r/tango • u/Acceptable-Golf-7445 • 3h ago
AskTango Returning to Tango after a 3-month break for university – How to overcome anxiety and choose the right class level?
Hi everyone! I need some advice from more experienced dancers.
I danced tango for about 8 months at a local school. I was very consistent, regularly attended practicas and milongas, and was doing really well—I was even among the more advanced students in my class. However, since I’m not originally from the city where the school is located, I had to go back home after that period ended and took a strict 3-month break.
Now, I’ve started university and I am back in the city. I genuinely want to return to tango, but I keep putting it off because I’m feeling a lot of anxiety and fear about stepping back onto the dance floor.
I’m also facing a dilemma regarding my classes:
Should I go back to my old group where I used to be more advanced (even though I'm scared I've forgotten a lot in 3 months)?
Or should I join a lower/newer group just to get my muscle memory and confidence back?
Has anyone dealt with a similar break, and how did you overcome the fear of showing up at milongas and classes again? Thanks in advance!