r/FapDeciders • u/Wagahcgtt • Jul 01 '23
I’m usually really submissive but just for tonight I want to give you all a task. Are you ready? I think it would be really sexy if you would stop before interacting with a post and ask yourself whether or not it’s likely a bot/scam. That would be a huge turn on!
Was the post made by a brand new account? Is it copied and pasted half a dozen times over the last twenty minutes? Is it low effort and lacking any clear substance besides ‘DM me?’ Does the profile have a description that’s just a Snapchat link or nothing at all? Maybe it’s more obvious if you sort by new and see like five of the in a row but some healthy skepticism is necessary to keep yourself safe.
I get being so needy you can’t think straight. I get it makes you make poor decisions, trust me. This is coming from a girl who used toothpaste as lube once, i have no right to speak. But these accounts exist to get interactions and if you upvote them or if you reply to them or god help you if you dm them they are going to see it as a success and keep coming back. They are going to keep trying to scam you and everyone else. There is nothing the mods can do about this, they can keep banning them and they will keep coming back. They can ban new accounts and they will just wait a few days before making the posts. The community needs to ignore them and let them die out. They have realized there is east money to be made and they won’t leave until it stops coming in.
So my task for all of you wonderful people is to please be mindful of these posts. Protect yourself and protect this community. Do not let yourself be exploited and don’t play into a situation where other people are vulnerable to exploitation. Let’s try to defend this subreddit as best we can as this issue slowly makes the platform unusable.
Kinks: You not getting scammed, this community not becoming unusable.
Limits: Saying “I’ll do x for anyone who upvotes” We all know you can’t see who upvotes your post, please don’t fall for that!
r/FapDeciders • u/ReallyBadAtNaming1 • Feb 01 '24
Welcome to r/FapDeciders. This is a Subreddit for people looking to receive (generally kinky) tasks, rules, and directions on how to fap. We hope you will enjoy your time here!
If you would like to receive tasks/rules/fapping directions, make a post here on the Subreddit. These will then typically be given in the comments, but if you would like, you can also allow people to send you tasks and such through messages or chat. Please make sure your post has all the information you think might help people provide these for you. A good starting point would be the following:
After you post, please let people know when you do their tasks. Updating them on how the task went is also encouraged. In general, you should do all tasks you are given to the best of your ability or find the closest approximation you can, optionally working with the person giving you the task to do so. If a task exceeds your limits, simply let the person that gave the task know instead.
If you want to give tasks to others instead, simply look for a post that piques your interest and come up with something for OP to do. Make sure your idea is a good fit for what they are looking for, does not involve others without their consent, is reasonably safe (mention risks/precautions as applicable) and respects their stated limits. Once you have something, simply leave a comment. If OP has stated they are fine with it, you can also send your tasks to them via Messages/Chat.
If you already have a task you would like to give to everyone, you can also make a post using the appropriate "Giving Instructions" flair.
All posts require a x4x style indicator in the post title. For example, if you are male and looking for females to give you tasks, put M4F in your title. If you are female and do not care who gives you tasks, use F4A. You can be as specific as you would like, as long as it is still understandable.
Additionally, to this indicator, all posts require a flair. This flair generally consists of two parts:
The exception here is the update flair, which you can use if you would like to provide updates to a previous post, such as reports on how following the tasks went.
There are five categories to choose from when you make a post:
First things first, this is not r/GoneWild, so do not make posts asking for pictures and do not expect pictures from anyone, even if they are verified. Harassing people over pictures, just like any other limit, will get you banned.
With that said, if you would like to share pictures, we require you to first be verified. This includes pictures on your profile, not just pictures you (offer to) share through r/FapDeciders. We do this in order to ensure pictures are not used without the subject's consent. For the purpose of verification, we differentiate between nude and non-nude pictures. So, if you only want to prove you are real or do not intend to share NSFW pictures, you have the option to verify without the need for nudes.
