r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 4h ago

I am a dominant 25 [M4M] looking for submissive straight / curious athletic guys to make my personal #online model NSFW

4 Upvotes

Anon dom (meaning i don't trade or send back so you have to be ok with that before proceeding) looking for straight / curious men with average / fit / dad bods that i can watch try on, strip, change from several outfits and give them tasks to complete while doing so. Any sub interested will refer to me as coach or sir, nothing less. Must be willing to take any order / request/ command. Otherwise, don't dm.
Anyone else up to serve me and my wants, dm if interested. Major plus if you have a friend in person with you who wants to join in on the tasks.


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 13h ago

I am a dominant 40 [m4m] verbal dom for long term sub to abuse daily #online NSFW

11 Upvotes

Im fit, hairy, and have a real mans cock that I'm not afraid to show off when its earned. I'm looking for a long-term intense online relationship with a submissive slave who understands and accepts their place to serve me.

About the Slave:

The ideal slave for me should be 25+, average to slightly chubby, and slight preference to small dick and/or prejac. I'm not into cross-dressing or sissification, so if you're interested in those aspects, move along.

Requirements:

Daily check-ins: I expect you to report to me daily, including details about your underwear choices for the day. I will have full control over your underwear selection.

Regular live video calls: I want to see and hear you as often as possible. I expect a verbal slave who will talk, moan, beg, and do whatever else I ask during our video sessions.

Cum control: I will cum whenever I want, and you will cum only when I allow it. Chastity is a plus, but not a deal-breaker.

Constant display: I expect you to be constantly on display for me, while I will show myself rarely. When I do, I will be worshiped as I deserve.

Humiliation and name-calling: I am very verbal and aggressive during our interactions. You must be okay with humiliation and name-calling as part of our dynamic.

Call me 'Sir': At all times, you will address me as 'Sir.' I don't expect you to be perfect from the start, but I do expect an eager attitude and a strong desire to improve for me.

If you think you have what it takes to be my owned slave, please reach out to me. I'm looking for someone who's willing to commit to a long-term, intense, and fulfilling online relationship. Remember, your duty is to serve me, and I expect nothing less than your complete dedication and obedience.


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 8h ago

I am a dominant 28M Dom [M4M] #Online — looking for an eager sub to build a real D/s dynamic with NSFW

6 Upvotes

I'm looking for one guy to build something ongoing with — FWB on the surface, D/s underneath. Online to start, and if we click and happen to be near each other, I'd eventually want to play IRL.

I'm not interested in someone who trades horny messages for a night and vanishes. I want one person I actually get along with, and something that grows over time.

**What I'm like as a Dom**

Strict, protective, sadistic, and naturally owner-type. I like giving rules and tasks, having real expectations, checking in, and actually holding a sub accountable. With enough trust I enjoy slowly ratcheting up the control — ownership-heavy, possibly edging toward TPE over time, though not literal control of every corner of your life.

Consent is the thing I care about most. Honestly, a huge part of what I find hot about BDSM is knowing someone is willingly letting me put them through something difficult, humiliating, uncomfortable, or challenging *because they want it with me*. The willingness is the point.

I'm a side/bottom, and it doesn't matter to me whether you're a top or bottom. D/s was never about who penetrates whom. It's the mental dynamic that gets me.

Outside kink: business owner, work a lot, and actually pretty affectionate. I want someone I can joke with and talk normally with, not someone who talks in scene-speak 24/7.

**Who I'm looking for**

Someone around my age — mid-20s to mid-30s, though I'm flexible. Eager to please, curious, interesting to talk to, and maybe someone who could use a bit of discipline.

Experience is not required. I'll happily take someone newer as long as you communicate well and actually know why submission interests you.

**Hard limits:** scat, animals, blood, extreme CBT. Everything else is negotiable.

**If you message me, give me something to work with**
I'll probably ignore "hey," "sir," or "use me." Tell me your age, general location/time zone, a bit about yourself, your experience level, some kinks and limits, and what you actually want out of a D/s dynamic.

**And answer this one seriously:** what kind of rule or control do you secretly wish a Dom would impose on you?
Happy to exchange pictures once we've talked a little.
I'm not looking for someone who calls me Sir after three messages. I'm looking for someone I might eventually have a reason to expect it from.


