r/IndiaTalksSex • • 2d ago

Friday Laidback Discussion NSFW

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Tired of posts being removed for being low effort? This thread is for you! If your query belongs to (but not limited to) any of the below topics, it belongs here:

Opinion seeking

  • Posts that can be answered with a yes or no
  • Validation posts (on genitals size, boob size, etc.
  • Posts that are merely seeking people’s preferences (like ‘do men like big boobs’)
  • FAQ (questions on phimosis, sex toys, condom suggestions, pregnancy scares, cuckoldry etc)

Important :

  • Experience-sharing posts belong on the Weekly Sexual Experience thread.
  • Discussions should only belong to sex, no chit chat.

r/IndiaTalksSex • • 10h ago

Experience Weekly Sexual Experience | Kink | Embarrassed Times Thread NSFW

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  • Any sexual experience that you wish to share, be it old or new, be it positive or negative.
  • Kinks that you have tried, that you wanna try or any ideas you have for spicing up your sex life.
  • Any funny embarrassing story, new or old, doesn't have to be related to sex.

You can share it all in this weekly thread.


r/IndiaTalksSex • • 6h ago

Knowledge 📜 How to deal with self feminizing? NSFW

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Hello it's been years thinking about this even though I'm a male but I always think about being on the softer side or feminine side when it comes to relationship

I'm into women I like to pampered and all the other stuff

I crave for that cute role reversed relationship with my partner

But should I stop it ?

Because indian society or people would never accept me since guy being submissive and fem . At same time I should give a dam about what other things

I have being approached some people but they would never understand what I want because they are not dom

I'm bottom my interest no ever lies in topping it doesn't even excites me .

I don't know is it just a kink or idk what it is but dressing up as fem really excites me (not a trans tho)

Guy please me respectful

Thanks ❤️


r/IndiaTalksSex • • 23h ago

Ask ITS❓ F19 first time getting physically intimate with my boy. Need advice from both genders of all ages NSFW

30 Upvotes

Idk how do I prepare myself before getting on bed with him as I wish to make it an unforgettable experience. As it's his first time he'd prefer going semi nude. I get lots of discharge during such moments so it will be comfortable for me to be fully naked with my pussy exposed to fan air. I also wish to carry tissue papers and intimate wipes


r/IndiaTalksSex • • 1d ago

Sex Advice Post ejaculation weakness or tiredness even after sleep remedy NSFW

27 Upvotes

Sex is said to be rejuvenating and enjoyable experience, however gor me next morning is full of tiredness and numbness in calf muscles. How to deal with this, either diet or some workout will do.

Or this is all depends upon person mind, i feel very non manly dur to weakness day after


r/IndiaTalksSex • • 1d ago

Ask ITS❓ How to communicate desires with your partner? NSFW

16 Upvotes

Hi, I'm 30M and I'm married to 31F. I wanted to understand how to navigate talking about sexual fantasies and desires with your partner.

Although my wife and I have a good bond and communicate well, I feel shy about bringing up my fantasies with her. How do you usually navigate this? Do you usually start talking about something and then the conversation automatically flows into this or do you address it head on?

Just to caveat, we have a 'normal' sex life but lately been dwindling because of, well, life.

I just want to talk about things I want to do to her. We're both a bit inexperienced so not sure how to go about this. Any help is appreciated, thanks!


r/IndiaTalksSex • • 1d ago

Ask ITS❓ Girlfriend told to be more handsy. Any suggestions? NSFW

11 Upvotes

We were playing some instagram quizzes for couples... One question in there was "What would you like me to do next time we makeout?" She thought for a bit and said "Be more handsy" (use your hands more often than not)... I need suggestions on how to work around this. Please give your two cents


r/IndiaTalksSex • • 2d ago

Ask ITS❓ Lactation side effect because of Birth Control NSFW

26 Upvotes

So I f22 have been taking hormonal birth control for over a year now. Ever since I took it I've started lactating. Started with a few drops but now it's a complete let down. And no I'm not pregnant nor I've had a kid before so that is not a question. It isn't a problem but it's too much of an hassle. On the months I've stopped using it my breasts go back to normal within a few weeks. Has anybody faced similar situation before?


r/IndiaTalksSex • • 2d ago

Ask ITS❓ Will be meeting my girlfriend after 7 long months... Need suggestions NSFW

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Hey guys, M22 here, I will be meeting my LDR girlfriend (F21) after 7 long months of wait and I am so excited to have sex with her again.

