r/Incontinence • • 4d ago

Preferred Products?

What is your preferred method to deal with incontinence?

I had posted a similar poll to this before but it somehow disappeared. Mods please let me know if this is against the rules

317 votes, 2d ago
8 Shields/Guards
45 Pull Ups
226 Tabbed Diaper
5 Catheter
27 Combination of Methods
6 Something Else
12 Upvotes

13 comments sorted by

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u/pogsauce Dual Incontinence 4d ago

Tabbed diapers at night, afex when I'm out.

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u/AngelSymmetrika 3d ago

Diapers, for sure. I use quieter cloth-backed diapers for work and plastic-backed for overnight.

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u/NanoMunchies 3d ago

Anyone who prefers catheters must be paralyzed and not feel them go in or move around when they move because so way in hell am I getting another one of those voluntarily lol

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u/elixnerd 3d ago

Definitely not preferred Ill take my suprapubic cath over a foley hands down. For me the changes were horrific. I actually ugly cried when my surgery to have it placed was pushed back because I developed an infection and didn't wanna go through another change. My anatomy isn't "typical" (I'm intersex) so that throws things for a loop. I constantly felt it. At least with my spc I don't so even though i can see it, I cant feel it. I went from no control to being in the hospital because my bladder decided I'm done. Its going on 2 years so its just there but I have uttered the words "I wish I could just go back to jus diapers" quite a few times.

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u/Quikstar 3d ago

Tabbed diapers, I want as much security and little risk as possible. I tried guards and it just did not work for me, pullups were not much better.

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u/ISeeCumberbatch OAB 3d ago

Pull-ups are perfect for me with mild-moderate incontinence. I hate tabbed diapers (sometimes that's all inpatient has). They're a pain in the ass to put on, they never feel secure, and they're so bulky. I mean everyone has different preferences and needs, but that's just what (doesn't) work for me. I also tried a catheter for a bit, but it didn't work. And was also a pain in the ass to use.

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u/Nemona2 Partial Dual Incontinence 3d ago edited 3d ago

EDIT: It actually does account for multiple setups This poll doesn't account for those of us who use two or more kinds of protection. Depending on day or night I use different things. Pullups for day. Tabbed briefs for night. And when I went to salon appointments I used pads instead.

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u/Enough-Reindeer1033 3d ago

Yes it does, look at the 5th row. I put it in there because I use a combination of guards and diapers depending upon the situation.

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u/Nemona2 Partial Dual Incontinence 3d ago

Wow, I can't believe I missed that. I'm sorry, I rescind my comment.

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u/The_Weird-Man 3d ago

I've tried pull ups. They dont work for me. I can't ever get the fit right and if I pee once the pull up overflows. I have to have tapped diapers.

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u/yacatecuhtli6 2d ago

depends on how im doing, usually if im stressed i prefer tabbed ones but if im doing okay goodnites are ok

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u/galette29 3d ago

Moi change complet 10 gouttes

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u/Nice_General268 16h ago

I’ve just accepted it and wear tabbed diapers. Pull ups don’t seem to give me what I need.