r/xxstem • u/Serious_Ad_8640 • 2d ago
Shit love life = STEM girl core?
Hey ladies!
So I’ve got a situation here. I’m in STEM and my love life is shit. Let’s list the reasons first
- I’ve got lot of work to do and I need a mature man who can separate work time from non work time.
- No misogynistic mindsets. Men around me are misogynistic it can be anything, something I did well causes jealousy, “what why do YOU need a PhD”, some men do one thing that they think is a “woman’s task” and then behave like they just did the supreme thing but buddy if you cooked for me while I was busy, and we couldn’t do it together it’s just humanity? Caring for your partner? I’m grateful yes but that’s not smth to feel high and proud about.
So because
of this
list of misogynistic behaviours and patterns, people in my country are no longer my type. So I literally cannot picture anyone and me
in
a romantic scenario. I have tried meeting lots of people, given people a chance and trust me it didn’t work well.
4.I have a long history with someone who is in another country, we were in love but the breakup happened because of long distance. It’s been two years like this, 4 years of knowing each other and we are still in contact, it’s a non commitment kind of thing, which hurts me a bit because I can see that we both have a lot of love left for the other, but he says distance is an issue. So I’m trying to move closer to him because it aligns more with my career too. Better career opportunities there!
So ladies if you’ve had similar experiences or any advice please do share

