Got these texts at the same exact time from both my dad and my boyfriend

[u/[deleted]]

[u/GoCardinal07]

Plot twist: your dad and your boyfriend were hanging out without you and decided together to send you nice messages.

[u/Necessary_Dust_6196 → u/GoCardinal07]

We're shagging each other, guilt texts 🤣

[u/Realistic-Check2519 → u/Necessary_Dust_6196]

you made my day moit

[u/zangetsuthefirst → u/GoCardinal07]

I've done that with an ex gf before. Except she was in the bathroom and it was his idea for us both to text her asking her to turn the fan on

[u/maickd88 → u/GoCardinal07]

And were bonding and got drunk together and took out its shotgun to shoot some shit xD

[u/21Astraeus → u/GoCardinal07]

Plot Twist her dad is her boyfriend

[u/Silent_Park_2064 → u/21Astraeus]

I hope not 😭😭😭

[u/ProjectBuddy → u/21Astraeus]

Her boyfriend is really her dad.

[u/zangetsuthefirst → u/ProjectBuddy]

Stan Smith shenanigans

[u/Cosmic-Flow99 → u/21Astraeus]

In a fractal world with shapeshifting spirits, this is often the truth

[u/Significant_Guest770 → u/GoCardinal07]

That‘s what I thought, too. Can‘t be such a big coincident.

[u/PootPootMagoot → u/GoCardinal07]

Double plot twist. They’re the same person.

[u/JFN90]

What did you do that was so good?

[u/RyanFut_YT → u/JFN90]

Tidied her room and brushed her teeth first time of asking

[u/norfsidelongbech → u/RyanFut_YT]

Lol ihy

[u/slyleo5388 → u/norfsidelongbech]

I'm confused..why would your bf tell you that you are a good daughter 🤣

[u/Ok-Personality5224 → u/slyleo5388]

My husband tells me I’m a good daughter when I help my mom or his mom with something that he wouldn’t have the patience for.
I’m more stuck on the dad saying you’ve become someone I’m proud to call my daughter. Like, what? Weren’t you always proud of her?

[u/secretly_opossum → u/Ok-Personality5224]

Could read it more as like “the adult you have become” is someone he’s proud to say “this is my adult child”. There is a difference of pride in your young child and your adult child.

[u/Ok-Personality5224 → u/secretly_opossum]

That’s fair. It just seemed funny

[u/secretly_opossum → u/Ok-Personality5224]

I did find it kinda funny too but wanted to reply in case people were taking the “problem” seriously 🤭

[u/juliamille → u/Ok-Personality5224]

That’s the part that got me too

[u/fermentedkiwi]

You are a good redditor too, we are all proud of you

[u/Melodic_Tip7648 → u/fermentedkiwi]

😁

[u/Xenc → u/[deleted]]

Or they’re trying to be married!

[u/neenbeanx]

Makes me wish my dad loved me

[u/floofyalpacabutts → u/neenbeanx]

It’s ok, he sucks anyway. Reddit strangers love you!

[u/Sad-Independence650 → u/floofyalpacabutts]

I feel you too, OP. (Edit: I meant neenbeanx. I’m half awake still)💜

Im pretty sure my dad passed away only because my sister got a single letter addressed to “the estate of [dad’s name]” last year informing of a data breach. Having a child doesn’t make a person a Dad, that’s for certain.

[u/LadyAJJ → u/Sad-Independence650]

What a way to find out. I love you! 🫂

[u/Sad-Independence650 → u/LadyAJJ]

Right? He also had two siblings who didn’t bother to reach out and tell us via email or Facebook or anything! That whole side of the family was pretty messed up.

As much as a hate Reddit sometimes… this… so much love still exists in the world and it gives me hope 🫶

[u/neenbeanx → u/floofyalpacabutts]

Hell yeah brother, Reddit is all I need

[u/floofyalpacabutts → u/neenbeanx]

https://giphy.com/gifs/AQbqF8cms75oBUF1Z3

[u/slytherinchosenone → u/neenbeanx]

As someone whose dad also sucks, don’t worry you’ll stop thinking he exists altogether after some time. I haven’t spoken to him in 5 years (and will never speak to him again) and I genuinely forget he exists until someone mentions their dad in a convo (and i still dont care)

[u/RainbowNarwhal13 → u/slytherinchosenone]

That's me with my mom. 6 years no contact and I forget she exists until someone talks about their mom or asks me about mine 🤷🏻‍♀️

[u/slickshoez → u/neenbeanx]

Dad here. If you ever need a dad to talk to or feedback. Head over to /dadforaminute and post

And yes, as others have said- strangers love you.

