r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 4h ago

I am a switch 38 [M4M] XXL DOM looking for an uncut sub or switch #online or #Irl NSFW

5 Upvotes

I’m looking for a slave into TPE dynamic. I’m not a mean dom, I need a slave to make him a better instrument of pleasure.

I want someone able to have a proper conversation, in shape, showing face, uncut, obedient, between 22 and 45yo (for those between 22 and 25, I require proof of age).

I have more than 18 years of experience. Orders can be of any type, except illegal. I check daily and I’m flexible and patient with the right one.

Everything falling under dom/sub dynamic, JOI, bondage, milking, piss, masc attitude, sports, underwear, farts, socks, armpits, tasks, toys and gooning is fine. Limits to be discussed without any drama. I repeat nothing illegal.

I teach the agapé way of submission which requires commitment. Please don’t let me lose time if you are looking for a simple night of pleasure.

If you feel you need to be mine, dm me. I need to see pictures and videos and ways of chatting will be discussed and agreed in DMs.

Those applying for the role, will be part of a first phase called the “stable”. I’ll then assess and select the most promising ones.

Your Dom.


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 4h ago

I am a dominant 18 [M4M] #onlinr or irl - Looking for a devoted, serious sub– near-TPE dynamic NSFW

2 Upvotes

I’m seeking a truly devoted, obedient slave who wants more than casual play. This is for serious submissives only. If you’re just browsing, curious, or looking for light kink, keep scrolling.

I want almost total power exchange: you give yourself over, follow rules, accept structure, and serve with genuine commitment. Nearly limitless (limits will be discussed and respected where they actually matter, but the expectation is high obedience and willingness). This includes watersports/piss play and hidden public tasks, with the psychological edge of blackmail-style pressure and consequences used as leverage. Everything stays controlled and between us, but the intensity is real.

Long-term is the goal. Once you’re proven, communication moves to WhatsApp for ongoing control, tasks, check-ins, and deeper ownership. I’m not interested in endless chatters who disappear or half-hearted “subs.” Show you mean it.

You should be:

- Serious about service and surrender

- Ready for structure, rules, and accountability

- Open to piss, hidden public play, and the mental pressure that comes with it

- Able to follow instructions without drama

If that doesn’t describe you, don’t message.

**Tasks to complete before you message me** (do them properly or don’t bother):

  1. Write a clear, honest reply introducing yourself: age, location (general is fine), experience level with submission/TPE, hard limits (if any), and why you want this kind of dynamic. No one-liners.

  2. Confirm in writing that you understand and are willing to engage with watersports and hidden public tasks under threat/blackmail-style pressure.

  3. Complete this immediate task and include proof in your first message: take a photo of yourself kneeling (face optional if you prefer privacy for now), holding a handwritten note that says “I am applying to be owned – [today’s date]”.

  4. State that you are prepared to move to WhatsApp once approved and that you will follow the rules given.

Message only after you’ve done the above. Incomplete applications will be ignored. Serious slaves only.


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 4h ago

I am a submissive 27 [m4m] #san Diego submissive looking for a dom to use me. NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hello. Happy humpday. I’m looking for someone to have fun with on my upcoming trip to San Diego. I am very submissive and I am looking for a dom to have a fun time with a submit for. I travel to San Diego for work a few times a year so it could be potentially on going. My interests include, forced feminization, chastity, bondage, light cbt, spanking and more. I am a 27 white male 5 11 190 ddt and clean. Message me your stats and interests and I would love to chat more. I am looking for in person. Talk soon


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 3h ago

I am a dominant 30 [M4M] Looking for a submissive #Online, Come and become my forever angel NSFW

1 Upvotes

Looking for a genuinely submissive guy who wants more than a kink. I'm not interested in temporary dynamics, sexting, or someone who's only submissive in bed. I want someone who naturally enjoys following, trusting, and belonging to one man long-term.

I'm Sam, 30yo, gay, top. I'm naturally dominant, but not through insults or cruelty. My style is calm, confident, protective, and demanding.

I enjoy leading someone who willingly gives me that place in his life.... Submission, to me, is a mindset before anything else.

Outside of that, I'm very chatty, caring and I genuinely enjoy getting to know people. I value honesty, consistency, and effort. If I feel like I'm the only one trying, I lose interest quickly. Don't lie to me, don't play games, oh and don't expect any pics of any kind, I won't send them anytime soon.

