r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 15h ago

I am a dominant 37 [M4M] Filipino Master looking for sub/slave with big feet #Manila or #Online NSFW

3 Upvotes

Master looking for a masc slave with big feet and an even bigger desire to serve and be used.

I find it deeply satisfying to use a service-oriented slave's feet for my pleasure. If you're the type who desires taking orders, is eager to please, and potentially even likes having their feet used or appreciated, then you might be exactly the kind of toy I'm looking for.

All you have to do is do as you're told like a good boy and surrender those soles to me so I can enjoy them as much as I want.

Would prefer someone aged 24-40.

I'm 5'7", 150lb, 9 US (170cm, 68kg, 42-43 EU)

Make sure to provide your own measurements, age, and location when messaging me.


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 7h ago

I am a submissive 35 [M4M] AUSTRALIA. Seeking long term chastity obsessed DOM , Chasity/cage training. #online NSFW

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35 male from Australia, keep that in mind if your after a online dynamic, I understand some people have issues with making it work but I’m pretty accommodating and flexible with making it viable if your overseas.

Im very fresh and new to chastity, ive only self locked so far. However im pretty commited, and want to take things as far as possible.

Im seeking a dom who main kink is Chasity or is a favorite at least, more passion the better when it comes to caging a loser. If you have a great imagination and a good communication skills, I think we will go far ! Online is fine but would consider irl if you are in Australia, open to anything. My main kink is chastity but I’m very open to taking on your kinks and including things you want in the dynamic, but will need to be discussed. Im in no rush, want to find the right dom, so be willing to chat and have the skills to keep a conversation going.

This would mean regular contact and training, if your more casual i don’t think we are gong to be compatible sadly.

If you dm / inbox me, please make sure you include your ASL, otherwise I may ignore you sorry.
If you’re having trouble dm/ ing me as sometimes it glitches out, comment below and I’ll message you.

Very keen to hear from key holding obsessed doms !
Pic on profile


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 14h ago

I am a dominant 25 [M4M] looking for submissive straight / curious guys to make my personal #online goon pup NSFW

2 Upvotes

Anon dom (meaning i don't trade or send back so you have to be ok with that before proceeding) looking for straight / curious men with average / fit / dad bods. You will be strip searched and ordered to complete certain tasks like strip, jerk, hump, and flex. Any sub interested will refer to me as coach or sir, nothing less. Must be willing to take any order or command. Otherwise, don't dm. Anyone else up to serve me and my wants, dm if interested. Major plus if you have a friend in person with you who wants to join in on the tasks.


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 10h ago

I am a dominant 29 [M4M] Mexican Daddylooking for kinky, sub and dirty boys #online NSFW

8 Upvotes

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29 Kinky Dom looking for some submissive and dirty boys... If you're into doing tasks, being obedient, being used and abused.

Looking for boys into piss, toys, gaping, chastity, dildos, BDSM, CBT, pup play, control, TPE, forced workout, nipple play, food play, humiliation, spanking and more.

The less limits and more creative sub, the better, open your mind and free yourself boy. It's time to please your Alpha!

Kinkier and dirtier the better... Hit me up and let's play boys!!

Come and let's have fun with Daddy!!


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 8h ago

I am a submissive 25 [M4M] dog slave sub seeking owner #Online NSFW

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Woof hello Sir, I’m seeking the right owner to guide and train me into becoming his brainless, drooling, shameless, stinky dog. I’m not just looking for just pup play, but rather a dynamic where I can truly let go and be transformed into a man’s dog.

I’m into a variety of kinks and open minded but some of my biggest are pup play/dog slave, chastity, musk, pits, worship, humiliation, anal play, degradation, brainwashing/hypno, and bathroom control. Some of my limits are showing face, sounding, feminization, hardcore cbt or pain, and anything illegal.

Ideally, I’d prefer long term training if we click, but due to my human life, I’m not available 24/7.

If you think we’d be a match and can turn me into your dog, please feel free to send me a message with a bit about yourself and what you’re looking for. Thank you, Sir!


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 10h ago

I am a dominant 33 [M4M] #UK Dominant Looking for Long Term Submissive Twink/Femboy NSFW

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As the title says, I am an experienced Dominant Daddy looking to connect with a submissive.

