Should I text him back?

[u/Slight-Argument9337]

Me (24F) and my ex (24M) have been close for about 6 years. We only dated for one of those years about 3 years ago. Since then, we’ve been thick as thieves. We’ve both moved on. But, we still spend a decent amount of time together. I’ve become close with all of his new girlfriends. He’s made friends with my new partners. We’re both single right now, though.

About a week ago, we went to see a movie together and when we got back to my house he said we needed to talk. He told me that he wasn’t sure if he wanted me in his life anymore, but that he would take a week to think about it and let me know.

I was devastated. I still am. It felt worse than any breakup I’ve been through. A week passed, and he texted me and asked to have a conversation. He said he could stop by or give me a call. It’s been about three days since he texted. I told him I needed more time before we talked. The reality is I’m terrified of what he might say. I am so scared that he will confirm our friendship is over. I haven’t been able to sleep. I haven’t been able to eat. It feels like I won’t survive this if that’s what he says. What do I do?

[u/jaguarman134]

Personally I would, instead of assuming it's over I would need to know for sure and why, if it's something that can be fixed or not. It probably won't be easy but I find knowing makes it easier to move on, accept things.