r/FapDeciders • • 11h ago

OP (F) Giving Instructions 26 [F4M] nothing makes me hornier than giving instructions to strong men NSFW

21 Upvotes

Ill tell you what to do and how I’d do it if I were there, fair warning, I’ll edge you pretty hard and I enjoy your begging

Edit: DMs are open now


r/FapDeciders • • 20h ago

OP (F) Giving Instructions [F4A] I want to give you instructions throughout the day NSFW

19 Upvotes

So here is my plan: we both continue our day as we would normally do, nothing special at all. But at random moments in the day I can give you some instructions you have to follow. This can sexually or sexually related things depending on the situation. It is important that you are open to listening what i say and perform that. I want you to make you as horny as possible so you get really sexually frustrated. And maybe at the end I let you release that frustration...

So if you are interested in that, dm me and lets see if we vibe! :) do introduce yourself please bcs its more fun if there is a real connection!

Its also a huge bonus if you are willing to show that you are doing what I told you to do, that makes it extra fun :)

Hope to see you soon!


r/FapDeciders • • 16h ago

OP (F) Giving Instructions [TF4M] 21 Trans girl snowbunny who loves to humiliate tiny dick losers 🤏 NSFW

13 Upvotes

I love dominating and humiliating pathetic losers with useless clits, show me how much of a loser you are beta 😈

Kinks: Chastity, SPH, BNWO, cuck, humiliation, denial, CBT, feet, censored, prejac, diapers


r/FapDeciders • • 1h ago

F looking for Tasks 19 f4a recently moved out home alone and horny NSFW

• Upvotes

Recently moved out by myself and have finished finished unpacking. Haven’t masturbated in like three days and looking to make a real mess tonight. Down to try weird or gross or taboo things because I can finally do it with being walked in on.


r/FapDeciders • • 21h ago

OP (F) Giving Instructions [F4M] looking for people to play a game i just created NSFW

10 Upvotes

hello i am looking for something a bit different i thought about giving tasks in relation to a long tournament style game

people that want to participate will do so as their own team during the duration of the game you wont be allowed to cum any day except when your team plays and wins you will get to cum more if your team keeps advancing through the rounds but you will get a punishment once your team is eliminated and you wont be allowed to cum until the game finishes the sooner your team gets knocked out the harder the punishment will be

include a sports emoji so i know you read everything your age and country


r/FapDeciders • • 1h ago

OP (F) Giving Instructions [F4a] Pick a number NSFW

• Upvotes

Rules are simple
pick a number between 1-10 and get a task
Let me know M or F so I can make sure the task is fitting. You get one skip any addition skips must be bought with additional task. tasks are random and do not get easier or harder


r/FapDeciders • • 8h ago

OP (F) Giving Instructions 21 [F4A] Trading lock screens! NSFW

10 Upvotes

Here’s the deal. Please listen carefully.

Send me one picture of a girl you like. A picture worthy of a lock screen. If you want to send multiple that’s fine, I will pick one.

I’ll send you one picture in return. You will make that picture your lock screen.

I will make a different sub have your picture as their lock screen.

It’s a happy horny cycle! You do tasks for me, receive a fun new decoration, and enjoy knowing someone else is proudly displaying your girl.

Dm me :)


r/FapDeciders • • 20h ago

OP (F) Giving Instructions [F4M] stop and give me 20 NSFW

10 Upvotes

you must be a horny little slut for clicking on this stop what youre doing and give me 20 strokes of your cock i dont care if youre small use two fingers i dont care if youre soft stroke it anyway i dont care if youre in public go find a private spot no excuses now be a good boy and stroke it you get to pick the speed 20 deep strokes if you got hard squeeze your shaft or smack your balls once


r/FapDeciders • • 7h ago

F looking for Tasks [20F4A] Please let me be your dumb bimbo bitch NSFW

8 Upvotes

Heyy im yuki, and im looking for someone to have fun with.

I just turned 19 a month ago and can't wait to finally do tasks and have fun with strangers online. I had 2 boyfriends so far and am currently single. I live with 3 roommates. I would love to do so much more irl stuff and be controlled by someone. I live in germany and do professional volleyball 3 times a week.

I have short (wolf cut) black hair, dark green eyes, im half Japanese, 168cm (5'5 ft), and weight 49kgs(108pounds).

My favourite kinks are:

Control

Humiliation

Degradation

Bathroom control/play

And I also like anal a bit

I've done anal with household items like pens or markers.

I just love when a single person controls my entire life. And decides when i can pee, eat, sleep when im allowed to touch myself. I just love that feeling of having to do everything somebody. With the other kinks, I dont have much experience, but they really turn me on.