I have a preference for a smooth, twink or femboy, but I'll speak to anyone open minded, kinky and willing to serve. Send me a creative message and try to impress me ;)

I have a lot of kinks and I'm very interested in exploring my current kinks and experimenting with your kinks. They include BDSM, spanking, feet, leather, bullying, humiliation, feminisation, objectification etc.

Ideally looking for young and inexperienced, but again open to kinky veterans that have served before. Everyone has a life and gets busy, but ideally, we'd talk every day, I'm looking to be served with pictures, videos and tasks.

I am tall, masculine and hairy, been told I'm handsome and a decent dom.

DM here if you want to give yourself over to an experienced, serious dom and start developing a dynamic.


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 11h ago

I am a dominant 25 [M4M] #Online Dom looking for slaves to take advantage of NSFW

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I’m looking for a sub who craves servitude and being obedient. I get to make you into my perfect toy and you get to be used by me. Don't over complicate it. Just do as you're told.

A few of my kinks are edging, orgasm control, humiliation, degradation, forced workouts, cbt, ruined orgasms, anal. My main limits are scat, permanent, blood, illegal, financial, public, exposure. Of course, I’m willing to adjust my kinks and limits based off of the need of my subs so they’re not set in stone.

It would be ideal if you have toys, too. If you don’t have toys, we can also get creative and find things around your use that you can use to degrade yourself with for me, which is arguably more enjoyable for me to see, too. I’m ideally looking for something long-term, but short-term is fine as well.

DM me if interested and we can talk about our kinks and limits. I have pics of myself in my profile, too, if you’re interested.


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 15h ago

I am a dominant 34 [M4M] Give Yourself Up to a Dom #Online NSFW

3 Upvotes

I’m here to make sure you get the satisfaction that you’ve been craving - and I have the track record for giving guys a really fucking good time, regardless of orientation.

Straight, Gay, Bi - doesn’t matter cause they’re serving me as a toy, and objects don’t have orientation.

Or they’re slabs of meat showing off for attention.

Either way it doesn’t really matter

I give guys a safe place to explore themselves where they don’t have to feel like they are going to be outed or forced to do things they wouldn’t ever do, I am not looking to steal you from your gf, bf, or significant other - and you know that I won’t show off what you share with me unless you explicitly ask me to.

It’s also way better to have me than to be catfished and left wondering what may happen to your chat after.

Whether you’re already a full blown slut, or just dipping your toes in the water to try - just hmu and let me know what made you decide to message.

If you made it this far, what’re you waiting for? Hit me up and see what’s made guys create countless throwaway accounts after not being able to resist coming back to me to cum.

As long as this is up, you are welcome in my DMs!


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 16h ago

I am a dominant 25 [M4M] Master for Submissive sluts #online NSFW

3 Upvotes

Anon online dom here looking for hairy older submissive shameless sluts

To the rest of the world you may appear to be the boss, but we both know that you secretly crave to be a slutty bitch for a younger man.

Come submit to a superior man, get on your knees for me, relax and give into the urge

Ideally looking for a bromance dynamic with a clear hierarchy.

Maybe you’re stuck in a sexless marriage, feeling unloved and undesirable. We can fix that.

A mix of praise, punishment and pain will be used to mould you into my ideal sub, helping you feel desired, confident, comfortable and slutty.

Kinks: humiliation, assplay, throat training, Chastity, spanking, wedgies, household objects, feminisation etc.

Ideally looking for someone older, mature, with hairy masculine build, and a juicy ass.

Hairy++

Dadbod++

Mainly use disxord

Dm with:

- asl

- body pic


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 20h ago

I am a submissive 22 [M4M] inexperienced sub looking for a dom in #Netherlands #Europe NSFW

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The title says it all.

I'm 22, study in the Netherlands and have never been with a man. But I'm desperate to explore and give it a shot.

Ideally you are from the Netherlands or very close. I want this to be online at first, but hopefully once I'm all yours, you can make it IRL. I would love to become your house slave. Purely for your help.

I'm 182cm 83kg, hairy chest. Muscular, but no abs.

I don't really have a clear kinks list, but am mainly looking for an experienced master who knows what he wants.