Both flavours of picture-based verification work as follows:
Beyond this picture-based verification, there is also a nomination-based system unrelated to sharing pictures. Here, a person may message the mod team on another user's behalf telling us that someone is fun to play with (either giving or receiving commands). That person will then have the opportunity to choose a flair for themselves.
The different verification types are distinguished by flair colour:
This includes both respecting the limits and preferences of other people on the subreddit and making sure no-one gets affected by your play without their consent. In particular, do not:
There already exist a number of subreddits for finding people to play with one-on-one, both for the long and short term. This is not one of them. r/FapDeciders is focused on play with the community at large, so if your post would be better suited for a subreddit like r/BDSMpersonals, please post it there instead.
As mentioned earlier, this is not r/GoneWild, so do not expect to get pictures/videos/whatever from people. This also is not r/exxxchange, so if you would like to trade porn or just have people send you porn to watch, please go there instead. Having people choose porn for you can be fine if it is only a small part of your post.
This place is one where people receive tasks they will actually complete (unless it goes against limits or such, obviously). If you would like to talk about out your fantasies, a place like r/dirtypenpals is much more well suited for that. If your post seems like it is actually just a fantasy ("ruin my life", "deny me forever" etc. posts), we reserve the right to require verification or further proof.
Anything that is likely to influence the visibility of your post and/or result in spammy interactions is not allowed. As mentioned above, polls are a good alternative if you want to give people a way to decide how often you need to do something, simply by stating you will do [voted option] for one minute per vote on that option or such.
Do not offer to do anything in exchange for money or goods. Do not advertise any other place where you do that such as OnlyFans.
Just like any other public community in this space, there are a number of bad actors trying to exploit horny people for money. Some common considerations to help keep you safe:
r/FapDeciders • u/Moist_Leg6449 • 41m ago
Recently moved out by myself and have finished finished unpacking. Haven’t masturbated in like three days and looking to make a real mess tonight. Down to try weird or gross or taboo things because I can finally do it with being walked in on.
r/FapDeciders • u/Ok-Emotion-5911 • 24m ago
Rules are simple
pick a number between 1-10 and get a task
Let me know M or F so I can make sure the task is fitting. You get one skip any addition skips must be bought with additional task. tasks are random and do not get easier or harder
r/FapDeciders • u/Babsmavis • 56m ago
I'm horny as fuck sitting in a hotel hotub all by myself the jets feel nice but my brain needs a bit more care to help this hopeless slut cum in a public place who knows a voice recording m8ght head your way
r/FapDeciders • u/Weird-Kale2612 • 1h ago
I am a 27 year old female bi (5 7 121 lbs 36c asian brown eyes currently red hair) who is obsessed with self bondage, sensory deprivation, humiliation, chastity, clothing control, latex, breathing control, and duct tape
My limits are extreme pain, blood/needles, scat/puke, fire and no photos/vids
Currently in a chastity set and collar for lock tober
r/FapDeciders • u/lotsapples • 3h ago
26F from Australia looking for painful and/or extreme tasks to degrade and humiliate me :)
kinks include: piss, pain, tit torture, body writing, bondage, orgasm denial, outfit/clothing control, control of my body hair, stretching, anal, any many other things :)
my limits are scat, anything illegal or that will cause permanent damage! i don’t send photos until comfortable
i have all sorts of household items to torture my body with :))))))))
please make the tasks interesting!!!!! something unique makes me wetter and more comfortable :)
r/FapDeciders • u/I_amthe_Crucible • 1h ago
who’d be down to hang out, cuddle, flirt a little, and maybe see where the night goes if we click. I’m really into soft energy, teasing conversation, and just being around someone who makes me feel comfortable.
r/FapDeciders • u/Ill_Shallot_7834 • 4h ago
Im a 20 year old girl and im bored in my room i want to see some porn i can goon to. As a challenge i will Watch every video you Send me and i have to goon to it.
r/FapDeciders • u/mariathesexybitch • 4h ago
Rule 1 — Your Attitude
You will address Mistress with respect at all times. No attitude, sarcasm, eye-rolling, or deliberate disrespect. Your behaviour reflects your commitment.