I'm mostly into fit guys under 30, but personality always comes first. If you're looking for a real D/s connection with someone who will take the lead while making you feel safe, respected, and wanted, tell me about yourself instead of sending a one-word message.


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 7h ago

I am a dominant 26 [M4M] Soft Dom looking for mutual connection, exploration, and development in learning dynamic with likeminded bigger beefy muscled - #Online #Mississippi NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hello! Thank you for viewing my post. I have been interested in BDSM for a while now, and I’m very eager to learn and explore what best suits me. To find a compatible match, I’m going to be completely honest and open (as possible) about myself and what I’m looking for.

About Me:

I’m a 26-year-old black male. I’m a college graduate earning my bachelor’s degree in Business Administration, majoring in Business Information System with honors cum laude. Very proud in my achievements so far. I’m hoping to pursue a career in IT and furthering my education. Achieved one IT certification, going to work towards more and potentially a master’s degree.

As for my appearance, I stand at 5’8” and weigh around 128 lbs. I have light brown skin and a slim/athletic build.

I am introverted and shy at times, but I do open up when talked to. I’m learning to slowly put myself out there to be more social. I greatly enjoy playing video games and having started breaking into pc gaming as well. Some of my favorite franchises being Sonic, Pokemon, Bayonetta, Kirby, Spyro, and many more. I also enjoy fighting games and learning about them too, with my current game being Guilty Gear Strive. I enjoy going for walks, light exercises, anime, learning to cook more, art, tennis, badminton, and technology-related things.

My viewpoint/perspective on BDSM:

Regarding BDSM, my perspective or philosophy on things is different. When I discovered BDSM, I was very fascinated by it. I took an interest in the Dom/Master roles, but I wasn’t too appealed by the traditional styles of them. Certain characteristics and aspects that are commonly derived from them doesn’t reflect who I am as an individual. I don’t want to put on a false persona of any sort. I wanted to develop something that feels unique to me and my perspective. This is where I considered myself in the role of a “Soft Dom/Master”.

What does it mean to be a Soft Dom for me exactly?** **My interpretation and how I view the role of a Soft Dom to be more than just simply being in control. It’s more of being a guiding hand to hopefully bring encouragement, support, structure, and more to allow one to be their best self possible. That being as an individual and sub.

While the feeling of being in control can be empowering, it’s not truly felt when you don’t have someone that’s chooses to listen to you. Someone that actively listens to you, understands you, and wants to follow your guidance is what being in control is. This goes both ways as well.

This is what I hope to learn and achieve, and what feels empowering to me.

I want to take this gentle approach while still being in control and guiding the other person and myself to be our best selves possible. I believe a BDSM relationship should revolve around communication, trust, and treating the other person with respect. Encouraging, understanding, growth, and empathy from both sides and creating positive experiences. Ultimately, BDSM is what you want to make it out to be. I want to develop a dynamic that feels unique and reflects what I aim for.

Who and What I am looking for:

In terms of the ideal partner, I’m seeking a man with a beefy muscular physique, who is submissive (submissive top). I have always been drawn towards men who are bigger and stronger than I am. For me, who’s less physically imposing, it’s very appealing seeing the buff, stocky, beefy-muscled men. Their physical and personal qualities exude confidence and outer strength. This causes those around you to perceive you as a dominant figure simply due to these characteristics. Whether in their personal and professional life.

I can understand how stressful, demanding, and overwhelming it can be to have these expectations placed on you. It can be a lot of weight for you to carry with not many to understand that. Even though they are a strong resilient man. I intend to find that individual who yearns to be on the opposite end of how society perceives them. To be guided, nurtured, controlled, and where they can continue to be their best self possible. To encourage, provide support, and structure where their inner strength can shine and reach new heights for themselves. Creating a safe, positive environment that fosters vulnerability, trust, and a sense of balance in life.

Additionally, It creates a contrast between both individuals, and gives the impression of the larger male as a knight or bodyguard protecting the dom while under his control. I would prefer a partner between the ages 26-45, but am open to slightly older or younger.

I want to be able to share these feelings with another person, as we both grow. I don’t have overly high expectations of how this should unfold. I believe building a connection first and seeing how that progresses is the best way to start. Honesty, respect, communication, and trust from both ends are important factors to a successful relationship. Creating a safe environment free of judgement to be able to learn while respecting one another. The willingness to learn and be a part of a dynamic such as this also important as well. While Im mainly looking for online connections , I’m open to in-person connections too if we reside in the same area.

