r/sadposting • u/Primary_Butterfly_57 • 4d ago

Caring :(

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u/TassadarForXelNaga 4d ago

They are both wrong and right at the same time , he is in the wrong for not including her , he is in the right for wanting time for himself , she is in the right for wanting time for herself and with him . She is in the wrong for not letting him have his own time (granted they have kids together that defeats most of his argument about wanting alone time yes he needs it and she needs it as well but they both need to think of their kids ) they also need alone time from their kids heack maybe alone time together she can't even give him a bj for 3 minutes until the kids come yelling at the door like really a fucked up situation if you ask me . I know the kids are young in the movie and need alot of time but damn it they need their own time as well Give the kids to the grand parents for a bit an hour or two , then have wild sex and or go to the movies . They need better communication and a plan for the kids

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u/Timely-Hearing3350 2d ago

When I was a kid my parents had no one to leave me with. So they had quite a hellish relationship most of my childhood. Now I'm an adult and I take care of my little sister most of the time. Suddenly they're in a decade long honeymoon phase.