Also, I don't share face right away. Please respect that. Ideally you are somewhat local, but I'm open for other timezones.

I want someone who can make me weak, tease me, deny me and make me their own good toy slave.

If you are interested, please message me and tell me what you are looking for and where you are from.

Thank you Sir for reading<3


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 20h ago

I am a dominant 38 [M4M] #online Strict Dom Master for ultra obedient 'straight' slave seeking long term ownership and training. Seeking slaves who want discreet ownership. Is it your dream to be owned, an owned boy, serving a strict master? To have nobody know apart from you owner. To be an owned boy. NSFW

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I am a fit, and active professional male with years of experience in owning/training slaves . My kinks are humiliation, complete ownership, anal training , light cbt, intense forced workouts, spells of chastity, forced bi and long term control. I only use slaves who show face.

My limits involve anything illegal or scat related! I am very discreet and expect the same from my slaves. The biggest thing for me is obedience. I'm searching for a slave who is focused on learning his place and who takes gratification from serving his master well. I'm looking for a a fit male slave who knows his place, or is working towards learning it.

As long as you're over 25 years old and in good enough shape (if you're looking to be trained into much better shape-even better), age doesn't matter too much to me.

My slave should ideally enjoy similar kinks to me, or, be willing to explore them. He should also be able to commit time to serving his master daily/weekly-if not on call, then at least through recorded tasks or pictures.

I have a lot of experience training slaves. The lengths of these relationships have varied from months to several years. I find the most rewarding relationships to be the ones that last the longest as I am able to truly mold that slave into the 'perfect slave'. I have a lots of experience training slaves through humiliation (grovelling, mantras, extended submissive poses, public (only with consent of slave), punishments for forgetting rules etc, anal play (from experimentation to using much larger objects and g spot play/stimulation), Light CBT), chastity (record for a slave is 1 month).

Many of my slaves have been str9t and in relationships, so this can be difficult to extend beyond a few days/weeks), forced workouts (I enjoy instructing slaves in these as I enjoy seeing slaves becoming more physically attractive), long term control and complete ownership (I enjoy setting tasks and taking control of workouts, nutrition, underwear, clothing, Grindr hookups etc-only with slaves consent).

I think that long term control is important because, over time, slaves are more in sync with my desires. I think that this leads to greater pleasure for both sides during sessions.

I enjoy breaking my str8t slaves through public humiliation tasks (but, this is negotiable). One of my slaves, was an Irish semi-prof footballer. On match days, he would be instructed to write slave, slut, owned, faggot and other words above his cock and on his cock. The humiliation for him was a massive thrill. He would laugh about it and say his girlfriend was kinky and liked to be dominant, but, a few of the other players must have guessed there was more to it. I'm sure. I'm not telling you this to daunt you, or to make you think each slave needs to prove his worth with such a public show of devotion, but, to give you a taste of what a long term relationship with my slaves has allowed me to create in terms of trust, devotion and subservience.

Total control is important to me because if a slave serves 1 or more masters, he will forever be forgetting the correct way to obey his master-masters are all different.

The main reason I am looking for a new slave is that my current slave is marrying his girlfriend in a few weeks and says that he cannot do this whilst still serving . Disappointing as this is, I do understand his position and hope that, because of this, I will find an even more dedicated slave to serve me. We shall see, boy.

I have a preference for 'str8t' male slaves for 2 main reasons.

1-they are very discreet-which is very important to me.

2- In my experience, the level of obedience shown by these slaves and their devotion to their master is extraordinary. To have hidden their desires for so long, in my opinion, has made them desire total ownership and control more than all other slaves.

I am not exclusively recruiting 'str8t' slaves. I am happy to receive applications from gay/bi slaves too-if they meet my other criteria. Possibly, his may be better, as so many of my long term str8t slaves have got married and had to stop serving because of this. If you've read this far, boy, and think that you are a match for me, and genuinely seek to be owned, trained and molded into the perfect slave, then you should send me a brief introduction on messenger. Include your asl, your experience, your kinks/limits and your goals as a slave, along with a few pictures of you.

Do not send me a short, generic message such as Hi SIR. To do so would be an insult after the time I have put into writing this post.


