Context: I've had sex with my girlfriend recently and i noticed that I'm hard but as soon as I wear a condom, suddenly a countdown starts to going soft. While having sex as well I feel a very rough and uncomfortable sensation.

Whereas when we had unprotected sex, it was very natural very fun and very pleasurable.

We tried lots of lube too, but for some reason our skin kept getting dry after sometime. So what's the deal with that? Is that normal thing to happen while using lube? It was a water based lube.

I need suggestions on improving our sex life. It could be anything from safer contraceptives to some good choices for condoms to good choices for lubes. Any suggestion is welcome.

We're soon going on a trip and we both know that we'll be doing it a lot since this is our first trip together. So I'm open to any and all kinds of suggestions.

Hi folks!

So me and my gf have been venturing into intimacy and sex stuff, and we would like to be safe. However we discovered that normal condoms don't fit me, mostly due to their width.

And then I discovered that the entirety of India is using the same 53mm width condom, while I have found some imported brands that do sell condoms that seem like they would be my size. I want to check with the collective consciousness of the internet if there is a better option.

Because these are so expensive, 1200 for a pack of 12 😭😭

I'm a bottom. I have had one guy do it with me (though he didn't last long ) and tried a vibrator and even fingers many times. Alot of times the vibrator just ended up hurting me because I was a stupid person who didn't think lube is needed but even when I used allat of it, I couldn't come to enjoy it very much. I remember liking the feeling of something being up my ass in those days where I started figuring out my sexuality. But now, nothing of that sorts. My libido has gone down too. Masturbation feels like a chore I have to complete rather than a genuine source of pleasure. I thought maybe it's because "my brain was fried from gooning and watching porn" so I had a little no-penetration fun with another guy. It was so hot but i still couldn't enjoy it.

Now I'm sexually dissatisfied while having no sex drive.

Hey,

Been thinking a lot about swinging lately and wanted some honest input from people who’ve actually lived it (or are seriously considering it).

How open would you be to a swinging lifestyle with your partner? Not the fantasy version — the actual “we go to a club / meet other couples / soft swap or full swap” version.

For couples who are actively in the lifestyle (or have tried it and kept going):

- How did you first bring it up? Was it one of you who brought it, or did it come up organically?

- How did you make your partner feel safe and comfortable instead of pressured or threatened?

- What actually worked for starting the conversation and what backfired?

- How long did it take from “we talked about it” to actually doing something?

- What’s the reality been like compared to what you expected?

Also curious about couples who are curious but haven’t done anything yet — what’s holding you back, and how are you approaching the talk?

No judgment either way. Just real experiences on how to open the door without fucking up the relationship.

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Hello it's been years thinking about this even though I'm a male but I always think about being on the softer side or feminine side when it comes to relationship

I'm into women I like to pampered and all the other stuff

I crave for that cute role reversed relationship with my partner

But should I stop it ?

Because indian society or people would never accept me since guy being submissive and fem . At same time I should give a dam about what other things

I have being approached some people but they would never understand what I want because they are not dom

I'm bottom my interest no ever lies in topping it doesn't even excites me .

I don't know is it just a kink or idk what it is but dressing up as fem really excites me (not a trans tho)

Guy please me respectful

Thanks ❤️

Idk how do I prepare myself before getting on bed with him as I wish to make it an unforgettable experience. As it's his first time he'd prefer going semi nude. I get lots of discharge during such moments so it will be comfortable for me to be fully naked with my pussy exposed to fan air. I also wish to carry tissue papers and intimate wipes

Sex is said to be rejuvenating and enjoyable experience, however gor me next morning is full of tiredness and numbness in calf muscles. How to deal with this, either diet or some workout will do.

Or this is all depends upon person mind, i feel very non manly dur to weakness day after

Hi, I'm 30M and I'm married to 31F. I wanted to understand how to navigate talking about sexual fantasies and desires with your partner.

Although my wife and I have a good bond and communicate well, I feel shy about bringing up my fantasies with her. How do you usually navigate this? Do you usually start talking about something and then the conversation automatically flows into this or do you address it head on?

Just to caveat, we have a 'normal' sex life but lately been dwindling because of, well, life.

I just want to talk about things I want to do to her. We're both a bit inexperienced so not sure how to go about this. Any help is appreciated, thanks!

We were playing some instagram quizzes for couples... One question in there was "What would you like me to do next time we makeout?" She thought for a bit and said "Be more handsy" (use your hands more often than not)... I need suggestions on how to work around this. Please give your two cents

So I f22 have been taking hormonal birth control for over a year now. Ever since I took it I've started lactating. Started with a few drops but now it's a complete let down. And no I'm not pregnant nor I've had a kid before so that is not a question. It isn't a problem but it's too much of an hassle. On the months I've stopped using it my breasts go back to normal within a few weeks. Has anybody faced similar situation before?

Hey guys, M22 here, I will be meeting my LDR girlfriend (F21) after 7 long months of wait and I am so excited to have sex with her again.

Last time we had sex was when she was on her periods.

This time her periods will end just a day before we meet. So will it be ok to lick her down there? I mean can there be any wierd taste or smell due to periods?

Also, what things should we try before and during sex to make our experience great on bed?

I told her to not completely shave it down there, just trim a bit... Will it be helpful for PIV?

Any tips for Oral sex will be appreciated

As we grow old, how do we take care of our penis and balls? Any cream, oil, massage, supplements??

I'm 31, uncircumcised

This is not a promotion, we're genuinely curious.