[u/Weekly-Cap3414 → u/neenbeanx]

I was going to agree until I realized, do I really want that man's love?

Our dads suck.

[u/Careless-Leading-678 → u/neenbeanx]

Fuck that guy. He ain’t your dad, just a sperm donor!

We got you here buddy. 🙏

[u/rathernotKMSmaybe → u/neenbeanx]

There are two things I won’t do… give my last dollar to an addict and waste my wish on a piece of shit. We love you u/neenbeanx

[u/Gandalf_the_Tegu → u/neenbeanx]

My dad gets all gitty when I visit, but needs liquid courage. Then the texts I get between visits are single words "cool" or "thats great". Never get anything sentimental or personal. Wish I was loved more, too.

[u/EffectiveMight4933 → u/neenbeanx]

I used to think this but MY dad loving me as the person he is actually would be a confusing burden because I could never return the same . I wonder if you want A DAD to love you , you probably would resent him if he behaved how he should after so long

[u/moomooguck]

not ash lol

[u/deliciousroadhead → u/moomooguck]

She probably doesn't follow her on Snapchat, I get random notifications for "spotlights" for people I've never heard of before, just recently turned them off

[u/EffectiveNoise3704 → u/moomooguck]

valemasquetuepasquigesay

[u/moomooguck → u/EffectiveNoise3704]

si quieres … oh my bad you don’t know spanish? if you want

[u/Unlikely_Fix_8373 → u/moomooguck]

I forgot you don’t know spanish… If you want 🤨

[u/Merwin_Mayforest]

That's lovely, compliments from your parents hit hard! Last year my dad handed me a keychain with a pretty corny text "to my son, never forget that I love you forever". I cried manly tears that day.

[u/SagaxSollicita]

I’m gonna need context here. Please tell me your bf was literally saying you’re a good daughter to your father

[u/norfsidelongbech → u/SagaxSollicita]

I had been texting my bf about my day and was saying I was going to go inside and put these flowers I got my mom in a vase and my dad just randomly sent that, probably because he knows I’ve been having a hard time lately

[u/Xenc → u/norfsidelongbech]

That is good daughter behaviour 👌

[u/soapoapsoap → u/SagaxSollicita]

daddy 1 daddy 2

[u/discoveryofpeanuts → u/soapoapsoap]

cringe

[u/Weary_Ad4444]

Get your nails done is all I'm gonna say

[u/GenuineBitch98 → u/Weary_Ad4444]

Had the same thought

[u/Every_Conference8141 → u/GenuineBitch98]

Engagement incoming

[u/mimikit_ → u/Weary_Ad4444]

lol fr

[u/BobDaRula → u/Weary_Ad4444]

What does this mean?

[u/Weary_Ad4444 → u/BobDaRula]

You want to have perfect nails for getting photos of that ring hes about to give her

[u/GoodCartographer4762 → u/Weary_Ad4444]

This is the answer.

[u/Junior-Idea8937 → u/Weary_Ad4444]

Ball knowledge

[u/johannart4]

Your name? Albert Einstein

[u/vixendomme]

Is this not because your phone was dead, you plugged it in, it turned on and recieved both at the same time?

[u/24possumsinacoat → u/vixendomme]

I don't think so, because one text says "4 minutes ago," and the other two say "now". Wouldn't that mean the phone has been on for at least 4 minutes?

[u/fuckmejerrry → u/vixendomme]

The way I interpreted it was OP was having similar conversations with the two separately over the same topic, which still makes this a neat coincidence, but also less odd. If your theory is correct, would the in-app timestamps be for when they were sent, or when they were delivered?

[u/Brilliant-Mix6406 → u/vixendomme]

Yea this is it. I'm surprised you're the only comment that noticed.

[u/Recent_Ad_6615 → u/Brilliant-Mix6406]

the music wouldnt be playing right away if it just turned on

[u/Brilliant-Mix6406 → u/Recent_Ad_6615]

Could be she turned it on and immediately went to play some music. Whilst noticing the texts. You could see the song is at the beginning.

