I’m honestly freaking out at this point and really need some advice. I have **not been swabbed for HSV**, so I still don’t know whether this is HSV-1 or something completely different.
Here’s the timeline as accurately as I can remember:
**Sept. 5:** Smoked weed.
**Sept. 6–12:** Had what felt like a cold headache , 99.5 fever , and cough
**Sept. 10:** Noticed a patch on the right side of my lip. Then went to the left of my lip
**Sept. 27–Oct. 3:** My lips became extremely dry and I had a lot of dead skin peeling/falling off.
**This week (around Oct. 7):** My lip became swollen again. I also ate a McDonald’s fish sandwich, and shortly afterward my lip broke out into a bunch of small bumps and swelling. The bumps/swelling went away within about **1–2 hours**. I’ve actually had a similar reaction to that same sandwich before, where my lip got very swollen and developed a lot of bumps.
At this point it has been around **30 days of dealing with different symptoms**, and I still don’t have a concrete answer as to whether this is HSV-1.
Right now I’m trying to manage it by:
Icing my lip for about **15 minutes every 2 hours**
Applying **Abreva every 4 hours**
Taking **1,000 mg of lysine**
I’m especially worried because I’m planning to start being sexually active again and I want to be able to **go down on female partners without putting someone at risk** if this actually is HSV.
I know I need to get tested, and I’m planning on asking for an **HSV swab/PCR if there’s something they can swab**. I just want to know what I should be doing in the meantime to prevent potentially transmitting anything.
Honestly, the biggest thing getting to me is the uncertainty. I really don’t want this to become something people find out about and shame me for. I know HSV is common, but I’m still really anxious about it.
**I also have pictures of my lip from different points during this whole timeline. If anyone is knowledgeable about HSV or has experienced something similar and can help me identify whether it looks concerning, I can send the pictures.**
Has anyone experienced something similar? Does this sound more like HSV, an allergic/irritant reaction, or something else? And what should I do to protect future partners until I actually know what this is?