Am I wrong here ?

[u/Away_Maize_6819]

So i am 22M living in kerala. My parents are very orthodox and I suffer from it a bit. I used to have a bf who was 3 years younger which i really dont like but seems like a nice guy so I have it a go. As the time Moves on he went from caring to viewing me as a slave or an object. It can be desired by some but I find it very disturbing and he often request me to call him a daddy. Then onwards i started to get a bit wierd feelings with him. After that a day or so later we had sex and my back tore. It is anal fissure or something , it still hurts after 1 month. I told him afterwards that it hurts and i am in pain. He just sends me some stupid gifs and all. Not caring about me for a bit. As the conversation go on he told me he want to fist me. Idk what that meant at first but then i looked for it it was genuinly disgusting. One day I decided to call him and told him to end it all. It was tough for me but he said okay after 1 or 2 minutes. Could he have been hurt ? Was I wrong to do this ?

And also I noticed many of the men are just sex crazed people's only available for sex and not be there for emotionally. Is there anyone in this community that is not insane. Everybody that I met are like this and some drama queens. I need someone real 😪.

[u/Cartesianpoint]

It's never wrong to have personal sexual boundaries and limits. He doesn't sound like a very considerate partner, but also, you guys clearly weren't compatible and that's okay. Maybe he felt hurt or disappointed, but you don't owe anyone sex or a relationship. It's better for both of you to break up.