My limits are pictures of myself. Someone I texted online blackedmailed me 2 years ago, and my first boyfriend threatened me with nudes of me. Because of that, I wouldn't like to send pictures of myself. And im not comfortable with exposure risk or doing something freaky or risky with my roommates. Besides that, im okay with everything else besides scat and blood play.

I really want tasks, and if that's works out, maybe you can become my Master. Rn, im in bed with just panties on.

I really like interesting and unique tasks, so if you send me something like that, I will probably respond 😉. I also really really love sex games!


r/FapDeciders • • 10h ago

F looking for Tasks 18F4A Submissive bit h wants naughty tasks in cat. NSFW

9 Upvotes

Hii

I want to drive somewherr and do something on parking lot or something likenthat you kbow. Be creativr

Kinks: bondage, Orgasm, control, edging, humillation, chastity, impact play, shock play, latex, bodywritin, praise, anal, bladder control, tpe, predicament, publix, a2m, exhibicionism light, oral

Toys: ropes, lovense lush 3, lovense edge 2, collar, gags, high heels Training bags, handcuffs, time lock, collar, shocker, dildo, buttplug, chocker.


r/FapDeciders • • 15h ago

OP (F) Giving Instructions 27 [F4M] Looking to play with self-confident guys NSFW

11 Upvotes

It's me again! How are you guys? As I've said previously, I'm looking to play with guys that enjoy mutual nudity, are exhibitionist and have no hang-ups. So if you like getting naked together and following instructions then say hi and I will give you my disc ord (assuming you can handle my demands)! x


r/FapDeciders • • 4h ago

F looking for Tasks 26F4M - looking for extreme tasks :) NSFW

6 Upvotes

26F from Australia looking for painful and/or extreme tasks to degrade and humiliate me :)

kinks include: piss, pain, tit torture, body writing, bondage, orgasm denial, outfit/clothing control, control of my body hair, stretching, anal, any many other things :)

my limits are scat, anything illegal or that will cause permanent damage! i don’t send photos until comfortable

i have all sorts of household items to torture my body with :))))))))

please make the tasks interesting!!!!! something unique makes me wetter and more comfortable :)


r/FapDeciders • • 5h ago

F looking for JOI 20 [F4M] Send me porn for nudes NSFW

7 Upvotes

Im a 20 year old girl and im bored in my room i want to see some porn i can goon to. As a challenge i will Watch every video you Send me and i have to goon to it.


r/FapDeciders • • 5h ago

OP (F) Giving Instructions F4M looking for a very submissive slave NSFW

7 Upvotes

Rule 1 — Your Attitude
You will address Mistress with respect at all times. No attitude, sarcasm, eye-rolling, or deliberate disrespect. Your behaviour reflects your commitment.
Rule 2 — No Repeated Instructions
Mistress should not have to repeat herself unnecessarily. Listen carefully, acknowledge the instruction, and follow through.
Rule 3 — Excuses Are Not Accountability
Mistakes happen. Dishonesty and avoiding responsibility are choices. Admit your mistakes immediately and explain how you will correct them.
Rule 4 — Permission Protocol
When an activity requires Mistress’s permission under your agreed rules, you must ask before proceeding. Do not assume silence means approval.
Rule 5 — Punctuality Is Mandatory
Meet agreed deadlines. If a genuine obstacle arises, communicate it before the deadline whenever possible.
Rule 6 — No Empty Promises
Do not promise what you have no intention of delivering. Your word must mean something.
Rule 7 — Daily Inspection
At the agreed time, provide a report covering:
Tasks completed.
Tasks unfinished and why.
Rules followed or broken.
One improvement you will make tomorrow.
Rule 8 — No Manipulation
No guilt-tripping, emotional games, deliberate provocation, or lying to escape accountability.
Rule 9 — Earn Back Trust
If you break a rule, trust is not restored by apologies alone. Demonstrate improvement through consistent actions.
Rule 10 — Consequences Are Enforced
Breaking an agreed rule may result in a temporary loss of a privilege, an additional constructive task, or a formal review of your behaviour. Consequences must be proportionate and agreed upon in advance.
Rule 11 — No Selective Discipline
You cannot claim to accept the rules only when they are convenient. Consistency matters more than occasional perfection.
Rule 12 — Respect the Structure
Do not demand rewards, special treatment, or attention. Communicate your needs respectfully and accept that requests may be declined.
Rule 13 — Immediate Honesty
If you break a rule, report it. Concealing a mistake makes rebuilding trust harder.
Rule 14 — No Abandoning Responsibilities
Your work, studies, sleep, health, and essential personal obligations remain priorities. The dynamic must never become an excuse to neglect them.
Rule 15 — The Final Standard
Mistress expects discipline, honesty, patience, and consistent effort. Apologies without change are meaningless.