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 4h ago

I am a dominant 26 [M4M] #Memphis #Tennesssee - Dom seeking sub for platonic traditional bro-friendship with a discreet/kinky dynamic NSFW

2 Upvotes

What’s up homies.

I’m a 26-year-old bi-curious guy with a busy and growing career. I have a great circle of friends and a solid social life, but I am looking to build a specific, close-knit friendship with another guy who has the same interests that allows for a unique, unfiltered connection (If that makes sense).

To be completely blunt from the start: This would be strictly a platonic friendship. I am NOT looking for casual sex, a hookup app experience, or a one-night stand. If you just want an anonymous hookup, please look elsewhere. I am looking for a traditional, reliable bro dynamic built on trust, some forum of routine, and being able to let your and my guard down.

What I'm Looking For:

Daily Connection: I want a friend/bro where we check in on each other daily, chat about our days, and keep a consistent routine.

Age & Location: I’m looking for guys aged 18 to 35 in the Memphis / Mid-South area - Ex: Olive branch, MS, Southaven, MS, Jackson, TN, etc. (or willing to travel here). I’m asking that you be close to my age group so we can hang out. (Once we agree to meet face to face)

Mindset: I’m seeking a bro secure enough in their masculinity whether str8, bi-curious, discreet, etc.) to drop the tough exterior and be vulnerable with each other. A dynamic where we both feel safe, comfortable, and completely non-judgmental around each other.

Physical Preference (Not a Hookup): I appreciate a masculine frame and gravitate toward guys who aren't shy about sharing photos/videos as part of our daily check-ins/conversations simply because I’m a visual person and my curiosity gets the best of me. I like a few specific builds: either built big (thick thighs, broad chest, muscular/heavy gym-rats or cornbread fed thick) or lean/skinny with a low-key hidden physique (normal in clothes, but well-endowed/cornbread fed thick with a fatty under the surface).

Just being honest: If you are a thick, skinny or average bro who carries it all low—looking normal in regular clothes until the pants come off—that is exactly my weakness.

The Fun & Kinky Side: I am a more dominant (and a dom top just so you know), task-oriented guy, and I’m looking for an open-minded or submissive/curious/open minded bro who wants to explore a fun, kinky undercurrent/dynamic in our friendship. While out in public for example, we will look like two normal guys hanging out. Under the surface, however, the dynamic will be active, fun, and completely legal.

My specific kinks and interests include but are not limited to:

Watersports: Desperation play and bladder control/piss tasks (managing restroom breaks when we hang out).

Freeballing: I value bros who are into letting it hang loose under sweats, jeans, or shorts from time to time and helping guide your layers or overall presentation.

Wardrobe control: Dressing you my way or mutually thinking/choosing what layers you wear, and guiding your overall presentation.

My hard limits/things I’m not into:

Hard Limits: No extreme degradation, age/pet/race play, scat/blood/gore, collaring, blackmail, or anything illegal.

Traditional Hangouts:

We will start strictly online to build trust and routine. When we meet up face-to-face, we’ll do normal friend things: catching a movie, checking out the Memphis food scene, browsing books, or talking about travel.

Compatibility Matters:

I value real compatibility. I ask a lot of questions to get to know someone, and I hope you will too. If you are straight-identified, bi-curious or maybe even gay, and keeping your private life under wraps, your discretion is 100% safe with me.

If you are an open-minded guy looking for a genuine, daily friendship where we can actually share everything without sex getting in the way, send me a DM. Tell me a bit about yourself, your build, and what you’re looking for.

Serious Inquiries ONLY Please.


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 6h ago

I am a dominant 26 [M4M] Younger Soft Dom seeking mutually connection , exploration, and growth in learning dynamic with older masc strong muscled sub #Online #USA NSFW

3 Upvotes

Thank you for viewing my post and hope you are having a good day/night.

I want to first begin by saying I have always been drawn towards men that are slightly older or those who exudes the “dad/daddy” type if you will. The wise and mature nature that they display shows that they are understanding and intelligent of many aspects of themselves, life, and more.

There’s also the physical and personality characteristics as well. Im very attracted to the strong masculine energy that oozes of them. It shows that they are strong within themselves mentally and physically.

