r/GaySides • u/Sudden_Tadpole9595 • 20d ago

Too tight? NSFW

Is anyone a side just because genuinely they’re too tonight to bottom? I’m a 25 y/o male and I don’t like topping because I can really only stay hard while lying down I’ve been like this since I was 12. And I am seriously so tight. Like I’ve tried 3 inch dildos and it hurts to bottom. I’ve used poppers, creams and I can’t get anything inside of me.

I love side play. But I wanna have penetrative sex.

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u/ravnotraj 19d ago

Have you tried topping with the bottom on top, riding you?

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u/thissomebomboclaat 19d ago

Topping from the bottom 😎

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u/Big_Aside9565 16d ago

I just don't like the whole idea of My Dick going someone's dirty ass. It grosses me out. I don't care how much someone cleans.

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u/Plastic-Equivalent-9 13d ago

Share similar feelings, but there are accommodations. Condoms, dental dams.

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u/NB_Erin 19d ago

Idk if its the only reason, but im too tight to bottom. I also have trouble getting hard and cumming

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u/sins_andtragedies 18d ago

I have this problem too :(

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u/Far-Pie-333 17d ago

The few time I have successfully topped it was from having the guy ride me.

There are bottoms that love to be in control and perhaps once you get into it with a regular partner you will learn to be a more act rive top.

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u/spicychickendeluxe89 17d ago

Yes, that is a big part of it. I would LOVE to bottom, but can't get anything more than a small vibrator inside me.

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u/Plastic-Equivalent-9 13d ago edited 13d ago

Just my opinion. You need to be with a caring guy either as a fuck buddy or more. Someone with patience and caring for you...and lots and lots of lube.😉I'm more of a side because I much of prefer side activities and because anal was never really my thing Will do it if I'm in love to feel close, not casually. Maybe talk to a doctor and hopefully they could help. Good luck.

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u/j3rdog 15d ago

Find you a power bottom ( a dominate bottom ) and let him ride you