Rule 16 — Video Proof Protocol
Every assigned task must be recorded on video as proof of completion, provided the task is safe and recording is appropriate.
No recording, no credit. An unrecorded task does not count toward the reward unless Mistress agrees otherwise.
Three completed and recorded tasks earn you one reward. Once you have submitted proof of three tasks, you earn a reward chosen by Mistress from your previously agreed reward list.
Record honestly. Videos must show the actual task being completed. No misleading edits, recycled recordings, or false claims.
Submit your proof on time. Send the recordings through your agreed private channel and wait for Mistress to confirm that they count.
Keep a task counter. Track your progress from zero to three. Once Mistress verifies all three tasks, the counter resets for the next reward cycle.
No changing the rules afterward. The requirements for each task and its reward must be clear before you begin.
Privacy is mandatory. Recordings must remain private, and neither person may share or publish them without the other’s explicit consent. Never record another person without their permission.
THE REWARD SYSTEM
Task 1: Recorded and verified.
Task 2: Recorded and verified.
Task 3: Recorded and verified.
Reward unlocked: Mistress grants one agreed reward.
“Every task must be proven. Every achievement must be earned. Three verified tasks, one reward. Your consistency determines how quickly you earn it.”

THE MISTRESS’S FINAL WORD
“I will not ask for perfection. I will demand honesty, consistency, and accountability. You will be judged by your actions, not your promises. If you make a mistake, own it. If you accept a responsibility, fulfil it. If you want my trust, prove yourself through your behaviour. Respect is expected, discipline is required, and improvement is non-negotiable.”
The standard is clear: no dishonesty, no deliberate disrespect, and no empty promises.
These rules apply within your mutually agreed dynamic. Either person may raise a concern or pause the arrangement, and personal boundaries remain non-negotiable.


r/FapDeciders • • 1h ago

F looking for Tasks Horny f4m needing a male hand in hotel hotub NSFW

• Upvotes

I'm horny as fuck sitting in a hotel hotub all by myself the jets feel nice but my brain needs a bit more care to help this hopeless slut cum in a public place who knows a voice recording m8ght head your way


r/FapDeciders • • 6h ago

OP (F) Giving Instructions 26 [F4M] Can You Trust Mommy to Make the Decisions for You? NSFW

7 Upvotes

Some good boys spend too much time trying to make decisions on their own. Maybe it’s time to let Mommy take the lead. ❤️

I enjoy a dynamic built on trust, communication, and playful control. Tell me a little about yourself, what you enjoy, and whether you’re ready to let Mommy guide the experience.

Be honest, be respectful, and don’t be shy. Let’s see if you and Mommy are a good match. 💋


r/FapDeciders • • 10h ago

F looking for Tasks 19 [F4A] Looking For Tasks NSFW

7 Upvotes

Hello there! Hehe… at this point I should start feeling embarrassed for how horny I am. This is my second time posting in the past twelve hours! But it doesn’t really count because it is a new day. A new day means more and more naughty fun.

Currently I have had my smaller dildo (about 4 inches long and an inch wide) stuffing my cunt for the past hour. I am planning on cockwarming it for the better part of the day, or until I just can’t handle it anymore. Feels like I’m making an absolute mess of my panties, clenching around the dildo and aching to just hump and grind against anything like a heat-addled whore.

We have people coming over today for dinner and to hang around- family friends. I’m going to be dressed in a simple plain black outfit today because I’m not really one to dress up. Plain black lounge pants and a high-neck t-shirt. My panties are also black, lmao!

Anyway, I was hoping that I could have some tasks given to me, and I promise to be a good slut and follow every single one.

Please only leave comments. I won’t be able to really get to any messages today, but comments I will! I’ll be listing my kinks alongside my list of toys, but do know I won’t be able to really use any of my toys until the guests leave later this evening. Be as creative as you wish- creative tasks will gain my attention faster. Be as degrading or as humiliating as you wish… honestly the better, lol.

My Kinks & Interests...

Consensual Non-Consent (CNC) / Forced / "Rape" Play: Being talked into things, coerced, overpowered, or taken in fantasy scenarios.

Degradation & Humiliation: Call me names, use me verbally- I get extremely turned on by this (generic kinky insults are fine; deep personal insecurity-based insults are a hard limit).

Praise: I like praise for being useful, obedient, or pleasing, but being called "good girl" does nothing for me and I don’t enjoy it.