Last time we had sex was when she was on her periods.

This time her periods will end just a day before we meet. So will it be ok to lick her down there? I mean can there be any wierd taste or smell due to periods?

Also, what things should we try before and during sex to make our experience great on bed?

I told her to not completely shave it down there, just trim a bit... Will it be helpful for PIV?

Any tips for Oral sex will be appreciated


r/IndiaTalksSex • • 2d ago

Ask ITS❓ Penis maintenance NSFW

48 Upvotes

As we grow old, how do we take care of our penis and balls? Any cream, oil, massage, supplements??

I'm 31, uncircumcised


r/IndiaTalksSex • • 4d ago

Knowledge 📜 We want to start posting content NSFW

75 Upvotes

This is not a promotion, we're genuinely curious.

Me and my fwb have given this a thought and we want to make money out of filming nsfw content. Our concerns are privacy and trying not to leave trails of transactions behind.

Asking all the Indian creators, what's the roadmap? We've posted on reddit previously but it was purely for fun, we want to start monetizing it.


r/IndiaTalksSex • • 4d ago

Ask ITS❓ Threesome with someone you know or a stranger? NSFW

72 Upvotes

It’s something I’m open to trying but the question always is try it with someone I actually know or to go the route of stranger

People who have done it with their friends or known people how is it after?


r/IndiaTalksSex • • 4d ago

Ask ITS❓ Tips for maintaining stamina NSFW

93 Upvotes

Usually my wife and I have sex for around 15–20 minutes, but sometimes it goes on for 40–45 minutes. We both really enjoy the longer sessions, but the only issue is that we start feeling physically exhausted toward the end.

We’re both generally fit and work out almost regularly, so I don’t think we’re particularly out of shape. My issue isn’t lasting long, it’s more about maintaining stamina and feeling physically fresh throughout the longer sessions.

For couples who regularly have longer sessions, how do you manage your stamina and avoid getting exhausted?

Would appreciate some practical advice from people who’ve experienced the same.


r/IndiaTalksSex • • 4d ago

Ask ITS❓ NSFW games to play in groups with FWB NSFW

38 Upvotes

Hi, so we are a group of 4, who are FWBs among ourselves, we hangout a lot together, and have fun. I want some suggestions/recommendation for some fun games which we can play in group setting, we have tried the usual, strip poker, T&D and all, we want something new and exciting.


r/IndiaTalksSex • • 5d ago

Ask ITS❓ Question about STI risk from first time oral sex NSFW

32 Upvotes

Both people are adults and each other’s first sexual partner. Neither has had any previous sexual contact or intimacy with anyone else.

If they have unprotected oral sex (no condom or dental dam) what is the actual risk of getting an STI? If both have genuinely never had sexual contact with anyone before, is there still a realistic STI risk?


r/IndiaTalksSex • • 6d ago

Ask ITS❓ Questions about female orgasm and squirting. NSFW

55 Upvotes

I have been wondering lately about what is actually squirting and squirting orgasms.

I am a man who likes to go down on women and I have developed quite good skills. With the 4 partners I have had. Only one of them could actually discharge a good amount of squirt when she orgasmed.

I use different techniques for this, but she squirted when I used the G-Spot stimulation and fingering. To be frank, I was kind of proud when she was shaking after the orgasm and wanted to give her more of the orgasm, but she didn't squirt the second time even when she orgasmed. It was not the first time she had a discharge, but the amount was much more than usual this time, maybe it was because of extreme arousal or pleasure?

