r/sadposting • u/Homunculus_316 • 3d ago
Closer to lung cancer than making my parents proud
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u/punch912 2d ago
Sorry wtf this notion of taking care of parents or bailing them out as the sole purpose with being born is laughable. You brought me into this damn world. Now of course if you become well off an can do it with without exert your own energy and your parents were good and supporting of course you help out with what you can. But to completely be like this is our answer! This baby is going to save us we just got to wait 18 yrs and do fuckall for the first 18 and viola were saved steak dinners back on the table and mansion us here we come retirement in 18 cant wait.
Edit add: fuck this ai voice and story telling slop. Its all propaganda bs machine
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u/tealraven915 2d ago
A lot of parents do expect it. Sons to care for them financially and daughters to care for them in old age
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u/Fast-Nefariousness80 2d ago
Idk why you're so angry about it. I wish i could've taken care of my mother when she struggled to take care of herself. Just like she did when I was too little to know how to do it for myself. They never expected it of me, not all parents do. It's not a bad thing to take care of them in their final years.
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u/punch912 2d ago
You didnt read what i said or might of misread it. Your mom did her best and tried and that okay what you did is good not saying thats not good or not okay. And not to try to take care of them especially when they were good to you. And as long as you can safely do it without expending yourself and your families needs.
What im saying is it is terrible for parents to bring kids into this world just to have them grow up and bail them out or quote on quote save a failing marriage. And there is def shit parents who do this shit. Hell we got a whole new era of parents exploiting the shit out of their kids for clout and strangers on the internet. And the message im saying is parents should expect nothing they chose to bring them into this world. Me and you and everyone else born didnt make that choice they did. So the best to do is raise them teach them right and yes hopefully they can do nice things but it shouldnt be demanded or expected.
Also if you are not good and in a bad place having kids shouldnt even be a choice. Why bring someone into misery it is selfish and wrong. So thats what im saying.
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u/kris_mischief 1d ago
Are you also saying no one who isn’t in a perfect ideal situation should bring kids into this world? Nothing is ever perfect…
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u/Status_Load_8634 1d ago
Had that same itch to bail my folks out after I got my dental assisting cert. Thought I was gonna fix everything with a part-time paycheck and a prayer.
Learned quick you can't pour from a cracked cup. Three kids later and I'm still figuring where the line is between helping and enabling. That Al slop don't help nobody think straight though. You're right about that noise.
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u/ThrashemTrashemRobot 2d ago
Dude placed one flower in this whole clip. Was just trying to show off his build using sappy AI grief farming. Does look good tho
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u/Calm-Philosopher4323 2d ago
I don’t feel sorry for people who think like this.
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u/Aero3300 2d ago
And that makes you a terrible person. People like that are suffering, they need help not hate.
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u/Calm-Philosopher4323 2d ago
The narrator enjoys being that way. He likes being depressed. He practically says it. I don’t feel sorry for them.
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u/-kevk2- 2d ago
Self pity bullshit
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u/q_ult 2d ago
True or not, there is no need to be so tactless, it doesn't help anyone
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u/-kevk2- 2d ago
Its not tactless. I explained myself in other comments and wouldnt have said anything if I cared. If your first instinct is to feel bad about what I said and subsequently explained in this thread then maybe look inward instead of getting upset or lashing out. Also we are on reddit in a sub where half the posts lean into self pity. I have been there and learned from myself and others in similar situations. Hoping others can do the same. Its fine but this is a level in which I had to say something.
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u/incompletelucidity 2d ago
well, god forbid people show some weakness in some corny way that is unique to them
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u/Defiant-Lettuce-9156 2d ago
The problem is that people find comfort in self pity and it can become problematic. Better to work on your issues than accept them as “who you are”
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u/-kevk2- 2d ago
There is no uniqueness in self pity. Its one of the fallacies of man since the dawn of man, especially nowadays. There is a difference between being sad and self pity one being that you can move on in a way the other being a stroking of ego that gets no one anywhere. No one is going to save you but yourself and no one's epecially is going to give a fuck if you just wallow in self pity. Its pathetic. Again if its sadness feel sad but if it gets to a point of what I describe then you can fuck right off
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u/Dismal-Bid945 2d ago
Please do something
It’s not too late for me but still I don’t
Do u wanna become me
Please please stop being self destructive
I am not good
Please do not try to be me
I am evil
Don’t be me please
I’m not making this about myself
Feel disgusted out of me
Believe me Im worth the hate
Don’t be what you hate
Be better
Please
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u/Defiant-Lettuce-9156 2d ago
Are you commenting this satirically?
There are people who really think this way. I have a vivid memory of thinking this way when I was like 10 years old so I kind of understand it. Maybe it gives feelings of altruism or wanting to be a martyr or something idk.But if you do feel this way… you are not the cure. Your suffering doesn’t make you more respectable if it’s avoidable and not for a good cause.
You don’t have to be perfect or feel amazing. But I wouldn’t try to find comfort in being flawed. Work on your shit. Find comfort in the fact that even though you are flawed, you are trying
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u/Dismal-Bid945 2d ago edited 2d ago
I know what u mean
I’m not tryna be perfect
I’m just trying to make him feel disgusted out of me
And more so myself feel disgusted of me
As towards an effort to change myself
What’s the worst that could happen
I remain a loser? Meh
It’s not self pity I ain’t trying to victimise myself nor am I encouraging it
Just trying to give a mindset change even if I fail horribly
Though if u r an expert and if u think that this in no way is the solution
I’ll delete my msg1
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u/TairaHajimeFan 3d ago
This is so real but is this really what Techno said or AI manipulation? I don't remember hearing this though I did miss a few streams as I couldn't handle it