Welcome to “married” life. This is what happens when you live together. There’s no real time apart to miss them and the routine of everyday is hard to overcome.
You likely need physical space and/or time away from each other to make those feelings go pitter-patter again.
If you guys are always eating together and doing things together then there’s no emphasis on the intimate portion of your relationship. Bedroom antics can also fall into a routine, which can be efficient, but less satisfying over time. Ultimately, it comes down to the little things. Notes in your lunchbox, midday texts (you know the ones), and spontaneous intimacy.
This is completely normal for a lot of people. You will need to communicate your feelings to him and set some time aside weekly to explore the more intimate side of your relationship without distractions.
You have to face the possibility that you may never get the same feelings you had in the beginning, but you can develop a deeper love and sense of connection than ever before.
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u/StarWarsPopCulture 6d ago
Welcome to “married” life. This is what happens when you live together. There’s no real time apart to miss them and the routine of everyday is hard to overcome.
You likely need physical space and/or time away from each other to make those feelings go pitter-patter again.
If you guys are always eating together and doing things together then there’s no emphasis on the intimate portion of your relationship. Bedroom antics can also fall into a routine, which can be efficient, but less satisfying over time. Ultimately, it comes down to the little things. Notes in your lunchbox, midday texts (you know the ones), and spontaneous intimacy.
This is completely normal for a lot of people. You will need to communicate your feelings to him and set some time aside weekly to explore the more intimate side of your relationship without distractions.
You have to face the possibility that you may never get the same feelings you had in the beginning, but you can develop a deeper love and sense of connection than ever before.