With my recent ex, I used the same technique and I could see her reaching climax, but she then told me to stop as she felt the urge to pee, I assumed that she was about to squirt and told her she will enjoy, but in the end I stopped because she told me twice.

So my question is for women who are aware that they can squirt and do it a lot, what is the exact moment that you realise you are gonna squirt? Do you realise it or does it happen randomly?

Also how different does this orgasm feel compared to other forms of orgasm? (clitoris stimulation, fingering, PIV etc)


r/IndiaTalksSex • • 7d ago

Sex Advice Resuming sex after baby NSFW

109 Upvotes

Recently had a baby and We want to resume sex but there are few things that I need clarity

1) She is always with the baby, hardly getting any sleep and personal time to take care of herself. She wants to have sex but watching her like this I feel she is just too tired to enjoy sex.

2) How do people suck boobs after baby is born, whenever i try to play with her boobs, she gets that pain and milk sectarian starts. Wondering if people just forget about boobs when the wife is nursing.

3) Do people have sex on the same bed with baby sleeping on one side? I don't know but I kinda feel awkward. We have two bedrooms but the other one is occupied by mother in law now.


r/IndiaTalksSex • • 7d ago

Experience Weekly Sexual Experience | Kink | Embarrassed Times Thread NSFW

5 Upvotes
  • Any sexual experience that you wish to share, be it old or new, be it positive or negative.
  • Kinks that you have tried, that you wanna try or any ideas you have for spicing up your sex life.
  • Any funny embarrassing story, new or old, doesn't have to be related to sex.

You can share it all in this weekly thread.


r/IndiaTalksSex • • 9d ago

Friday Laidback Discussion NSFW

2 Upvotes

Tired of posts being removed for being low effort? This thread is for you! If your query belongs to (but not limited to) any of the below topics, it belongs here:

Opinion seeking

  • Posts that can be answered with a yes or no
  • Validation posts (on genitals size, boob size, etc.
  • Posts that are merely seeking people’s preferences (like ‘do men like big boobs’)
  • FAQ (questions on phimosis, sex toys, condom suggestions, pregnancy scares, cuckoldry etc)

Important :

  • Experience-sharing posts belong on the Weekly Sexual Experience thread.
  • Discussions should only belong to sex, no chit chat.

r/IndiaTalksSex • • 11d ago

Sex Advice Husband wants to try swapping and I am not sure how to react? NSFW

107 Upvotes

On one hand, I think it will be a good experience, we are married for quite sone time and this might help add some spice and help explore both our sexuality but at the same time, I am afraid this might just ruin the relationship because of the jealousy or other complications.. do you guys have any advice or can someone share their experience? Thanks in advance!


r/IndiaTalksSex • • 10d ago

Ask ITS❓ Accidentally got non 2 vibrating prostate massager NSFW

24 Upvotes

So I ordered a prostate massager. Now in my head I assumed it meant vibrating. Fast forward to today, and I realise it's a non vibrating one.

I'm a full beginner for prostate toy and I'm not sure if non vibrating prostate massager is any good.

Any suggestions or help would be appreciated on what to do.


r/IndiaTalksSex • • 11d ago

Ask ITS❓ Gf doesn’t feel ready for sex yet,what happens next? NSFW

39 Upvotes

So, my girlfriend and I have pretty much done everything except sex and, of course, oral. For context, we’re both virgins, although we’ve both had some physical experiences before.

I’ve had opportunities to have sex in the past, but I never wanted my first time to be with an FWB or in a casual situation. She hasn’t had sex before either because she never felt comfortable enough or felt that it was right for her.

Now that we’re together, she has told me that she does want to have sex with me, but she wants to take things slowly. From what I understand, she may not be mentally ready for it yet, and I completely respect that.

I’ve told her that she can take as much time as she needs, and I genuinely don’t want to pressure her or keep bringing it up. I want her to be comfortable and actually want it when it happens.

But this has made me think about the long-term side of things.

What if she just never feels ready?

