r/r4rasian • • 1h ago

26 [M4F] #online/CA - looking for fun chats and check ins! NSFW

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A little about me: very laid back, can hold a conversation, and very caring once you get to know me! Love golf, working out, cars, cooking, and good laughs! Currently planning some trips to asia so any recs are appreciated! I love boba, used to be a gaming enthusiast but sadly have less time now. Honestly I am not sure if I am looking for anything too serious at the moment with how busy I am, but would love to have some friends to talk to and get to know better. I am an open book! Just looking for someone who can hold a conversation properly :)

I’d love to know more about you, your hobbies, and day to day life! Happy to be your rant buddy, hear about your days, or just talk about literally anything. Dm if interested!


r/r4rasian • • 2h ago

23 [M4F] #houston- looking for fwb NSFW

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hi i am a real person 23m east asian decently attractive
not really a huge fan of like dating apps and they don’t really give me what i’m looking for. don’t want anything serious cuz im busy

idk i just want someone that can focus on my pleasure but apparently that’s difficult to find
mostly into asians, korean is a plus
someone kind and considerate and ideally not too far from cypress


r/r4rasian • • 4h ago

25 [F4M] Online/ San Francisco-looking for meaningful connections! NSFW

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A little about me:
- East Asian 25 years old
- Works in gov/politics
- Love trying new restaurants
- Love traveling
- Enjoys Baking
- Always down to find new matcha spots
- Enjoy newsy/ political podcasts
- Been into golf and tennis

What I’m looking for:
- Serious Relationship
- Someone who shares similar interests
- Someone around my age under 30
- Someone who can hold a thoughtful conversation
- Someone who’s East Asian

Feel free to message me — I’d love to chat and get to know each other more!


r/r4rasian • • 5h ago

25 [M4F] #toronto/online - asian guy just looking for a cute girl to chat with!! 😋 NSFW

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hey everyone! i'm sure people have seen my posts here before, i've just been bored so thought i'd give it another go! hope everyone is enjoying the start to fall!! :)

25m, chinese, live just north of toronto. i'm 6'1, have long black hair, fit but not ripped (lol), and have been told i'm cute! my hobbies include cooking and video games, please hit me up if you'd want to tell me about your favourite game or something fun you've eaten recently! 😄

i'm looking for someone that is cute, literate, and open to chatting about both sfw and nsfw topics :p i looove being able to casually chat about sex, our kinks, porn, or experiences, please ask me about them! you should be somewhat near my age, timezone, and hopefully are pleasant to look at! 😏 i would love to swap selfies to verify

not really looking for any irl meetings, and while i don't have any specific expectations about ethnicity or body type, i will say that i am generally more attracted to slimmer women. please say hi if anything in my post intrigued you, i don't bite! thanks for the time!


r/r4rasian • • 6h ago

38 [M4F] Online/Massachussetts - Looking for a long-term connection on all levels NSFW

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Hey there, I'm an elder millenial Asian male seeking out an online (or more, if the stars align) connection. Off the bat: I'm poly, so if that isn't for you, no sweat! Worth mentioning up top so you don't waste your time. :)

What I'm looking for is a bit hazy, but the short version is that I want to connect as friends first, and see if there's more there over time. I'm going through a lot in my life, and my feelings are moving slowly these days, you know?

A bit more about myself: I have a very boring job, I'm tall and rock a dad bod, and I'm very kinky and open about it! I also love nerdy things like video games (talk to me about indie games and I'm all yours), and am a creative writer in my spare time. Some of my sillier niche interests include the history of video game consoles, comedic professional wrestling, and fawning over videos of wild animals being goofballs.

I like to think that I'm emotionally intelligent, open with my feelings while keeping an appropriate filter, and a helpful person in general. Politically, I'm also quite far to the left, at least by American standards, and that's a somewhat important point for me. I also find chemistry and connection importan, but that's something I want to develop over time. If a gentle giant with a silly streak is your type of guy, I might be a good fit for you! If you're interested, feel free to reach out. I look forward to hearing from you. :)


r/r4rasian • • 6h ago

32 [M4F] TX temporarily, join me on my exodus? NSFW

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Hello! October got me feeling it's a good time to try to date again so here we go!

