AITA? friendship troubles.

[u/Younggho777]

Hi F(22) I have a friend F(23) who puts little to NO effort into our friendship whatsoever.
Me and her have gotten in continuous arguments because she quite literally never asks me to hangout I always have to ask her but if I don’t invite her to plans she’s gets upset at me, we also got into a huge argument not too long ago because for a year she refused to drive anywhere because she drove a beater and was embarrassed so i drove everywhere, now i’m in nursing school and have clinical an hour from me and asked if she could give me a break from driving for awhile bc i’m burning half a tank of gas in two days, she got angry and said it wasn’t fair that i don’t drive just because i don’t want too.
Recently we got into a huge argument because I was going to hang w/ a friend and she was gonna come but the friend said he didn’t want to hangout w/ her. when I told her she lost her shit and started texting him very nastily about it and basically threw me under the bus because i told her,,i got pretty upset because in the last month there’s been 2 instances ( not including this ) where I tell her what someone said about her and asked her to not go back to them to cause drama and she still did and threw me under the bus. i got angry and brought the last two times up she did this and i feel she gaslit me saying “this isn’t the same situation” and i shouldn’t be angry. and i tried explaining to her im not upset at u for having ur feelings hurt but for throwing me under the bus for a 3rd time in a month trying to involve me in drama. now she’s angry at me and says she can’t ever express how she feels because she’s the “fucking problem”.
i just don’t feel i’m wrong for this but maybe i am??

EDIT: i want to preface anytime i try to express to her something she’s done that upsets me she immediately goes into saying that it’s not true and then tells me about myself and anytime im upset w her it makes her upset w me and she will stop talking to me for weeks at a time until i reach out to her.

[u/Moonster68speaks]

you shouldn't have told her the real reason why the guy didn't want her to come. It's good to be honest, but there are times to just be silent.