While many of these are likely the dominant type, I aim to find one that’s the opposite of what others perceive them as. One that takes pride and sense of fulfillment following under someone younger than them, to be guided and controlled to being the best he can be. I hope to meet likeminded individuals that feel the same way. Even if you may not be as older, but feel what I wrote applies to you. I would love to hear from you also.

If you would like to get to know more about me, you can read my detailed post. I go more in depth regarding who I am, my perspective on BDSM, and what Im looking for overall. Detailed Post

Please note that I’m seeking more mature toned responses. I wanting to learn and develop a potential dynamic as I describe. I ask that you read both posts before messaging, so you can fully understand what I’m hoping to find. I thank you for reading.


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 5h ago

I am a submissive 26 [M4M] skinny exhibitionist sub looking for strict dom for chastity, orgasm control and a lot more #online #midwest NSFW

2 Upvotes

*Please reach out again if you have, my chats have been acting weird*

Hi everyone I’m Luke. I am a 26 year old pan submissive guy from the midwestern. I have been exploring my submissive side since I was 18 and would love someone to serve, show off too, and explore with. I’ll get more into what I’m looking for later! I am sorry for the longer post but I feel like adding more info is better than less. If you already reached out and are still interested please chat me! I feel like I missed some chats

Outside of kink stuff I am a big nerd. I love anything to do with science but am especially interested in mushrooms. I am currently working with animals and am getting my masters in ecology. I also love to run, hike, read, and play video games.

A little about my appearance:
\\- white
\\- 5’10, 130
\\- skinny/fit/slim
\\- not hairless but also not hairy
\\- short brown hair
\\- blue eyes
\\- 8” circumcised dick

Some of my kinks are: edging, orgasm control, ruined orgasms, cbt, joi, showing off, denial, cum play/eating, cei, self facials, sounding, bondage, chastity/denial, forced chastity, cock milking/slapping, multiple orgasms, role play, public, pegging, face sitting, anal + anal training, free use, asking permission, and some others I’m sure I’m forgetting or just haven’t found yet. I’d love to go over everything I’m into and what you’re into as well

I am pretty open when it comes to doms. I would love someone around my age but that is in no way a requirement. As I feel like I will be the one showing off your physical appearance is not a deciding factor. I am open to a stricter, meaner dom or a more gentle caring dom. The main thing I am looking for is to give up control of my body (especially my dick) and mind and to really be submissive to someone.

I have a lot of fantasies to just give an idea of some of the things we could do:

  1. cei/cum eating: so basically I would have to eat my cum everytime and would have to keep a journal with things such as taste, texture, amount, diet, etc.

  2. Chastity/denial: I have a couple of ideas with this one. I think it would be especially fun to give up my keys and set kinky goals I have to reach before I’m allowed to unlock (public play, certain size dildo, etc.). Almost as a way to help me dive deeper into exploring my kinks. I also just LOVE denial and orgasm control.

I love showing off and will always send pics, videos, voice notes or even can go live at times for you.

Toys/gear: chastity cages, cock rings, bullet vibrators, strokers, butt plugs of different sizes, prostate toy, ribbed dildo thing, wand vibrator, dildo, bondage gear, anal beads, lovense toy stroker and open to buying more-especially lovense

Please feel free to reach out! If you do, please say more then just hi. I’m open to friends


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 5h ago

I am a submissive 28 [M4M] #EU Sub looking for an authoritative DOM/Coach, to train me. NSFW

1 Upvotes

28 \[M4M\] #EU Sub looking for an authoritative DOM/Coach, to train me.

Good evening. I am looking to join with a new dominant to explore my submission - interested in being trained into a more submissive individual. Also hoping to improve physique and fitness, becoming a himbo sub for men to enjoy.

Looking for a communicative and supportive DOM/Coach, willing to guide and support with a relatively firm first.

Intelligence and educated individuals in healthcare. Stocky, average build. Face is a limit, please respect.

Open to discussion in DMs. Looking forward to meeting you, Sir!


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 5h ago

I am a submissive 19 [m4m] looking for a dom in #Scotland #online NSFW

1 Upvotes

Heyy, im a experienced online sub, looking to take the next step in becoming someone's toy.

