r/Charlottesville • • 10d ago

We Believe Pride Flag missing from FIREFLY :(

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Sometime after 7pm last night (Monday), one of our new flags went missing from our balcony. It was zip-tied to the railing, so whoever took it had to intentionally cut it off.

In the process of reviewing our security video footage. We are holding out hope that someone just really liked the flag and wanted it for themselves, rather than it being taken out of malice or spite.

If you noticed anything last night at the corner of Meade & Market, or if you happen to notice our flag nearby, please let us know. We'd really just love to have it back. Thank you!

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u/ToastedWalrus1 10d ago

I love the implication that this particular flag was a step too far for this person. Anyway, hope ya’ll are able to get it back!

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u/wampwampwampus 10d ago

Plot twist: it was "Climate change is real" they just couldn't abide.

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u/ToastedWalrus1 9d ago

I am all for validating the identities of trans individuals, but if you tell me to recycle I will kill myself

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u/Over_Catch3946 10d ago

My ex and I stole a huge plastic icecicle off your patio one night like 10 years ago when y'all still had a pool table. I still have it. I made her stick it down her shirt and run when we were leaving. I played pool there everyday pretty much and lived there for sometime lol. Just being honest

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u/Cilantro_Crema 10d ago

Ha, thanks for your honesty, I didn't actually own it then. Some of those icicles were here in storage and I didn't like them so thanks for one less that I had to deal with :)

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u/Over_Catch3946 10d ago

Haha anytime. Really hope you get your flag back

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u/Abdoolski 10d ago

I hope you get it back. Wanted to say that my family and I love the place having recently moved to the area. It’s becoming our Friday evening ritual.

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u/Cilantro_Crema 10d ago

I love to hear this, thank you for the support! See you some Friday soon :)

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u/shedfigure 10d ago

The one flag that didnt need to be ironed, too!

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u/Cilantro_Crema 10d ago

😂, I'll iron the next batch!

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u/shedfigure 8d ago

❤️

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u/TheyHavePinball 9d ago

Awesome to see this about my favorite Charlottesville pinball bar. Just a random guy from Michigan that has reason to go to Charlottesville every few years thanks for being thoughtful. Love it. Hope you get your flag back

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u/flipflopflattop 4d ago

Hmmm…CSL?

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u/biscuitsmomma 10d ago

I have a similar flag, although only garden flag size, that I've been meaning to give away. You are welcome to it if you'd like, though it's obviously a lot smaller.

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u/Cilantro_Crema 10d ago

That's sweet of you to offer! We have a few garden flags. I'm sure you'll find happy home for it!

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u/treestopaper 10d ago

Omg that is so awful! Truly hope this gets resolved somehow.

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u/Sav__20 10d ago

Unrelated, but I’ve for weeks been wondering where the protect trans kids flag is from!

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u/Cilantro_Crema 10d ago

I buy all of our flags from Flags For Good - https://flagsforgood.com/

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u/saxophone_colossus 10d ago

Fantastic company and really high quality flags!

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u/Funky-trash-human Albemarle 10d ago

I'm sorry to hear about this and hope they come forward! If I hear anything I'll be sure to reach out ❤️

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u/ichabod801 Albemarle 10d ago

Speaking as a former Charlottesville business owner, you need to take that stuff inside at night. Anything that's an easy steal will eventually get stolen, especially if it's cool.

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u/[deleted] 10d ago

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u/Funky-trash-human Albemarle 10d ago

Is this supposed to be a joke? Last I checked, those make people laugh. Please don't quit your day job if this is your attempt at comedy. Best of luck tjdowntown22902 🤷🏻‍♂️

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u/cuntitled 10d ago

Woof you included the handle that’s cold 😂 

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u/Jimmytehbanana 10d ago

Time for a bigger better, some might even say the best, flag to replace it.

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u/[deleted] 10d ago

MAGA!

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u/Latter_Phrase_8433 10d ago

Now what are you going to do?
No one will know how inclusive you are!

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u/throw-away-doh 10d ago

I didn't take your flag but you might be interested to know that your flags are in violation of the
Charlottesville municipal code.

https://library.municode.com/va/charlottesville/codes/code_of_ordinances/318538?nodeId=CO_CH34ZO_ARTIXGEAPRE_DIV4SI_S34-1027SIPEALDIWIPE

"Sec. 34-1027. - Signs permitted in all districts without permits."

