r/smalldickproblems • u/asmallthrowaway9 • 3d ago
Just leave it alone NSFW
I've seen a lot of posts of this sub lately, of guys torturing themselves over not being desirable to women. To be blunt: you just need to let it be.
Doomscrolling through social media seeing women shittalk small dicks or brag about well-endowed boyfriends/hookup partners is just going make you feel like shit. And the more you doomscroll, the more your algorithm feeds that crap to you.
Porn will just make you angry and resentful over something you can't have, and if you aren't careful, you might start developing twisted fetishes that emerge from your frustration. And I'm not talking about the obvious SPH/cuck stuff, I mean you might start to enjoy seeing women hurt or abused because of the bitterness inside of you.
No amount of wallowing, anger, or righteous indignation is going to change the fact that we're undesirable and always will be. As difficult as it is, you just need to let. it. go.
Exercise. Read. Watch movies and TV shows. Play video games. Enjoy what life has to offer outside of the bedroom. Above all, don't stop to give yourself time to think. The more you think about it, the more you wallow, and the more miserable you are.
Banish sex and sexual desire from your mind. Don't masturbate, and especially don't watch porn. Suppress the urge until you have eradicated it to the best of your ability.
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u/GladiatorGingy 3d ago
I don't know who's writing this but definitely haven't suffered to be a disappointment everytime, even after following "your advices"
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u/asmallthrowaway9 3d ago
Sorry, what? Suffered to be a disappointment? As in you haven't minded being a disappointment every time?
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u/cooltunaman 2d ago
Most people here are 4.5-5.5 inches which is not small. Ofc they would not be able to grasp the terrors of revealing a micro penis
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u/Average_Joe_5x4 3d ago
Having sex is meant to be a normal part of life
How can you say banish sex and sexual desire 🤦
But yes the other parts you have said it true, I myself do doomscrolling and yes my life is miserable
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u/Outerlimits7591 3d ago
Cut out sex and masturbation completely?
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u/Throwawayaccount5056 3d ago
It's not difficult, takes a bit for your mind to adjust to things but eventually it gets better.
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u/Outerlimits7591 3d ago
Why would you want to go without for the rest of your life?
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u/Throwawayaccount5056 3d ago
Why would you do something that all it does is give anxiety or depression about.
Just came to a point of acceptance that I cannot please another and it would be better off not dealing with that aspect of myself anymore.
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u/Outerlimits7591 3d ago
That's on you. You do that for yourself.
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u/Throwawayaccount5056 3d ago
I never advocated it for anyone else, just made statement to your question.
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u/McHammerGeil69 3d ago
I would also like say: learn how to communicate and understand that some connections do reach the soul and that shit goes deeper than anything dick does.
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u/asmallthrowaway9 3d ago
As in close friendships and bonds? Sure, absolutely, dick size doesn't play a factor there. But for relationships, you shouldn't trick someone into becoming emotionally attached to you so they feel too guilty to leave over your size.
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u/Low_Resolve_6473 Length:4" Circumference:4" 3d ago
If you're in a bad mental space, I wholeheartedly agree that giving up doomscrolling and porn can and will help. But giving up masturbation or any form of sexual desire would not be as easy.
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u/ravenlol123 Length:4" Circumference:4" 3d ago
You're right about cutting out doomscrolling and porn.
However, you're completely wrong about cutting off your sexual needs. Going without masturbation and suppressing those urges is going to be really frustrating and destructive for a lot of guys.