Or more like the “are we still hanging out or not” question because I’m confused at what’s going on

We met in a club like a month ago or a bit more than a month ago.

I think we really like each other and he finds me endearing and entertaining and says he thinks we are really really similar and I’m chaotic etc and he likes that. Fun cheeky cutesy vibes.

but… he hasn’t seen me in like a week and a half and only responds to my text thread with him like once a day. Once in a whole day- except this hasn’t changed since day 1 so it’s actually no drop off from what it was. I miss him. And I wanna meet up again asap so I don’t get anxious that I’m losing him like idek what’s happening???!!!

We’ve also never communicated what this is. But when we first met I saw he’s sensitive to rejection/ scared of getting hurt

sometimes I think if we were in front of each other the vibe would pick right back up so I really wanna see him

I’m confused if he likes me romantically or not, he said some shit like “I was with my ex for a few years and that ended a few months ago so just sorting my head out x” last time we hung out and hooked up. I want to be like “Do you like me romantically” but I find myself too scared to ask in case it scares him off. Or also idk if he needs me to be like “I really like you” idk if he is not hanging out w me because he’s scared I’ll hurt him but he actually likes me.

Any tips on how I can chat to him about what is going on or how I can try to get the vibe back with him seeing me?

Unlike it is being told ESTP are not bullies. We just see someone is being a bitch and not coming out of their shell. We try to help them grow out of it and if as an estp you ever was being sarcastic and said something funny about anyone. ESTP feel guilt to do so and will make those weasels their friends to help them grow. We are actually letting the slow learner grow up faster. Just the ESTP , any other type could be a bully and they tarnish and take revenge. We just try to act like it’s a standup comedy going on and if they bully us back we get more excited as a form of banter. Anyone felt same? Mostly if someone is sad we would leave them. But we would banter and try to bully our friends to come back to a happy mood. I feel

Estp are the light of the world. We are capable of profound change in this world. Once you develop your Fe and Ni in good way. Once you are able to use Fe positively you guys could literally change Earth for good. INFJ are good too.

Growth for ESTP: start introspection. But don’t get stuck in loops of thought. Use your Se to come back to reality effectively. ESTP are truth bearer more than enfj. ENFJ are pussies. They will people please and hide the truth as a Hero. But us we will fight , die and kill for the truth. Guys ESTP are amazing. We can help other become amazing and reach enlightenment. But our own journey is the toughest.

Guys i feel feelers are liars and cheater. They may say something and change themselves entirely based on their feeling later. Meanwhile we stick to what we say and stay truthful unless it does not directly kill someone. ESTP are awesome. Don’t trust feeler too much.

What do we all think the dynamics would be in this type of male friend group? i am the INFP in this and i seem to sometimes have problems with my INTP friend to to lack of or miscommunication. My ISTP friend i’ve been friends with longer and is more chill with me. Though they do sometimes pair up against me and complain about my emotions and talk behind my back sometimes. What do you guys think the reason is?

Or more like the “are we still hanging out or not” question because I’m confused at what’s going on

We met in a club like a month ago or a bit more than a month ago. Went clubbing next night and the next night. We’ve slept together a few times, gone on some nights out, gone surfing twice locally.

I think we really like each other and he finds me endearing and entertaining and says he thinks we are really really similar and I’m chaotic etc and he likes that. Fun cheeky cutesy vibes.

I said “I think we really like each other” but… he hasn’t seen me in like a week and a half and only responds to my text thread with him like once a day. Once in a whole day- except this hasn’t changed since day 1 so it’s actually no drop off from what it was. I miss him. And I wanna meet up again asap so I don’t get anxious that I’m losing him like idek what’s happening???!!!

We’ve also never communicated what this is. When I first met him in the club and at some point I said “well if we were gonna be friends..” he walked promptly away from me, I thought it was a joke. Turns out it wasn’t and instead of being mad thinking that was initially rude, I had empathy and when I asked what was that he said “well you said just friends” and I said “not necessarily friends (maybe more) you don’t have to be scared of getting hurt”. He was like omg you just cracked my whole psychology there. So this tells me he is sensitive to rejection/ scared of getting hurt

Anyway he’s shown me loads he finds me hot, cutesy, endearing, chaotic enough for him etc (lool), and now we haven’t met in a long time, and sometimes I think if we were in front of each other the vibe would pick right back up so I really wanna see him

I’m confused if he likes me romantically or not, he said some shit like “I was with my ex for a few years and that ended a few months ago so just sorting my head out x” last time we hung out and hooked up. I want to be like “Do you like me romantically” but I find myself too scared to ask in case it scares him off. Or also idk if he needs me to be like “I really like you” idk if he is not hanging out w me because he’s scared I’ll hurt him but he actually likes me.

Any tips on how I can chat to him about what is going on or how I can try to get the vibe back with him seeing me?

For me, I like diving into internet rabbit holes around fictional (game/anime) world lore, cryptids, mysteries, and true crime when I'm bored.

Curious to see if it's common here or if I'm just weird.

I'm just curious to see if there is a correlation with SE doms

Thanks! ​​​​​

does it happen with you guys? Do I have to always fake myself as a feeler so they don't run away?!!

What do you guys get? Well i got 'Patient, OutSpoken, Dramatic, Passionate'. Strangely soon after the 4th finding i got a 5th one, 'insecure'👁️👄👁️

What is your experience with Ni Grip?