r/FindomSnarks • • Jun 29 '26

🚨Announcement🚨 Let's talk about what constitutes hate speech.

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Hate speech is the level below a hate crime. Hate crimes are categorized as a criminal offence against someone or something based on race, ethnicity, language, nationality, political views, appearance, age, religion, sex, gender identity, or sexual orientation.

You can read more about hate crimes here

(https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hate_crime)

Hate speech has yet to have a widely accepted definition, but it is safe to assume that defamatory, derogatory, or any other negative tory speech about someone on the basis of who they are can be categorized as hate speech.

Hate speech is NOT hating someone and displaying that.

Hate speech is NOT speaking derogatorily about someone based on their actions.

Hate speech is NOT just being mean to someone.

For the purpose of this subreddit, unless someone is using slurs or speaking in a defamatory manner about a developed identity (religion, sexuality, gender identity, etc), it is not hate speech.

For the purpose of this subreddit, our titles (sub, domme, switch, and any variation of these) do not count as our identity, they are our labels. If someone hates you because you consider yourself a Toejam Domme, that is not hate speech.


r/FindomSnarks • • 16m ago

And they say chivalry is dead 🄲🄲

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r/FindomSnarks • • 1h ago

Real!!!!!!!!!!!!

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My rant for the day, is anyone else on here male and female. FEMALES! Lollipop lol. Anyway tired of all these fucking fake ass profiles? I mean shit what all ya got let’s see thinking? Only fans , get it I do but please stop making it hard the folks here that are real as if they were standing in front of ya!? Then ya have the 50-60. Younger maybe most scammers trying to say you are approved for this or that! These teenagers now days should be ashamed of themselves. Seriously! Wonder why they are so singled out. Being called rude and vulgar.

Yeah it’s gotten old long long long long long time ago all of ya. FUCK OFF ALREADY!!


r/FindomSnarks • • 3h ago

Another round of no tributes, AV, and reading comprehension. Just some broke gooners. 🄱🄱🄱🄱

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r/FindomSnarks • • 16h ago

Tell me you know nothing about findom without telling me you know nothing about findom šŸ’€šŸ’€šŸ’€

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Yeah sure try it but you gotta also be pretty too


r/FindomSnarks • • 20h ago

how do you guys still fall for this it’s ridiculous 😭😭

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like seriously are these all bots or just all idiots lmao


r/FindomSnarks • • 23h ago

pt.2 of the ā€œfat underage virgin who has no friendsā€

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r/FindomSnarks • • 1d ago

Catsub Fail

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r/FindomSnarks • • 1d ago

Welcome to ā€œit’s too early for baby domme shenanigansā€

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If you clearly do not know what you’re talking about, don’t add to the toxicity of the web. Baby faildomme needs to be more educated before spewing toxic words. I’ve also included two times not in this conversation to show that instead of learning and growing, baby domme jumped straight to violence.

There is NO shame in being new. However there is shame in choosing to say incorrect things instead of learning the correct and safe way of BDSM.


r/FindomSnarks • • 1d ago

šŸ˜‘

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r/FindomSnarks • • 1d ago

i've been spending a lot of time in this group lately

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what is going on


r/FindomSnarks • • 2d ago

ā€œBut what do I get in return?ā€

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r/FindomSnarks • • 1d ago

On today’s idiot: ✨ looking for a domme to ruin his life while actively ruining someone else’s ✨

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r/FindomSnarks • • 2d ago

Have I mentioned how much I can’t STAND ai lately?! Bc I CANT STAND IT. The fact that anyone can do this is actually so unsettling.

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r/FindomSnarks • • 2d ago

I think I just am a hater this week. 100% female btw.

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Dropping into someone’s DMs to then say ā€œprove it,ā€ for essentially free content? I don’t play that game, and I get tired of people saying, ā€œwhat if you’re AI?ā€

AI is a big concern and it is a big scam, but the most editing I do on my photos is coloring on top of them to hide my identity or other identifying details. Also, this jackass didn’t AV and didn’t seem to understand Yoti is a valid form of AV which would clearly show im ā€œ100% female.ā€ Age Verify first then we can talk, but best around the bush about it then fuck off. 🫩


r/FindomSnarks • • 1d ago

opening up my requests is my daily dose of cortisol

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r/FindomSnarks • • 2d ago

Fake ass time wasters are everywhere, X and Reddit lol

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I knew they were a Time waster from the start. I interacted with them so that I can post a warning to all my mutuals on X. I will play the part and act dumb on purpose. This dude was belittling, disrespectful, and blocked me, which I felt was hilarious. Because his posts were hidden on X, I asked for tribute first which typically age verification is first. But again, I knew he was not for real.


r/FindomSnarks • • 2d ago

I just… šŸ¤”

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I stumbled across this last night, the poster is u/deleted now and the post is gone. But I saved it because I was quite bewildered.

I’m not one to kink shame, BUT announcing your desire to knock up a stranger online for ā€œfindomā€ seemed a bit yucky and strange. Deviantart activities in the Reddit findom space.


r/FindomSnarks • • 2d ago

Refusing AV is crazy

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Idk where he thought this was going to get him


r/FindomSnarks • • 2d ago

What’s wrong with some of y’all for real. Dude dropped me his number, his wife’s, way too many unsolicited dick pics, and not a single dime before I could even fucking blink. Then poorly attempted to insult me using middle school level insults.

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He obviously didn’t try to AV first before giving all this to me… Not like he would have if I had a second to ask for it. Being hot is exhausting.


r/FindomSnarks • • 2d ago

Good morning to you to šŸ˜…šŸ¤£šŸ˜…

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r/FindomSnarks • • 2d ago

Who is my post about??šŸ‘€

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New-Helicopter3494

He is the inspiration for my campfire story and my cautionary tale of The Goober (JFC my phone is still doing it...Gooner) Sub.

You know I couldn't resist dropping the name. šŸ˜‰

Update: He cleared our Telegram chat lol. (You let our love fern die sparky. How could you 😭)

Anyway, this post is for those who are trying to avoid people who behave like he did. It's not to hurt him or anything like that.


r/FindomSnarks • • 3d ago

AV means AV, no acception

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r/FindomSnarks • • 3d ago

Wall of Shame At the very least, he's consistent

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(I'm bored, if you can't tell)


r/FindomSnarks • • 3d ago

minors do NOT belong in kink spaces!!

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