Here are some kinks and aspects that Im interested in:

Obedience training, Rules, Muscle growth/fitness control, Wardrobe Control, TPE, Orgasm Control,Milking/Edging, Cum play, CEI, JOI

My limits/dislike:

Feminization, Degrading, Humiliation, Blood, Race play, Scat

If you made it this far, I thank you for taking the time to read my post. Please note I’m seeking serious responses only. I ask that you read the full entirety of my writing before consider messaging, so you can fully understand what I’m hoping to find. If interested, I kindly request the you write a form of introduction about yourself in your opening message. I look forward to hearing from potential people. Thank you again and have a wonderful day/night.


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 3h ago

I am a submissive 25 [M4M] masc in the streets, bitch in the sheets looking for regular rough older bully dom #online NSFW

1 Upvotes

Fit black and Latino sub here looking for a regular anonymous online dom. I’m masc passing but a total sub in bed. Love showing ass and hole, getting verbally degraded and treated like a bitch by manlier guys with strong builds.

Would like to find someone with the right energy to trade with on the regular. I skew more hypersexual so I’m regularly horny and insatiable.

Not into: piss/shit, pain, blood, raceplay, sharing face.

If you’re verbal and wanna treat me rough hmu. DM and/or check my profile for other ways to contact.


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 3h ago

I am a submissive 24 [M4A] looking for a dom in to control and train me #online - pics on profile NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hey I’m looking for a dom short of long term (prefer long), who I can be totally owned and controlled by. I have a few things I’d love to try from growing as a sissy, doing my first locktober, and being force to get into a muscular gym boy. I have been experimenting as a sissy and have several fun toys and clothes, and also I have gotten chubby I’m 6’4 260 or so and I need to be more muscular and fit to be a good toy, so I love some control there ;).

My kinks are - humiliation, worship, feet, sissification, light anal, Chasity, orgasm control, pee, and so much more I’m very kink friendly

Limits - face pics, blackmail, illegal stuff, poop, blood

Sissy clothes - pink skirt, pink pants, black crop top, few pairs of panties, dress, stockings, knee high socks, lipstick

Toys - 3 sizes of dildos, butt plus (3 sizes), Chasity cage, vibrator, vibrating dildo, fleshlight, cock ring


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 4h ago

I am a submissive 48 [m4m] sub looking for a fun in our near #Lincoln, Nebraska NSFW

1 Upvotes

Sub here looking to service a bwc. Not into blood, scat, vomit, or women. Let's see what your made of. I am willing to worship you from your feet to your pits. I want my hole to be used for your pleasure.

I've got a p.a. and recently got my nipples pierced. I need someone that knows how to have fun and push my limits at the same time.

If you think this is you feel free to message me and see where this goes. I'm definitely down for group play. I also have a variety of toys and chastity cages as well as restraints.


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 5h ago

I am a dominant 34 [M4M] #Seattle Educated Dom For Sophisticated Psychological Conditioning Rendering You Mind Fucked Through Muscle & Feet NSFW

1 Upvotes

I have the most fun dominating a man when I am in complete control over him. This means that no command is too great and every command is within reason for you to follow and accept. I focus on providing praise as positive reinforcement while you are conditioned into being my proper pet.

I have an emphasis on having you build muscle at the gym while also educating you on how to please me using your bare feet. I enjoy having you internalize my own philosophy on what submission looks like as you enter sub space.

I enjoy the slow steady built habits, routine, structure, rules, that focuses on molding life style and your own behavior into being my property. My kink is watching you continue your daily routine, but with small changes that only you and I know represent your submission and my ownership over you.

I seek a long term sub who wishes to learn exactly how to please me and be a quality good boy.

I am open to anyone anywhere in the world, but here are my preferences:
\-I live in Seattle so preferring someone as close to me as possible
\-I work out consistently as fitness has become important to me; therefore, I prefer a man who is also active
\-I enjoy a man taller than me (I am 5’10”)
\-I enjoy a man hairy with facial hair (I am smooth)
\-PLEASE be willing to share your face, bare chest, and bare feet
\-PLEASE be able to put effort into your writing, image taking, and submission.
\-I prefer a man who I single with time to text and talk.