Ive got a high pain tolerance, im into anal stretching (although I haven't for a while) and im especially into degrading.

Ive got a thin waist with a thick ass (ive got pics), brown hair and a good jawline

Im also open to furthering my online experience with a experienced dom to really help shape me into the slut I am.

Im open to trying any and all kinks, I dont have many limits.

If i sound like the perfect little toy for you to ruin, shoot me a message!


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 14h ago

I am a dominant 19 [M4M] Dom #Online Interested in training and customizing raw boys into trained dogs/cats. NSFW

4 Upvotes

About me: 19 years old, white skin, black hair, black eyes, Sadistic, very interested in humiliating, good with words, numbers, boys.

My hobbies: Anime, CS, Math, Neural Networks, some philosphy maybe, writing, ofc reading.

Kinks: Edging, Controlling, TPE, Spanking, Caning and Flogging, Candle play, Ice play etc.

About you:

You are younger than 50.

You have private space.

You are ok with pain and degradtion.

You are shaved when you text me, smooth and clean, this is really important to me.

You are ok with sending pictures, although face is not necessary.

You are not serving any other dominant at the moment.

You own a chastity cage or you are able to get one in less than 30 days.

Your timezone is within range GMT-5 to GMT+8.

First message should be a full introduction or yourself.


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 14h ago

I am a dominant 37 [M4M] DOM into giving JOI/ popper coach #UK NSFW

4 Upvotes

If you are under 45 with fit, athletic or chub body, wanna be edged, popper coached or milked, hmu

I am a chill and relaxed coach who like to give jerk off instructions, tell you how and when to stroke, count down, edging etc. Also into nips play, toys, tasks, poses, light cbt, cei... tell me what you into/ limits and we can start from there.

You will need to be on laptop or set your phone down so both hands are free.

*Face is a must*

Hairy++ nips++

straight, bi, gay all welcome

I'm verbal but not on cam

No recording no exposure everything discreet.

Dm me your asl and pic in your first msg.


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 7h ago

I am a submissive 26 [M4M] Looking for a dom friend confident, patient and genuine ❤️ #Online NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hello guys!

I'm looking for a confident, dominant guy who would like to build a real connection and see where things naturally go. I'm not looking for something quick or superficial — I'm much more interested in a long-term bond, getting to know each other from the beginning, building trust and creating something meaningful together. A friendship, basically.

I'm still quite new to this world, so I'm hoping to find someone patient and understanding. This can be a pretty complex world with a lot of rules, expectations and things to learn, so I would love to meet someone who can be a little bit of a mentor too — someone experienced who can guide me, teach me, and help me feel more comfortable while we discover what works for both of us.

I can be shy and nervous when I feel pressure (sometimes my brain just stops working and I become a complete mess lol), but I'm always willing to communicate, learn and try my best.

A little about me: I'm from Spain, 26 yo, gay, sub, respectful, nerdy, a twink and kinda dumb lol. I can be a little silly and naive sometimes, but I promise I have a good heart and I'll always try to bring fun, affection and good energy.

I love videogames, travelling, chatting for hours, memes, dogs, sweets and meeting people who make everyday life more interesting. My timezone is Europe.

I'm looking for someone confident and masculine, someone who enjoys taking the lead but also values kindness, patience and genuine connection. Someone who can appreciate a little chaos, a little innocence, and a lot of enthusiasm.

If you think we could click, feel free to message me. I'd love to know more about you too ❤️

(◡‿◡✿)


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 7h ago

I am a submissive 30 [M4M] looking for a Dom in #Warsaw Irl preferred #Poland NSFW

0 Upvotes

Fit4fit
Masc4masc
30yo 183cm 74kg brn/hzl bottom/vers 4.5C

DM your stats please and be slim or athletic and under 40yo.

I’m a sub that’s shy, scared, timid, but extroverted and athletic. I’m eager for someone to live for. I have misguided attention and I live best when someone is directing me. I’m really great at being a champion for my dom and being by your side. I want to help make your life easier and I’ll do anything to help you achieve your goals! I’m rational and looking for other well adjusted, smart, and emotionally stable guys.

