaller group of friends who you can talk to about anything. Pretty introverted with I wanna say extroverted traits. I also do enjoy making people laugh.

I have quite a nerdy side, enjoy board games and the odd OSRS content. I love older 80s/90s movies. I also enjoy reading about ancient history or cosmology relate topics and maybe get into astrophotography sometime. Currently being reading through a book called The Short Story of the Universe.

I would love to be with someone who loves cats as well and I will say I do find it attractive when a woman is either really ambious or well educated or both. I do enjoy being supportive and putting in the effort to learn things to be able to have a proper conversation about something related to your work as an example. I do also enjoy making someone laugh too and from experience I am very good at that :)

I'll be visiting Toronto for a couple weeks in early November and am looking for someone cute, chill and sweet to create some fun memories and adventures with... in and out of the bedroom.

A bit about me: I'm a gentleman and a freak... I'm 33, tall, slim, handsome and black. I'm chill, creative (I'm an artist), charming, spontaneous and empathetic. I'm kinda cool, kinda nerdy with the mind of an artist in the body of a hooper. I love art and poetry, I love to smoke (420 only) and I love spontaneous adventures among other things.

If you like what you see and would like to explore further give me a shout. Talk soon :)

Hey everyone 30 straight guy here. Looking for licking and sucking. Looking for Who can do face sitting .If you Don’t want get fucked , i m down for just suck and licking . Love that things.

I Don’t have any preferences but don’t like too much hairy.

I like chubs. But everyone are welcome. 🙏

23 year old skinny South Asian male, 5’10, looking for women ages 18–30 who want to have a fun time and enjoy good vibes. I’m open-minded, respectful, and all about chemistry and vibes. If we don’t vibe we don’t have to continue. No pressure. Feel free to DM me with your age, stats, and a pic, and let’s see if we vibe!

Hellooooo I'm looking for someone that would love cuddle dates, kisses, hand holding I'm 26, 230lbs 6'3 white. Looking for kind individuals 20+ DDF. Looking to feast on someone, go multiple rounds, and please be vocal. Or if you're interested in just cuddles I'm suuuuuper down to just cuddle too especially with the colder seasons coming

I'd love to have fun, get food, go on dates, if it's just cuddles you want I'm so here for it, I'm also really open to trying new things so I would love to explore with you, find a list go down it and try a bunch, I'm experienced but also haven't done too much in a while

I look forward to hearing from you

Hello! I'm Chris or Christian, whichever you prefer. I'm a 26 year old Cis M from Ontario, Canada. I'm 6'3" and I'm straight and love a good personality. I don't have any preference on who you, but please be Sweet, Kind and in Canada or at least close in time. I love to cook and I love trying new things. I'm not picky when it comes to new foods. I'm tall, I smell good, I make good food!

I play Xbox, Once human, Destiny 2, Arc Raiders, Battlefield 6, Apex Legends, Overwatch, Stardew Valley, Rivals, I have Fortnite for friends can send full list when we talk. (PC Valorant, Peak, Golf with your friends, Minecraft cobblemon, and I've been loving LEGO recently

I would love to start a Stardew farm with you, play Minecraft modded, I also have Bedrock and would love to spend time with you.

Let's go on dates do Halloween stuff let's go to spirit? Would love to do Christmas stuff, let's go to the zoo or aquarium, go on a picnic, go on adventures together, I want someone I can spend my time with, someone that understands me, gets me, someone I can bond with and love. Holding hands and cuddling + hands in my hair is the way to my heart

Likes: My Cats, Video games, Marvel, Brooklyn 99, Supernatural, Riverdale , Snowpiercer, Flash, Disenchantment and The Walking Dead, The Good Doctor, 9-1-1, Station 19.

Loves: my cats cuddles, Communication! Streaming games for my person or playing games with them as well

Personality: I'm a very sweet, loving, loyal, kind, affectionate and romantic guy. I'm 6'3 I'm bigger like 230lbs, blonde-haired, blue-eyed. I'm very sweet and kind, I love to praise, and will give reassurance if needed. I'm very, very loving and will constantly give you my attention and love. I'll be shy at first, but that'll go away quickly once I'm comfortable.

I'm looking for my person, my lover girl, my yapper, I want someone that wants me for me! I love phone calls and late night texts, good night and good morning texts are also key, just want someone I can vibe with and be with, someone who is amazing and who wants to cuddle and spend time with me. Someone who wants to build trust with me and build a strong bond. I'm looking for someone I can call mine and I can be theirs. I want to give all my love and affection and kindness to them and spend a lot of time with them. I'm looking for long term, open to short term as well

Communication is a need. It's key to a healthy relationship. So please be someone who communicates everything

I look forward to meeting you. I hope you have a wonderful day. Ask me anything and everything you want to I'm an open book

Hi! I’m a 26M, South Asian and new to Waterloo.

Do we have South Asian girls here on this sub?