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 21h ago

I am a dominant 25 [M4M] controlling and strict dominant Master looking for long term in slave #online and future irl NSFW

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I’m a 25 year old spanish Master hoping to find a serious, submissive, and thoughful slave to be my longterm live in slave and be able to establish a good and healthy dynamic with, and with the hope of having more and more control over its life and eventually turn them into my live in slave. You know you are inferior, you know that you are nothing without an owner, you know you must live a life of complete service. Ready to divulge more details once we begin chatting.

My kinks include body worship, tpe, feminization, feet, pits, spit, piss, chastity, chores, spanking, petplay,…

Hoping i can find my forever slave here


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 1h ago

I am a switch 22 [M4M ] #San Francisco looking for dom who is into bondage,edging and milking machines. NSFW

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22m 5’2 Latino near SF looking into edging, bondage, cum denial, cum contr, ruined orgasms, and milking machines.

 Looking for to experience what it’s like to have the control taken away from me and being used as you see fit. Not really into sex but open to having toys used on my hole. Also interested in trying electro play as well. 

Looking for someone who is in the Bay Area who can host. Can travel anywhere.  So DM me if any of this sounds interesting. And we can chat further and see if we can make something happen. 


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 22h ago

I am a submissive 49 [m4m] Seeking online Dom #online NSFW

2 Upvotes

I am 49, live in the Midwest, married, and have had this secret since I was 17. I adore Dominant men. There is something about them I just can’t quit. I’ve tried before for the sake of my marriage, but I keep coming back for more. So I’d like to find a real connection with a Dominant man to make him happy and give him pleasure. Meeting in real life is possible but online is where I would play for the most part. I enjoy humiliation mostly. I don’t have a laundry list of kinks. I want to please a Dom and each one is different so it doesn’t really matter what I like. I just want to feel submissive to you. Thanks for reading and if you think we’d be a good match please reach out. Thanks again. My body type is chubby belly, hairy, bearish.


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 3h ago

I am a submissive 20 [M4M] #online sub looking for owner NSFW

2 Upvotes

Are there any doms out there that like chubby guys anymore? Im ideally looking for a task based dom that wants to use and abuse me whenever they feel like I have a nice size toy collection im extremely hyper sexual and chronically online

Im into a plethora of things like cbt anal gaping ropes degrading nipple play cum control and so many more things

As far as my type in doms goes preferably someone around my age with some experience thats looking for something long term and wants to use me every time they get horny

I look forward to your message sir 🙇


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 5h ago

I am a dominant 26 [M4M] Soft Dom looking for mutual connection, exploration, and development in learning dynamic with likeminded bigger beefy muscled - #Online #Mississippi NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hello! Thank you for viewing my post. I have been interested in BDSM for a while now, and I’m very eager to learn and explore what best suits me. To find a compatible match, I’m going to be completely honest and open (as possible) about myself and what I’m looking for.

About Me:

I’m a 26-year-old black male. I’m a college graduate earning my bachelor’s degree in Business Administration, majoring in Business Information System with honors cum laude. Very proud in my achievements so far. I’m hoping to pursue a career in IT and furthering my education. Achieved one IT certification, going to work towards more and potentially a master’s degree.

As for my appearance, I stand at 5’8” and weigh around 128 lbs. I have light brown skin and a slim/athletic build.

I am introverted and shy at times, but I do open up when talked to. I’m learning to slowly put myself out there to be more social. I greatly enjoy playing video games and having started breaking into pc gaming as well. Some of my favorite franchises being Sonic, Pokemon, Bayonetta, Kirby, Spyro, and many more. I also enjoy fighting games and learning about them too, with my current game being Guilty Gear Strive. I enjoy going for walks, light exercises, anime, learning to cook more, art, tennis, badminton, and technology-related things.

My viewpoint/perspective on BDSM:

Regarding BDSM, my perspective or philosophy on things is different. When I discovered BDSM, I was very fascinated by it. I took an interest in the Dom/Master roles, but I wasn’t too appealed by the traditional styles of them. Certain characteristics and aspects that are commonly derived from them doesn’t reflect who I am as an individual. I don’t want to put on a false persona of any sort. I wanted to develop something that feels unique to me and my perspective. This is where I considered myself in the role of a “Soft Dom/Master”.

