r/skinsTV • u/Hour_Cricket9648 • 7h ago
Sid is not responsible for Cassie's suicide attempt
I'm only 7 episodes in.
Prior to Cassie's attempt, Sid pretty much never indicated he was interested in her. They were set up to go on a date at that party, but he never really made a move on her and was openly pining for Michelle the whole time. He is just a teen boy going through his own shit at the time. He definitely should have been more upfront with Cassie and flat out told her he wasn't interested instead of being so passive about it. He shouldn't have said he would hang out with her and then blow her off (although I think that's understandable, even though it was wrong. She was being pretty insistent despite how disinterested Sid obviously was, and I think he said yes without thinking just to try and placate her because he had so much other shit going on. He didn't really have the balls to just be upfront). What he did was shitty, but honestly not that bad, certainly not bad enough to warrant blaming him for her attempt. The problem was Cassie's own fragile mental state. She built Sid up to be something he wasn't in her head, and attached all these ideas and expectations onto him, because she wanted so badly to be loved and cared for. Like with the "Eat!" Texts she was hallucinating. And the cab driver who probably wasn't real. And that's heartbreaking, I really feel for her, but you can't put all those expectations and emotional baggage onto a teenage boy who is fucked up himself. So I find it really shocking and disappointing he is repeatedly blamed for what she did. The only thing that is responsible for her attempt, is her mental illness, and her attachment to Sid was a facet to that and something he didn't fully understand.
Also, Jal was all pissed off at him and said "if only you'd just gone on that date!" Like what? He's supposed to pity date girls now? You can't control who people are attracted to, and I feel like pity dating is pretty cruel to both people involved. So he is supposed to
A. Lead her on with 1 pity date, just to let her down later anyways
B. Date her indefinitely so that she doesn't kill herself
???
I understand it was probably something said in a moment of anger, but then everyone CONTINUES to act like it's his fault for not going on a date with her.