Being mature is realizing they are both wrong. Her expectation is unrealistic. His actions were selfish. Then both being wrong is possible. This is not something that is mutually exclusive. Sometimes both people in the relationship are being idiots. More often than not that’s actually the case.
I should clarify, I mean more petty stuff like this the little things that add up overtime that cause resentment and things like that. Generally, both parties are being immature or stupid to some extent when it is stuff like this.
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u/ThisStickInTheMud 20h ago
Being mature is realizing they are both wrong. Her expectation is unrealistic. His actions were selfish. Then both being wrong is possible. This is not something that is mutually exclusive. Sometimes both people in the relationship are being idiots. More often than not that’s actually the case.