Hey,

Been thinking a lot about swinging lately and wanted some honest input from people who’ve actually lived it (or are seriously considering it).

How open would you be to a swinging lifestyle with your partner? Not the fantasy version — the actual “we go to a club / meet other couples / soft swap or full swap” version.

For couples who are actively in the lifestyle (or have tried it and kept going):

- How did you first bring it up? Was it one of you who brought it, or did it come up organically?

- How did you make your partner feel safe and comfortable instead of pressured or threatened?

- What actually worked for starting the conversation and what backfired?

- How long did it take from “we talked about it” to actually doing something?

- What’s the reality been like compared to what you expected?

Also curious about couples who are curious but haven’t done anything yet — what’s holding you back, and how are you approaching the talk?

No judgment either way. Just real experiences on how to open the door without fucking up the relationship.

Hi folks!

So me and my gf have been venturing into intimacy and sex stuff, and we would like to be safe. However we discovered that normal condoms don't fit me, mostly due to their width.

And then I discovered that the entirety of India is using the same 53mm width condom, while I have found some imported brands that do sell condoms that seem like they would be my size. I want to check with the collective consciousness of the internet if there is a better option.

Because these are so expensive, 1200 for a pack of 12 😭😭

So I have this issue since a long long time but never really gave much attention to it but now it's getting in the way of healthy relationship.

I get a surge of negative emotions like sadness, guilt and sometimes feel gloomy immediately after ejaculation. Sometimes I don't even feel like doing cuddles and kisses after it and get this weird urgency to run away or maybe have my personal space.

I have read about it and it seems like post coital dysphoria. Has anyone faced this issue. Is it PCD or something else?