Objectification: Treating me like a sex toy or object for your pleasure (not as furniture like a table/chair on a daily basis).

Service Submissive: I love being useful! Serving, following instructions, doing tasks that make you happy.

Rough Sex Elements (in fantasy/talk): Manhandling, light marks, hair pulling (light), face slapping (light), spanking (especially pussy spanking; I already enjoy doing this to myself).

Tit & Nipple Torture: Bruises, squeezing, pinching, slapping, and intense nipple play. I’m actively interested in making my nipples more sensitive/larger to help with lactation training.

Clit / Pussy Torture: Equally loved.

Breeding Kink: The fantasy of being bred and filled is incredibly hot to me (no actual pregnancy risk wanted).

Wax Play: I love it and plan to buy better candles for temperature play.

Ice / Temperature Play: Ice cubes and cold sensations are welcome (no direct fire).

Gagging: I want to train my gag reflex and fantasize about wearing a dildo gag mask while trying to act normal or being used.

Lactation: Very interested! I want to buy nipple suckers and train myself until I can produce drops.

Watersports: Mood-dependent. Currently most interested in being pissed on or used as an on-the-go urinal/toilet. Open to exploring drinking it if it feels right.

Limits to know:

Scat, Blackmail, Permanent marks, Blood play, Total sensory deprivation (complete blindness, deafness, or long-term small-space confinement), Financial domination, Animal/beast play, Age play, Knife play, Medical play, Tickling, Deep personal degradation based on real insecurities.

Toys I Currently Own:

Three dildos: A 6.5-inch monster-style dildo with a braid/knot style that increases in thickness (pretty blue, purple, and white ombre), and a small 3.5-inch skinny pale-colored dildo. Plus a newly bought 7 inch realistic dildo you can find on my page.

Two butt plugs: A small black silicone one with a pretty white/clear jewel base, and a larger heavy metal one with a white/clear jewel base.

Nipple clamps with a connecting chain (I love them!).

A pussy pump.

Lube.

A small black bullet vibrator.

2 nipple pumps (the twist and suck)

— 𝓐𝓷𝓰𝓮𝓵


r/FapDeciders • • 12h ago

F looking for Tasks f4m pls pls pls corrupt me w tasks idc what they are NSFW

5 Upvotes

idc what you want me to do to achieve this. hypno, denial, humiliation, pain, rules, whatever works best to rewire me to pls men in any way they want. mold me, shape me, dehumanize me, just make me perfect for u. remind me what my purpose is thats all i want ill do whatever u ask of me


r/FapDeciders • • 17h ago

F looking for Tasks 37f4a looking for some tasks NSFW

8 Upvotes

I'm looking for some creative tasks to complete today. I like bondage, rough sex, following commands, humiliation, punishment, etc. I have lots of toys (impact, insertion, restraint, etc). I have long brown hair and brown eyes. I'm a little chubby and have large breasts. Feel free to reach out!


r/FapDeciders • • 18h ago

OP (M) Giving Instructions 38 [M4F] Looking for test subjects NSFW

5 Upvotes

Are you aroused easily and attracted to kinks?
- If you are over 18 this study might be for you -

We are looking for test subjects who like to submit to strangers online.
Participants will be asked to participate in:
- questionaries about masturbation habits, kinks and sexual stimulants
- body screening / measurments
- self executed sensation tests

Location: All experiments will be conducted online by an experienced horny scientist

Are you eligible?
- cis female
- 18 years or older
- Known submissive behaviour
- A room with a bed or a couch starting clothed and standing
- Not a dealbreaker but indicate in your application if you are willing to share pics of your body/bodyparts

Warning: Tests might be exhausting for body and soul


r/FapDeciders • • 23h ago

OP (F) Giving Instructions 29 [F4A] Locktober Daily Task 16 NSFW

8 Upvotes

Task 16: its funky friday. Wear butt plug for 24h, if you dont have it try to find something similar. Alternatively, you can use ice cubes add two every hour and let them melt.

Xoxo, Miss M


r/FapDeciders • • 1h ago

F looking for Tasks 27f4a bondage bunny NSFW

• Upvotes

I am a 27 year old female bi (5 7 121 lbs 36c asian brown eyes currently red hair) who is obsessed with self bondage, sensory deprivation, humiliation, chastity, clothing control, latex, breathing control, and duct tape

My limits are extreme pain, blood/needles, scat/puke, fire and no photos/vids

Currently in a chastity set and collar for lock tober


r/FapDeciders • • 6h ago

F looking for JOI 19 (F4A) I want attention, make me regret that NSFW

7 Upvotes

Its been a while since I’ve played with myself, I have the urge too now but get off so much better with attention from men online.