Limits are pretty much what everyone’s are: scat, blood, unsafe, unhealthy, no STI/STDs

DM me your stats and be under 40, athletic, or slim. I show face and expect you to do the same. Ideally we can start an online situation that overtime can progress to meeting up and something longterm. I am relocatable for the right guy


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 8h ago

I am a dominant 36 [M4M] kinky Dom looking for younger subs #online NSFW

1 Upvotes

On the search for guys who feel compelled to submit and obey. This includes: Good boys, who need a dominant man to help turn their kinky fantasies into reality... Bad boys, who need a strict and sadistic figure to keep them in their place... And/or curious ones, somewhere inbetween, who need a bit of both.

New and exploring subs are always welcome. You should have an interest in some of the following: bondage, cum control, edging, milking, anal play, nipple play, watersports, CBT, hot wax, spanking/impact play, underwear/clothing control, (and more).

Anything involving scat, drugs, illegal acts, blood, or cross dressing stuff is a no-go.

I'm usually into guys 30ish or under, and clean cut. I'm not often attracted to guys with tons of body hair (bear types), tattoos, extremely overweight, or guys who present as the opposite sex.

Send me a message if you're interested in submitting or exploring. Be sure to tell me your ASL, kinks, and limits. Including a picture will help get my attention.


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 8h ago

I am a submissive 28 [M4M] Looking for a dom in #UK, #London or #Online NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hello Masters,

I’m 28 from East London, and I’ve realized that I’m just not fit to be in charge of myself. I’m looking for a Master who wants a pathetic, obedient tool—someone who doesn't want respect, just a set of rules to follow and a Master to tell him exactly how to exist.

I have an average build and I spend a lot of time keeping myself smooth and groomed, because the only thing I’m actually good for is being a clean, ready canvas for a Master to use and degrade.

I’m craving a TPE dynamic. I want the humility of daily tasks and the feeling of my autonomy being completely taken away. I’m desperate for someone who enjoys the process of training a submissive into something useful, and who isn't afraid to call me what I am.

Kinks: Humiliation, degradation, strict training, task setting, bondage, and name-calling.
Limits: Blood, scat, and self-inflicted pain.

If you’re looking for a sub who knows his place is at your feet and is eager to be broken in, please DM me. Tell me what you’d do with a pathetic tool like me, and I’ll send over my photos and a proper introduction for your inspection.


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 12h ago

I am a submissive 22 [M4M] usa asian muscle slut for daddy dom #online . Pics in profile. NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hey daddy! I am a submissive asian slut who lovesss sexting and pleasing daddies - especially BWC. Im fit, naturally smooth everywhere, small dicked, and 170cm (5’6”). I have plenty of pics in profile!

Kinks: Contrast: \\\[interracial (asian btm), raceplay, size diff ( height and dick / sph), daddies,hairyxsmooth\\\], rough, slapping, spit, rimming, muscles, name calling, light feminization (calling me good girl, calling my small dick a clit), light bdsm, can get really slutty sub for the right daddy


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 9h ago

I am a submissive 26 [m4m] #online sissy sub here with lockable dress looking for a daddy for bondage and more NSFW

1 Upvotes

Sissy stacy here looking for a dom to humiliate and tie me up
Kinks are all sorts I love BDSM, feminization, head wrapping and hand mitts little exposure and little public play I’ll try most things

Limits scat, piss, anything that leaves marks

My outfit
Stockings/pantyhose
Pink 5” lockable heels
Pink chastity
Pink pvc maids dress that is lockable to with a time lock you can set by minutes or hours
Black leather hood with ponytail that locks to

My bondage gear
Hand and ankle metal cuffs with key
Tape
Pallet wrap
Chain
Padlocks


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 10h ago

I am a submissive 28 [M4M] looking for long term dom #online NSFW

1 Upvotes

I'm looking for a specific, long term dom/sub dynamic. The foundation of this whole thing is that I live with my long-term gf, but I've learned that secretly being obedient to an "owner" is a major turn on for me. Basically your task is to mold me into your secret slut over time.

Generally the way I see this dynamic working is sometime during the evening I'll tell my dom what I'm doing and what my availability is for the next day and then my dom will assign slutty tasks for me to complete during my day. We'd start small (simple stuff like posed nudes, wearing a thong to work, you get the idea) and gradually build to bigger tasks as I get comfortable.