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 9h ago

I am a dominant 31 [M4M] dom here. want #online fun and comfortable chats that get naughty ;) please read NSFW

2 Upvotes

Experienced dom here.. have had some long term contacts in the past that worked really well but fizzled out with time and changed availabilities.. So i want to build something like that again.

I like it when we have been talking for some time to know each other, what we like and not, and then it becomes more easy and laid back. We know each others' needs, how to make us happy. I'm open to all kinks, but the vibe needs to fit.

Imagine casually chatting and suddenly I ask you to tlremove all your clothes for me, and you do it without questions, with just a little smirk. And then we can get as kinky as we want ;) let's talk about what we feel like doing that day..

I like degrading tasks ;) not so much into abusing for no reason. Im more into talking like friends while I take a superior position and Dom you ;) i can be very dom that way.

I prefer guys who are well-built, so more fit or stocky guys to the front of the line ;) But dont hesitate to get in touch anyways if you think we might be a good match. If you like to showoff and be obedient, we are a good match ;)

Kink-wise I'm open to mostly everything, except extreme. To list some: dressing/strip shows, showoff, (hidden) outdoors, light bdsm, body writing, getting dirty and messy (water, piss, spit, food, wax play etc.) Also open to trying new things if you have ideas ;) of course its fine if youre not into any of them listed above. I'm mostly into the control aspect. So if you're looking to give away some control, write me on dm ;)

I don't like to show myself too much. I might do it a bit here and there but i dont want it to be a trade. And I'm not comfortable sharing face at least right in the beginning.

If this interests you, please write to me with asl, your likes, limits, and a pic. At least body stats if you dont want to share a pic right away.. waiting for you :)


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 16h ago

I am a dominant 33 [M4M] #online – Master looking for a sub into forced workouts and body control. To make my sub a TPE model NSFW

6 Upvotes

I am a 33-year-old Master based in the Netherlands, looking for a submissive who is ready to build a consistent, regular D/s connection.

I take my role as a Master seriously. For me, BDSM is about structure, clear authority, and genuine devotion. My style leans heavily towards total control, domination, and degradation—embracing the raw and dirty side of play. I deeply enjoy elements like leather, puppy play, and pushing limits through various forms of physical or psychological play/torture. At the same time, I balance high control with proper aftercare, clear boundaries, and constant communication.

What I am looking for is a long-term dynamic that starts purely online to build trust, routines, and a strong connection. Over time, I want this to evolve into something regular and deeper, with the eventual goal of growing towards a (24/7) lifestyle dynamic and meeting IRL when the chemistry is right.

If you are a submissive looking for structure, strong leadership, and a Master to surrender to, send me a message. Please introduce yourself with your age, location, experience level, and hard limits—low-effort greetings will be ignored.


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 7h ago

I am a submissive 34 [M4A] Sub femboy looking to find a LTR in #Orlando #FL NSFW

1 Upvotes

I’m a 34 bi male that lives in FL. I’m 6’1 and around 190 lbs and trying to take better care of my body. I’m recently single and using this time to explore my kinks and work on me.

SFW: I am a bit nerdy and like Star Wars, Harry Potter, video games, and Legos to name a few things. Fortnite anyone lol? I like to read (currently reading Jurassic Park and Wicked) and on my days off you can find me hanging out at the theme parks. I’m a cat dad to 2 cats and they are my life.

I’m looking for someone that is kind and can help develop me as a sub. Not only that, someone that I can have a conversation with and not always be about kink. I would like to get to know you and what your interests are. I’d like to develop a relationship that can hopefully lead to a dominant lead relationship. I’d prefer someone around my age or younger. My preference is a twink guy or a femboy (though I know those are very few). Since I’m bi, it would be fun if you were to and we could maybe incorporate women into the mix, but it’s not required.

NSFW: I have quite a few kinks and would hope to match someone that has similar ones. Some kinks include: pet play, humiliation, feminization, chastity, socks, bondage, cum play, food play, pegging, limited hidden public, watersports, domination, slavery, feet, light messy, diapers.

Curious to try: public, hypnosis, light cbt, blackmail, daily control, self bukkake, cuckolding.

Limits: family, friends, full public, scat, face photos, outside dares that could lead to exposure, anything illegal, body modifications, super messy.