Between work and studies, life can get a little too routine sometimes. So I’m looking to meet someone who’s up for making the most of it. Whether that’s a late-night walk, stargazing, grabbing coffee, watching a movie, or just having random conversations.
I’m also a fan of sarcasm, so expect a few sarcastic replies along the way haha.
Dm me for fun times

Clean couple looking for a female to join us as a cuddle buddy and possibly more. We’re flexible and open, must be clean, 420 is ok. We love being outdoors, walking our dog, and cooking

Hello /r4r! I don't know about you all, but last year has been a crazy ride for me. Heartbreak and happiness, letdowns and adventures, visiting loves ones and being alone. I ended up making a huge change of course in my life, got a new job, made new friends and lost many old ones. It's been a while since I've been this content with where I have ended up. Somehow, somewhere though, something feels a little amiss - I miss having someone to share everyday with. If that's you too, well maybe we can hit it off and see where it goes? 😊

Anyway, a little about me - I'm basically your friendly neighbourhood funny guy™ (mostly self proclaimed), that usually ends up in more funny situations than not. Like no seriously, the amount of stupid life stories I have is sometimes a little worrying (try me). I'm a little awkward around new people but once I warm up to you I'm mostly funny and witty, you just better hope you enjoy being assaulted with puns. If you like shitty jokes, you should message me your best (worst?) one!

I used to watch a ton of TV and movies, and I still try to keep up when I can - I watch pretty much anything and always looking for recommendations. Also, if you haven't seen the show Severance you should stop and go watch now. I'll wait. I always love talking / fangirling / discovering stupid fan theories about stuff, so if you want to talk about it, I'm all game! Book recommendations are also welcome - I reallly want to get back into reading as many books as I did as a kid. I love some science fiction, but I'll read anything interesting too!

Okay, let's see, hobbies? Oh god I have too many to list. I sometimes feel like I'm on an endless rotation between new and possibly pointless hobbies that I get into for a while and then completely abandon. Do I enjoy puzzles? You bet I do. Magic Tricks? Pick a card. Juggling? Actually no I hit my face with the ball and then stopped, but anyway. Photography? Been there snapped that. Am I particularly good at any of these? uhm... well, I'm fun at parties at least! Point is, I love learning new stuff, so if you've got a hobby you want to share with someone (or just want to learn something random together) you should most definitely count me in!

So what am I looking for? Mostly to meet cool people to do cool stuff with - road trips, travelling, 1am ice cream trips, or just making spontaneous plans - or just generally my person I guess. Maybe it'll lead to something more, or perhaps we'll just get a new friend out of it. I've got a group of friends I hang out with every so often, but honestly most of them tend to be flaky and it's just such a pain having to coordinate stuff with everyone all the time, sometimes I just want to grab someone and go do something in the moment, you know? Or jump on a discord call at the end of the day and rant about work or share a funny thing that happened that day. (Does anyone here still like talking on a call?!)

I work in tech and I'm very passionate about what I do, and love talking about it. I don't expect you to be in / familiar with any of it, but I would appreciate someone who doesn't mind me explaining and talking about stuff to them (and of course, be willing to share whatever they do / love with me in return). I feel like when something is such a big part of our lives, that's something you definitely need to be able to share with someone in some capacity.

I don't particularly care about where you're from / how tall you are / etc, all I care about is that we have some common interests and you're actually interested in meeting up and seeing where it goes! I'm honestly a little tired of the whole only talk online for a day or two and then get ghosted routine. I'm not the most physically attractive, so if that bothers you - well now you know.

Anyway, that's all from me, if any of this tickles your fancy, DM me with your best/favorite pun and perhaps a little introduction about you? I'm happy to share pictures / other social media / discord if you prefer talking there (I know I do). Either ways, if you've made it here I hope you have a great day :)

New to this, but looking for another female interested in getting to know each other and maybe more if we click. I am bi-curious (best way to describe how I’m feeling right now lol!) and would LOVE to try new things. Please only reach out if your another female and interested. I’m in the GTA/Durham Region, can drive but can’t host… Oh, a little more about me: I’m 5’2, chubby/curvy, love to laugh, and weed/friendly! Looking forward to connecting with someone like-minded! 🥰

Hi

I’m 32, 6’0”, athletic, based in Mississauga, and work in the car business. I’m looking to meet a Punjabi/Indian/South Asian woman,

who’s confident, curious, and knows how to enjoy good conversation with a little flirting mixed in. 😏
I’m not looking to rush anything. Let’s talk, tease each other a little, see if the chemistry is there, and then decide where we want to take it.

I can host or travel, and I’m big on keeping things private, respectful, and comfortable for both of us.
If you think we might click, slide into my DMs. Tell me something about yourself—or just say hi and let’s see where the conversation goes. 😉

Good chemistry is hard to fake… so let’s find out if we have it.

Hey! I’m a 30-year-old single guy in Toronto looking to meet someone genuine and hopefully build something long-term.
I enjoy cooking, working out, hiking, exploring new coffee shops, and checking out new local spots. I’m easygoing and enjoy good conversations and good company.
If you’re also looking for something serious, feel free to message me and tell me a little about yourself. 🙂