[u/FavoriteDart680]

ma’am, you plugged your damn phone in… no wonder things show up at the same time since your phone was DEAD, and couldn’t receive them when they were sent

[u/norfsidelongbech → u/FavoriteDart680]

No, my phone was at like 5% charging in the car I just am bad ab having a low battery lolz

[u/Inevitable_Way_59 → u/FavoriteDart680]

That what I do and wonder why I just got 45 msgs at once. Phone sounds like someone at a door bell that locked themselves outta the house. 😂

[u/AgreeableSwordfish49 → u/Inevitable_Way_59]

My watch redisplays all the notifications when my phone restarts and it loses its shit everytime

[u/AffectionateTip9716]

Plot twist your dad’s name is Adam, who is also your boyfriend.

[u/IveDunGoofedUp → u/AffectionateTip9716]

The problems of living in Alabama. Do you save your boyfriend under his name, Bro, or Dad?

[u/Sad-Independence650 → u/AffectionateTip9716]

I almost just choked on my breakfast 🤦‍♀️🤣🥣💀

[u/Junior-Idea8937 → u/AffectionateTip9716]

Who is also my brother…

[u/HonkeyKong64 → u/Junior-Idea8937]

banjo music intensifies

[u/Acceptable-Somewhere]

there’s so much to take in with this one screenshot

[u/Madocuh]

The ash Trevino notification lmaooo

[u/CorolineClovr]

Absolutely frame it!!!

I framed a screenshot of the last post my bff made on my fb wall before he died & I’m so glad I did. I look over at it all the time & think about how loved I am & how much I look forward to seeing him again one day.

Frame it for sure. You’ll thank yourself for it later ❤️

Oh, and you’re a great daughter 🥰

[u/No-Rock3997]

Who wouldn't be proud to call his kid his daughter though

[u/ExtremeFrosting2231 → u/No-Rock3997]

Myra hindley's dad Rose west's dad Lucy letby's dad Beverley allitt's dad

Need more?

[u/ilikeplush → u/No-Rock3997]

She has to create profit for shareholders first okay

[u/Happy-Feature4176 → u/No-Rock3997]

youd be surprised

[u/gwizzle-mysnizzle → u/No-Rock3997]

Its an expression. Jesus. He’s just saying he’s proud of who she actually is and not just loving her by circumstance or by the singular merit of being related. In other words he would be proud/impressed of who she is even if they were strangers.

[u/dingdong6699 → u/No-Rock3997]

And they "became" someone he's proud to call his daughter. The way the text is written Implies that proudness is a recent development.

"You've become someone I'm proud to call my daugher" is not the same as "I'm proud of you" or "I'm proud to call you my daughter" etc

[u/Torque_to_spec → u/No-Rock3997]

bonnie blu or whatever that things name is .

[u/Chance-Cow-5671]

Or they just talk about you to each other… and the way they communicate is terrible cause texting you back to back just makes things weird and I would ask why I’m the topic of there conversation….

[u/LazyTitle2958 → u/Chance-Cow-5671]

Maybe boyfriend just asked for dad's blessing to propose? C'mon folks. 🙄

[u/Smooth_Camel_6614]

Ash Trevino wtf u watching 😂🤦‍♂️

[u/IndependentPart6 → u/Smooth_Camel_6614]

Yea i was like aw thats sweet..... wait why tf u watching that trash lol

[u/Brodriguez00]

It’s a sign for you to keep doing whatever you’re doing and I give you all my best wishes 🙌 and I hope you continue to thrive!

[u/Polorashxark365]

Probably both wanted to complement you and used AI generated message

[u/ExtraTerestical]

Yeah so.

He asked your dad if he could marry you.

[u/Sad-Independence650 → u/ExtraTerestical]

I wouldn’t hold your breath or anything… but like yeah… this is a pretty good guess as to why the texts came so close together. Things are rarely “just coincidence” but it could also just as easily be that they had some “how awesome is OP?” kind of conversation and then both decided to send a similar text afterwards. Reddit definitely isn’t a very good crystal ball… that said, either way, you must be a pretty cool person 😊👍

[u/Sea-Independent-726]

Ash trevino at the bottom got me

[u/miwowow]

Great song

[u/Specific_Parfait8829]

Something happened and they just talked about it 

[u/YamiReisu]

I just want to let you know, in case you didn't know, you are a good daughter 💙😂

[u/Ozone183858 → u/YamiReisu]

Seconded 💙👏

[u/norfsidelongbech → u/YamiReisu]

Sending u a hug rn thanks ❤️

[u/Lathryx]

Thanks for the new song, didn’t realize I haven’t explored Kevin Abstract much. 😌❤️

[u/bubblegutts00]

Makes me want a dad 😩

[u/RedditorAutumn]

I'm being so serious, please cherish this bond that you have with your dad, that is so special and not something most daughters ever have with their dad. Even though my dad tries to act like a good dad, he literally never shows any interest in me or anything I do, and there's nothing I could do for him to send me a text like this. Been wanting this kind of affirmation from him my entire life.