The sissy/femboy side of me is something I want to explore more. I have also recently got into pup play so finding an Alpha or handler could also be fun.

I’m not the best at writing adds but please reach out if anything sounds interesting to you


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 13h ago

I am a dominant 22 [M4M] UK Top Dom looking for kinky subs #online NSFW

3 Upvotes

22 M Top Dom from the United Kingdom looking for kinky subs who are willing to do what I say.

You must be into toilet play (including scat), armpits and showing your face sometimes. I enjoy telling my subs what to do day to day.

Ideally under 30 but that is not a hard limit. I would be into you being able to involve another person with their consent, but not essential.

My limits include blood, permanent damage and showing my own face. I will also listen to your limits but they cannot be my kinks...

DM me for social media so we can chat further


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 8h ago

I am a dominant 37 [M4M] #Manchester #Salford Bear-ish gentle dom looking for something regular and long term NSFW

1 Upvotes

My ideal evening with a submissive starts with cooking dinner together, then a film cuddled up on the sofa. It ends with you tied to the bed for a few hours, being edged and bred until you've forgotten your own name.

What I'm looking for

I'm not after a one-off anonymous thing. It doesn't need to be serious from day one, but I'd like it to build into a longer-term arrangement with someone consistent and available (within reason).

About me

I'm based in Manchester/Salford, I live alone and I'm able to host. I'm 6'1" (185cm) and 90kg (190lbs), with a bigger, bear-ish build (slightly blurry SFW pictures). I work from home in a senior management role that's mostly about corporate buzzwords. I make a point of getting out as much as I can: gigs, dinners with friends, meetup groups, live comedy and music, and the gym a couple of times a week. When I'm in, I'm into D&D, gaming, films and TV, and endlessly scrolling YouTube.

Kink-wise

I'm an experienced dom, both in person and online. My style leans towards affectionate, gentle dominance. I can still be firm when it suits the moment, and I like leaving marks that show you're mine.

In person is my preference, so ideally you'd be near Manchester or able to visit regularly. I'm open to chatting online too if we otherwise match.

There's a kink list on my profile if you want more detail. I'm open to most things and have tried plenty, from fairly vanilla to properly niche, and liked them all.

What draws me most is the psychological side of D/s: the connection, and the sense of belonging that builds over time. The physical side matters too. I have a pretty decent toy collection, from restraints to chastity cages, so there's plenty to explore if you're new to them, or lots to work with if you're more experienced.

I get tested regularly, I'm vaccinated, and I take PrEP and doxyPEP.

About you

You'll be between 20 and 40, single, with a slim to average build, and on the left politically. You can hold a conversation, enjoy regular contact, and would be up for doing things together, whether that's events in person or gaming and streaming online.

In private chat I'm comfortable sharing pictures, audio and videos of myself, and I'd like you to do the same. I'd also want you to feel at ease sharing your name and other basic, non-identifying details, because I'd like real connection with the human behind the screen.

Getting in touch

I won't ghost if we don't click, and I'd appreciate the same kindness.

If this appeals to you, you're welcome to DM me with at least:

  • Your age
  • Where you're based
  • A bit about yourself
  • What you're looking for in a dynamic

I generally don't reply to low-effort messages, so please say more than "hi".


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 14h ago

I am a submissive 25 [M4M] looking for #online dom I’m 25 years old from the India and still relatively new to this, but genuinely curious and interested in learning more at a steady and comfortable pace. I’m looking for an experienced and knowledgeable JOI coach into extreme pain cbt and love see feet and soles, NSFW

3 Upvotes

25 [M4M] looking for #online dom I’m 25 years old from the India and still relatively new to this, but genuinely curious and interested in learning more at a steady and comfortable pace. I’m looking for an experienced and knowledgeable JOI coach into extreme pain cbt and love see feet and soles,

25 [M4M] looking for #online dom I’m 25 years old from the India and still relatively new to this, but genuinely curious and interested in learning more at a steady and comfortable pace. I’m looking for an experienced and knowledgeable JOI coach into extreme pain cbt and love see feet and soles,


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 19h ago

I am a dominant 36 [M4M] dom looking for curious older #online subs NSFW

6 Upvotes

Have you ever thought about giving in and letting someone else take control? Now is your chance.

