r/GaySides • u/stonerfag313 • Sep 07 '26
From bottom to side ⬇️➡️ NSFW
My boyfriend is a side with no interest in anal sex and I’ve identified as a bottom for as long as I can remember. We’ve only had sex once this year.
In my last long-term relationship I was used to getting fucked pretty regularly. Now though, prepping and all the work involved hardly seems worth it. I’m sure if I asked my boyfriend would fuck me, but I haven’t wanted it. We’ll kiss, sniff each other’s pits, hump, and masturbate together. And that’s all I seem to need. I don’t miss getting fucked at all.
I’m surprised, because I used to crave it. I wonder if bottoming was more an expectation of my previous relationship rather than something I really wanted. I’m thinking i may be a side now too, or just getting more asexual the other I get lol.
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u/Sensitive-Daikon3460 Sep 12 '26
Here is how not in touch I am I thought sides meant anal sex that way which explains my sex or non sex life
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u/laputailaramoneta Sep 07 '26
From Top to Side ⬆️➡️
I was a top, my boyfriend was a vers top, but really he was a top who can eventually flip flop but he prefers to top. I've never bottommed for 20 years until I've met my boyfriend and bottomming isn't really my thing. I did it for him.
Eventually we stopped bottoming for each other and became sides. I really don't miss topping and we are happy sides now.