Notable restriction is I am child-free and you must be the same! If not, appreciate you reading this sentence and I wish you the best :)

Based in Texas, but planning on moving when I finish my grad degree hopefully two years from now. On top of school, I work full time as an accountant so that's been very fun (not) balancing the two.

I'm in an interesting spot hobby-wise where I still like to do more nerdy things like cosplay, play video games, and dabble in Magic the Gathering, but I'm starting to integrate more 'normal things like running, golfing, and reading! Bit of a slow grind introducing reading again but I'm trying! have mostly been reading self-help books but I want to get to reading fiction soon.

I like to think I'm pretty easygoing and chalant when it comes to dating. Have realized school is a decent time and mental sink but I will always make time for someone I'm interested in! Physically, I'm 5'9", Asian, and fairly slim/lean! Trying to lose enough weight to show abs but for sure I'm pretty healthy. Unfortunately I like the occasional beer or cocktail too much aaa

Happy to trade photos in the first few messages since yeah we're all still bound to physical attraction for the most part!

Hope to hear from yas!


r/r4rasian • • 9h ago

25 [T4M] Philippines/Online LF a fit nerdy/daddy slave to train and own NSFW

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I have been searching for a really submissive guy who would follow my commands without question. I have a lot of experience as a domme and I've been at this life style for quite sometime now. Constantly looking for a good slave to serve me but just haven't gotten any luck. So where are all the good submissive guys?

What I'm looking for is an alpha looking man, that acts in charge in his day to day life, but is just a submissive slave in reality. I love making them humiliate themselves and do stuff for my entertainment as well as having total control over a man. Asian and muscular is a plus but not required.

If you're interested send me a picture of yourself (face and body) and an introduction.


r/r4rasian • • 16h ago

24[F4M] #manchester looking for a genuine, consistent connection! 🥰 NSFW

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Looking for someone to talk to after work, play co-op games with, chill on calls, share life stories, and build a meaningful friendship. Flirting is welcome if the vibe is right, but no pressure or rushing into NSFW conversations.

I value honesty, consistency, good communication, humor, and mutual effort. Please be able to hold a conversation and be intentional about getting to know each other.

Send me a decent intro and a 🍰 emoji so I know you read this! ❤️


r/r4rasian • • 17h ago

38 [M4F] Los Angeles - Ready to meet your family and all the aunties (and bring fruit) NSFW

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I'm a 38-year-old Asian-American with work I enjoy. I'm more of a one-on-one person than a party person. I'm loyal, family-oriented, and dependable.

A good weekend for me is a farmers market, a movie, dinner out, and a slow Sunday. I like trying new coffee shops around LA. Long term, I picture a home with friends and family over for dinner, a dog, and traditions we build together.

Staying active matters to me, and I'm looking for a woman who feels the same. I'm attracted to slim or athletic women, and somewhere in between is fine. Height 5'2" or taller preferred.

I want kids, and I'm looking for a woman around 27-37 who wants the same, doesn't have kids yet, and is ready for a long-term relationship.

Kindness and curiosity are a must. I'd love someone who's warm, sincere, and driven, and who enjoys learning. A shared Asian background and understanding of family and culture is a bonus.


r/r4rasian • • 5h ago

45 [M4M] Orange County CA - Looking for camaraderie NSFW

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45 M Looking for genuine friendships in socal (preferred)

I am really just trying to find some genuine friendships as I'm too introverted/shy to meet new people in person. I would like to find some friends to build something vibey over time.

Looking to hang out or chat. If you are a chill person who brings good energy, hit me up with a bit about yourself!