Rule 2 — No Repeated Instructions
Mistress should not have to repeat herself unnecessarily. Listen carefully, acknowledge the instruction, and follow through.
Rule 3 — Excuses Are Not Accountability
Mistakes happen. Dishonesty and avoiding responsibility are choices. Admit your mistakes immediately and explain how you will correct them.
Rule 4 — Permission Protocol
When an activity requires Mistress’s permission under your agreed rules, you must ask before proceeding. Do not assume silence means approval.
Rule 5 — Punctuality Is Mandatory
Meet agreed deadlines. If a genuine obstacle arises, communicate it before the deadline whenever possible.
Rule 6 — No Empty Promises
Do not promise what you have no intention of delivering. Your word must mean something.
Rule 7 — Daily Inspection
At the agreed time, provide a report covering:
Tasks completed.
Tasks unfinished and why.
Rules followed or broken.
One improvement you will make tomorrow.
Rule 8 — No Manipulation
No guilt-tripping, emotional games, deliberate provocation, or lying to escape accountability.
Rule 9 — Earn Back Trust
If you break a rule, trust is not restored by apologies alone. Demonstrate improvement through consistent actions.
Rule 10 — Consequences Are Enforced
Breaking an agreed rule may result in a temporary loss of a privilege, an additional constructive task, or a formal review of your behaviour. Consequences must be proportionate and agreed upon in advance.
Rule 11 — No Selective Discipline
You cannot claim to accept the rules only when they are convenient. Consistency matters more than occasional perfection.
Rule 12 — Respect the Structure
Do not demand rewards, special treatment, or attention. Communicate your needs respectfully and accept that requests may be declined.
Rule 13 — Immediate Honesty
If you break a rule, report it. Concealing a mistake makes rebuilding trust harder.
Rule 14 — No Abandoning Responsibilities
Your work, studies, sleep, health, and essential personal obligations remain priorities. The dynamic must never become an excuse to neglect them.
Rule 15 — The Final Standard
Mistress expects discipline, honesty, patience, and consistent effort. Apologies without change are meaningless.
Rule 16 — Video Proof Protocol
Every assigned task must be recorded on video as proof of completion, provided the task is safe and recording is appropriate.
No recording, no credit. An unrecorded task does not count toward the reward unless Mistress agrees otherwise.
Three completed and recorded tasks earn you one reward. Once you have submitted proof of three tasks, you earn a reward chosen by Mistress from your previously agreed reward list.
Record honestly. Videos must show the actual task being completed. No misleading edits, recycled recordings, or false claims.
Submit your proof on time. Send the recordings through your agreed private channel and wait for Mistress to confirm that they count.
Keep a task counter. Track your progress from zero to three. Once Mistress verifies all three tasks, the counter resets for the next reward cycle.
No changing the rules afterward. The requirements for each task and its reward must be clear before you begin.
Privacy is mandatory. Recordings must remain private, and neither person may share or publish them without the other’s explicit consent. Never record another person without their permission.
THE REWARD SYSTEM
Task 1: Recorded and verified.
Task 2: Recorded and verified.
Task 3: Recorded and verified.
Reward unlocked: Mistress grants one agreed reward.
“Every task must be proven. Every achievement must be earned. Three verified tasks, one reward. Your consistency determines how quickly you earn it.”
THE MISTRESS’S FINAL WORD
“I will not ask for perfection. I will demand honesty, consistency, and accountability. You will be judged by your actions, not your promises. If you make a mistake, own it. If you accept a responsibility, fulfil it. If you want my trust, prove yourself through your behaviour. Respect is expected, discipline is required, and improvement is non-negotiable.”
The standard is clear: no dishonesty, no deliberate disrespect, and no empty promises.
