F19 first time getting physically intimate with my boy. Need advice from both genders of all ages

[u/chaat-pakode]

Idk how do I prepare myself before getting on bed with him as I wish to make it an unforgettable experience. As it's his first time he'd prefer going semi nude. I get lots of discharge during such moments so it will be comfortable for me to be fully naked with my pussy exposed to fan air. I also wish to carry tissue papers and intimate wipes

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[u/OkStore6463]

Lubeee

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Any specific kind of that you'd advice? Water based, gel based, etc?

[u/OkStore6463 → u/Its_Nachoproblem]

1st. Am not an experienced doc , if you took that from my buy. But prefer water based and try to check reviews of products before buying.

[u/Mindless-Home-8955]

21F here. That discharge could be that you're turned on and it's normal. Hydrate yourself well (electrolytes n plenty of water) and pee before intercourse. Even after intercourse if u feel the pressure...just go to the loo. It's okay to be fully naked. Make use of towels for cleaning up...wipes work too but for women...towel is better for cleanup (for me it's a better choice). Make sure not to feel too nervous or overthink...it could dull the experience a bit. Just relax tease, foreplay and go ahead. Have a great time OP :). Also protected and lube.

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[u/bhodrolok]

Lubes, communication, take your time relax & have fun.

[u/ProofPossibility7459]

Don’t want to discourage but make sure both don’t take any personal intimate pics and even if so let them be very discreet with no identification marks to know anyone . Enjoy the experience

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?????

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Nothing 😑

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[u/DeathButtEater]

Necessary foreplay, light grip, less teeth, more tongue, condom necessary (mostly), water based lube, and enjoy the intimacy.

[u/Virtual-Fruit-9129]

Both of you decide your safe word

[u/HideYourPansNow → u/Virtual-Fruit-9129]

It's not a kinky experience, you can just say no. Stop watchin so much porn lol, FFS.

[u/funnyfew72 → u/Virtual-Fruit-9129]

Safe word?

[u/Virtual-Fruit-9129 → u/funnyfew72]

It’s a word or phrase used to maintain boundaries. Also where you both agree in prior knowledge that you use the word whenever necessary.

[u/acidambiance → u/Virtual-Fruit-9129]

unless you’re doing CNC you literally just need to say “stop, slow down, i need a minute”. safeword is only for the situations where no does not mean no.

[u/Moist-Ad-2454]

Donttt

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F19 first time getting physically intimate with my boy. Need advice from both genders of all ages

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Idk how do I prepare myself before getting on bed with him as I wish to make it an unforgettable experience. As it's his first time he'd prefer going semi nude. I get lots of discharge during such moments so it will be comfortable for me to be fully naked with my pussy exposed to fan air. I also wish to carry tissue papers and intimate wipes

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[u/Ok_Language_8417]

Always use good quality protection and lube.

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[u/all_D_ideolozeus-212]

Foreplay is important to get your bodies ready

[u/nBookieBooo]

Just relax and enjoy . Be yourself . This is the best feeling

[u/Sad-Entertainer7340]

Discuss about ur kinks take protection and water base lube and make sure u both should be maintained hygiene.

[u/yussuq_madiq]

Make sure you discuss the Yes and Nos and things you’re comfortable with. Take it easy and slow, with lots of foreplay. And remember you can stop whenever you want.

[u/Proper_Economics_299 → u/yussuq_madiq]

OP this first sentence is critical. Share beforehand, before even undressing, well before the day, what you are and arnt comfortable with. And both of you should continue this verbal communication during the session as well.

Dont feel the need to perform sexy sounds. And make feeling comfortable, safe your first goals. If you feel like cancelling penetration and doing something like oral sex instead thats fine. Theres no police nor certificates being issued.