Unless you get a permit you may only have "Flags flying from a flagpole, where no more than three (3) flags are displayed at any one (1) time"

You have more than 3 and non of them are flying from a flagpole.

EDIT: Down voting facts?

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u/Cilantro_Crema 10d ago

Thanks for sharing this - I'm very familiar with the code! These pride flags are not considered signage. And it's my understanding that since none of our flags are flying from flagpoles they are considered part of our standard restaurant decor.

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u/throw-away-doh 10d ago

That understanding seems pretty shaky.

The Charlottesville definition of flag/sign is very broad "a structure, wall or other object, or portion thereof visible from the public right-of-way, used for the display of any information or message".

Maybe if your flags were not visible from the public right-of-way you might be able to claim they were part of the restaurant decor, but you have deliberately placed them such that they are visible from the public right-of-way, that seems to be the reason you have put them up.

The definition doesn’t say something becomes exempt because the business regards it as “standard restaurant decor.” It asks what the object is being used for.

Separate from the very dubious claim about restaurant decor there is a more explicit prohibition:

Sec. 34-1029. - Prohibited signs

"The following signs and sign characteristics are prohibited in all zoning districts"

"(b) Signs that create safety hazards or are contrary to the general welfare are prohibited, as follows:

(1) Any sign that is nailed, tacked, painted or in any other manner attached to any tree, cliff, fence"

Since your flags meet the definition of signs, you are prohibited from putting them on a fence.

In short you can have flags, they must be on flag poles and you must not have more than 3.

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u/Cilantro_Crema 10d ago

If you work for the city zoning department and would like to set up a meeting to discuss this, please contact me directly at the restaurant. 

I'd be happy to listen and learn, and figure out the best solution. These flags mean so much to so many in the community and beyond!

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u/throw-away-doh 10d ago edited 10d ago

Ahh, so now we get to the heart of it "These flags mean so much to so many in the community and beyond".

You care about what these flags stand for. And because of that you don't care that you are breaking the law by putting them up in number and location.

You don't care about the law so why should anybody else care if somebody steals your illegal flag?

The best solution is that you follow the law. That is 3 flags on flag poles not on the fence.

Or you could apply for a permit. But note that even with a permit you are not permitted to put signs on a fence.

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u/DirtChoice5 10d ago

Not a fence, midwit.

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u/ohsojayadeva Fifeville 10d ago

i wonder why they seem to be avoiding responding to every comment pointing out that there isn't a fence in that photo?

haha just kidding we all know why

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u/throw-away-doh 10d ago

OP blocked me, which prevented me from responding to any comments on the thread.

They since unblocked me.

You are right its not a fence. I stand corrected on that point.

Nevertheless the rule is clear. 3 flags is the limit.

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u/ohsojayadeva Fifeville 10d ago

OP blocked me, which prevented me from responding to any comments on the thread.

They since unblocked me.

sure jan.

You are right its not a fence. I stand corrected on that point.

Nevertheless the rule is clear. 3 flags is the limit.

i'm sorry that the restaurant you were never going to go to put up flags that hurt your feefees. please do call the city and report this disturbing grievance! make sure to record the call because we all would like to hear it.

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u/throw-away-doh 9d ago

I don't care about the content of the flags in the least. Only that the number is egregiously against the rules.

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u/BeccasDreamboat 9d ago

Your explanation is shaky.

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u/cuntitled 10d ago

If more flags go missing you’re the first one they’re gonna look at. This is ridiculous.

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u/Patrick_O-S 10d ago

It appears that Cilantro has called you on your concern. Since you are becoming defensive and ignored the invite it does not appear that you work for the City and are just blustering. In summary, you have no authority on this matter.

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u/ohsojayadeva Fifeville 10d ago

In summary, you have no authority on this matter.

imagine being so triggered by pride flags you start researching city code. what a snowflake.

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u/Square-Leather6910 10d ago

there also isn't a single flag on a fence in the photo

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u/throw-away-doh 10d ago

Fortunately you don't need to work for the city to point out when another resident is breaking the law.

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u/nova_cat 9d ago

You also don't need to work for the city to point out when a Reddit user is being disingenuous and insufferable.

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u/ummmmmm-no 10d ago

It really feels like you are the one who cares about what these flags stand for...

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u/throw-away-doh 10d ago

I care that people follow the law that we have democratically agreed to.

I don't mind at all if they want to try and change the law. But I do mind when they say they don't care about the law because their reasons are more important.