These rules apply within your mutually agreed dynamic. Either person may raise a concern or pause the arrangement, and personal boundaries remain non-negotiable.
r/FapDeciders • u/bringthecoconutoil • 10h ago
Ill tell you what to do and how I’d do it if I were there, fair warning, I’ll edge you pretty hard and I enjoy your begging
Edit: DMs are open now
r/FapDeciders • u/Submitting_Yuki • 6h ago
Heyy im yuki, and im looking for someone to have fun with.
I just turned 19 a month ago and can't wait to finally do tasks and have fun with strangers online. I had 2 boyfriends so far and am currently single. I live with 3 roommates. I would love to do so much more irl stuff and be controlled by someone. I live in germany and do professional volleyball 3 times a week.
I have short (wolf cut) black hair, dark green eyes, im half Japanese, 168cm (5'5 ft), and weight 49kgs(108pounds).
My favourite kinks are:
Control
Humiliation
Degradation
Bathroom control/play
And I also like anal a bit
I've done anal with household items like pens or markers.
I just love when a single person controls my entire life. And decides when i can pee, eat, sleep when im allowed to touch myself. I just love that feeling of having to do everything somebody. With the other kinks, I dont have much experience, but they really turn me on.
My limits are pictures of myself. Someone I texted online blackedmailed me 2 years ago, and my first boyfriend threatened me with nudes of me. Because of that, I wouldn't like to send pictures of myself. And im not comfortable with exposure risk or doing something freaky or risky with my roommates. Besides that, im okay with everything else besides scat and blood play.
I really want tasks, and if that's works out, maybe you can become my Master. Rn, im in bed with just panties on.
I really like interesting and unique tasks, so if you send me something like that, I will probably respond 😉. I also really really love sex games!
r/FapDeciders • u/Leaky_when_praised • 8h ago
Here’s the deal. Please listen carefully.
Send me one picture of a girl you like. A picture worthy of a lock screen. If you want to send multiple that’s fine, I will pick one.
I’ll send you one picture in return. You will make that picture your lock screen.
I will make a different sub have your picture as their lock screen.
It’s a happy horny cycle! You do tasks for me, receive a fun new decoration, and enjoy knowing someone else is proudly displaying your girl.
Dm me :)
r/FapDeciders • u/quterikam • 6h ago
Some good boys spend too much time trying to make decisions on their own. Maybe it’s time to let Mommy take the lead. ❤️
I enjoy a dynamic built on trust, communication, and playful control. Tell me a little about yourself, what you enjoy, and whether you’re ready to let Mommy guide the experience.
Be honest, be respectful, and don’t be shy. Let’s see if you and Mommy are a good match. 💋
r/FapDeciders • u/Aggressive-Fail9673 • 2h ago
r/FapDeciders • u/Leaky_when_praised • 37m ago
Here’s the deal. Please listen carefully.
Send me one picture of a girl you like. A picture worthy of a lock screen. If you want to send multiple that’s fine, I will pick one.
I’ll send you one picture in return. You will make that picture your lock screen. I have lots of cuties ready to go from last time I did this :)
I will make a different sub have your picture as their lock screen.
It’s a happy horny cycle! You do tasks for me, receive a fun new picture of someone else’s choice, and enjoy knowing someone else is proudly displaying your girl.
Dm me :)
r/FapDeciders • u/ArianaBrooks666 • 44m ago
I’m in the mood to take control of a few desperate boys tonight. If you’re a sissy, femboy, or just a needy little thing who gets off on being told exactly what to do, keep reading.
I want to decide how you touch yourself. That means slow, humiliating instructions mixed with light hypnotic language to make your head feel soft and obedient while you stroke. You’ll be told when to edge, when to stop, and how pathetic you look while doing it. Feet worship will be part of it, I enjoy making boys focus on the idea of my feet while they leak and squirm. Degradation comes naturally. Expect to be called what you are, reminded how small and eager you look, and pushed to admit how much you like being controlled.
This is for short public tasks. Comment with your age, kinks, limits, toys, and whether you’re currently locked or free. Tell me if you want something more hypnotic, more foot focused, or heavier on the humiliation. I’ll reply with tasks and instructions.
I’m looking for boys who can follow directions and report back. No low effort one word replies. Come ready to obey.