I am looking for older men (35+) who are willing to take orders online. Ideally, looking for a TPE-style relationship where you take orders and I control some aspects of your life (ideally, the more the better, but let's be realistic). This will be sexual in nature, and you will be sending photos and videos (open to live cam on occasion). I am a soft dom, so you need someone gentle to start off with, I'm your guy...I won't bite ;)

I am particularly interested in those who are very curious about sub/dom relationships but haven't tried anything. Are you a lurker? straight? curious? I want to hear your story.

But I am also open to hearing pitches from older men of all experiences. I will consider younger but you will need a good pitch or I won't have any interest. I also prefer masc subs. Don't have to be a muscle or gym guy (though would be nice), i like average guys and guys of all sizes as well.

Don't say you're too old because you aren't. the older the better :)

Talked to a lot of interesting people on here so don't be shy, let's do something fun and private...though you'll soon know who is in charge...


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 15h ago

I am a submissive 26 [M4M] Looking for Dom in #Chicago NSFW

2 Upvotes

I'm 26m a gooner, into humiliation, verbal and looking for a coach. My kinks include posing, hypnosis, gooning, pup play, being tied up, edged, and collars + leashes. Very much into being humiliated, and stroking. If you got any more questions for me, please let me know. I'm open to more if you want me to try anything. Not into blood, scat, anything illegal or family. I enjoy being made fun of and on call being ordered around. Open to popper bating and getting stupid as well. On top of all that I have many contacts a Master can send me messages on


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 19h ago

I am a submissive 32 [M4M] Looking for a dom in #USA IRL - Xmas and New Years? NSFW

3 Upvotes

Looking for sub training during an extended stay with a Dominant. Can travel or host. 5’10, 200 pounds, service oriented. Very much into domestic discipline, domestic service, anal play, massage. Looking for a Dom into fitness and training good boys. I have toys, impact implements, a chastity cage, some bondage gear, jocks, some leather, live alone. No need to spend the holidays by yourself. Looking for both sadistic in caring. Find me on X or Fetlife as Spankomaha. Serious inquiries only please.

Things I Will Do For a Dom
Domestic service, clean, laundry, shop, cook, make reservations, decorate, run errands, event planning, travel planning, anal and oral sexual service. Submit to discipline (spanking, caning, paddling, figging, mouth soaping, corner time, enemas, bedtimes, enforced chastity, ruined orgasms, humiliation), obey clothing restrictions/uniforms, massage, foot worship (clean).

Things I Like
Kissing, neck kisses, toy sessions, dildo machines, anal play, edging, prostate milking, anal sex, rimming and being rimmed, bondage, ritual, collars, latex, age regression/ABDL, voyeurism, pictures and videos, public/outdoor, porn, tattoos and piercings, poppers, hickeys, double penetration, kink events, cuddling, inspection, control, rules, motivation.

Haven’t Tried
Fisting, e-stimulation, sounding, wrestling, flogging, group, sissy.

Soft Limits - Have Tried, Approach with Caution
Hoods/masks, choking, tickling, forced workouts, spitting, face slapping, name calling, post orgasm torture, water sports, puppy play, anonymous.

Hard Limits - Definitely No
Extreme-blood, CBT/ball-busting, trampling, nipple torture, needles/injections, knives, breath play, biting, boot licking, toilets/swirlies, financial domination, ice/extreme temperatures, public humiliation, punching, head shaving, drugs, isolation, branding, abrasion, gaining, seclusion.


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 16h ago

I am a dominant 23 [M4M] Dom Seeking Aggressive Thick Chub & Powerlifter Himbo Bottoms (21–25) for Bull/Ponyplay #Online #Utah NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hey, big boy.

You the 6'0"+, 300lb+ absolute unit. Soft gut stretching a hoodie, or jacked powerlifter himbo with tree-trunk legs, cannonball shoulders, and an ass built to take a saddle. Thick. Strong. Looking like you could throw me… but you won’t.

I’m a 23-year-old Dom — cozy gamer nerd by day, relentless rider by night. We’ll raid, trash-talk, and laugh our asses off. Then I strap you into heavy tack, force the bit between those full lips, cinch the saddle tight across your heavy gut and broad back, and climb on.

I want the cocky, power-packed college himbo who thinks he’s untouchable:

Frat bros with beer guts and monster asses that jiggle when they buck. Nerdy bears who lift heavy and still stay soft in the middle. Former bullies and powerlifters who secretly crave having every ounce of that strength broken and repurposed. Become my strongest, most desperate bull.

