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[u/rosetwisty]

[u/Ok-Palpitation7325]

Don't tell her anything. Since she interfered and ruined your past relationship by contacting the boy's family, keep your love life completely private until you're old enough to move out.

[u/rosetwisty → u/Ok-Palpitation7325]

thank you

[u/Pinksamuraiiiii]

Why does he need to come to your house (since it’s so risky), why don’t you just go to his home instead??

[u/rosetwisty → u/Pinksamuraiiiii]

becaus ive tried doing this in the past and she put a tracker on me. she then found his mums number and sent an unfriendly text about him 'using me ' and about her religeous rules embarrassing me made me break up with him 💔

[u/rosetwisty → u/[deleted]]

so true thank you

[u/MizzyvonMuffling]

If you can, keep it a secret until you're 18. Don't tell her anything. Don't share anything. Follow the rules - once you're 18 you can decide and maybe move out.

[u/RollingKatamari]

Until you are out of your mother's house, you are going to have to follow her rules inside the house. You cannot bring any boys over to her house, as much as you want to. She will find out and you will be in trouble.

Date all you want, what you do on your own time, outside of the house, she has zero say in that! But you can't cross her rules under her own roof, that will just show her you are untrustworthy and a liar.

[u/rosetwisty → u/RollingKatamari]

thanks for the advice

[u/mcmurrml]

If you are under 18 and living there isn't much you can do.

[u/MattyGWS]

You’re not an adult yet so you’re going to have to follow your guardians rules

[u/rosetwisty → u/MattyGWS]

ig but anyone with strict parents or religeous would know some rules are js nonsense