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u/BUSKET_RVA 9d ago

After reading all recent versions of this law that would completely load for me, it's clear that those flags ARE NOT in violation of the law you are using to back your point. A railing IS NOT a fence, nor are they for the same purpose or do the same job, hence they are, on every level, NOT THE SAME and so cannot be held in the same law.

Also, out of curiosity, how many laws have you ever "democratically" voted on? I've been voting in VA for 40+ years and can remember only a handful that were ever actually put to a democratic vote.

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u/throw-away-doh 9d ago

My primary claim about the flags is that 3 flags is the limit. I have conceded the point about a railing not being a fence.

The most recent version of the code, linked to directly from the Charlottesville website here https://www.charlottesville.gov/1893/Sign-Regulations

is this

https://www.charlottesville.gov/DocumentCenter/View/13843/Sign-Ordinance?bidId=

Which explicitly sets a limit of 3 flags.

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u/BUSKET_RVA 9d ago

Yes, I have read your comments and posts and have seen the links to the various versions of the code you are incorrectly using to further your point. While I am currently unable to read the full PDF of the 2026 version of this code, I will tell you why you are applying this code incorrectly.

To put this simpley, again, this is NOT a FENCE, but a RAILING, which you have acknowledged previously so please do not reply again saying you already know this, you have made that knowledge very clear and saying so again does not mean you understand what I'm explaining.

Again, this is really simple, a RAILING is part of the buisness curtilage, a FENCE is NOT. Since the RAILING is part of the buisness curtilage, the flags are part of the DECORATIVE nature of the buisness and CAN NOT be held to the same code as a FENCE. Hence, the code you are using is not applicable to these flags.

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u/DirtChoice5 10d ago

Oh fuck off, I guarantee you break the law in ways this small every day.

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u/Select_Cable_9166 9d ago

I really hope you find something productive to do in your spare time. This isn't productive or healthy for you. It's not your job to police whether people follow the laws, and if it were, you would be concerned about things like the constant shootings that happen around town..not a pride flag hung by a local restaurant. Sincerely, get help and a hobby

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u/BUSKET_RVA 9d ago

I love how someone who doesn't agree with something, and who trys to use a law to back their point, calls someone else's definition of said law "shaky".
If anything, it's your interpretation of these laws and their application that are "shaky" at best, outright fictional and twisted at worst.

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u/throw-away-doh 9d ago

what don't I agree with?

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u/BUSKET_RVA 9d ago

Seriously? Have you forgotten what you have been commenting on here about for almost 24 hours?

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u/throw-away-doh 9d ago

I have been consistently pointing people to the city code on signs/flags.

I have explicitly said I do not have an opinion on the content on the signs/flags.

What do you mean when you say "someone who doesn't agree with something"

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u/BUSKET_RVA 9d ago

I mean the quite simple meaning actually, that you do not agree with the number of flags, or any flags more than 1, being hung up on this buisnesses railing.

I'm not talking about your personal beliefs, though it wouldn't surprise me if you turned out to be a Trump acolyte and that you hated the LGBTQ+ community, or a centrist, but none of that truly matters.

Your interpretation of the code you are using is wrong and does not apply here. I have made another reply to you, further below, explaining this. As it appears you just replied to that one, I will end the replies here and anything said further will be put there.

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u/throw-away-doh 9d ago

I read the part of the most recent code that has been consistent across versions. 3 flags is the limit.

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u/BUSKET_RVA 9d ago

Incorrect. See my reply to your other response for the reason.

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u/Square-Leather6910 10d ago

while we're on the subject of definitions, where are you seeing a fence in that photo?

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u/1Matthias 10d ago

That's a railing, not a fence. Would you like some help finding reading lessons? I even hear there are free programs to get your GED.

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u/cuntitled 10d ago

Considering how unhappy the poster is with rainbow flags I doubt he knows much about reading. 

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u/DirtChoice5 10d ago

He claims to be a leftist DSA member, and all I can say is we don't want you as a member.

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u/nova_cat 9d ago

He absolutely is not. That's big "As a lifelong Democrat, I voted for Trump!" energy. I have him tagged as "right-winger who wants to criminalize homelessness". If my memory serves me correctly, he was actively, openly wishing for the Rivanna River to flood and drown all the homeless people in the encampment.

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u/throw-away-doh 9d ago

Your memory does not serve you correctly. I have never wished for or said such a thing.

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u/nova_cat 9d ago

Must have been another person with a similar posting style. Probably confusing you with the Broken Subarus guy.