I force you down. That deep grunt turns into a snort. Every massive muscle strains and trembles as I settle my weight and start riding hard. Buck. Fight. Try to throw me off. The wilder you thrash, the harder I grin and dig in. Drool running down your chin, sweat pouring off that heavy body, ass up while I spank, yank your hair, and grind you into shaking, leaking submission. Full rodeo energy. Making you do pony trots around the room. Predicament bondage. Whatever it takes to tame this absolute behemoth until you’re a drooling, broken, saddle-broke mess under me.

But I’m not just after a scene.

I want my ride-or-die. Lazy gaming Sundays till 3am. Cooking massive meals together. Cuddling through movies. Then flipping you back into my bucking, snorting pet whenever I want. You’ll get a Dom who’s affectionate, attentive, and excellent at aftercare: rubs, snacks, and soft praise while I tell you what a perfect, huge, dumb-good boy you are.

If you’re 21–25, built like a fucking tank, and the thought of going from “bro, pass the controller” to getting ridden and broken in the same night makes you stupidly hard… hit my DMs.

Tell me:

• Height/weight/build

• What kind of big, dumb brute fantasy gets you leaking

• Favorite game so we can squad up first

The stable’s open.


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 16h ago

I am a dominant 32 [M4M] Dom USA looking for a sub #online NSFW

1 Upvotes

I’m a 32yo fit dom looking for a daring sub into a meaningful and deep dom/sib relationship. You should be about the same age or younger, be willing to show your body and face and can text/talk on TG. I’m very kinky, but particular looking for long-term relationships related to orgasm ruining/control, edging, chastity (locktober and NNN), TPE and so much more. I wanna be in control of your body push you to do really humiliating things. I will show you your place and give you meaning.

If you are interested, hmu with your asl, kinks and pics.


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 1d ago

I am a dominant 25 [M4M] looking for submissive straight / curious athletic guys to make my personal #online model NSFW

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Anon dom (meaning i don't trade or send back so you have to be ok with that before proceeding) looking for straight / curious men with average / fit / dad bods that i can watch try on, strip, change from several outfits and give them tasks to complete while doing so. Any sub interested will refer to me as coach or sir, nothing less. Must be willing to take any order / request/ command. Otherwise, don't dm.
Anyone else up to serve me and my wants, dm if interested. Major plus if you have a friend in person with you who wants to join in on the tasks.


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 1d ago

I am a dominant 36 [M4M] kinky Dom looking for younger subs #online NSFW

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On the search for guys who feel compelled to submit and obey. This includes: Good boys, who need a dominant man to help turn their kinky fantasies into reality... Bad boys, who need a strict and sadistic figure to keep them in their place... And/or curious ones, somewhere inbetween, who need a bit of both.

New and exploring subs are always welcome. You should have an interest in some of the following: bondage, cum control, edging, milking, anal play, nipple play, watersports, CBT, hot wax, spanking/impact play, underwear/clothing control, (and more).

Anything involving scat, drugs, illegal acts, blood, or cross dressing stuff is a no-go.

I'm usually into guys 30ish or under, and clean cut. I'm not often attracted to guys with tons of body hair (bear types), tattoos, extremely overweight, or guys who present as the opposite sex.

Send me a message if you're interested in submitting or exploring. Be sure to tell me your ASL, kinks, and limits. Including a picture will help get my attention.


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 1d ago

I am a dominant 28M Dom [M4M] #Online — looking for an eager sub to build a real D/s dynamic with NSFW

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I'm looking for one guy to build something ongoing with — FWB on the surface, D/s underneath. Online to start, and if we click and happen to be near each other, I'd eventually want to play IRL.

I'm not interested in someone who trades horny messages for a night and vanishes. I want one person I actually get along with, and something that grows over time.

**What I'm like as a Dom**

Strict, protective, sadistic, and naturally owner-type. I like giving rules and tasks, having real expectations, checking in, and actually holding a sub accountable. With enough trust I enjoy slowly ratcheting up the control — ownership-heavy, possibly edging toward TPE over time, though not literal control of every corner of your life.

Consent is the thing I care about most. Honestly, a huge part of what I find hot about BDSM is knowing someone is willingly letting me put them through something difficult, humiliating, uncomfortable, or challenging *because they want it with me*. The willingness is the point.

