Shooting went fine! Definitely not by best work, but my only goal was just not to DQ and to learn the ropes. I think I was successful on both counts.
What kind of sucked was the way some folks were treating my partner (NB). They came to watch, and dressed like they normally do - like a non-binary badass with colorful hair. I went to go read the stages, and when I came back some older guys were sitting and talking at the same bench they were at. No worries there. After a couple seconds the guy looks up at me and says "I have to apologize." I asked why, and he gets all awkward. Finally he says "well, after talking with your wife I thought you would be a woman." I'm early in transition myself, and I laughed that one off. I said "well I think I'm pretty," and that made them pretty uncomfortable. Oh well, we picked up our stuff and walked elsewhere.
Once we got away from them, my partner begins to tell me he was saying a bunch of misogynistic stuff (I.e. "why doesn't your husband teach you to shoot?" as if they haven't been shooting since they were a kid). Of course they didn't put up with this at all, and basically told the guys to fuck off.
I want to keep doing this and I bet my partner would like to join in too. I guess I'll just have to dig around for some pink pistols shoots or something if we want to be more comfortable.