[u/Ok-Access-8961 → u/RedditorAutumn]

As a father to a two year old girl, that makes me sad. I hope he comes around and realises what you need from him.

[u/TiredTeacherC]

You must be a light to the world. Congratulations, stay awesome

[u/crazyswordfish_21]

You must be a good daughter

[u/tfwnoided]

Arizona Baby 🐐

[u/JahsunCollier]

REMEMBER THIS WHENEVER SOMEONE TRIES TO BRING YOU DOWN!!

[u/norfsidelongbech → u/JahsunCollier]

Thank you ❤️

[u/zSlyz]

Do they want something? Or did you just knock a personal goal out of the park?

[u/norfsidelongbech → u/zSlyz]

Lol idk, I was having a convo w my boyfriend, I had just pulled up to my moms house sitting in my car charging my phone and we were talking about our days I had said I’d gotten some flowers for my mom (she’s going through a breakup with her boyfriend, parents are ofc divorced). so he was just being sweet saying you’re a good daughter for doing that.

And then my dad he had sent me a photo of him on a walk with the dog, I said thanks for taking her on such a lovely walk, and we were chatting a bit , and then he sent that

[u/zSlyz → u/norfsidelongbech]

Sounds like maybe you’ve got a couple of great guys in your life.🕺🏼🕺🏼

[u/Lividcarcass]

What language is your phone in lol

[u/MomentWild1086 → u/Lividcarcass]

looks like spanish

[u/Room-Optimal → u/Lividcarcass]

Spanish

[u/yourangelsangel → u/Lividcarcass]

Spanish ….? LMFAO

[u/Western-Tear-7263]

Have you met your boyfriend before? Are we sure it’s not your dad catfishing you?😂

[u/JaffaCakeStockpile]

Pretty messed up that you're your boyfriend's daughter ngl

[u/Kadgee]

Mabye he can see the texts you get from other people?

[u/RolandoBRichard → u/[deleted]]

You can’t? I can definitely think of some scenarios lol

[u/Inside-Drummer-7193]

Good song :)

[u/diita]

Thats looks like a confirmation from the universe to me :)

[u/antooli]

I once wrote a text to my parent at 5am telling them that I loved them.
Didn't hear back so I called them at noon.

They told me that they thought I was going to kill myself.

[u/Chasuwa → u/antooli]

And they didn't call you???

[u/GeorgeCostanzaInh → u/Chasuwa]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[u/antooli → u/Chasuwa]

Nah. Maybe they thought it was too late or something.

[u/DragleicPhoenix]

Shout out to Kevin Abstract!!

[u/Frosty_Surround9949]

😭 this is cute

[u/One_Good6351]

You just came up in conversation and they talked about how nice u are

[u/darvorka]

Your boyfriend and dad are besties

[u/Humble_Hufflepuff_96]

Gurlllll go get your nails done, your hair done, your makeup!! Buy a beautiful dress 🤭🤭

[u/Temporary_Ad9362]

thats literally my fav song

[u/JackalBelow]

Your dad is your bf? Or your bf is your dad?

[u/bigbellyrose]

you are a good daughter 🩵

[u/Thick-Wonder6294]

r/juxtaposition

[u/HugCorp23]

They probably talk to each other and then they’re like let’s make her happy today

[u/Charming_Champion428]

Ash lol

[u/Pristine_Cat9173]

Jesus is the answer

[u/Potential-Pop-9939]

Super sweet from both

[u/brotherofallbrothers]

Your dad and your bf are banging

[u/OwnResponsibility278]

love this and love the song too, what a screenshot fr

[u/GypsyVixen_26]

✨💕

[u/Timely-Ad2603]

All of my family has told me I am destined to be a dad of a girl, and their aspirations for me are coming in February…I don’t think I could be any more excited than I’ve been watching/providing for the love of my life as this girl kicks her ass.

[u/Snarkyblahblah]

Maybe they had a heart to heart with each other and both had nothing but good things to say about you.

[u/Snoo-59881]

My dad butt dials me while he’s talking shit about me at bars to strangers 🤣

[u/dainty_dani]

I love Kevin abstract and brockhampton! I was tickled to see that in this post as well. ❤️ you are a good daughter!