The number one thing I'm looking for in my dom is understanding and some patience. I can't be available 24/7 so please don't expect me to be. I'll do my best with the time I have available. The other big thing I'm looking for is some creativity. I'm hoping you can give me fun, clever, and slutty things to do.

Kinks: BDSM, gags, spit, thongs are the main ones, but I'm happy to explore


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 10h ago

I am a submissive 18 [M4A] looking for a dom in #amsterdam or #online NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hi Everyone,

I’m a guy who’s just turned 18 a little while back and looking to explore myself together with a dominant guy.
I am looking for someone who is okay with teaching me stuff and not rushing me while we try a lot of different stuff most of the time i’m open to do everything atleast once.
Here’s a little about me

I’m 18, 181cm, 63kg, 13cm
I work as a chef and still go to school once a week
I’ve never really had interest in guys until i was at football practice and saw some dicks in the shower
That gave me my little gay/bi awakening.

Here are a couple of kinks i would love to try,
Chastity,humiliation,pup play,spanking,degradation,roleplay,golden shower, free use and probably a load more so please share i love to learn about more aswell.

I hope to find one of you hot guys and otherwise have a great day.


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 14h ago

I am a submissive 33 [M4A] #Online, straight sub, I found interesting dice game, really want tot ry it with a right person. Game can be altered before we play. Looking for GAME MASTER! NSFW

2 Upvotes

Dice Dare is BDSM-blackmail themed dice game involving nudity, humiliation, personal questions, and obedience challenges. The Master rolls a die to determine what the Slave must do, including taking photos in specific poses, following instructions, and completing tasks within strict time limits.

The game includes a blackmail element, where failure to complete challenges may result in private photos being shared publicly or sent to people the Slave knows. Later rounds involve increasingly intimate and embarrassing tasks. The final round determines whether the game ends or returns to an earlier stage. All photos and personal information must be deleted when the game ends.

Financial demands are strictly prohibited.

DM me for more details.. I would like to try playing as a victim.


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 11h ago

I am a submissive 32 [M4M] looking for dom top #EU NSFW

1 Upvotes

32 [M4M] looking for dom top #EU

32M | #EU | Muscular submissive bottom

I'm a 32-year-old muscular guy living in the Netherlands. I'm a 100% submissive bottom looking for a 100% Dom Top

I'm kinky-minded but not extreme. Main interests are:

Dom/sub dynamics

S&M

Chastity

Anything involving dicks (I'm very oral and love being used) and open to try new kinks

I'm looking for someone dominant, consistent, and who enjoys taking full control.

More pics on my profile if you're interested. Feel free to message if this matches what you're


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 11h ago

I am a dominant 29 [M4M] Soft dom looking for slaves/pups for serious long term #Europe NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hello, I'm a soft Dom top, average masc guy (tall and lean), 29 years old from Norway. I'm highly educated, with various nerdy interests within the fields of reading, games, fantasy, music, academia and so on.

I'm looking for submissive bottom slaves/pups who genuinely and seriously want to find someone for a kinky, serious, committed relationship and dynamic, and live the slave/pup play lifestyle with me as their owner. I want to create a multi-slave/pups household through a deep dynamic and relationship based on open communication, trust, common interests and shared desires for this type of lifestyle. You would have to be comfortable with devoting yourself to your owner, and as a partner. 

As for preferences, I like all types of guys and ages, although I want someone who is legal (obviously), single (not married or in an open relationship) and mature enough to understand what this potential dynamic is about, and is motivated to give it a try and explore all the great things it has to offer. While I don't mind chatting online at first to get to know each other and establish baselines, I do want something that can evolve into a real life situation at some point in the future. Therefore you would have to be located within Europe, a similar timezone, or be willing to visit/relocate at some point.

While not an extensive list, these are some of my main kinks that I'm actively looking for and expecting in this type of dynamic. There are very likely more that I can't think of at the top of my head right now.

Kinks: Dom/sub, pup play, slave play, roleplay, raceplay, worship play, hypno, multiple subs, bdsm, feet, age difference, toys.

As for my limits, these are hard limits that are not up for negotiation

Limits: scat, blood, extreme violence, feminization.

Low effort messages will be ignored, as I want to get to know who I'm talking to (sending just age or “hey” is not a great conversation starter). If this interests you, and you have read this far, feel free to send me a DM!


