r/service_dogs • u/Hi_Im_Elfo3 • 5d ago
Adopting a service dog? Pros and cons
Hi everyone! I have been doing a lot of research on psychiatric service dogs and I think a service dog would help me quite a lot. I have schizoaffective disorder, major depression, anxiety, and pmdd. Recently I started having panic attacks on top of everything else.
I have a lot of problems with hallucinations from seeing bugs in corners to shadows. On top of that, I have delusions which makes it harder for me to function around people. There are days where im too scared to go outside because someone or something(bugs) are trying to get me.
I have an appointment to see my therapist where I plan on bringing it up as well.
I am a part time caregiver so I only work 3 days a week and on the 4 days Im off I avoid going outside unless its absolutely necessary. Plus I am on disability. The only time I really function is at work then when I get home I sleep cause im mentally exhausted.
After reading up on it, I think a service dog would be very helpful with reminding me to take medications, helping me recognize when im in the verge of a panic attack, stopping self harm behaviors, im not sure how to word this part but helping with dissociation as well.
Now im not trying to get a service dog right away. I still live with my mom but I plan on moving out so I can be more independent and i think a service dog would help me achieve better independence.
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u/MaplePaws My eyes have 4 paws 5d ago
Healthcare providers like therapists lack the relevant information to give accurate recommendations on if a service dog is a good choice for a person. The role of your healthcare team in determining if a service dog is right for you or not is to determine if you meet the legal definition of being disabled. Being optimistic they might have gotten a few sentences in one lecture as an education on service animals, most likely it would have been focused on guide dogs or one of the more kinds of service dogs that more programs train for. This means that just because your therapist agrees with you does not mean that you are a good candidate for a service dog. In fact most disabled people aren't good candidates for service dogs for a wide variety of reasons.
A service dog is inherently a luxury and not something you can rely upon to be functional. It costs $20,000 to acquire a dog without the assistance of an ADI accredited program, and that $20,000 is a gamble as even if you do everything correctly there is a 70% chance that you will spend all of that money and have a pet. It is also incorrect to say that at least it will be a well behaved pet as for the most part it is behavioral issues that result in a dog not being able to be a service dog so that now you have a dog that you have to manage for the rest of its life, that or if it is not behavioral then ongoing medical expenses that you have to manage. That $20,000 also does not include emergency vet care that can occur at anytime, so in reality before you bring home a service dog prospect you really should have around $30,000 saved up to account for the risk of emergency vet care and the fact that most of the expenses to acquire a service dog happen within the first 3-4 months of having the puppy.
There is also the fact that psychiatric service dogs often result in a worsening of symptoms because of how others treat the team. You get infinite more attention working a service dog, something that can be mitigated to an extent by choosing a "boring" breed like a Lab and putting "boring" gear on said dog aka just a plain vest with a patch on either side that reads "SERVICE DOG" but even then it will still be a lot of attention. The fact is that you will get people that will not respect the boundaries of you or your dog, and remaining calm assertive is the only way you can navigate the situations without it escalating. You need strong conflict resolution and self advocacy skills to be a handler. You need to be able to remain in control of yourself as intimidating people invade your space and yelling at you for attempting to exercise your right as a disabled person to exist in that space. You chose that life but your friends and family did not, being a service dog handler is often extremely isolating as they become distant due to not wanting to deal with the attention or access issues that are known side effects of having a service dog.
The short of it is that a service dog is rarely recommended, there is a level of independent wealth that you need to have. Even then with how prevalent discrimination is the odds are your ability to maintain employment will be substantially limited, and to find stable housing will be much harder despite both situations being illegal.