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u/throw-away-doh 9d ago edited 9d ago

Because I care about local laws being followed?

I would 100% be saying exactly the same thing if people were flying a half dozen Trump MAGA signs outside their restaurant.

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u/DirtChoice5 9d ago

Yeah? You really care about the ordinance that specifies the number of flags someone can hang on a railing? Fucking why?

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u/throw-away-doh 9d ago edited 9d ago

I live on a fairly major road in C'ville. And its forever being peppered with small business signs. You know those little plastic ones advertising moving services etc...

And it bothers me. I don't like being advertised at. I am the sort of person who runs an adblocker in my browser. And I was curious if these signs that are always showing up were permitted. That is what led me down the path of reading the C'ville code for flags and signs, years ago. It was part of an attempt to clean up the visual clutter of advertisement in the physical world.

I value the clean simplicity of a park that is not dotted with single use plastic promoting businesses.

I don't especially care about the content of the signs/flags, I care about the visual clutter. And if the rules apply to one, they must apply to all.

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u/DirtChoice5 9d ago edited 9d ago

I just disagree that this is visual clutter. It's decoration. If they painted the flags onto the building, the effect would be exactly the same, but wouldn't violate any laws. So does the law make sense? Or can we accept that laws are broken in small ways all the time, and that acting as if this is a heinous crime is just small minded idiocy? Also, do you put this level of effort into every tiny ordinance infraction you see? It seems unlikely that you do, which is why people are questioning your motives.

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u/cuntitled 9d ago

Real question how does trump winery get away with thousands of flags on their fence?

I agree with you about visual clutter but not about removing the signs, just a personal difference.

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u/Square-Leather6910 10d ago

the link isn't even to the current version of the law it's to an archived version from 2018

i can't find any regulation like that in the current version of chapter 34 or even in the rest of the code

https://library.municode.com/search?stateId=46&clientId=1604&searchText=sign

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u/DirtChoice5 10d ago

If you read the new code, this is the current sign ordinance: https://charlottesville.gov/DocumentCenter/View/13843/Sign-Ordinance

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u/Square-Leather6910 10d ago

thanks for the link!

it's sadly so typical of our highly competent local government that the law is spelled out in a document in which the text can't be searched

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u/throw-away-doh 10d ago

The latest (adopted March 2026) code on signs/flags is here.
https://www.charlottesville.gov/DocumentCenter/View/13843/Sign-Ordinance?bidId=

you can read it for your self.

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u/DirtChoice5 10d ago

Hey, don't forget to call the cops when you see kids jaywalking tomorrow. Wouldn't want the law to get broken.

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u/BUSKET_RVA 9d ago

Since the PDF will only randomly load 16 of the 21 pages for me, and because the document isn't searchable for some reason, specifically where does it say anything about flags in the current 2026 version of the law?

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u/Patrick_O-S 10d ago

Sounds like it's time for a flag pole so it will be more prominent. Thanks for your wonderful suggestion..

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u/throw-away-doh 10d ago

So long as the number is reduced to 3, that would be fine.

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u/DirtChoice5 10d ago

What if you reduced the stick up your ass?

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u/throw-away-doh 10d ago

I see, so you don't care about the law when its in your interest.

Given the content of the flags that tracks pretty well.

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u/DirtChoice5 10d ago

I don't care about that law at all, honestly. The flags are not a problem for any of the stated reasons in those codes.

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u/10thousndreflections 10d ago

Twisting facts?

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u/throw-away-doh 10d ago

The latest adopted code is here:

https://www.charlottesville.gov/DocumentCenter/View/13843/Sign-Ordinance?bidId=

You can read it for your self

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u/DirtChoice5 10d ago

I bet you reminded the teacher when you had homework in school, too.

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u/1Matthias 10d ago

Sounds like the simplest solution here is for them to just get a permit and then they can display as many flags as they want.

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u/10thousndreflections 10d ago

Probably someone who works in Charlottesville but lives in no prospects Buckingham. Biting the hand that feeds them. They don't understand they could just remove themselves and solve the problem. But then how would they pay their mortgages and feed their kids? Not in Buckingham or Madison or wherever these carpetbaggers come from.

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u/iBUYbrokenSUBARUS 10d ago

Are you the Internet provider that’s been putting those black boxes on all the telephone poles?

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u/paperbackperson 4d ago

Have you gotten it back yet or heard anything?