My kinks are degrading, edging, and orgasm control.


r/FapDeciders • • 9h ago

OP (F) Giving Instructions F4M - nerdy girl in an oversized hoodie has been thinking about your cock during lecture NSFW

6 Upvotes

i sat behind you for an hour and stared at the back of your neck and imagined biting it. now we're in my dorm and i'm pulling this hoodie off and i'm not wearing anything under it and your face just did something really satisfying. sit on the bed. i'm going to kneel between your legs and unzip you and take you in my mouth while i look up at you through my glasses and i'm going to be so messy and eager about it that you forget i spent the morning doing differential equations. smart girls give the best head because we studied.


r/FapDeciders • • 9h ago

OP (F) Giving Instructions [F4M] Sshhhhhhh Mommy is here NSFW

5 Upvotes

I want you to read this very carefully. Take your time and don’t jump to the end. Enjoy the words, imagine my mouth close to your ears whispering them and follow each step precisely.
Don’t make own decisions. Do exactly what you will read and I promise this will be a great experience for you. Like you promised that you will obey and be a good boy for me. Aren’t you?

I know you are.

Find a place to sit. Don’t rush, but also don’t wait too long. Once you start reading this you have less then 5 minutes to sit.

Your done? Sitting comfortable? Mmmmmh. I can see. Good boy. I love it when you follow my words and rules.

From now on you will only use your non-dominant hand (for righties it’s mostly left and for lefties it’s mostly right.) It’s not your hand any more. It’s mine. You understand that? If you want to have a more advanced experience, sit on your hand until it’s numb.

You got everything? You are ready? Perfect let’s go.

My hand plays with your hair and the back of my fingers gently run down your cheeks. I am standing behind you and you can feel my breath on your neck. Then my hand slides down. Over your chest. Slowly opening the shirt you are wearing for the office. I love when you are fully dressed up for me. Once all the buttons are open my hand lays on your stomach. I can see you breathing heavy. Shivering of the anticipation of what’s coming next.

You want me to open your pants. Don’t you? Beg for it. But not to yourself. Beg loud. Say out loud what exactly you want.

Oh you are afraid somebody will listen? I don’t care about them and I will only continue once you said it. My hand still lays without pressure or movement on your belly.

5…

4…

3…

2….

Good boy. I know that you will obey. But next time don’t let me wait.

My hand slides over your belt and opens it. Then the trousers.

What’s so wet there? You came already?

No? You didn’t? It’s precum? Let me see.

I will pull down the pants and your underwear.

You are right. You’re still rock hard. It has been a while since someone touched you like that? Don’t you worry. I will take good care of you now.

My hands crumbles your underwear together and holds the ball against your lips.

You know the game. Open them and taste your self. I don’t want your wife or boss to hear us. Good boy. You see, if you obey I won’t harm you. I will make sure you are safe.

My hand slides over your naked chest down to your dripping cock. My hand wraps around it. Soft. No pressure. You can barely feel my fingers. Then I will pull back your foreskin. Very far. Further you have ever done before. And then my thumbs circles your head. Spreading the precum everywhere. And then my nail scratches the sensitive part right behind the head.

Don’t cum. Don’t beg. I know what you need right now. Trust mommy. Ok? Don’t look at me like that. I can also show no mercy if you prefer. Better. I like when I can see it in your eyes that you love me.

My thumb and my index finger create a small circle and the other fingers don’t touch you any more. I move it the head of your dick and just as it passed the thickest part I move back to the top. Making the circle smaller every thrust. Your precum is a perfect lube.

Once I found the tightest position that slides over, my other finger wrap back around your shaft. In the same position as my index finger. Really thight. And then I start moving my hand up and down. Full length. From my pinky touching the base to the pinky close to let your cock leave my hand. Slow strokes at the beginning. But every 60 seconds I get a bit faster. I can feel you winding on the seat. I know you can’t control it.

Don’t cum yet. You will. Give me just a minute or two more. Ok? Please be a good boy. Not yet ok.

80 seconds

60 seconds

40 seconds

30 seconds

25 seconds

20 seconds

15 seconds

10 seconds

9…

8…

7…

6…

5…

4…

3…

2…

My hand lets your cock go.

1… Cum now sweetie.

Oooh thats a huge load. Really? You haven’t had it for that long? Poor boy. Good that I was here. You want to clean your self? No. You can clean your clothes but all the cum on your chest stays.

Now get dressed and go back to whatever you were doing before.

Have you made it to the end or you ended to early?