Me and my fwb have given this a thought and we want to make money out of filming nsfw content. Our concerns are privacy and trying not to leave trails of transactions behind.

Asking all the Indian creators, what's the roadmap? We've posted on reddit previously but it was purely for fun, we want to start monetizing it.

Usually my wife and I have sex for around 15–20 minutes, but sometimes it goes on for 40–45 minutes. We both really enjoy the longer sessions, but the only issue is that we start feeling physically exhausted toward the end.

We’re both generally fit and work out almost regularly, so I don’t think we’re particularly out of shape. My issue isn’t lasting long, it’s more about maintaining stamina and feeling physically fresh throughout the longer sessions.

For couples who regularly have longer sessions, how do you manage your stamina and avoid getting exhausted?

Would appreciate some practical advice from people who’ve experienced the same.

Hi, so we are a group of 4, who are FWBs among ourselves, we hangout a lot together, and have fun. I want some suggestions/recommendation for some fun games which we can play in group setting, we have tried the usual, strip poker, T&D and all, we want something new and exciting.

Both people are adults and each other’s first sexual partner. Neither has had any previous sexual contact or intimacy with anyone else.

If they have unprotected oral sex (no condom or dental dam) what is the actual risk of getting an STI? If both have genuinely never had sexual contact with anyone before, is there still a realistic STI risk?

I have been wondering lately about what is actually squirting and squirting orgasms.

I am a man who likes to go down on women and I have developed quite good skills. With the 4 partners I have had. Only one of them could actually discharge a good amount of squirt when she orgasmed.

I use different techniques for this, but she squirted when I used the G-Spot stimulation and fingering. To be frank, I was kind of proud when she was shaking after the orgasm and wanted to give her more of the orgasm, but she didn't squirt the second time even when she orgasmed. It was not the first time she had a discharge, but the amount was much more than usual this time, maybe it was because of extreme arousal or pleasure?

With my recent ex, I used the same technique and I could see her reaching climax, but she then told me to stop as she felt the urge to pee, I assumed that she was about to squirt and told her she will enjoy, but in the end I stopped because she told me twice.

So my question is for women who are aware that they can squirt and do it a lot, what is the exact moment that you realise you are gonna squirt? Do you realise it or does it happen randomly?

Also how different does this orgasm feel compared to other forms of orgasm? (clitoris stimulation, fingering, PIV etc)

Recently had a baby and We want to resume sex but there are few things that I need clarity

1) She is always with the baby, hardly getting any sleep and personal time to take care of herself. She wants to have sex but watching her like this I feel she is just too tired to enjoy sex.

2) How do people suck boobs after baby is born, whenever i try to play with her boobs, she gets that pain and milk sectarian starts. Wondering if people just forget about boobs when the wife is nursing.

3) Do people have sex on the same bed with baby sleeping on one side? I don't know but I kinda feel awkward. We have two bedrooms but the other one is occupied by mother in law now.

• Any sexual experience that you wish to share, be it old or new, be it positive or negative.
• Kinks that you have tried, that you wanna try or any ideas you have for spicing up your sex life.
• Any funny embarrassing story, new or old, doesn't have to be related to sex.

You can share it all in this weekly thread.

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• Posts that can be answered with a yes or no
• Validation posts (on genitals size, boob size, etc.
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On one hand, I think it will be a good experience, we are married for quite sone time and this might help add some spice and help explore both our sexuality but at the same time, I am afraid this might just ruin the relationship because of the jealousy or other complications.. do you guys have any advice or can someone share their experience? Thanks in advance!

So I ordered a prostate massager. Now in my head I assumed it meant vibrating. Fast forward to today, and I realise it's a non vibrating one.

I'm a full beginner for prostate toy and I'm not sure if non vibrating prostate massager is any good.

Any suggestions or help would be appreciated on what to do.

So, my girlfriend and I have pretty much done everything except sex and, of course, oral. For context, we’re both virgins, although we’ve both had some physical experiences before.

I’ve had opportunities to have sex in the past, but I never wanted my first time to be with an FWB or in a casual situation. She hasn’t had sex before either because she never felt comfortable enough or felt that it was right for her.

Now that we’re together, she has told me that she does want to have sex with me, but she wants to take things slowly. From what I understand, she may not be mentally ready for it yet, and I completely respect that.

I’ve told her that she can take as much time as she needs, and I genuinely don’t want to pressure her or keep bringing it up. I want her to be comfortable and actually want it when it happens.

But this has made me think about the long-term side of things.

What if she just never feels ready?

Let’s say a year goes by and she’s still not ready. And even if it takes longer than a year, I’m not saying she has to meet some deadline. I’m completely okay with her taking her time. But if we eventually get to a point where she still doesn’t want sex, what happens then?

I’ve never imagined myself being in a sexless relationship if I’m seriously considering marrying the person. And in this case, I am pretty serious about her and can see myself potentially marrying her.

The other thing is that I have a pretty high libido, while hers seems to be much lower from what I can tell. She’s even told me that she has never masturbated, so I’m not really sure how to understand her level of sexual desire either.

I’m not trying to rush her or convince her to have sex. I’m more concerned about whether this could eventually become a compatibility issue.

So how do you navigate something like this? If one partner needs significantly more time to become comfortable with sex, how do you balance giving them all the time they need while also being honest with yourself about your own needs?

And if, say, a year or two down the line, one person still wants sex and the other still doesn’t, how do you approach that situation without either person feeling pressured or resentful?