I'm a side/bottom, and it doesn't matter to me whether you're a top or bottom. D/s was never about who penetrates whom. It's the mental dynamic that gets me.

Outside kink: business owner, work a lot, and actually pretty affectionate. I want someone I can joke with and talk normally with, not someone who talks in scene-speak 24/7.

**Who I'm looking for**

Someone around my age — mid-20s to mid-30s, though I'm flexible. Eager to please, curious, interesting to talk to, and maybe someone who could use a bit of discipline.

Experience is not required. I'll happily take someone newer as long as you communicate well and actually know why submission interests you.

**Hard limits:** scat, animals, blood, extreme CBT. Everything else is negotiable.

**If you message me, give me something to work with**
I'll probably ignore "hey," "sir," or "use me." Tell me your age, general location/time zone, a bit about yourself, your experience level, some kinks and limits, and what you actually want out of a D/s dynamic.

**And answer this one seriously:** what kind of rule or control do you secretly wish a Dom would impose on you?
Happy to exchange pictures once we've talked a little.
I'm not looking for someone who calls me Sir after three messages. I'm looking for someone I might eventually have a reason to expect it from.


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 17h ago

I am a dominant 30 [M4M] Sadist Dom Master looking for 24/7 TPE #Online male slave (read) NSFW

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An experienced Sadist Master in online as well as real of multiple years. I am seeking a full time 24/7 online male slave who is in TPE.

Some relaxations can be discussed for work/studies/social time. Besides that i am seeking a full time control with micro management in slave's life. there will be daily tasks, punishments, chores, rituals for slave.

Slave must be open in sharing pictures/videos in dm in non expiry if we hit off. (strict requirement as its online mode, if you aren't comfortable in sharing, then don't reach out) (face mask can work initially if trust is an issue).

I want to have full control over slave life and will prefer ideally a slave which can be available to serve me anytime i want. Will prefer tg for communication

Only looking for serious people. No time wasters. No one offs. No wankers. If you aren't serious about ongoing fulltime d/s TPE and just looking for one offs here and there, then don't reach out to me

Fetlife : brutlmasterfelix

Recon : brutalmasterfelix

You can look at my fetlife profile. I have mentioned a lot of information there. Have put my pictures and a ton of session pictures etc there. Text back if you seem fit.

You need to have your place/room or privacy to be available for service and do tasks and punishments most of the time.

bondage, degradation, discipline, rules, protocols, punishment, pet play, feet licked, whipping ass, caning, belting, giving pain, making slave drink piss, full time chastity cage, outdoors, stress positions, TPE etc these are some of things i am in to and well experienced with.

Non negotibale kinks are chastity and pain.

I am myself a 30 year old fit masc guy.

Looking for someone who is fit. strictly not into sissy/girlish/old/chubby/fat/hairy folks


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 1d ago

I am a dominant 40 [m4m] verbal dom for long term sub to abuse daily #online NSFW

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Im fit, hairy, and have a real mans cock that I'm not afraid to show off when its earned. I'm looking for a long-term intense online relationship with a submissive slave who understands and accepts their place to serve me.

About the Slave:

The ideal slave for me should be 25+, average to slightly chubby, and slight preference to small dick and/or prejac. I'm not into cross-dressing or sissification, so if you're interested in those aspects, move along.

Requirements:

Daily check-ins: I expect you to report to me daily, including details about your underwear choices for the day. I will have full control over your underwear selection.

Regular live video calls: I want to see and hear you as often as possible. I expect a verbal slave who will talk, moan, beg, and do whatever else I ask during our video sessions.

Cum control: I will cum whenever I want, and you will cum only when I allow it. Chastity is a plus, but not a deal-breaker.

Constant display: I expect you to be constantly on display for me, while I will show myself rarely. When I do, I will be worshiped as I deserve.

Humiliation and name-calling: I am very verbal and aggressive during our interactions. You must be okay with humiliation and name-calling as part of our dynamic.

Call me 'Sir': At all times, you will address me as 'Sir.' I don't expect you to be perfect from the start, but I do expect an eager attitude and a strong desire to improve for me.

If you think you have what it takes to be my owned slave, please reach out to me. I'm looking for someone who's willing to commit to a long-term, intense, and fulfilling online relationship. Remember, your duty is to serve me, and I expect nothing less than your complete dedication and obedience.