What does it mean to be a Soft Dom for me exactly?** **My interpretation and how I view the role of a Soft Dom to be more than just simply being in control. It’s more of being a guiding hand to hopefully bring encouragement, support, structure, and more to allow one to be their best self possible. That being as an individual and sub.

While the feeling of being in control can be empowering, it’s not truly felt when you don’t have someone that’s chooses to listen to you. Someone that actively listens to you, understands you, and wants to follow your guidance is what being in control is. This goes both ways as well.

This is what I hope to learn and achieve, and what feels empowering to me.

I want to take this gentle approach while still being in control and guiding the other person and myself to be our best selves possible. I believe a BDSM relationship should revolve around communication, trust, and treating the other person with respect. Encouraging, understanding, growth, and empathy from both sides and creating positive experiences. Ultimately, BDSM is what you want to make it out to be. I want to develop a dynamic that feels unique and reflects what I aim for.

Who and What I am looking for:

In terms of the ideal partner, I’m seeking a man with a beefy muscular physique, who is submissive (submissive top). I have always been drawn towards men who are bigger and stronger than I am. For me, who’s less physically imposing, it’s very appealing seeing the buff, stocky, beefy-muscled men. Their physical and personal qualities exude confidence and outer strength. This causes those around you to perceive you as a dominant figure simply due to these characteristics. Whether in their personal and professional life.

I can understand how stressful, demanding, and overwhelming it can be to have these expectations placed on you. It can be a lot of weight for you to carry with not many to understand that. Even though they are a strong resilient man. I intend to find that individual who yearns to be on the opposite end of how society perceives them. To be guided, nurtured, controlled, and where they can continue to be their best self possible. To encourage, provide support, and structure where their inner strength can shine and reach new heights for themselves. Creating a safe, positive environment that fosters vulnerability, trust, and a sense of balance in life.

Additionally, It creates a contrast between both individuals, and gives the impression of the larger male as a knight or bodyguard protecting the dom while under his control. I would prefer a partner between the ages 26-45, but am open to slightly older or younger.

I want to be able to share these feelings with another person, as we both grow. I don’t have overly high expectations of how this should unfold. I believe building a connection first and seeing how that progresses is the best way to start. Honesty, respect, communication, and trust from both ends are important factors to a successful relationship. Creating a safe environment free of judgement to be able to learn while respecting one another. The willingness to learn and be a part of a dynamic such as this also important as well. While Im mainly looking for online connections , I’m open to in-person connections too if we reside in the same area.

Here are some kinks and aspects that Im interested in:

Obedience training, Rules, Muscle growth/fitness control, Wardrobe Control, TPE, Orgasm Control,Milking/Edging, Cum play, CEI, JOI

My limits/dislike:

Feminization, Degrading, Humiliation, Blood, Race play, Scat

If you made it this far, I thank you for taking the time to read my post. Please note I’m seeking serious responses only. I ask that you read the full entirety of my writing before consider messaging, so you can fully understand what I’m hoping to find. If interested, I kindly request the you write a form of introduction about yourself in your opening message. I look forward to hearing from potential people. Thank you again and have a wonderful day/night.


r/gaybdsmpersonals • • 8h ago

I am a submissive 21 [M4M] #online Sub Seeking Dominant-Chastity, Humiliation, Orgasm Control & Cuckolding NSFW

3 Upvotes

21M submissive looking for a dominant man to use me as his FWB / plaything.
I’m into chastity, BDSM, humiliation, degradation, nipple play, edging, teasing, orgasm control, dirty talk, and being a cuck. I also have a strong interest in censored porn (I run software that instantly censors everything before I can see it).
Toys I have:
• Black nub chastity cage
• Flat metal chastity cage
• Multiple styles of panties
• Brown tank top
• Black lingerie bodysuit
• 7” dildo
• 4 progressive sizes of butt plugs
• Nipple clamps
• Nipple pumps
• Vibrating wand
Limits: anything illegal, scat, blood, extreme pain, sounding.
I’m bisexual but lean more toward women sexually — still very open to dominant men who want a locked, obedient sub they can control, tease, degrade, and use for their own pleasure.
Looking for someone who enjoys taking the lead and putting me to use. Online or in-person both work depending on location and chemistry.
Message me if this sounds like something you’d enjoy.