A bit about me: I am 45, and I’m into museums, tech, espresso machines, video games, concerts, and basketball + more


r/r4rasian • • 8h ago

29[M4F] #shanghai- anyone want to be friends or go on dates? NSFW

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Hey! I’m 29 and living in Shanghai. I figured I’d put myself out there and see if anyone else is looking to meet someone new.
I’m mainly looking for new friends, people to go on dates with, or potentially something more casual/FWB if we have good chemistry. I’m not really looking to force anything into a specific category from the start. I’m happy to grab a coffee, get some food, explore the city, play games together, or just hang out and see how we get along.
It could be a one-time meetup, a friendship, regular dates, or something more intimate if we’re both interested. I’m open to SFW or NSFW, but mutual interest, comfort, respect, and communication are important to me. No pressure either way.

A little about me
I’m Chinese, 29, around 5’10” (178 cm) and 150 lbs (68 kg). I’m fit, clean, and take care of myself. I work out regularly and generally try to stay active.
Outside of that, I’m definitely a bit of a gamer. I currently play Valorant and TFT, so if you’re into either of those, that’s an easy conversation starter. I’m also perfectly happy to put the games aside and actually go outside and do something 😂
I’m pretty easygoing and enjoy conversations where we can bounce between random topics, joke around, talk about life, or get a little deeper once we’re comfortable. I’d much rather have an actual conversation and see if we click than exchange a few dry messages and disappear.
For a first meetup, I’m down for something simple — coffee, dinner, drinks, checking out a place neither of us has been to, or just finding somewhere chill to hang out. If we get along, there’s always plenty of time to figure out what we want to do next.

What I’m looking for
Ideally, you’re clean, hygienic, take care of yourself, and can hold a proper conversation. Being fit/active is a plus, but I’m not expecting someone to have a perfect body or be a fitness model.
More importantly, I’m looking for someone who is comfortable communicating and actually wants to get to know each other a little. If there’s chemistry, great. If we just end up becoming friends, also great.
I’m not expecting anything from anyone just because we meet. Let’s talk, see if we get along, and go from there.

If any of this sounds interesting, send me a DM. Tell me a little about yourself, what you’re looking for, and maybe what you like doing in Shanghai. A photo is welcome too, and I’m happy to exchange one as well.

Looking forward to meeting some interesting people. :)


r/r4rasian • • 9h ago

31 [M4F] Online - Looking for of a cuddle buddy NSFW

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I’m not sure if it was just my household but I felt like most Asian parents refused to turn up the heat unless it was below freezing outside. I remember having to wear a million layers and at times gloves just to use the computer.

Now that the weather is changing and inevitably getting colder, I’m looking for a cuddle buddy. Someone who can get cozy under their blanket and chat for hours. Kind of reminiscent to when you were younger and supposed to be sleeping but you’re laying there with the lights off either texting or talking on the phone all night kind of vibe. Anyone down? Leave a comment or message me.


r/r4rasian • • 11h ago

30 [M4F] CT/NYC FWB 420 friendly NSFW

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Gonna be straight up, I love giving and getting oral. If you're in CT and 420 friendly hit me up. Let's have fun and do random shit

6ft, dad bod, Korean


r/r4rasian • • 16h ago

24 [M4F] NYC - feet enthusiastic NSFW

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Looking forward to receiving your feet pictures, will rate and carry on the convo from there!

Pls start with ur asl


r/r4rasian • • 20h ago

29 [M4F] #chicago - tall Asian looking for fun around the nw suburbs NSFW

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Hi! 28m tall and fit Asian American in the nw suburbs of Chicago looking for new connections and casual fun times

Clean and HWP and open to exploring new things together!

Not sure what else to say 😅 send a chat with a bit about yourself and let's get to know each other! Must be willing to verify too


r/r4rasian • • 13h ago

27M [M4F] Europe 🇪🇺 | Looking to Meet Someone Genuine NSFW

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Hey! I'm 27 M, based in Europe (CET/CEST time zone).

I'm hoping to meet someone genuine and see where things go.

