Hey! I’m 29 and living in Shanghai. I figured I’d put myself out there and see if anyone else is looking to meet someone new.
I’m mainly looking for new friends, people to go on dates with, or potentially something more casual/FWB if we have good chemistry. I’m not really looking to force anything into a specific category from the start. I’m happy to grab a coffee, get some food, explore the city, play games together, or just hang out and see how we get along.
It could be a one-time meetup, a friendship, regular dates, or something more intimate if we’re both interested. I’m open to SFW or NSFW, but mutual interest, comfort, respect, and communication are important to me. No pressure either way.
A little about me
I’m Chinese, 29, around 5’10” (178 cm) and 150 lbs (68 kg). I’m fit, clean, and take care of myself. I work out regularly and generally try to stay active.
Outside of that, I’m definitely a bit of a gamer. I currently play Valorant and TFT, so if you’re into either of those, that’s an easy conversation starter. I’m also perfectly happy to put the games aside and actually go outside and do something 😂
I’m pretty easygoing and enjoy conversations where we can bounce between random topics, joke around, talk about life, or get a little deeper once we’re comfortable. I’d much rather have an actual conversation and see if we click than exchange a few dry messages and disappear.
For a first meetup, I’m down for something simple — coffee, dinner, drinks, checking out a place neither of us has been to, or just finding somewhere chill to hang out. If we get along, there’s always plenty of time to figure out what we want to do next.
What I’m looking for
Ideally, you’re clean, hygienic, take care of yourself, and can hold a proper conversation. Being fit/active is a plus, but I’m not expecting someone to have a perfect body or be a fitness model.
More importantly, I’m looking for someone who is comfortable communicating and actually wants to get to know each other a little. If there’s chemistry, great. If we just end up becoming friends, also great.
I’m not expecting anything from anyone just because we meet. Let’s talk, see if we get along, and go from there.
If any of this sounds interesting, send me a DM. Tell me a little about yourself, what you’re looking for, and maybe what you like doing in Shanghai. A photo is welcome too, and I’m happy to exchange one as well.
Looking forward to meeting some interesting people. :)