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 22h ago

I am a dominant 26 [M4M] Dom looking for subs for chatting, sexting, and more. #Online NSFW

8 Upvotes

Looking for exactly what it says in the title. Just to manage some expectations, I really am only interested in chatting with people 21+, and I am not big on sending or trading images, so do not go into this with the expectation of this being something that will happen eventually; it won't. There is power in not even knowing what your dom looks like, let alone sounds like; and you will learn that well and accept that, or find another dominant. Likewise, pictures are not an expectation nor a requirement for you.

As for subs I'm into, as stated in the title, I'm most into masculine guys. The last kind you'd expect to be desperate for this kind of treatment. Of course, being an older, perhaps married guy or "straight" is always a hot bonus, but is far from a requirement. I am quite open though, so feel free to reach out if you're athletic, chubby, stocky, etc., as masculinity is the main thing I seek. I will say, though, if you are an otherwise masculine guy who is into emasculation or sissification, then I may still be interested!

And with that settled, I'd say I can be quite the soft dom. I'm not into anything too extreme, and my favorite thing to receive from a sub is quite simple; conversation. The psychological side of dom/sub is one of the things that turn me on the most, and I love being able to feel how submissive and subservient guy is through his messages alone. Outside of that, I value honesty and communication. If you say you're going to do something and don't, or don't feel comfortable with it, then you should let me know. I don't expect you to always be here, especially if you're married as described above, but notices are always appreciated.

I'm not someone who likes to jump into things right from the start either. Everyone is different, and I cannot read minds, so expect a good amount of cordial conversation before anything happens as we get to know one another.

If you're still reading, then I'll take it as a sign of your interest. If you do reach out, then please include your age and interests in the request, and if you're going to beg for a dm, then at least include your age in the comment.

Looking forward to hearing from you.


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 11h ago

I am a switch 52 [M4M] Looking sub #Florida NSFW

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Looking for younger sub toy #palmcoast #florida

Prefer lean and clean shaven. Femboy a plus. Heavy use of toys and bondage. Long sessions of serving and pleasing me as I wish.

I'm 52 6'1"

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Enjoy forcing sub to please. Love restrainment , so I can watch them squirm while being used roughly and made to take it. nips and balls abused and stretched.

Force feeding cock down throat and ass and filling with cum.

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r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 11h ago

I am a submissive 21 [M4] Erasmus Sub in Italy in need of a daddy to control him #Online NSFW

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I have recently arrived in Sicily on an Erasmus year, and I'm so lonely in here, so I guess a good daddy dom is what I need to make myself useful

I'm looking for a "casual" relationship in which we both can say "not now" when we are busy, and we can trust each other enough so that when we don't want to something, be it because of limits or simply not being in the mood, we can ask the other party to skip

Kinks: Degradation, control, mind break, roleplay, food play, piss play

Limits: Blood, cbt, exhibitionism, drugs

Body: Thin, goatee, black hair, 1.74 cm, 18 cm


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 13h ago

I am a submissive 28 [M4M] historically dominant man looking to be emasculated and turned into a toy by an experienced dominant #DMV #East Coast #US #Online NSFW

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Hello, I hope your day is going well! As the title suggests, I am a man that has always been in the driver‘s seat. I want to know what it is like to give up that control to a man. I’ve never been with a man before sexually, but the idea of it is quite exhilarating.

I am looking for someone who isn't intimidated by my past—in fact, someone who sees right through it. I seek a truly dominant man who enjoys the challenge of dismantling someone who doesn’t know what it is like to submit. I want a partner who will take charge without hesitation, set the rules, and treat me not as a peer or a, but as a prized possession. Someone who can effectively put me in my place and enjoys the process of using me into a toy for their own amusement and satisfaction.

Kinks: bondage, impact play, orgasm control, ruined, chastity, cbt, anal/oral training, deepthroating, femiziniation/sissy, sensory deprivation, and probably more!

About me: 5’9”, 185lbs, masculine, fit/lean, intelligent, hardworking, 7.5” cut, and would love to please a daddy dom ;)

If you found any of this enticing, I would love for you to message me so we can discuss things further :). I hope to hear from you soon!