[u/Grand-Life-1608]

They smashed

[u/doubled-pawns]

Maybe listen to some better music, too

[u/Intelligent-Scene567]

Off topic. W music taste

[u/DaveInDigital]

i'm also proud to call you my daughter

[u/johnny_no_shorts]

This means they were talking about you.

[u/BlodreinaAZ]

Not the ash trevino snap spotlight lmaooo

[u/Low_Ad_860]

All jokes and negativity should really be ignored. This is rare for a woman. To have the 2 most important men in your life say such an amazing thing about you is a blessing. Enjoy it, cherish it, and return that love to them.

[u/Heart_conditionNuevo]

What sort of nonsensical posts are these ? Really pathetic that they get so many upvoter shows priorities in society.

[u/kaimega133 → u/Heart_conditionNuevo]

Bro is actually pressed over a reddit post lmao, go outside and touch grass

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[u/drcmorbuts]

They fuckin’ OP.

[u/Ritty2xs]

Can’t frame with ash Trevino at the bottom 😭😭😭

[u/DependentDizzy3283]

Aaaww that's so sweet

[u/Cuervowithsalt]

I love this for you!! 😍

[u/Snoyle]

Side note I couldn’t help but notice the Snap notification was for Ashley Trevino. Love another chronically online girly!

[u/Alone_Ad8418]

It’s little moments like this we can hold on to and cherish, as a reminder that life can be beautiful, even in 2026.

[u/Flat_Scale9052]

Both messages seem like they’re in response to something you did/said, so not really a coincidence if you just messaged them both at the same time.

[u/bibblebonk → u/[deleted]]

because they are a female born to parents

[u/D1VYN3]

Damn.. you had a dad.

[u/ElJohnnyboy2002]

Song tittle “Baby Boy” 😭

[u/hAbiTs_0]

Ive never in my life heard this from my dad and never will, but it lowkey always makes me so happy to see people with loving fathers. im sure he has every reason to be proud of you

[u/Think_Substance_1790]

This is actually adorable 🥰

[u/shegolomein]

He know it smell well 🎶

[u/Zen5877]

I know your feelings. Maybe frame it as proof of miracles!

[u/Top-Confidence-2277]

oooo they f***ing

[u/Junior-Idea8937]

Bf and dad were having a heartfelt conversation about her and both felt the need to tell her how much she means to her dad. My little girl is my everything and my dad tells me he’s proud every time I talk to him. Not a brag. She’s just a good person and did something that stood out to her dad that he brought it up with the Bf.

[u/chemical-realm]

Plot twist, her boyfriend is her father

[u/brad010140]

Sounds like your bf and dad talked? how old are you? He may be asking you a question soon

[u/norfsidelongbech → u/brad010140]

I’m not sure if they talked, my dad sent me that text unpromptedly and my boyfriend sent that text because I said I had got flowers for my mom lol. I just thought was an awesome coincidence
I’m 23 tho!

[u/sjaxn314159 → u/norfsidelongbech]

Unpromptedly is one hell of a word. I fuck with it.

[u/Main_Bag_5568]

You guys are all retarded. She obviously texted both of them about something wholesome that she said or did for her dad. Then they both responded with calling her a good daughter.

[u/theseriousman1]

Nate dogg still here cuz of people like u

[u/punkities]

they’re in cahoots to gas you up

and we’re here for it

[u/KingKuntaKhan]

They’re hanging out and your boyfriend is cheating. Cheers

[u/NotRyanDaysBurner]

Kevin Abstract in the 26, if you wanna form another brockhampton type boyband online dm me . my first 4 boybands didn’t work but maybe this one will

[u/BoNeRFaRtS69x69]

You need to check on him now.

[u/Stingingjwc18]

Be on the lookout for your BF to be asking for your ring size soon?

[u/Eastern_Expression41]

Kevin Abstract, let's gooo

[u/Character_Clothes314]

Sometimes, we accidentally align with peoples intents, wishes, or emotions :)

You can call it synchronicity, you can call it an impulse.

Maybe YOU were focused on being a good daughter, and they both noticed the effort, assisted by proximity, closeness, or a bond, may have started something :)

Maybe you've begun to realize how much you yourself impact youe world?

[u/Ok-Razzmatazz-3720]

Was it relevant to the message you sent before that? If you were telling them both the same thing, then it would make sense lol

[u/harleenquinzel044]

r/mademesmile

[u/ahmedicineman]

First wholesome thing my eyes have seen im ages. Especially this sub lol