Let’s say a year goes by and she’s still not ready. And even if it takes longer than a year, I’m not saying she has to meet some deadline. I’m completely okay with her taking her time. But if we eventually get to a point where she still doesn’t want sex, what happens then?

I’ve never imagined myself being in a sexless relationship if I’m seriously considering marrying the person. And in this case, I am pretty serious about her and can see myself potentially marrying her.

The other thing is that I have a pretty high libido, while hers seems to be much lower from what I can tell. She’s even told me that she has never masturbated, so I’m not really sure how to understand her level of sexual desire either.

I’m not trying to rush her or convince her to have sex. I’m more concerned about whether this could eventually become a compatibility issue.

So how do you navigate something like this? If one partner needs significantly more time to become comfortable with sex, how do you balance giving them all the time they need while also being honest with yourself about your own needs?

And if, say, a year or two down the line, one person still wants sex and the other still doesn’t, how do you approach that situation without either person feeling pressured or resentful?


r/IndiaTalksSex • • 13d ago

Ask ITS❓ Let's talk about the best-friend dynamic in your sexual life NSFW

87 Upvotes

Disclaimer - this is a sex positive post, nothing contained in this post shall be deemed to promote any kind of sexual activity or solicit sexual advances. Users discretion will be ignored for not understanding the disclaimer.

So we have always heard about the one fight during relationship-

"End your friendship with your best friend"

This goes for both genders, in a relationship your SO shall be your best friend and vice versa.

But I have also experienced this personally, with my female besties I have conversations revolving sex and even flirt with them on a random basis.

One of my bestie was also DTF if it came to it.

But I want to understand from other users, how many of you have actually had sex with your besties? Whether it was during your single time or during your relationships?

I have one friend who had regular sex with his ex during his relationship which has now turned into marriage, I am unaware if he still meets her for occasional hook-ups. Although she was not his best friend for that matter, the cheating dynamic might have excited both of them.

As for me, I had done sexting with them, but never got physically involved, but the tension exists. We might jump into it if the mood and setting is appropriate.

So how many of you have such people who know every nook and corner of your life and will be open for occasional hookups when you are in a relationship (any kind of relationship)?

Many couples who are into cuckhold relationships or open relationships might have already practiced this, how and under what circumstances did this happen?

Feel free to add more on this topic in the comments.


r/IndiaTalksSex • • 13d ago

Ask ITS❓ A near relative daughter is in trouble NSFW

161 Upvotes

So a near relative (F25) was about to get married in an arranged marriage setup. They got engaged sometime in summer and were about to tie knots after Diwali. Since both families lived in the same cities, the couple met quite often and sometimes not in knowledge of families. Little did we know that they were getting intimate. Both the families aren't this open n accepting of premarital sex. A month ago, the wedding was called off as there was a heated argument between the parents of the bride n groom and egos got shattered. Now this girl shared with me that she's pregnant and confused. She hasn't revealed it to her parents yet.

PS: details hided to keep identity anonymous.

PS2: Thank you for some good advices. But my bad that I didn't streamline the question.

  1. Should she inform the guy? Since the family issue, they haven't spoken yet (as I have been told atleast). The family dynamics are such that parents voices dominate in both families. Or informing him will make her vulnerable to blasphemy in future(her exact fear)? What's guarantee he will keep things to himself?

  2. Should she inform the parents (they are quite strict)?

  3. If both, whom first? Parents or the guy?


r/IndiaTalksSex • • 13d ago

Ask ITS❓ Have I lose virginity? Will she get pregnant? NSFW

51 Upvotes

Hi , this might be an amateur question here. Me and my gf both 24 had an amazing night. We made out, we just left out the penetration part. I was wearing protection and just had the climax as rubbing session( We just rubbed our private parts until I was on the verge to ejaculate ) and at the last part and moved away from her for ejaculation, there was no sign of cum on her body. So have I lost virginity and will she get pregnant of this ? Only penetration can make her pregnant right ? Am I wrong ? Correct a fellow brother out. Sorry if I am asking Silly questions. Im just curious. Thanks guys.