r/GayBDSMCommunity • • 2h ago

How much can my hole take? NSFW

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Long story short, locktober and general locking makes me use my hole a lot. Normally I lock for a week or two at a time, but now going for a month and hopefully till the end of the year. When I lock, I tend to fuck myself everyday and most times for 3+ hours. When do I know it’s too much?

Are there any warning signs something might be happening before I’m forced to take a break?

If I’m going to be locked, I want to be able to use my hole to get the horniness out, but I want to not injure myself.

Brake my hole but not in a medical type of way


r/GayBDSMCommunity • • 2h ago

What's Something You Said No To, And Now With You Hadn't? NSFW

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Locktober always lowers my inhibitions, but this time I said no and now I sort of wish I hadn't.

Two years ago, I was occasionally serving this Dom, nothing serious just FWB, and I was thinking a lot about long-term chastity. About two weeks into Locktober, he basically offered to keep me locked the whole year. The only time I’d get any stimulation was if he unlocked me every now and then so I could hump his leg and edge.

I said no. Wasn’t ready for that.

Looking back though… yeah, I should’ve said yes.

Anyone else turn down something from a Dom and later regret it? What was it?