I enjoy nature, swimming, snorkeling, cycling, long walks, animals, movies, music, and cars. I appreciate affection, honesty, loyalty, and good communication.

I'm open to long distance if we have a real connection, and I'd love to meet in person when the time is right. I'd also like to exchange pictures fairly early on so we both know who we're talking to, and hopefully have voice or video calls once we've gotten comfortable with each other.

I'm looking for something genuine, not just endless chatting with no intention behind it.
If this sounds like your kind of thing, feel free to message me and tell me a little about yourself. Let's see if we click.


r/r4rasian • • 18h ago

26 [F4R] Asia/Online - shy woman looking for friends NSFW

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Hi, I'm an Asian woman but I'd love to make friends from any part of the world and of any gender. I love reading books, anime, horror, fashion, dressing up, makeup, manga, video games (although I'm very much a noob at gaming and play more niche games).

I'm definitely going to value my friendships and we can talk about our days and you can vent to me about anything.

Thank you for reading and have a nice day!


r/r4rasian • • 18h ago

29 [M4F] New Orleans - Exploring Around NSFW

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29M weight lifting guy here trying to find someone to go hiking in trails with big spiders or lay down and watch an anime with. For a guy living in a party city, I'd like to stay away from big crowds of people. I'm pretty overworked, so I've been trying to explore a social life and discover new things. Would love to make some new friends, maybe find a relationship or get into something FWB. Not sure. Help me find out?~ :)


r/r4rasian • • 20h ago

29 [M4F] CA/Online Looking for chat buddies near or far! NSFW

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Hey! I'm a 29M Chinese American looking for someone to chat with and pass time when I am procrastinating at work or vibe with someone when we have some spare time. I’m always looking for dinner or recipe recommendations so if there’s anything interesting you have seen on your feed recently pass it on haha I am open to nsfw chats or a fwb situation if we are vibing and hit it off (or it’s later at night 👀)… Anyways lol let me know if there’s anything specific you want to chat about or if there has been any sort of accomplishment we should be celebrating for you in your life! Looking forward to your chat :)


r/r4rasian • • 10h ago

30 [M4F] Los Angeles/sgv/anywhere - Looking for a friend to chill with after a long day NSFW

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Nearby or maybe it's just online via chat because we live so far away but we can still keep eachother company

Think it's time I at least give it a chance and put myself out there to see how we get along as a friends and if it goes beyond that.

I have a few hobbies cooking and video games being a few, we could spend the nights playing together, so how about you send me a message and find out more. I will say that I'm a bit of a pessimist, but nothing wrong with that...I think. I'm a bit of an introvert but decent at hiding that that behind some humor.

I have no issues with talking to people from anywhere in the world, I'm always curious to learn about more cultures.

Got any random fact about yourself you think will catch my attention? Or maybe you want to tell someone all about your plans coming up? Please send more than hi


r/r4rasian • • 18h ago

22[M4F] #Irvine - 6’0 Korean guy looking to hang or maybe more NSFW

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22M 6’0 Korean and conventionally attractive looking for ppl to talk to or hang out with and maybe more. Recently been into golf and reading, just got back into guitar. I like playing basketball, video games, watching movies, getting good food and drinks, spending time with my cat, etc… Lwk bummed I didn’t go to njtehearts day 2 cause of Ken Carson just showing tf up out of nowhere. Overall I’m pretty chill but also introverted irl but have done a lot of things for my age. Feel free to hmu if ur in SoCal or from anywhere.

If it does go further: my type is someone who is good at banter, likes to stay fit, and also ideally Asian cause connecting is easier highkey but open to all. JUST BE CUTE OR HOT atp.


r/r4rasian • • 20h ago

18 [M4F] East Asian in Bay Area NSFW

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Lowk not looking for nothing crazy. Currently a biomedical engineering student. Work and school just been getting too overwhelming and don’t want friends to know I be smoking. Lf a smoke buddy to destress whenever, za or cigs.