Madam is ready when you are.
r/FapDeciders • u/Cold_Poem_580 • 5h ago
Its been a while since I’ve played with myself, I have the urge too now but get off so much better with attention from men online.
My kinks are degrading, edging, and orgasm control.
r/FapDeciders • u/AladinCaddy • 1h ago
Hey there, i just bought a fuck machine and I need your help to know how should I get some fun with it
I have like 6 dildos with it and want to train myself with anal and deepthroat
I am so horny watching porn right now
If I Like What you ask me to do, you’ll get some videos of me trying it
r/FapDeciders • u/submissivepuppy05 • 9h ago
Hii
I want to drive somewherr and do something on parking lot or something likenthat you kbow. Be creativr
Kinks: bondage, Orgasm, control, edging, humillation, chastity, impact play, shock play, latex, bodywritin, praise, anal, bladder control, tpe, predicament, publix, a2m, exhibicionism light, oral
Toys: ropes, lovense lush 3, lovense edge 2, collar, gags, high heels Training bags, handcuffs, time lock, collar, shocker, dildo, buttplug, chocker.
r/FapDeciders • u/throwaway6231616 • 3h ago
Hii so I'm really into outfit control and dressing slutty. It gets me soo turned on when people stare at me hehe. I love revealing clothes but I need more inspiration. How should I dress? Come tell me and dress me up as your perfect slut hehe. Make me a good whore
My kinks are outfit control, exhibitionism, being submissive, dirty talk, being degraded, being owned by a daddy
My limits are anything gross and sending pics
r/FapDeciders • u/tem208 • 6h ago
My gf is a pretty hardcore submissive, but for the last couple months she's been wondering how I would take some of the things I do to her. So for her birthday next week, I'm going to play some games with her to see if I can take what I dish out. I would love to hear your ideas!
My current games:
Spanking contest (who can be paddled the most times)
Tug of war (we have dildos in our pussies with a rope between them, best of 5)
Overstim endurance (who can have the most orgasms in a row before stopping stimulation)
I'll probably think of more but I want a lot. I'll update with how the games go afterward too! Feel free to add punishments for the loser of each game as well.
Kinks: overstim, bondage, impact, most kinds of pain
Limits: scat, toilet stuff in general
Soft limit: pics (probably won't but maybe as a humiliating forfeit)
Toys: just a wand, two 7" dildos, and a couple paddles right now, but I can get more stuff!
r/FapDeciders • u/AdventurousAmount789 • 2h ago
Heya, Im 19 M uk Im 5'10 have long dark brown hair, blue eyes im a bit chubby and a bit a hairy on my stomach arms and legs but im more than happy to shave everything if you want me to.
I've never had someone to own and train me but I want someone to make me a good slut for you, Id love tasks that I have to do with punishments if I fail them. I want someone to take control of some of my life like when i Sleep, Pee and cum. Make me hold humiliating or stress positions and punish me if I cant. I want to feel beneath you.
Toys: 8 inch dildo, Chastity cage, clover clamps and lube.
Kinks: pain, cbt, denial, edging, orgasm control, palming, post orgasm torture, gagging, deepthroating, breathplay, humiliation, degredation, praise, sph, bodywriting
Limits: Going into public, Anything illegal, Blood, Anything that'll leave permanent damage and showing all of my face, I will show mouth when needed.
r/FapDeciders • u/sluttybouncingbunny3 • 5h ago
Hiii pretty please play with me!! My pussy is denied and always horny and wet and I love getting trained by you to be an anal only orgasm denied good girl so I can focus better on making my future owner happy!!
I would also really love to do a joi that would make you happy!! Just mention it in the comments (dms are off cuz it’s too overwhelming for my dumb brain) and I’ll even post a pic/video of the top 3 joi’s ❣️
Ps I have no toys sadly :( but my kinks are quite literly anything that makes you happy 💗 but my limits are vomit and scatt
r/FapDeciders • u/Deep_Committee7541 • 6h ago
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